My wife is having sharp pain in her left side she said it's starting from her breast then going straight down she's getting a little on the right to. She just had a baby about a month ago I don't know if this is normal or what. She's complaining that her back is starting to hurt. I tried giving her a massage she started crying saying that it hurts her brother is a doctor he's looking at her right now it's after midnight she can't get to sleep she said it hurts to much. How can I comfort her ? What could be wrong with her ?

My wife started crying and freaking out when we had sex she's never done this she's always loved it I don't know what got into her. She's 5 months pregnant with our 3rd baby but she never acted this way. As soon as I started she was yelling at me telling me to get off of her. Like I said she's never done this before. How can I calm her down ? What should I say to her ?

He never speaks of her, asks about her, he acts like she's just my "friend", and ignores her when he visits me (I live with my wife). She has never even done anything wrong, and has been very nice to my dad. My dad said he never wanted me to get married and just wanted me to hook up with girls and doesn't believe in marriage, but he should at least respect my choices right? He has been married once to my mother and they got divorced within 6 months of marriage, my mom divorced my dad

My wife and I have a daughter who's a month old me and her we're going to have a son a couple years ago she had a miscarriage at 5 months he was supposed to be due on Valentines Day he would have been 2 this year. Me and her don't do much on Valentines Day we just have dinner or cuddle and watch a movie we don't even have sex. It's really a rough holiday for her. How can I comfort her ? What should I say to her ?

My wife and I have been together for 10 years been married for 7 we got 2 kids soon to be 3. I'm 41 she's 26. Is that wrong ?

and in my opinion there is a big difference. If there wasn't then why are people fighting for marriage equality? What is your experience from dating to marriage. BE NICE, just curious

My husband had money saved up but he never told me. I found out on my own. Why would he do that? Then sometimes he tells me he has no money but then I see him sending $400 to his mother's account. I don't tell him nothing though. I just watch and stay quite. But I just don't understand. I feel like i'm worth nothing to him 😢

My wife is always mad at me and does things that I do not think are in the best interest of our relationship or my child. I feel like I m walking on pins and needles with her emotions and do not want to continue in that state nor do I want my child to pick up those habits. I want both of us to be committed in the decision forward of either trying to fix the relationship or at a minimum living separately. I do not want my child to see me unhappy anymore.

My wife and I like to shower together. Is that normal ?

He complains about my driving ( but always asks me to drive), complains about how I keep the house ( I work 40 plus hours a week and do clothes dishes daily , I don t mop everyday that is it), He complains about my cooking. He has nothing nice to say about me ever. Today he literally said I scratched the truck yet, I never did. I can t even see this so called scratch???? ( He cracked the windshield a month ago though wtf??? He was following too close to a car and a rock flew and hit the truck). Idk what to do at this point, I do know I don t want to continue my life like this.

Husband is addicted to sex. Husband and wife have sex but not as often as husband wants it. There's been uneven sex drives from the very beginning, but true love between husband and wife, a home, and two beautiful grown children that keep husband and wife together. Husband developed relationship with younger woman outside of his marriage. Mistress is much younger and single and has fallen in love with him. Husband enjoys the attention, love, and sex he gets on command from his mistress. Husband is emotionally attached to his mistress of 3 years but he's in love with his wife. Husband and mistress both know the relationship needs to end. Husband feels guilty every day for cheating on and lying to his wife but he is addicted to sex with mistress. Mistress is in love with him but has felt unfulfilled the past couple years and wants a real relationship with a man who is single. Both know the relationship needs to end; still neither have ended it. Who do you predict will? What will it take for either party to do it?

For those who misunderstood my question, I wasn't asking if a married couple did it once or twice if they have twins. I meant if a married couple has one, two, three etc. kids, if the number of times they had sex matched that number.  I think that with every couple I know or see, married or unmarried, if I know they don't have kids, I would assume they haven't had sex, because I think the whole world is a virgin like me

Today I called my mom and she told me - "I dont even know what happiness is". I dint realize it until she said and it and i wanted to tell her so much but started crying and pretended everything is fine on phone with her. I am confused ...actually my heart and brain both. I dont know what i want - I have everything but still i feel so lonely. May be the key to happiness is support from family, wife and everyone around you. I dont see that support. I am emotionally drained .....I am not in peace with myself --- 6 months now and i dont realize when last i smiled from heart. God knows - when this will last.

I posted a question on here about week ago, I'm 27, my wife and I have 2 kids. I had an affair with her best friend for 10 months. I told my wife about this and she kicked me out of the house. 3 days after she kicked me out, I told her former BFF that I can't continue the affair and she was upset. I apologized to my wife on the phone and promised her that I will be a better father and husband, I apologized for betraying her like that. We worked things out, she let me back in the house and told me that it will take a while for her to trust me again. She ended her friendship with her former BFF. My wife and I have a 3 years old daughter and a 9 months old daughter. Should I feel lucky that she took me back? I know I stated on here last week that I didn't want to be married or didn't want to see my kids again, but I regret saying that. Should I feel lucky that she took me back? She's demanding that we go to counseling.

