what would you do if your husband is out 4-5 times a week/brings his friends over 4-3 times a week he come home after 1 and never answers his phone comes home drunk sometimes. He helps with kids when you need him when your at school or work, he knows you don t like this, talk to him about a limit but still end up leaving saying he s going to be home with his friends but then leaves. Advice plz no bad comments

My husband is a college student and was approached by this professor on his Facebook a professor he never took. She send him a message stating she was a fitness coach(he is into fitness) and they agreed to meet. At first, they met up a lot and I wondered maybe she is trying to sell him something. However, she offered him treamendous amount of help & never truly pitched. It wasn't until she started touching him his hands, etc there is a lot of touching while talking. Would you think trying to sell or ****?

Me and my wife fell asleep around 11:30pm. At 1am my 16 year old stepdaughter walks in, turns the light on and asked if there is any food. She comes back at 1:45am and does the same thing but my wife doesn't remember what she wanted. I couldn't get back to sleep. I laid in bed from 1:45am to 7am tossing and turning. My wife wakes up and asked how long I have been awake. I told her and she got angry with me as it implies I am accusing her daughter of waking me up! This soon led to an argument. Such as "why is a 16 year old turning the light on at 1:45am and waking us up twice and then walking out of the room with the light on?!" With weird excuses such as "she was hungry as she was studying!!!" She was home all day watching TV, she had plenty of time to study! My wife says I'm being narrowminded and feels I should just accept that her daughter does these things and back off.(She does a lot of things from wishing death on her mother to leaving trash all over the house). I really don't care what she does as long as it doesn't interfere with me. I have an exam today and had to study but now I'm dead tired but still cant sleep and cant focus. Now my wife wants a divorce.

My wife lost her cousin this weekend she was pregnant with her second baby she had the flu but she also had a heart condition which none of us knew about they don't know if it was the flu that killed her or cardiac arrest they said she died on the way to the hospital. She left behind a son who just turned 3 back in December. We're all really upset and shocked about it I don't know what to tell my kids especially my daughter who's a year older than her son she loved playing with him every time they came for the cookout on Labor Day it won't be the same without her. This is really scary for me and my wife she also has heart problems but she had 2 kids just fine she's pregnant with our 3rd I'm really scared for her right now. I feel silly crying about it I'm a grown man with 2 kids I should be strong for them but this is really sad. She just posted last week that the baby was healthy she was a few years younger than my wife she was just 23. Our kids are too young to understand what's going on right now. I dont know what i do if my kids had to go through this I can't imagine what her son is going through. Is it OK to cry in front of her ?

Her parents and brother give her what she wants when she wants it also she's really bossy and pushy towards almost everyone including me. Me and her brother and our friends have a band she's our manager she's always bossing us around telling us what to do. I kind of spoil her in a way but not that much. I love her more than anything but it gets kind of annoying. Does she sound like she's spoiled ?

I get neither in my marriage, but don't want a divorce. He isn't going to give either, because if I'm not doing everything the way he thinks I should, he withholds it.... Has been withholding it for like 9 years now. I can't bring myself to divorce because we have 3 kids. Are there ways to fulfill some emotional needs without looking for another man?

My wife lost her cousin on Sunday she died from the flu also possible cardiac arrest they're not sure yet but she was pregnant she left behind a 3 year old son. The whole family is shocked and upset even I am upset about it she's only 23 she was a really nice girl it's too young also it isn't fair. She had a bad heart condition we didn't know about. My wife had a baby with a heart problem too this is scary. My heart breaks for her son who probably doesn't even understand what's going on. How can I comfort her ? Is it ok to cry in front of her ?

Personally, my husband and I only wear our wedding rings at parties or sometimes when we go out to eat, but not every day like other couples. Is that normal?

She told me she would marry me if she wasn't already married

I'm very attractive. But, when I get married, I would kiss my husband on the side of his forehead if he's sitting down. I will also sit on his lap (facing him if I'm flexible enough). And kiss his cheek and lips.

