What is wrong with me ? I love both children but careless about the other who's father sends me mean evil messages everyday. But it's not her fault and she's only 5 years old . I tried to take my child on vacations and he refuses to let me even though I have full custody . I'm so burnt out from fighting and wasting money on lawyers . The spark and energy isn't there and I gave up . I'm more connected to the 5 month old baby and her father doesn't curse at me or anything . Anyone else experienced this?

Pulling a sympathy card to get romantic and sexual. Stuff from girls. I dont fall for it much...i just say that sucks dude and keep it moving but guys out here are really pathetic these days it sickens .e

I warched too many of those fools give advice...i think most just want to sell their books

My girlfriend has a child. If me and her get married in the state of Kansas and then get divorced, can she then come after me for child support? Someone told me that s possible but i can t find anything on it

Her husband is great, never cheats, never abusive, earns decent earnings...then she finds a new suitor who's even better in every way than her husband. Would it be wrong for her to leave?

Our caretaker is a woman. She kissed our daughter on the lips while she was holding her after she got a gold star on her spelling test. Our daughter didn't seem to mind but my wife and I pulled this woman aside and asked why she did that. The woman responded "just showing my affection" and was extremely apologetic if she offended us. Your thoughts? Our daughter is 6 years old.

I'm dating a married woman and her and her husband have an open marriage. It was supposed to be just something fun and casual but we fell in love. She keeps saying that she's planning on leaving her husband but she's not ready and needs more time. She tried to leave him once but ended up going back to him. He's an emotional abuser and treats her like crap; for those of you who are thinking home wrecker. She's in an abusive marriage. I've asked her to go talk to someone and she keeps saying that she will but we will see. We have been seeing each other for a month. I've tried to break it off a couple of times and she begged me not to and asked me to be patient with her. Am I wasting time? Should I just move on??

Me and my wife have been married for 7 years together for 10 we have sex almost every night I'm kind of a sex addict I kind of have a problem controlling it. She's pregnant with our 3rd baby I keep wanting to do it even more. We never had it the first two times she was pregnant. Is it wrong to do it during pregnancy ? How can I stop myself ?

She promised to try fixing things and going to therapy, but it still doesn't change the fact i want biological kids and she cant have them. Did i make the right choice?

I am starting to lose my mind. My husband recently cheated on me, I Love him so much so I decided to give him another chance. we are together yes but I cannot trust him anymore, every time he goes somewhere, I always feels like he is going to see his mistress or will text her or call her, I am not sure if they completely stoped their relation, I always feel like I am still being betrayed. (Although he said he is not doing stupid) I don't know how to trust his words. Yesterday, I had a dream. a dream which really feels so real to me. My dream: we are home, on our bed. my husband is doing the usual thing looking at his phone, checking pictures and such, I was watching the tv and somehow his phone reflected at the beds headboard slat and saw the reflection that he was looking at the mistress picture. so I get really mad I started slapping him and flip his phone to look at it but the picture was there? and then I woke up, my husband is there beside me, still checking his phone and said "are you ok? you're having a bad dream?" I said I'm fine and then I cooked breakfast. I'm so scared... I can't lose my husband please help me. Anyone knows how to interpret my dreams please? I can't handle all this anymore, I need your advice please help me.

Help.. I am 20. I am a very different 20 year old. My husband is 48. I love him. He is a beautiful person. Maybe not the "cutest" or "smartest" but he is beautiful either way. I left him for a 28 year old man. Hes smart attractive anyone anyone could want but i cant help but long for my husband. He is different selfless, overall beautiful person. He takes care of me and never asks for anything in return. (My husband and i were supposed to divorce btw. ) Im taking time on my own. I just don't know whats best for me.. I know i should listen to my heart but i need some help. Why do i love my husband so much? I cant forget him. I think of him every day. Am i ******* crazy? Is it not realistic? Should I stay with this new man?