I would appreciate your help. I was in a relationship with a Pakistani guy for about a year and a half. It did not work out because my parents did not agree to a multiethnic relationship (I am Lebanese) and because a Lebanese guy proposed to me when I was away in Lebanon and my boyfriend was treating me badly and acting like a complete control freak! Anyway, I break up with my Pakistani boyfriend and he apologises and says that he was acting like a 'bastard' but i never told him it was because of us being different ethnicities. I then marry the other for a year and a half and I am currently filing for divorce for various reasons although I have to say he was a great guy. I was thinking of contacting my Pakistani ex on Facebook, sending him a friend request. I have blocked him 5 years ago but I never explained to him anything and I cut him off completely. I always find that he listens to songs in my language and the rest of his songs are sadI am not contacting him to get back with him, but he was my best friend and I just want to explain things to him now.He once told me I betrayed him and it has been haunting me for ages.I want to explain to him that it was my parents.And ask him to forgive me. I am a more mature person now, I promise, and I cannot stop thinking about our memories everywhere I go. I have a feeling that he is still thinking about me. Should I contact him by FB or insta? Also, in general I want to know would a Pakistani marry divorced girl (in her twenties)..?

My wife and I have been married for 8 years and together for 10. There has been a history of her violence and anger management issues. She has said and done some of the most disgusting stuff. My parents are me as weak for not walking away before now. Last year not long after the birth of our child, she became increasingly violent. Our son was only 3 months old when she erupted in anger at her mother and smashed up the kitchen. She was in a physical fight with her mother and wanted to destroy all of her belongings. U called the cops and they charged her with domestic violence. I had nowhere to go because my parents were overseas. She was dragged off and came home a few hrs later still fuming and took it put on me by smashing more plates and screaming. I called the cops again and she was taken away. She was yelling about killing herself so they took her for a psych evaluation. She got cleared at the hospital and the next morning was released back to me. Immediately talking divorce and dumping our 3 month old son on me. I had to work and I was so worried because I had no help besides her parents (which she threatened to send away). Also during this time, I had a friendship with a university classmate. There was nothing going on but my wife started to accuse me of sleeping with her and having an affair despite me telling her nothing was happening and sending the classmate to her company to consider purchasing property etc. We obviously haven't kissed since then. She was cleared of criminal charges in the court after spending thousands of dollars. She was ordered to seek ongoing psych evaluations. She also took off overseas for a month forcing my parents to care for our son and I tried my best to come and help on my days off work. She found an email communication I had with a lawyer regarding divorce. I have told her repeatedly that I am not going to divorce her even if she has been diagnosed with a mental illness (She has anger issues if criticised about anything). Like severe off the wall anger issues which she had to get a handle on after the domestic violence order. Recently she talks a lot about how I'm just with her to make use of her money because she has accumulated a few properties and a lot of debt through her real estate job. I have tried to remind her I'm not there to fight or to make use of her and that I have not cheated on her. Tonight is another example of the tension. We were enjoying my cousin's wedding. I asked her if she could stop taking selfies and take our 10 month old son out in the pram to sleep whilst I watched my cousin and his wife take their first dance. She didn't like that I had off handedly said that I will take care of it then. I called her to the bathroom to bring the baby change bag. She was p*** at me for not bringing our crying baby back through the reception! I tried to explain that I couldn't. She became confrontational and repeatedly asking me why I ruined her evening, what the hell was wrong with me, why I was fighting in front of my parents (no one at the table heard my comment and were unaware until I came back upset). I tried my best to ignore her going off and she became more angry and said don't talk to her. She later took off with our son and put him in the car without saying anything. The reception was held near the beach and I was worried when I just seen the empty pram next to the car. She had locked herself and the baby inside... There is a restraining order that protects my son, myself and her mother.

who is 28 years old. The only problem (& reason) she will marry me is because she has a (non contagious) terminal illness that won't allow her to live for more then 4 years.

Stands close to me. Talks to me softly. Shy. Polite. Looks down my top. Scans my face and body. Looks up everytime I walk into the room. Are we going to have sex and when?

In the past, I have had disagreements with my in-laws. These disagreements have been over such things as: which activities we were going to do for my wife's birthday, not wanting my children to do something that my in-laws wanted them to do, my being stressed out over spending significant amounts of time at their home or in their presence. They then go literally running to my wife to tell her what happened. Has my wife set up a spy network where her family reports to her about me or are they spying on me on their own? I feel like I can't breathe the wrong way or I am going to be reported on.