I have a friend at work. We've known each other for about 4 months, and we used to talk a lot. But recently we had a conversation in which he expressed feelings for me. The problem is that he is married. His wife just had a baby. And he told me that he wants to have an affair with me. I had made the decision to cut him off, since I had the sense that he was never going to be able to push his feelings aside. That lasted for about 9 days. I hated not being able to talk to him, so I told him we could continue talking on the condition that we could only be friends. But ever since we've been talking again, I've had a bad feeling about it. For some additional context, my best friend absolutely hates him. 1. Because he's married and he's pursuing me. 2. She reads people really well and she gets a bad vibe from him. I don't blame her. I think he might actually be a sociopath. Hard to explain why, just some of the things he says. He claims that he loves his wife but to me, he seems indifferent. I think they only got married because she was pregnant. These last few days that we've been talking again, it's very different. We don't talk as much as we did before, and it's not as light-hearted as it used to be. It almost feels like our friendship might just fade out. I would be fine with that, but I feel like the better thing to do is to talk about it and cut ties again. Ultimately, the hardest thing is that no matter what happens, we will continue to see each other at work.

Logical steps to take after something like this. I know if I confront him he is going to say he did not do it. But that is the only picture missing from the fridge door. We have two small kids. At 6 yr old and a newborn. So I know neither of them did it. And we do not have any other family members living with us.

I told him that it was not me texting him from a fake number and that I don't even care enough to do something like that. I asked him what the text were saying and he said they were saying things like "enjoy your date tonight with your new girlfriend" and "why are you always around so many woman" and "I still have feelings for you" I asked him to send me a screenshot of the messages & the alleged fake number he told me that he didn't want to show me the number because he didn't want me to go crazy on the person, then I told him that I don't need a fake number to say anything to him I can just use my real number & then he ask me to come over to his house, which I did not. Then he apologized for suspecting me and then he says "I think maybe my mind is playing tricks on me" He then proceeds to ask me how I'm doing and says "what's new eith you" I ended the conversation there. He then txt me this morning and said " I'm really sorry" I never replied. Do you think my EX husband ever received any fake text or was he just trying to start a conversation with me and get me to go see him.

My sister has been married for 4 years, and in a relationship with this guy for 8 years. My family and I have always known that he is kind of an asshole. He's never there for family events, can be very cold and stand-offish, makes pretty much all decisions for her, and is a major alcoholic. We've tried to tell her before that he seems controlling but she gets very defensive. Well today she called me and told me everything. She's been wanting to leave him for a while but has just realized that he is emotionally abusive towards her. She even looked up on the internet "signs of an emotionally abusive relationship" and he matched up with every sign. The problem is that they are living in his house that he paid for. They have a 2 year old son together and she wants to leave him, but is scared that he will take her to court and try to take her son away because she is mentally unstable (she is not really, but he convinces her that she is). She has brought up leaving him before, but he always says that he will win and take their son away because she is mentally insane. She went to a therapist for depression about 6 years ago for a couple months and he constantly uses it against her. So what I'm asking is, what can she do to help her case so she can finally leave him? She told me that she is meeting up with an attorney next week so they might help her straighten things out, but if there is any advice I can tell her, that would be great.

I am sure there are people here who watch porn and have wife and kids. Is this considered cheating too? I am a highly users on a webcam site AdultFunCams.com and I really enjoy what I do. It's not that I don't love my wife, but when I am on this webcam site I can command these girls what to do and give them some tips and its reallly fun and urges my sex drive.

My husband has been working very hard the last month or so to support our family! I want to show him how much I appreciate it but I don t know what to get him! Please Help!!

My husband and I were together for a year n half before tying the knot. 3 months after getting married, my husband got a transfer to his home city and we moved in with his mom. Things went downhill as soon as we moved in. She's a single mother. Her sons are her life. From day one she has always made witty remarks towards me and my relationship. She's always telling my husband how he's changed so much and it's best to keep a balance. She has never made me feel welcomed or comfortable. My husband thinks I'm being too sensitive and claims that's just the way she is. I find her completely rude. She blames me for everything. I wanna move out but my husband thinks it's his responsibility to care for his mom. I don't know what to do.

