I want to make a squirrel friend on my college campus, does anyone have any tips so I can try it out?

We have late starts every other week and sometimes we go to breakfast before school. I can t go very often because my parents work and my sister drives me to school and doesn t like to leave really early. My other friend and I told her we both could not go this week and she texted us about an hour later and said: "stay the **** away from me if you are going to go to breakfast because I am just about done with you two." I have bad anxiety and i m very shredded even though I can t do anything about it. She and the other girl are really my only friends so I not want to loose them but I don t know what to do. Any advise?

There is a hand towel in our shared bathroom next to sink, she got mad because she said it was wet and accused me of using it as a bath towel (I didn't lol) I did use it to wipe down some excess water on counter next to sink. She said it was special and she has to iron it (I didn't know it was special when I used it to wipe counter) Is it unreasonable to be upset about a wet towel? We live with someone else, other Roomie could've got it soaked. Should I tell her it towel is special to not keep it in shared towel rack?

okay so, i facetime my friends a lot. i spend a lot of time on the app and have never had a problem with it until recently. out of nowhere, i would be facetiming my friends and my voice would cut out. they would then begin to hear a grown man who sounded as if he was driving (they said maybe a trucker??) talking about routes and such. keep in mind im a 17 year old girl, so they were surprised to hear a mans voice. the man would respond back to them if they talked, meaning he could hear them speak. one time one of my friend said "rylie can you hear me?" (rylie is my name). the guy then responded, "who's rylie? OH! rylies on the phone!" then it went back to my voice. that was about a week or two ago, and lately that hasn't happened. however, anytime im on facetime with one of my friends the call randomly fails. every time. its usually within the first few minutes of the call and it's not a connection problem because my connection is running perfectly. please help!!

A little background. I'm very playful and can be charismatic, especially with people I'm comfortable with. Also, though I wanted to refrain mentioning this due to possible backlash, I believe it might be important to note that I am a woman who is very much attracted to other women. I'm not explicit about my sexual orientation because I don't think it's necessary to do so, and so many times I get confused as heterosexual (this isn't my fault, I'm still trying to figure out what a lesbian looks like). Anyways, here's the real issue: I'm in my senior year of high school. In my AP Computer Science class, I have a guy friend, who I like. And, it is worth mentioning that I only like him as a friend since no one seems to comprehend that. I love the conversations we have and I find him a genuinely nice person. Because of how comfortable I am with him, like I said before, I'm very playful. Of course, I know boundaries, so in no way, shape, or form do I try to lead him on. However, my peers have been jerks. They've been insinuating that we have some sort of relationship or "thing" going on. Even my teacher has gotten into the sport of making the interactions between my friend and I extremely uncomfortable with crude remarks. In the most recent incident, while we were walking home, two of our classmates shouted to him from the other side of the street saying "Get that, (his name)". What should I do? This really bothers me. Please, guys especially, help me out on this!

They've been treating me very badly and spreading vile rumors about me. I know for a fact that I didn't do anything to them and we were never even that close but we always showed kindness to one another and were there to talk to each other. They randomly started spreading the rumors and being very rude towards me. I'm super confused, my anxiety is acting up, and I really don't know how to deal with it, because others have started listening to the rumors and I feel so many people hate me for things that aren't even true

I used to be friends with this girl, we were never close but still friends. One day she just started openly being very mean to me and speaking to me in very demeaning manners for no apparent reason. I talked to her very calmly and asked her, she denied disliking me, and started being obviously a very fake nice for about 2 days. Then just entirely hating me and trying to provoke me and spreading nasty rumors about me and I know for a fact I didn't do anything to cause this, I'm just very confused and I'm so anxious about everyone hating me now because of her random turn

