My wife loves to lay in bed and cuddle all night. Why ?

My wife works but she doesn't make any money at her job. It's a long story but she basically invested a lot of money out of her 401k for my daughter's college. There are four of us now that my daughter is gone. Now the wife depends on me to fund her food. I spent about $60 a week on groceries for the household and then I give her $40. I told if she spends most of the money on seasoning that's on her, food is more important than seasoning. She said that if she doesn't have seasoning she can't even cook the food. The thing is that she runs out most of her seasoning every month or so. She's constantly buying things like garlic powder, paprika, black pepper. She also loves to buy lots of fresh fruit and vegetables which are expensive. I save money buy just buying one bag of bananas per week and calling it a day. but my wife is different, she has to have a huge variety of pineapples, strawberries, blueberries, blackberries, mangos, oranges and she likes to get those bolthouse green smoothie drinks which are insanely expensive, cilantro, lemons, limes ( also expensive), she buys expensive jasmine rice because she claims the taste is different, chicken breasts ( again, expensive they are $8 a pound at our local grocery). When she is finished she ends up spending at least $150. I told her she is going to have to find a way to start paying me back because I cannot afford this every week.

My husband moved out about 3 months ago and originally wanted to 'date' in a way, he thought we needed space so he moved in with his best friend. We've been married for 3 years, together for 5. We have a daughter and my daughter & I currently live with his grandma and mother. He's only thinking about himself right now not the impact this can have on are daughter (she doesn't understand and constantly asks me where he is) but he goes to parties now, and pretty much whatever else he wants and when I really try to talk to him about our relationship he says he wants a divorce BUT doesn't want any part in filing for it or paying for it. I'm not sure what to do, he also doesn't want to be put on child support because then that would take any money he has left over after rent and other bills. Thoughts on how I should proceed?

My wife and i this morning, who knows why?, started talking about past loves before we got together. I mentioned some past girlfriends she knew about. She told me about one guy, told me they vacationed in Florida. Ever since, I've been thinking of her with him, a motel room, etc, and, frankly, it has me so turned on picturing what went on. I plan to tell her later - she's out now - about how I've been horny all day. Have you experienced this? What did you do? Married nearly 25 years. She's always been mysterious about her past. So this revelation was a surprise. No, not gay. Just hot to think about.

We had a baby two years ago and getting on birth control has been difficult for me because of the hormones. We do use condoms but a particular brand and not the one he had which is Trojan. The condom seem new so I confronted him. He said he found it on the floor in a bag on the entrance of the building so he took it because it seemed new. Now, he does not see well without reading glasses and asked me to confirm the due date. Why would he pick it up if he could not tell if it was new?

My husband and I got custody of his daughter 2 years ago. She's 11 now and she's been acting up and not listening when she's told to do something. My husband kind of lets her get away with it. She normally just does it to me. She has thrown fits and yells so loud that the cops were called one time. I can't take her attitude anymore and my husband is severely stressed as well. It's starting to break up my happy marriage. Should we send her back to live with her mom or continue being miserable? I am starting to hate her and I really don't want that. We have always had a great relationship until about a year ago. I need some help fast.

My wife is very angry and I don't know how to deal with this. Married 19 years. I would accept that I have been a bit of a jerk at times and had to apologise/make up to her. However far more often on occasions I held my peace in the face of (what I think) unjustified outbursts. Almost daily now when she will take umbrage at a minor thing, like the kids coming down late for breakfast or me forgetting to buy eggs on the way home or the house help being late or slow. There is shouting, banging doors and sometimes even throwing pots and pans --in full view of the children and the maid. This is followed by sulking and crying. I have learnt to weather the storm quietly as it is useless to try and talk her down in such a mood. Once it is over, I try to comfort her. You may call this passive but I simply don't know what to do at the time. She blames me for her anger and says that if I really tried I could make things better but I honestly don't know how. I suspect she may be depressed and have suggested counselling and/or psych help but she won't have it. I think I am at a point of clinical depression now. Possible cause of her anger may be that she is completely financially dependent on me and may feel trapped----she has said so a number of times. However, she knows exact details of my income, has complete control of household spending and has a generous allowance. Please help about what to do with children (16, 14, 10) as they are growing up in a very toxic environment.

Even if he flirted with you while his wife was pregnant?

What do you guys think?

My husband wants to do the grandpa thing, and now our children 4, 2 & 6 months are suffering from it. @g, he's not doing his share of parenting, he sees our kids for a few minutes in the evening then takes off to see his grandchildren a few times a week. One weekend he took his grandchildren on holiday. So he sees his younger children maybe 30% of the time.

He is in a relationship, any woman that wants to fill him up or sit on his lap, press her breasts against his back etc, he is ok with and doesn't push them away. He isn't doing anything wrong in his mind because he wasn't initiating the contact, does this make any sense? Is this how men in relationships act ? The guy is 42 so it's not like he has the excuse and being young and immature... I just don't get it. If you ask him, he thinks he is faithful He said he wouldn't mind if I were to be flirty with other men so long as we didn't have actual sex. He doesn't do this in front of me, but I hear from co workers he does this at work and also when he hangs out with his friends and they go out he is like this too.

I think cheating man is stupid man who only care about body and sex. And a girl who fall for taken man she's very dumb for believing his lies I think 18 till 25 fall for married men that's very sad 😞