My mom belongs to a club with retirees, she has known a man in the club for several years, he has a girlfriend. Next week is his birthday and she wants to give him a birthday card and a gift. She asked my opinion, soI told her a verbal happy birthday wish at the club is sufficient, and it would be inappropriate to give him a gift after years of not doing so, especially since he has a girlfriend. She started screaming at me in disagreement, so I said I didn't care what she did and next time don't ask me. Geez,I was afraid she might have a heart attack, she was so upset!

I am not a guy I am a girl she started hating on me for liking something she doesn't and she also called me ugly but when I talk to my friends or walk in the classroom I see her looking at me she does this with other girls also. I don't know if this is jealously or she is just judging me in her head.

In every relationship I've been in except for my first ( who ironically cheated on me multiple times) I've cheated in. And no matter how much I'm into the person and how gorgeous they are I still end up cheating. It's like once I come across someone else who just happens to be better looking or even just a more interesting personality I can't help but be drawn to them and I try ignoring then or leaving then be but they'd find there way back to me and I just give in. And I'm so good at it that when I do no one ever finds out but I end up feeling bad and leaving whomever I'm dating then on to the next. Why am I having this problem? I'm honestly really concerned and scared

T do you suggest? So. I'll begin from the start. A guy I like was taking me to the place I had to go and I couldn't manage to find (an office in our town, but since I come there once a year I cannot orient myself properly). The guy took me there. Along the road I slipped with my bike and fell on the hardest concrete ever. I screamed cause the pain was too much, and hurt my hands and knees. He was so worried and he had already warned me to watch out in this trait, but I felt so ashamed cause I fell and screamed, bent down to help me and looked for water and handkerchiefs to clean my hands and blood. I said no thank you, I'll do it myself (I felt like he was doing too much). He said 'dont be stupid' and insisted to help me, but I assured him I could do it alone. I couldn't even get up (my knee was bleeding) and couldn't bent my hand was had blood on it too. He looked at me and said 'of course, took the water cleaned my hands and knees). It was really awkward cause I had to stay there like that and he cleaned me and was clearly upset by my behaviour. I just didnt want him to help me that way. At the end he gave me a hand and took my arm cause I coudln't walk that well and made me sit on a bench. I was so red I didn't have the courage to look into his eyes (I still cannot). I felt so dependent on him and I hated that. I mean, I liked that he toom care of him but since none has ever done it for me it felt awkward. What should I do now? Now he calls me 'stubborn little girl'.

To give some detail, he's a hardcore Bible studier. I tend to be open to everything. Therefore I am respectful of his faith, and I do pray. But that doesn't mean I am religious or follow any particular faith. In fact, I believe we are made of stars. Us, the universe, the plants, the soil, the sky, animals...we are all connected. Why do I pray? Because there are so many realms of possibility I do take into the account that someone is hearing me. Maybe not any one creator but the very force of the universe itself that did create us. A self aware power that does listen. Anyway, I have always liked believing this because it makes me humble and accepting to everyone. I don't want to change people into what I think is right. My boyfriend, does. Including me. But, you see? I don't try to change him. I even go to church with him. Since I am so open to people's faiths, that does include Christianity. Which he is. And some of the messages are good too. But I have had to keep my true thoughts to myself because I know he won't like it and I know he will try his might to change my mind or change me. I don't want to be changed. I allow him to be him. Read verses to me, go to church with him, and pray with him. My question is, how do I remain myself in the midst of this? How do I stay absolutely true to what's in my heart when everything he says and does is to convince everyone, including myself, that he is right? Also, please don't attempt to talk religion with me to get me to change my mind about what I believe. I just want to know how to keep a relationship that differs in beliefs healthy and considerate of one another's faith. I want us to live in harmony despite our differences. That's all.

Hi there, my mom is moving away on May 1st. She's going to be driving for about 3 days. I was hoping to give her some kind of gift basket with small gifts she could open along the way. For example 1 gift she could open at her first stop for gas, a second gift for when she stops somewhere for the night, a third gift for when she's feeling homesick, etc. Any ideas would be amazing. Thank you in advanced!

I am getting out of an emotionally abusive relationship. 3 years of being in it. I have also been working with him for almost 2 years. Just got paid, and my name is not on the lease. Just a feeling that maybe it could be for the better?

Gay or straight.

I had sex in my last relationship which was long term we shared a bed and everything. Things didn't worked out so I started dating this younger guy who had a thing for me when that relationship was a thing. He doesn't want to have sex though. He says I'm beautiful and he'd love to but he wouldn't want to sleep with me unless we were married to show how he wants me for more than my body. It's sweet but I've never done this before. Do you think celibacy is hard and do you think he sounds like the one

Do you all think my guy friend is interested in me ? He remembers lots of things about me He confides in me and he told me that he's happy that he can talk to me Once we hit a rough patch and he asked me if we needed to talk..."are you sure you're okay. You been pushing me away lately. You're my baby." Yesterday he told me, "be yourself I love it" We sleep together on the phone frequently (he likes it lol) He tells me "goodnight beautiful" every night. He sends the red heart emoji a lot and has two saved by my contact name He's super patient and understanding with me despite my mood swings lol We've been talking everyday for five months now The other night he told me that he never pursues women but instead "opens the door for them to make the first move"... but I've never been that type because I never had to. How can I get him to make the first move or should I make the first move? Secondly, he lives in a different state but I've met him before because he visits my city often...we have the same mutual friends and he's actually coming to visit next week. He also told me that he plans on moving to my city sometime this year.

The girl is extremely romantic, sweet, idealistic and sensitive. She has never fallen for anyone except for this guy. He is a bit taciturn, serious, hardly ever smiles, has a lot of bitterness inside and actually doesnt understand the girls signals. He is extremely focused on his job (he works cause his family always had economic problems and he never actually had a normal childhood) and has bad memories of his childhood (had friends outside of the school but at school he was bullied causs he had this personality and cause he was not middle class, punched the middle class boys and got in trouble). He actually forces himself not to feel anything. The girl would jump his bones if he only loved her too . will it ever work or the two are too different?

She's 20 and I'm 40 and attractive, she pursued. I did everything for her.I took her on all expenses paid vacations, got her her first apartment and we lived together, I paid the rent, all the bills and she just paid for the food. I cooked all of her meals, took her to dinner and movies at least once a week. I even filled up her gas tank and helped her study. So many 20 year olds would be grateful to have someone paying their bills, doting on them and showing them off proudly to friends/family. in just 8 months she was able to travel to cali, the bahamas and mexico and live in a luxury apartment with brand new fixtures that cost around $1875 per month in rent while other people her age were living in college housing surviving off ramen noodles. She only had to work to pay her phone bill and for clothes because her parents pay her car insurance and health insurance.I introduced her to all of my friends and family. Told her she was beautiful a dozen times per day.I even bought her college supplies and encouraged her. Yet she dumped me saying I don't love her enough. I literally begged for her to give me another chance. Not many 40 year old men would do what I did, I even posted music videos about heartbreak on fb and deleted all females off my page just to make her feel secure. wtf is wrong with this chick,now she's telling everyone I broke her heart

If a guy calls his girlfriend a day after an argument (and they also made up) and says he kissed another girl that night after they made up... And she dumps him. Then, she blocks him so he cant talk to her. Then months later his new girlfriend (the random chick he cheated with) calls his ex gf (and they dont even know each other) and tells her to get tested for stds, and the ex gf calls her ex bf and they talk for first time in months and she says she still wants to be friends or lovers. And he says he feels bad for cheating and that he doesn't want to be friends yet it's too soon...but he never calls her again.