Peter: He is serving a 15 year mandatory minimum prison sentence for trafficking 3 kilos of cocaine, the police confiscated his brand new truck, his classic car that he always dreamed of owning, his money and his jewelry, his high status friends also have turned their backs on him, Peter only sold cocaine in hopes of getting his former high status friends to be nice to him and to give him gifts in return for all the good he's done for them, Peter also thought him selling cocaine is a good way to turn these high status snobs into nice, down to earth people. In prison Peter got reacquainted with Jeff (a former school acquaintance who is serving a 7 year prison sentence for raping a 13 year old girl who he met online and for soliciting sex to another 13 year old girl who he met online) and Peter asked Jeff his opinion on the high status people who Peter wanted to impress, Jeff told Peter that he thinks of them as a bunch of good for nothing snobs who are only popular because of their wealth and popularity, that made Peter feel better about them turning their backs on him, Peter also tells Jeff that he wants to be his friend, while Peter knew Jeff is a child rapist he has more respect for him than he does for his former high status friends who turned their backs on him, Peter even once used to hate child rapists until when he'd gotten reacquainted with Jeff, Jeff even tells Peter that he's the closest person he's ever met that is similar to Lord Jesus Christ.

What would you do if your good friend became distant but yet your friend doesn't want you to go anywhere and they said they're not going anywhere and you also ask them what's wrong and they say they're ok. Would you still stay with that person?

I met a mentor just a little over a year ago from online. He was looking for a mentee and someone to fool around with (sexually). I was seeking a mentor and a friend. But every time I met up with him, it was usually about fooling around. So I never had any time to ask him too many career related questions. But I could tell that he did care about my career prospects to a certain extent. So far, he hadn't offered me too much valuable stuff. Now after a few more meetings later, I think he knows im interested in him but he isn't interested in me. Just two months ago, he was looking for love and went out with a woman from Tinder but it didn't end up working out. A long while ago, I did randomly bring up that I would date him, if he's interested. But he indirectly rejected me. I said "oh I'm not your type?" He replied "yes, you are very bright. But we should just be friends for now due to our age difference. " I recently graduated from college a few months ago and been interning at places. Meanwhile, he's been a successful full-fledged professional for many yrs. now. We have a 10 yr age difference. He listens and tries to provide advice to a certain short extent. But he would stop texting mid conversation sometimes. Right now, I feel like the more often I meet him, the stronger my feelings grow. And I never develop any feelings for anyone. It is especially difficult for me to just ignore it because I've been having a difficulty finding love over the past few years. I've went out on so many first dates but can't ever be inspired by anyone. So the fact that it was possible for me to have feelings for this one person, inevitably it means a bigger deal to me than it really is. It got really awkward when we met again recently and I didn't feel like talking to him much. He just handed me what I needed, tried to make a conversation to make it less awkward then left. I can't help but feel slighted by the fact that hes not interested in me. I have somewhat of an ego and fragile self-esteem. But I can also understand why he wouldn't be interested in me. He has a house, licenses, makes a ton of money. Meanwhile I'm just a kid. But on the back of my mind, I just can't help but wonder if there are further reasons why he's not interested. Maybe I'm really not his type but he just doesn't want to say it outright. I'm thinking about dropping him cuz I just don't want to feel offended every time I see him. It just makes me uncomfortable to be around him.

This guy got upset because I bought him a new phone on EBay. He kept saying he wanted my old used one. And got upset saying he doesn't want me spending money on him. I told him that he works and that he deserves to have new things. He said that's funny and I told him it's the truth. Why do people feel this way?

Friend (y) broke off from our group which included friend (x) a year ago because our group stopped hanging out because she would continuously insult our image, pit us against each other, gossip about us, and cause fights for no reason. We tried talking to her her but she wouldn't listen so we tried to not hang out at all because she would be there to bully us. She thought we were excluding her (really we weren't hanging out at all) and she left, causing drama all the way and threatening us, saying she was innocent and we will pay for the pain we caused. However her parents and mine are old friends and still are, so she considers me still a friend, though I have other opinions. Recently, friend (y) said some mean things about me and we got in a fight. Hurt, I told friend (x) about it. Friend (y) found out from a person on my bus and has proceeded to yell at me over text as if I was the person who had always done her wrong. I tried to explain calmly that I didn't think it was wrong to share with my best friend how upset I was, and that even thought friend (x) was friend (y's) ex friend I still felt I had a right to share what happened because friend (x) was my closest confidant.