The pain, the headaches, the unpleasant moments which lasted for nearly a year was something very damaging to my mind and my life that he has brought from his actions. I never thought I would go through such horrible life events in my life and someone would bring it in my life in the name of love. What ever his reasons or intentions were, but to harm someone knowing the consequences of their actions to full fill ones desire is never right. The damage is done, I have been through horrible, pain given by someone in the name of love. He is the killer and destroyer of my joy, he steal and destroyed my joy and my beautiful future from me. He alone is the standing reason why I went through those horrible events in life? Was love enough reason for him to make me go through all that pain? Indeed I just came to realisation that he was a very selfish individual indeed. He is silent as a good and as an innocent man now out of my life forever. But his hands are stained with blood of the innocent girl's life, happiness, joy and future that he ruined with his own very hands..

I am not working right now. I am caring for our newborn. But I still chip in on the expenses. When we talked last years about things that needed to be fixed in this house it was agreed that he was going to take care of it. I suggested that he could use tax money to pay for the repair work that needed to be done on the bathroom. Weeks ago when we filed we only talked about taxes nothing else. Today we brought up what we were going to do with that money. I was going to repay some credit cards, and put in some money on the hospitals bills for for the delivery or our baby, and use the rest for house expenses. He then suddenly said that we had a convo the day we filed and that I agreed to go half on the expenses of the bathroom repair. I don't recall ever talking about it, nor agreeing on it. How is it that he is making up a convo we never had. Now he says maybe he should record what I said because I agreed to it. He swore on his grandma's grave that I agreed to it. That I could swear if I didn't say that. I know I didn't say it why would he make me feel like I did? I'm not planning on pitching in either. So he said he was only going to fix the other things for now since I have changed my mind. I plan on not saying anything. Because if I give in he will think this is okay to do everytime. do you think I'm wrong for this?

Hey guys ! About 2 years ago my husband and I moved to his hometown. It's Hialeah and I don't speak Spanish which is hard..I am originally from a smaller town in northern Florida .I am trying my best to adapt but I still can't.I literally cried the other day when we visited my old town .It's not because I have a lot of friends there literally I have like two and we didn't even hang out anymore due to work, etc . My husband is a home body when not at work . I'm the opposite before I met him you'd find me at parks ( a lot of nature stuff up there ) cruising the beach every time I could( in 2.5 years I have not even seen the beach) , thrift stores, taking the kids everywhere . Now I don't leave the house unless it's work . The traffic is so bad here you literally have to plan leaving your house or a 8 mile drive can take 2 hours ! Stores, beaches no thank you . You need to be dressed like Britney Spears to hit those. The people too I'm guessing cause it's a big city people Just aren't as nice . In my old town people smile, hold the door open, make small talk. Not really here everyone is kinda in a rush understandably. My question is is how to get around this . I really want to go back home . Our jobs with traffic put us in a position where we could move north to a smaller town with no hiccups in our schedule. He is totally against it and says and I quote that is the woods. How do you turn this small town girl into a large town girl? Staying inside has really got me depressed .

My wife told me before we went out to go look at furniture that she needed some body wash. She isn't working at the moment because we just got married and she moved to me. She told me instead of me buying it for her to get a joint checking account so I wouldn't have to buy stuff for her all the time which I had no problem doing. I told her I didn't want to do one right away until we got our tax returns back and we could put them in the account the same day. And now because of the answer I gave her she packed up her stuff and left because she believes I'm immature and wasn't ready to get married because I wanted to wait a few days to get a joint checking account. What do I do?

I'm asking because I'm always hearing about how arranged marriages have low divorce rates, even though that claim is questionable if the couple is actually happy. I'm also asking bc my family has bought up looking into an arranged marriage.

Earlier today we got into a fight. This is her 2nd marriage and my first and we've only been together for a month. She told me she needed to go get some body wash so I said let's go get some after we're done looking at furniture. She isn't working at the moment and has no income because she moved in with me. So she said "well if you would do a joint banking account like I said we should do then you wouldn't have to go with me to get it I can get it myself" and I told her why I don't like joint checking accounts because of horror stories I've heard about either the wife or husband taking all of it and running. I told her "I'm not saying that you are going to do that I just don't want to do a join checking." And now because of that she said she's leaving me because I don't trust her. And now I'm scared because she's packed up and went back to her parents place. This is awful and I'm heart broken and we've only been married a month and now she's left and is talking about divorce because I won't add her to my bank account. What do I do? I don't want her to leave over something this stupid.

