I'm a 23 year old guy, and I've had a crush on one of my coworkers. Her name is Daniela, I've known her for the past year and we always talk. Daniela has known for a long time that i like her, but she is married and has two girls, Plus she is 36 years old. She is always staring at me constantly to the point where I begin to sweat. when I look at her she looks away, I even feel like sometimes she is flirting with me and there is definitely chemistry between us. when we talk she smiles a lot when she's around me, and she has an amazing personality. But now I have moved to a different area at work and I don't see her anymore for the past month. From what I hear from my Friends is Daniela doesn't even try to look pretty anymore, and now she acts like she doesnt care about her appearance. did she really like me or something???????? I'm just confused because she is married.

Long story short, my roommate and I got into an argument, and she told me, "people say bad things about you, and when they do, I always tell them, "no, that's not true." "She's not like that."" However, my roommate and I only have ONE friend in common. We don't hang out with the same people, nor do we have the same friends. So I was very confused by why she said what she said. But I will take it seriously, just in case I come off as rude/mean.

I grew up with very strict parents, and I never had friends or people to really talk to. But now that I'm out and free, I'm now awkward and shy around people, unfortunately. I would like to make some friends now, and to have fun and be those type of people that can talk and laugh with and so forth... but I don't have that strong social skill to really communicate with others to begin that friendship. Sorry, and thank you.

I was best friends with a guy I used to work with after I left my job due to assault/harassment from another employee. He helped me through all of that & he started talking about dating/marrying me. I fell for him but he told me he didn't think he was what I deserved yet, & if he did commit to someone it'd be me. Then he slowly started becoming distant. My parents kicked me out when I told them about our friendship bc he was a bit older. He wasn't thrilled but let me stay with him. He went out of town to see family & the cops showed to do a welfare check. I went home & all turned around for me. However, a few weeks later the guy who raped me came into my new workplace & told everyone I lost my job bc I had been messing around with the manager (my friend) & that he had me before anybody else, then tried to get me to come outside with him. I told my friend all of this, bc I didn't know if this guy had to do with why he'd dropped me. I found out months later that he'd been going out with the guy who raped me after work, which was a huge slap in the face, & got into a relationship with a girl less than a month after he dropped me. Now I feel strung-along & don't know what to think about our friendship. It's been a year, he recently got off probation for DWI & he sent me a chat on Snapchat last week. I don't want to open it, & I'm not sure why he would all of a sudden message me out of nowhere like this.

My friend told me that he is kin with a nice version of Joffrey Baratheon. What for do?

I was at a party and the host asked me to drive June home because she was too drunk to drive. I was not drinking. I said sure and I drove June to her apartment but I could not find the keys to it in her purse so I drove to my apartment and took June in. She was barely able to walk because she was so drunk. I carried her in and put her in my bed with her clothes on and I slept on the couch. When June woke up she ask me how she ended up in my bed. I told her what happened. She said, Did I f— her". I told her "no". I would consider that rape. She also said I should have taken off her dress before I put her to bed as it got messed up from her sleeping in it. I am not sure she was completely sober when we had that conversation. Did I do the right thing here or should I have taken her dress off so it would not get messed up from her sleeping in it? She is a beautiful girl that I would like to date sometime. Should I just ask her for a date and not mention what happened or do you think she will remember and appreciate that I did not have sex with a drunk girl?

I'm 19 he's 16. I want to know what names or phrases I can say to piss off my brother haha. Just joking, because I love my brother, but sometimes he tries to piss me off now it's my turn.

okay on saturday i am gonna go to a social group for autistics and i am only gonna want to befriend and have 5 young men friends that are autistic like me and what are some good conversation starters and topics

So.. I've been really good friends with this one girl since we've been 3. So, a lot of years. I currently go to school with her. If we finish lunch we can hang out in the outside court like recess. Me, her, and some other people would always hang out. But now she's basically just ghosted us, especially me?? She now only hangs out with this one girl. She almost never answers my texts and never texts me. She doesn't seem to like talking with me. Whenever I try to sit with her and her friend she completely ignores me. She didn't even say "hey I'm gonna go hang out with her instead, okay?" like I've done a couple of times. Just suddenly left. She tells this girl (who she's only known for less than a year) lots of secrets I don't know, which is weird. We always used to share secrets and I've never told any, or gossiped with her so that wouldn't give her an idea I would spread her secret. This girl though, often tells other people but my friend still tells her. She looks so much happier with her.. Unlike she has ever looked with me.. Now that I look back it doesn't seem like she actually really liked me all that much and was just faking it. I understand that people change and I should let her be with her new "best friend".. But she never even talks to me. I really don't have any other true friends in school, and now she's just ignoring me. Any way for me to be friends with her again??