My ex husband and I are still on friendly terms even though we are divorced. We talk on the phone occasionally and email occasionally. I am happy that he has a girlfriend and is getting on with his life. I am also friends with his mom and dad. They called me recently and told me they thought his current girlfriend was only interested in his money. They had talked to him about their concerns and he ignored their problems with his girlfriend. They asked me to warn him that his girlfriend was only interested in his money. I declined to do that and told them that who he dates is none of my business. His girlfriend may or may not be after his money. I don't know and I don't want to know. They are unhappy with me for not warning him that his girlfriend is a gold digger. Did I do the right thing by not getting involved in this?

My friend is dating my friends baby mom. They are both still friends but I just find it a little weird. They both grew up together and now one of them is with there friends baby mom.

My daughter and her best friend are both 14 years old. Her friend comes over to the house often after school. Today I went into my daughter's room when they were in there, and I found them kissing. They also had their arms around each other in an embrace. They didn't see me because I quickly left the room. Both my daughter and her friend have had boyfriends and they are straight, so why would they be kissing? What should I do and how should I talk to her about this? Please help

I have this friend who I used to be really close with when we worked together, but we haven't been close in a while. When we worked together, we often sat together on lunch break and she'd complain to me about this "friend" who was living in her house. This "friend" was clearly in love with my friend's husband and apparently was sleeping with him, but my friend refused to believe it and her husband, of course, denied it. I always had the feeling the "friend" was indeed sleeping with the husband, but I kept my mouth shut. Fast forward to now, about 2 years later, my friend's "friend" (who my friend kicked out not long after this drama started) stole her husband from her, they are now a couple and this woman shows it off on Facebook with couple photos all the time. She even spends time with my friend's kids...just her, my friend's husband, and the kids. What's worse is my friend is still "friends" with this woman!!! I recently found that out and I'm appalled. It's literally no wonder why my friend doesn't talk to me or try to hang out with me anymore. She knows I won't approve, after all the crap she told me. Should I ask her about it or just mind my business? She always says she misses me, but has made no effort to get together in a year. The last time we hung out, she had kicked her husband out, but when I saw her again come through the drive-thru at my job, he was in the car with her (that was about several months later). She used to tell me that even though he is with this other woman now, that he tells my friend he still loves her and the other woman KNOWS he still loves my friend.

So I'm ritual chair for my sorority which means once a month I have to bring a suitcase, which has wheels and is easy to get around, and a trunk, which is hell spawn that can't be moved, to meeting. Last Sunday, someone else brought the suitcase and I managed to bring the trunk on foot. Afterwards I have work. This meeting ended early so I told my boss I could come in early and help because a coworker couldn't make their shift. But I had to get them both back to storage before hand. I asked my roommates who were going there anyway if they could take the suitcase with them so I could try to bring the trunk. They refused, saying they didn't want me to try to bring the trunk even though I had successfully brought it there. They left and the only way to get both home was to wait for my friend with a car to finish up her meeting. Which meant I was late to the shift I said I would cover. My boss said that it was unreliable of me do that, and that I shouldn't expect to get rehired next semester. I love my job, and this hurt a lot. So later when my roommate said that all they really wanted to do was leave school and start helping people, I said they were hypocrites because they didn't help me. They said what I asked them to do was inconvenient and not their responsibility. Which it isn't. But it's impossible to move both alone, and I think they should've helped me because I asked, and I needed help. But they seemed so adamant I wonder if I was wrong? Update: There were 45 minutes between when the meeting ended and when I said I could be at work. I only had to get them a quarter of a mile away and then a 5 minute walk to work. It took me 15 minutes to move the trunk by itself. I think I left plenty of time

I would kill myself

I had a friend I grew up with and was fond of her. Her mum never liked me as I was rebellious however I never let this friend get into trouble. We are adults now and not close I do miss her but I feel like her and her family look down on me like I am a low life or something or I have done nothing with my life , I have gone on to achieve a masters and a decent job but it just annoys me, I hate people looking down on me like I am scum or something . What are you thoughts ?

