We hired and paid on full (on time long befor ethe wedding) our wedding photographer. We got married October 20th. He did what he was hired to do. However there were some hiccups that we've out of kindness over looked. He was late the day of the wedding He left the wedding almost an hour early (had agreed to an 8 hour day) Before the wedding money was due, he asked for and got his money early We were told 8 weeks for editing and that we'd have our photos by december 20th still dont have them and it's almost March. We've been reaching out to him. Sometimes were ignored, sometimes we get an answer. Most recently in early February he gave us a date and time (today at 8pm) and naturally no photos. Havent heard from him. What what you do?

Last year I was in my friend's wedding. She had a destination bachelorette (a pricey cruise) and recently we also went on a destination birthday trip. All of my friends went including myself. None of these things were cheap and cost quite a bit. I am getting married this fall and my sister let me know none of my friends agreed to go to my bachelorette party a state over. not a very expensive trip. Nothing compared to the destination birthday we all just went on and it is also many months away. I have went out of the way for these friends and have seen them do the same for others in the same friend group. I am feeling hurt but this, but I am not sure if I am being too emotional about this. I just feel like they don't even try when it comes to me.