I met this guy at a hotel because we both agreed to hookup to have sex. When he first called me he asked me to hangout with him. But he didn't mention sex at all I didn't hangout with him when he first asked. Instead I asked him to be friends with benefits. He said yes and that he had always been into me. When we met at the hotel he asked me if I wanted to go out first. Because I told him I was nervous. So we went to the movies, the arcade and out to eat. Then we went back to the hotel and had sex.

Caitlyn, my best friend of 3 years, has ditched me for other friends several times. She usually gets bored of them and then we become friends. Anyway there's this new girl that just moved here, and Caitlyn has been obsessed with her. She texts and CALLS her which is something she almost never does with me. Today we could sign up to go on a field trip but I didn't know and Caitlyn decided to ask the girl to go and not even tell me. She always leaves me for her, and the girl doesn't even listen to her half the time when she talks. She's also making plans with her and hasn't with me in forever Should I ditch her back? And how?

I'm asking because when I got my hair cut today, a female stylist used that word. She saw that my female hair stylist and I were talking. I thought man date is a term to be applied to two guys hanging out and talking? I'm wondering why she said that.

When this guy first called me he asked me to hangout. I think that's different than a date. But anyway instead of going I asked him if he wanted to be friends with benefits instead. He said yes and that he had always been into me. I felt like I had did something wrong by asking to be friends with benefits. So I apologized and I told him I had feelings for him. He said I didn't do anything wrong. We ended up having sex but before we had sex we went to the movies out to dinner and to the arcade. First we met up at the hotel though and he said since I was nervous we could go out first and I said ok. We had fun together and not just because of the sex. We have things in common we like the same movies, food and entertainment. I told him I had fun with him and he said he had fun too.

so i used to live someonewhere for six years and i made a best friend. she became very toxic and i never realized it. i began a relationship with someone who was friends with both me and her. she was mad, but got over it. i later realized how toxic she was to me and always treated me like **** so we quit talking. i moved away a few years ago and i made a new really good friend. we became best friends and everything. i told her about this toxic friend and how horrible she is and how she ruined a lot of my confidence and all that. she agreed. currently, my current friend began talking to my old friend and now they both like each other? after the three years i told my current friend that she's seriously so toxic? they began to date and now i can't have a conversation with my current bestfriend without her telling my toxic old friend all of the details. we can't go out in public without her facetiming her. our whole friend group did annoyed and see i am pissed. they continue to tell me that i did the same thing getting together with my boyfriend (top story) and i'm so pissed off. they know i am yet they continue to piss me off. someone please tell me what to do because i don't know what to do.

so, i mailed a friend of mine a doll without a return address and one of those cut-paste style letters that you see in detective movies that says "so i heard you like dolls". i did not, however, know the doll was haunted. Apparanly it rattles the china cabinet, and loud bangs can be heard coming from the china cabinet at night. i would like to mail him, and some of my other friends cute dinosaur chocolates i made. How can i convince them that these, unlike the doll and some other belongings are NOT cursed?

This guy initially asked me to hangout I think that's different than a date. But anyway instead of going I asked him if he wanted to be friends with benefits instead. He said yes and that he had always been into me. I felt like I had did something wrong by asking to be friends with benefits. So I apologized and I told him I had feelings for him. He said I didn't do anything wrong. We ended up having sex but before we had sex we went to the movies out to dinner and to the arcade. First we met up at the hotel though and he said since I was nervous we could go out first and I said ok. We had fun together and not just because of the sex. We have things in common we like the same movies, food and entertainment. I told him I had fun with him and he said he had fun too. I'm the one who asked him to be friends with benefits he didn't ask me.