I joined a bridge club and at my first meeting they introduced me to the other members. One of the members asked me what I did and I told her. She them asked me where I worked and I said the XYZ company. She said I know a lot of people at the XYZ company. Do you know John Doe? I said "Yes I do. He is my boss. Then she asked me all sorts of questions about John. Like was he a good boss? I told her he was a great boss. She wanted to know if he hit on the female employees and I jokingly told her no but I wish he would because he was a great looking guy. I was getting tired of her questions and I wanted to talk to other club members so I ask her why she was so interested in John Doe? She finally reluctantly told me he was her ex husband and then asked me more questions about him. I told her I did not care to discuss my work or her ex husband anymore. That really got her mad at me and she told the other club members that I had been rude to her. It was obvious that she and her ex husband had unresolved problems. I was not about to get in the middle of her problems. Was I being rude to her?

I bought two items off of Amazon for $20 each from two authorize seller, which I received. Later on I saw that both sellers issued me a refund of $20 each. I thought that was weird and I bought a part off of Amazon that was $160.00 from a different authorized seller, in which it showed up on my credit card statement $160.00 payment pending Today I logged onto my credit card statement and that $160.00 payment pending is gone and I see no charge to my credit card $160.00, it is gone completely. The authorize seller has shipped my part to me. What should I Do? If I keep my mouth shut about this error could I get sued by the seller?

I have a problem where I'm constantly missing things from the past. I keep looking at old pictures and it makes me so sad looking back at my and my best friends. We had so much fun and I know friends change throughout high school but they've gotten new friends and I haven't. Now I don't have any friends and it's weird because I've always had one super close friend who came over all the time and was pretty much family but I don't have that anymore. I miss it so much. Not only do I not have anyone to hang out with but I have no one to talk to and no one to push me to do new things or encourage me to try things. I'm just so sick of my life right now. I do online school so there's no clubs I can join or anything like that. I just miss my friends

She 21 I'm only 18

I started as a volunteer and there was this guy who was the only one that talked to me and made an effort to get to know me. Everyone else are girls. I felt like he liked me cos he would do stuff like turn red when he sees me, he'd always stare at me, he stared at my boobs, when I put my earphones in - the end of my earphone was hanging down and he looked down and touched it and gave it to me, we walked out of work together twice. He even walked me to superdrug. I waited for him to tell me he likes me. I was leaving voluntary work and I told him twice 3 months in advance and told him again on the day I was leaving. But he never told me. He looked at me in my eyes. He told me to take care and that he can't make me stay

So, today during class my friend got caught using her phone. The teacher is really strict so she got her phone taken away. At the end of class, she asked for her phone back and the teacher said she had to go to the office to get it. She got upset because she was texting her mom. Her parents have been ignoring her request to write an "essay" about her so she can go to a certain college. So she got worked up at the teacher and said that she needed it. She was done with her work so she checked her phone for a few seconds and got caught automatically. She told the teacher about her situation and the teacher then got upset, saying that they were only trying to enforce the rules and she was making them feel guilty. My friend started crying and the teacher snapped, giving her the phone back but telling her that the office will know that they tried to take her phone away but she threw a fit. I was waiting for her so when she got out we walked to our next period. But during the next class, she told me that at her old school when something like that happens her friends would stick up for her and she forgot that at this school its not like that. She said it as if accusing me. Should I have stood up for her?

So I met my friend in college and we're living in an apartment together on campus. We're part of a group of 4 of us guys who are all close, but to be honest I'm closer to my roommate than the other 2 guys. And I realized that he is probably my best guy friend. I kinda feel like telling him, just saying how he's my best bro or something. Only thing is idk if it's reciprocated (obviously from the question). I also don't want to say it and then it be awkward because I'm not his. How do you recommend telling someone they're your best friend without the fear of their not saying it back? (and yeah, I over-think everything) Thanks!

i'm a guy, and it's become a recurring bit where in the early stages of friendship with women, I'll say something to them and they'll respond with something completely unrelated to what I said. in example, I could ask how the weather is, and they might respond with something along the lines of 'I have a green bike." Is this because they don't respect me at that point, so they ignore what I say? I know they like me, because they smile naturally when they see me; they just don't seem to care about anything coming out of my mouth. to clear it up: I'm not dating them, it's just women I meet, at least early on. And I don't think it's because they have feelings for me, because women that like me get tongue tied and jibberishy when they first speak to me. these women just blurt out unrelated statements that confuse me.