Like a girl will be really depressed that she's single on Valentine's Day or just depressed about no guys wanting to date her or talk to her and it's always the same "you're so beautiful girl, just keep waiting for some great guy to come around" or "you're so pretty and smart and nice, don't worry, you're such a great catch!", yet that does literally absolutely nothing because the girl is still alone and no guys are talking to her or even remotely interested in her. If she was such an amazing great catch, guys would be einterested in her. Why do women coddle each other instead of actually trying to help them by introducing them to men?

cite your source or STFU

While we're dating my husband cheated on me many times, he was addicted to weed and sex before we met, he used to use tinder to meet up with girls and have sex with them while he was with me. We've been married for over one year and he got clean of drugs and never cheated again. My husband has this friend that he used to party and do drugs with, and every once in a while they text and the conversation is always the same, his friend sending him nudes of girls is hooking up with from tinder and my husband saying that they're hot and asking for more naked pictures of them. This happened about a month ago and he told me that's only guys talk and every guy does that. I asked him to please stop with the pic and he said thats reasonable and he'd tell his friend to stop sending them. This morning I woke up and was getting a customers info from my husbands phone to write a contract and saw that his friend texted him at 5am pics of tinder girls he has matched, and was having sex with, and the things they do in bed, and my husband was replying 'DAMN that one is super hot, any better pictures? and so on.I don't want to overreact, but I had boyfriends in the past and none of them had this kind of conversation with their friends. It worries me that my husband misses his old lifestyle, of having sex with a different girl every night and being on tinder. This brings me a lot of bad memories from the time he was cheating on me and I don't know if I can stay if he's always gonna be like this

It just makes no sense at all.. Women judge men on things determined by genetics such as height or race yet these same women accuse men of being "shallow" because some of them care about women's weight.... Weight is rarely a genetic thing, rather is a result of our HABITS regarding diet and exercise... You can choose to neglect your weight but you will likely develop health issues such as diabetes, strokes, high cholesterol etc So why do women judge men on things determined by genetics and then get mad if men "judge" them on their weight?

My husband worked with a contracting company at a womans house for 8 months. She is a single woman with a kid. He is 17 years old.They just finished the job last week. She gave my husband her phone number because we got a washer and dryer from her. Yesterday he saw her in the store. Our daughter was with him. She was telling my husband she enjoyed watching him teach her son how to fix things. Her son tried to get a job with my husband but it didn't work out. She said her son doesn't have a father figure. He really likes my husband. She said she never saw him open up to a man like that. My husband thought about going to her house to teach her son more things but I don't know if its a good idea. She is a single woman and I asked my husband what if her son becomes attached to you. He told me it would take alot of visits before that would happen. I don't agree with that. I don't even see my husband much. He works alot. My husband thinks I am worrying too much. Am i wrong for asking him not to go to her house to spend time with this womans kid? He said he doesn't have a father and needs a man in his life.. thats his reason for wanting to do it

After 6 years of dating I thought I knew him. After we got married he started making small rules for me like no dogs on the bed. I started to notice that his dog was allowed on the bed for a certain period of time, but mine was not. When we'd go shopping and split the bill, he would remove some of the items. It was nothing crazy, just things like a $5 thing of lox, or some fruit. Then if we are eating a mixture of nuts or any mixture of anything g I am not allowed to pick a few of the ones I want. He makes me take while handfuls without looking. I'm not allowed to feed my old toothless dog some soft chicken, because it's considered human food, but then he fed his dog a hotdog. It's like there's a small rule for everything. I can't argue many of his reasons, but the very fact that he has rules for me makes me so upset. If I don't follow, I get the silent treatment for days.

My girlfriend said she loves me as a friend and would like to be in love someday . Um... does that pretty much mean she's not feeling me ? :(

Been together for almost 8 years, she always acts like we're still just getting to know each other...we have two kids and her sister moved in with us, she has changed a lot...she said if I need sex I could go out there and find it with another woman and she'll be ok with it....I don't know what to do anymore