So I am 31 years old I have this friend who I've known for a few years. We went on vacation together and I took a picture of her in the water with her phone and as I clicked out of her camera, her text messages popped up. In her text messages she was telling someone how annoyed she was with me (I had been worried about getting to our flight on time bc of the gov shutdown) and in her text she wrote her she wants to just tell me to shut up about the government shut down and then sent her friend a video of me when I was drinking and wrote that I was drunk. (which I wasn't and who cares if I was, I'm not a biligerant drunk by any means) and the icing on the cake was when I saw the text that said "I gave her a Xanax, nurse Sara to the rescue." SHE DIDNT EVEN GIVE ME A XANAX. I called her right out on it, she said she meant to write "offered" me a Xanax but I don't think that's true bc she wrote "nurse Sara to the rescue" after. This is so childish, she felt bad but we haven't spoken since we got home and I feel like she's a really bad friend. Why lie about something like that, it's so bizarre. What do you think?

This guy initially asked me to hangout. But instead of going I asked him if he wanted to be friends with benefits instead. He said yes and that he had always been into me. I felt like I had did something wrong by asking to be friends with benefits. So I apologized and I told him I had feelings for him. He said I didn't do anything wrong. We ended up having sex but before we had sex we went to the movies out to dinner and to the arcade. First we met up at the hotel though and he said since I was nervous we could go out first and I said ok. We had fun together and not just because of the sex. We have things in common we like the same movies, food and entertainment. I told him I had fun with him and he said he had fun too.

How do you know if someone actually cares about you? What are the signs/examples etc? I have had people who say they love and care about me but I don't see it.

Ok if you talk to a person on Facebook messenger and you ask how they're doing every time you talk to them but you don't talk to them very much and they say you sure do say that a lot. Are they being forward with you by saying that? And if they are being forward is that in a bad way?

1 confident 1 one who is close and understands my life struggles 2 who understand and help with my life purpose 1 who is always up for a fun time

I sent a text message to a group, and I accidentally sent a message at the same time as someone else, will they still get a text message notification that I sent too?

Should you treat your friends like you do your family or should you treat them separately?

Okay, so I used to be the so called "Popular Girl" since elementary. I used to have my best friend stuck to me every single day. But, now everyone goes ahead of me, and I have to try hard to be involved in their conversations. They don't even wait for me. My best friend now only hangs out with another girl. I have to always try so hard to fit in. And I always end up being so insecure and have no confidence.

My best friend is currently a branch manager at this bank by her. She has been there since last February. She constantly works her tail off, and feels like she has nothing to show for it financial wise. I always tell her if she doesn't feel right about her position why doesn't she just leave? She loves her job, but just claims that she isn't happy about how things are going financially. In my personal opinion, I believe that things will be put into action once you do something about the problem. It is not meant to be easy, but it is not impossible. I also believe that it was the people that she surrounds herself with. She used to have a friend that used to walk all over her. They are no longer friends. Now I feel that the pattern is returning because one of her good friends is in an abusive relationship. Her friend always seems to blame her, and I don't understand why she feels that she needs to do everything with her. thoughts?

This guy initially asked me out on a date. But instead of going I asked him if he wanted to be friends with benefits instead. He said yes and that he had always been into me. I felt like I had did something wrong by asking to be friends with benefits. So I apologized and I told him I had feelings for him. He said I didn't do anything wrong. We ended up having sex but before we had sex we went to the movies out to dinner and to the arcade. First we met up at the hotel though and he said since I was nervous we could go out first and I said ok. We had fun together and not just because of the sex. We have things in common we like the same movies, food and entertainment. I told him I had fun and he said he had fun too.

So my best friend and I have talked about this numerous times because i get mad that they dont listen to me, dont talk to me, dont hang out etc. We can sit at the same lunch table but theyll talk over me and just flat out ignore me the whole time. I asked them if I was really their best friend and they said yes I m their favorite person, but if they said no I wouldnt be mad about this. I just hate being strung along and lied to, it s worse than being ignored. Today I learned that they and someone else had skipped out on our friend group to hang out alone like right above us for the past couple days. I m a little hurt because they kept me out of the loop on this when they know that I feel the same way about our friend group that they do, and I m supposed to be their bestfriend. They say they just forgot but I m also hurt that they could just forget and leave me alone? I also know that they schedule to hang out every friday, like they have a thing going now and we dont have anything like that. Once they blew me off to sleep over at the other persons house and stay instead of coming to mine, a plan we had for a week. Am I wrong to be mad about them doing stuff like this? Do you think they genuinely dont want me as much as the other friend or we just havent gotten into a groove like that yet??