Not sure if it matters but I'm a female, my friends are all guys and my new friend is a girl. Basically I started living with this new girl because my last roommate graduated. We've been getting along and thought she'd get along with my other guy friends I've known for a while. While we have I've noticed most of the times it's awkward but a few times it's been fun. Recently, although they won't tell me I noticed they don't like her and don't really want her over while we're hanging out. I found out because when I was hanging out with them and wanted to invite her they gave each other a look and weren't mean about it but basically said they only wanted to keep it to us only. A while ago one of the guys were joking around and one called her anorexic and she started crying, the guy apologized but she was so upset she didn't care and he refuses to apologize again. The girl says shes fine to hang out with them again but won't talk to the guy making the whole thing awkward, and I've been realizing that when we all hang out she really only talks to me demanding all my attention and I feel really bad now. Ever since we started hanging out my friendship between my friend group has been strained. I feel bad if I exclude her, but I've started to neglect my other friends. what can I do?

He remembers lots of things about me He confides in me and he told me that he's happy that he can talk to me Once we hit a rough patch and he asked me if we needed to talk..."are you sure you're okay. You been pushing me away lately. You're my baby." Yesterday he told me, "be yourself I love it" We sleep together on the phone frequently (he likes it lol) He tells me "goodnight beautiful" every night He sends the red heart emoji a lot and has two saved by my contact name He's super patient and understanding with me despite my mood swings lol

So this guy had asked me out on a date. But instead of going I asked him if he wanted to be friends with benefits instead. He said yes and that he had always been into me. So we ended up hooking up but before we had sex we went to the movies out to dinner and to the arcade. And we had fun together but it wasn't just the sex. I mean we actually had a nice time we enjoyed each other's company. We have things in common we like the same movies, food, We spent the night together after we had sex.

i'm in college and at the moment i have a absolutely no friends. even though i'm shy, i never really had problem getting friends. somehow i always found people o got a long with and they were always the ones that approached me the first time. but not that i'm in college all of my "friends" went their sepearate ways and non of us really talk to each other anymore. i've been super lonely for about 2 years now and the only way that i socialize with people is with strangers through social media. i want to make friends in college but it's so hard for me. i feel like no one really has anything in common with me and that they'll find me annoying or something. i'm in a group project and one of the girls in my group seems really cool and she was talking about shane dawson today (which i love) and i wanted to join her convo so bad but my social anxiety kept pushing me back and i never said anything. i'm tired of this. i really really really want to change but it's not that easy. also i just moved to the usa and english isn't my first language and i have a strong accent and i feel like that makes me even more nervous whenever i have to y'all to someone because i'm not sure if i'm mispronouncing a word or if people can't really understand me sometimes because of my accent.

How do I get my friend to respect my boundaries?

so my friend was caught smoking weed and is being threatened to go to rehab, his mom is really strict so i don't doubt she'll put him back into rehab, any suggestions on how to maybe help him get out of going to rehab?

How does jealousy work? So, "Exactly" one year ago to the day, almost, I saw where my former friend who I used to hang out with in high school a long time ago went to an NCAA basketball game and I saw her pic on Facebook. Why was I so jealous of her?

Long story short this guy has an issue with respecting boundaries. He annoys myself and a bunch of people we know by constantly sending meaningless Snapchats (enough to make himself your top friend) and is always inviting everyone to activities hes planning that no one is really interested in. It's to the point where you tell him no Friday and he asks about saturday or the next week without considering you just answered no and it's extremely annoying.

This has been going on for a week, and some of it is a bit spicy

I'm at my friend's and she said I can go through her closet to pick out something to wear and I found a ouija board in there I feel very disturbed right now and I haven't said anything to her but I'm really wanting to leave I've heard bad things about the board and I don't want to stick around but then again I haven't seen her in a year and I also don't want to seem rude what should I do?

ive known him 5 months and he just wanted me to meet his best guy friends. not only that but kiss and hold hands in front of them too? is this a good sign he could have feelings?? we have never talked about being together..it feels primarily based on sex but he spends the night with me just to cuddle too. but usually do fwb want to let people in their life like that?