It's going on 4 months since no intimacy, and much long for general touching or closeness. We have 3 kids together who 5, 4 and 15 months. Granted, raising the kids is a tough job while juggling everything else in life (i.e. work, church and other commitments). My daughter flipped me off when I tried talking to her about her behavior this morning. I told my husband about it and he just brushed it off, which only goes to show where she's learning to disrespect me. It's like we're more like roommates than a married couple. I'm tired of being the only one trying. And now our daughter is being a little brat (something I swore I'd never say, but don't know how else to describe it). I can't take it anymore. I've thought about taking our boys and leaving, but that's not fair to any of them. I don't know what else I can do. I've been sleeping on the couch off and on since the holidays (although it started off due to being sick). Hubby is not interested in counseling or even speaking with our Priest. He says there's nothing wrong. Caroline, we were just arriving to school when she flipped me off. And I did pause and tell her that was very disrespectful and inappropriate, and explain that she would lose privileges tonight after school. That it was just homework, dinner, bath and bed. She understood. I called my husband on the way out from dropping her off to tell him, so he would be aware of the punishment in case he picked her up today. Her teacher was just arriving at the same time and saw and heard the whole thing.

I recently had an unexpected 3 day hospital stay. I did not expect to have any problems with the medical bills as I have insurance from where I work. I did not know the doctors were not part of my insurance plan. I was out of pocket over a thousand dollars. They turned their bills over to a collection agency which called me several times a day. I also got letters almost every day demanding payment or they would get a court judgement. It was a terrible. I was a nervous wreck. Suddenly the phone calls and letters stopped. I did not understand why. It was sure a relief. I told my parents what had happened and they told me they knew why I was not getting any more bills. They had told my ex husband about my problems and he had paid the bills. I was really surprised. I called my ex husband Bob, and asked him why he had paid my doctor's bills. He told me that he knew about the nightmare I was having with bill collectors. They call all hours and threatened to tell your neighbors and boss at work and he did not want me to have to endure that. He said we are friends and "I don't let friends suffer when I can prevent it". At that moment, it was like a MESSAGE FROM HEAVEN. Bob is really a great guy and he still has feelings for me. I want to spend the rest of my life with him. If he will marry me again, I will be the best wife he could ever dream of. Please give me some suggestions on how I should tell him what I am feeling.

I'm looking for serious answers only

My husband is 60 years old and I snooped on his fone recently and saw he's been flirting with a 34 year old woman..... he said quiet intimate stuff to her ..... from the texts he has arranged to meet up with her for a drink.... should I confront my husband about this now or wait until he actually meets her? It's quiet upsetting.....

When she goes to her family meetings, I drive her to her parents house then leave and come back to pick her up later. Sometimes I stay with them like 30 minutes or an hour. Every couple of weeks. Is this still not enough? Frankly I feel out of place there. They're discussing their family matters and I'm the only stranger there.

Found out my husband has one and has been looking at foot fetish videos .... Should I leave?

Husband has been holding on to dead marriage for too long. I believe it's due to the fact that he may be getting BAH. We're a dual military couple (he's in the states I'm overseas.) I never filed for BAH, I believe he has. He's been dragging the relationship for over half a year now. What can I do to get him to sign this annulment. Or does anyone have any help or advice, I'm draining myself out at this point.

Here are the top 5 things to look for if you want to know if she is wife material. Notice... I won't explain the list because that would be a lot of writing, but if you want to have a discussion I'm open to it. 1) She is shy 2) She genuinely respect you, friends and your family. 3) She fear God 4) Not a feminist 5) She's jealous of you and of course #6 6) She knows how to cook (If she's does not know how to cook, man!!) Agree? Give me your top 5!!

I told him that it was not me texting him from a fake number and that I don't even care enough to do something like that. I asked him what the text were saying and he said they were saying things like "enjoy your date tonight with your new girlfriend" and "why are you always around so many woman" and "I still have feelings for you" I asked him to send me a screenshot of the messages & the alleged fake number he told me that he didn't want to show me the number because he didn't want me to go crazy on the person, then I told him that I don't need a fake number to say anything to him I can just use my real number & then he ask me to come over to his house, which I did not. Then he apologized for suspecting me and then he says "I think maybe my mind is playing tricks on me" He then proceeds to ask me how I'm doing and says "what's new eith you" I ended the conversation there. He then txt me this morning and said " I'm really sorry" I never replied. Do you think my EX husband ever received any fake text or was he just trying to start a conversation with me and get me to go see him.