My family is borderline narcassistic, not just dysfunctional. I've been abused by all of them so I keep distance and do t talk to many. Apparently they have decided to diagnose me? saying i'm crazy. The worst about being called crazy and "I need help" is that they want me to take care of the newest member in our family so my sister can go back to work. Why in the heck would I watch her baby if i'm apparently "crazy" and "need mental help"

She offloads/vents her negativity and for awhile I can handle it but sometimes I can t just listen to same complaints over and over again so instead of just sympathizing I also suggest solutions and she freaks out at me. She ll tell me "no one s perfect" calls me all sorts of names.. last thing she tells me is I need help because i have mental problems? i know she s using it against me because i ve admitted before i deal with depression. Is this type of behaviour from her okay? I know sisters fight but it s energy draining when people are making more negative deposits than positive. Would you go no contact for a bit if people were being this negative towards you?

I remember being cold, having fever and feeling really sick. So sick that I fell asleep on the couch. When I woke up I found my boyfriend looking at me with worried eyes but he smiled, asking me how I was, had a termometer in his hanf and handed some things to eat and pills for me. I had a blanket on and I was so surprised to see him worried and happy that I woke up. I felt loved and cared for, especially when he put his hand on my forehead.

I'm a makeup artist and ever since I married into my husbands family his parents have been rude about how much makeup I wear (which really isn't that much) and I try to stay polite and just laugh at their comments, like them saying I look 'much better' when I'm more natural, I know that in itself doesn't sound rude but the way they say it is quite degrading and rude. I feel like I have to change my appearance to just suit them because every time I mm around them wearing makeup I'm comfortable in they have to say something?

I'm really starting to fricken hate her. I tried to befriend her at first but she is so selfish and inconsiderate that she just pisses me off. Ive determined now that she is a loser who has no friends and literally just games every moment she's awake. She literally games until 3AM and she is SO LOUD. I understand that when you play video games that you get really into it but she is borderline yelling and we're in such a small space it's really loud for me. I've woken up several times this week in the middle of the night. What makes me so mad is that I've told her several times that she's being too loud. She quiets down a little bit but starts up again. I really hate being in my room because of how loud she is. During the day I guess I can't ask too much of her but is it so wrong to want silence at night time? I really want to punch her in the face at this point. Plus she has horrible body odor which makes me stay away from my room as much as possible.

Mostly in case I ever run into her again, I knew her in middle school and she gave me her bracelet after we had a good conversation.. Then of course being a kid I lost the bracelet in the lake that summer..... Most people don't remember me but if I try to find her again I think she'd remember the bracelet.. Do I just buy a random replacement and say I lost the one she gave me and wanted one still, or just say I lost it long ago and try to describe what the bracelet looked like...? I feel like having one like it would be easier for her to remember but I dunno how to say "I got a replacement for the one you gave me"... I remember her wearing it like every day and I was surprised when she gave it to me, so I dont know if I wanna face her saying I lost it in a lake few weeks after she gave it to me...

Ok so my sister is a new and single mom and I like to be supportive of her and to help with whatever I can. And I do. But for the last few months she has been nothing but negative complaining about her never getting a proper sleep. I have a sleeping disorder so I'm having a hard time being sympathetic every time she complains. Last time I told her "I really am running out of things to say when you complain about the same thing" on top of her never asking how I'm doing or forgetting to say things like "hey can I talk/vent to you" before offloading her complaints. She also never says "thanks for listening to me." Last night I completely ignored her message of her complaining and now she won't talk to me about Other things. I told her I saw her message but i'm sorry I got my own things going on. Really don't know why she thought parenthood would be a breeze. Also, any other ideas of how to respond to her complaints? like I have enough stress, problems, and anxiety too but I try to not offload it to people and try to be positive. I'm tired, i've dealt with it enough of people treating me like I'm a therapist. It's not like she's calling me to complain and me listening. Would it be rude to tell her to join a mother support group? I don't have kids. I don't want to be a 3am therapist 5x a week to her stress. I don't know how to help her!

Im a female and have a close friend who is butch. The friend is married to a female but her wife is so clingy and needy and always interrupts us hanging out . It's so annoying. Me and the wife know each other but don't see each other a lot . However , when I'm around her , she seems cold and distant towards me . At first when me and my friend used to go to the gym or hangout , she would accompany us which was irritating . Then she stopped coming out with us .( Thank God ) She is a nice person and all but , we don't have that friendly connection . Me and my friend hang out often now and even though wife isn't physically there , she is always texting my friend the entire time or calling for no reason . It grinds my gears because We are just trying to hang out in peace but she is sooo clingy . It's to the point that my friend doesn't always tell her when we are hanging out . She also comments/likes everything that my friend posts on fb (especially my comments ).It's extremely annoying . Am i wrong for feeling this way ?

My Navy vet fiance and I have been together almost four years. In 2016 after I gave birth to her first child he cheated on me and tried lying about it. I forgave him. In 2017 we welcomed our son.in 2018 my fiance was over a friend's house and had I bet to drink and some girl that was over there and gave him a BJ. His friend was mad and told on him and he ended up telling me the truth. January 2018 my parents we're watching the children my fiance went off with his family and I was hanging out with some friends. I got drugged and raped come to find out I'm pregnant. I give birth please the baby up for adoption. My fiance and I got into a little argument. He tried telling me that it was worse for me to get pregnant by somebody that I don't even know versus him cheating on me twice. I told him I feel a little bit different because he knew exactly what he was doing both times granted the second time he did have a little bit to drink he is still knew what he was doing and tried lying about both. I didn't go out there and asked to be raped. Our relationship is pretty smooth other than those incidents.Do you think that I am in the wrong? Advise that will help us?