I have and it sucks. Needless to say the friendship ended. Now I am just looking for a mail order bride to be all my own to have forever.

At dancing night club sometime I came with friends. Once a while friend saw a good looking female dancing, join in dance with her, put arms around her.  Sometime they even kiss her or even touch her butt while dancing. You know with dance its get crowds which everybody bumping into each other. Thing is it's dark with some flashing you can't see other people body language and very loud that you cannot hear what other person say.  Friend never got arrested for physical contact even in sexual way to a female. Not even asking her permission.

I'm a on/call home health aide. I get paid 640 a week but work 70 hours a week everyday. I deal with my clients. I help get them up out of bed because they are paralyzed. They are awful. They chew you out over the smallest mistake like maybe dropping the soap on the floor, putting the towel on the wrong side of the rack, not having the cover sheet on tight. The will even chew you up for doing th hinges they told you to do.

This guy initially asked me out on a date. But instead of going I asked him if he wanted to be friends with benefits instead. He said yes and that he had always been into me. I felt like I had did something wrong by asking to be friends with benefits. So I apologized and I told him I had feelings for him. He said I didn't do anything wrong. We ended up having sex but before we had sex we went to the movies out to dinner and to the arcade. First we met up at the hotel though and he said since I was nervous we could go out first and I said ok. We had fun together and not just because of the sex. We have things in common we like the same movies, food and entertainment. I told him I had fun and he said he had fun too.

You make a friend, this person wants to be your friend and after about a year suddenly your friend and their friends begin to bully you. You cut off from them after they bully you. You stop being friends with that friend you made a year ago for bullying you. Your friend that bullied you changes faces again from mean to nice after you cut off from her and tries to stay a light acquantace with you but not want anything to do with you from that point. What do you do about this weird person?

I have talked to my roommate twice at this point and basically said something along the lines of "Hey, i bought that food i would really appreciate it if you didn't eat it or at least asked." But she hasn't and everytime gets so defensive and says stuff like well it loooked so good i couldn't resist. Now she not only eats my leftovers she's eats anything i buy at the store today she ate my vitamins like what but yet refuses to go to the store herself because she thinks it is a waste of money when she can use her meal plan. What makes it even more annoying is with everything she eats leftover or not she puts it back and leaves one bite so i get all excited when i see the food then look and all that's left is one bite.

I was the one who contacted him after he had randomly blocked then unblocked me from everything. I had posted a pic with my guy cousin and a week after that he blocked me. I know this is true because on my mom's messenger it showed his online status but mine didn't. After he asked me i said you could just ask instead of blocking but he went on to deny that he ever blocked me claiming he had services turned off since he was out of the country. BS, cuz my moms phone was showing his online status. he said he was out of the country i asked if he went to bring a girl here he said bring a girl? no. I said see a girl? he said it personal. He kept saying this even after I asked if he was married. So what the hell why respond me instantly when I text, block then unblock me after the pic. After this convo he was saying how he didn't even have 1/100 feelings for me. I kept insisting that he called me blocked and i unmasked it and he girst said that's great now if you can find resources to help you move on. The kept insisting that he never called. I said you got married and still want to hear my voice. I know it was you who called. He then said ok it's now a good time to block you for good. I said I'll save you the trouble :) and blocked him from everything. But he only blocked me from his phone not on viber or whatsapp messenger. If he truly wanted to contact he'd close all the avenues right? What's his deal?

asking for a friend of a friend of my gram's friend

Okay, so... I don't have that much money. This has come up in several conversations but mainly when I talk about how I wish I had more n stuff (usually in a joking manner). Anyway, my friend always pays for my lunches because I can't afford to pay for myself. I appreciate it a lot, but I feel extremely guilty and I've told her I don't want her to buy me anything... but she still continues to. I like having my stuff paid for (I mean... I've even asked her for money for a drink once or twice... usually she says no to that though), I just know that I don't have the money to pay her back for everything. Then I have other friends who give me food and stuff and I can't pay them back either. Agh I just keep digging my grave.

I'm engaged. I love my man so much. I am so excited to marry him and spend my life with him. On the flipside, I've been in love with my (married) friend for almost 2 years. I've been VERY discreet and neither my friend nor his wife have any idea. My friend has backed off A LOT in the last year, but more since I've been with my fiance. We barely see each other anymore or talk anymore and I hate that, but it's probably for the best. My fiancé has began suspecting I have feelings for my friend. I have not confirmed them, I recently denied the feelings. I said he's my friend and that's it. My fiancé has joked about wanting to ask my friend if we've had an affair. He has claimed I want my friend to be my boyfriend, that I am obsessed with my friend. He did something and I kind of made it obvious I was annoyed and he goes "I bet _____ isn't as annoying as I am." It takes everything in me not to put him in his place and be like "you know what? You're right. I do like him." but I don't. I don't wanna hurt his feelings. What would you do/say in my situation? I make sure to deny my true feelings and say he's like a brother to me. My fiancé has already admitted to being jealous of my friend because my friend is very successful in his career and makes pretty decent money (which my friend brags about to me ALL the time, but my fiancé doesn't know about that.) In case you're wondering, I am desperately working on getting over my feelings for my friend. Nilson, I do love my fiancé, but I've known my friend longer and have loved him longer. Rome wasn't built in a day. I can't just stop loving my friend at the drop of a hat, but I am trying to get over it. All I can do is try and hope it works. Anonymous-I'm not sure how my friend feels about me. He's 11 years older and his wife has some of the same features as me. My fiancé has even said my friend's wife looks like an older version of me, but different eye color. I think he's attracted to me, but I'm not sure it goes further than that. Since I've been with my fiancé, my friend has been distant, didn't even acknowledge my engagement although his wife did. Last time I saw him, he looked down at my engagement ring, but said nothing. My fiancé is really great, don't get me wrong, but my friend has just had me hooked longer. He's so positive about life, while my fiancé can be really negative and seemingly "emo" quite often. My friend is so confident (not conceited) and walks into a room like he owns it and I always found that sexy, while my fiancé is not confident at all and is constantly putting himself down. Ane, I'm sorry, but how am I doing "adultery"? I literally said in the first paragraph that my friend DOES NOT KNOW I have feelings for him, so we're not even having an affair or anything. It's not adultery unless you act on it.

How do you define them personally?

One time, I came early and one of my friends let say her name is Freddy was sitting on a seat with her bag on the seat next to her. I would've wanted to sit next to her, but she kept reading her book and wouldn't even look up at me. So I ended up sitting on a seat two seats away from her. What made me angriest was when my other friend George came she quickly moved her bag so that George could sit next to her. And after that they kept on talking and I couldn't converse very well with them. What's even worse is that they have most classes together, while I'm in a different one. I wish I could get closer with all of them and be no longer third-wheeling. Help me, what should I DO?

Who would you want to be friends with? Give me your reasons why you want to be friends with this person?

This guy at work always stares into my eyes locks eyes with me for awhile and looks st me squinting his eyes like he really likes me. I don't flirt back because I am married. But I can feel he is falling more and more in love with me as time goes by. He gets jealous when there are other guys talking to me or a guy sitting next to me. He tries to flirt with another woman in front of me to make me jealous. When I try to ignore him when he is staring at me from the side, he seems so sad and sulks when I don't flirt or respond back. I can tell he is hurt by me. He seems upset at me now. I want to talk to him about it but don't know how to bring up the subject and talk to him about this. Can't he understand I am married? What should I do?

My friend wants to know can a loved one bring the inmate cash instead of sending it electronically?

I was driving a friend to a clinic so she could have a check-up one day and I got into a car crash after dropping her off. Another car crashed into my car from the side and it was full-on impact. The air bags came out and I had tinnitus. My car was totaled. Later she showed up and said I didn't need to have a checkup. I didn't think much of it at the time until my classmate, who I never talk to, suggested I go see the doctor after showing much concern. Then I started thinking why a stranger had more concern for me than a "friend". I gave her a free ride and I am always the one driving her to places since she didn't have a car. I told her the court date and she didn't show up to that either. And to make matters worse, she didn't return my messages after a few days. She only messaged me after everything was over. I'm not expecting her to pay anything but at least to show some concern and be there for me.