I'm legally changing my name due to personal reasons, but can't figure out a new name to chose. Hellppp. Thanks.

ok firstly , I didn't mean to offend or upset them. so my brother and his wife are coming to visit and they set up.for an Air and B , a house for the weekend..well, they sent me the address and it's in a REALLY bad area downtown, so I replied back, saying oh my that's an aweful location, be careful ( bf name said so) I was trying to " warn them " There has been high crimes and.shootings close by., but she hasn't replied back , i.sent it last night, so does.that sound like.she is mad at me for saying that? should I have never sent that text? I'm worried

I want a job but I have learning disabilities so i am on social security but i want to work aleast few hours a week but sometimes our social security doesn't take it so how can i find a job for my mom to except? i have volunteering few times as a teacher aid and work in the cafeteriain then i moved to a baby sitting but now kids all grown up so I haven't been working in 5 years so what some other jobs do you think i can do for few hours a week that can help my mom and i pay house bills with Social Securiy? she doesnt want me to work like at Mc.D because it same amount that i get on my Socil Secrtiy i said to her mom i either have to go get a licence or go to school for other things so what should i do with my mom she is very picky or she choose where i go working and she wanted me worked at good will but nothing have been happening!!! How should i get talk more about a job and she want me work in town but no one really hirring i am so bored at home yes i was born with social securit

The person is still alive when you eat their leg and they consent to the whole thing. Not only that but they cut off the bit of leg themselves. I figured out that you can't eat a corpse but what if it's not from a dead body but a live one. This is in the USA btw. Side question can you cut off a bit of your own leg then eat it yourself? It's almost impossible to not partake in some form of self cannibalism in your life because even swallowing a hair is considered self cannibalism so why would it be illegal? I used to bite off scabs as a kid and eat them, is that illegal? How do I try eating human flesh in the USA without breaking any laws?

Psi, please answer this question

My mom in law is so annoying sometimes? She kinda treat my hubby as a child, like do this do that. You are the youngest thats why you should. Bladiebladiebla. She bother me too. Because everytime I come to their house she say to her grandchild oooh look there is *my name* go to her, I do not even want to play with her. And things like oh *her grandchild* is gonna sleep with me and my hubby. That kind of bullshit she says all the time. How to react? Any tips?

I'm 20, I pay rent and live in my house with my parents. My mum won't let me do things like go on nights out away from home or rarely lets me stay round friends houses. I have to have my snapchat location turned on so she can see where I am. My friends live with their parents and are the same age but they can just tell their parents where they're going and they'll be okay with it, but my mum restricts me from everything I do and I feel like I feel like it's ruining my young years. It's got to the point where I'm depressed and don't want to do anything with myself anymore. Please tell me, am I the only one who thinks my mum is ruining my young years?

Why not both?

Me and my older brother fight slot like arguing and now it's come to the point as soon as Im like alone with him it's really akward he hasn't done anything to cause it but how do I change it so it's not akward?

So, my Grandma just walked in on me "jilling off" (and I'm kinda freaky so i had a gag, using a vibe, and i had no pants on.I'm terrified she'll talk to me when she gets home.) ANYWAY my entire family DOES NOT KNOCK. I mean, i get it, when i was younger, but im a teenager now, and Im very 'developed'. I talked to my mom about it once and she gave me the typical "It's my house speech" I just want my privacy to be respected. I mean, I really dont want my dad just waltzing on in while im braless. (that's happened.) Im thinking of talking to my grandma (NOT the one that walked in on me) because she knocks, but she doesn't even live with us. Ugh advice??

I was talking to my neighbour's daughter who came from a custume party she went as some sea princess. She had a staff/sceptre and I ask her if I can take a look at it she said yes and gave it to me. I said hey mom, "Check out this from the girl next door." she replied in a way like "Give back the girl her staff before the mother come and quarrel with you." Which I said "That doesn't make sense are you thinking that her mother is going to pop out of the blues and start quarrelling at me for simply **looking** at her daughter's arts and craft project? I wasn't destroying it." It doesn't make sense there is no vaild reason for the girls mom to quarrel with me. Plus I fed up look at and examine things from the girl next door so why all of a sudden she is saying this? I didn't walk away with it. In fact the girl was with me all the time. Well I never said my mom was with me, but I said the girl was with me and still in view of her staff all the time.

I'm female and they bypass my father and brothers and mother and friends by wanting me to live as they do. I consider than an attack. I hate the way they live! trying to convince me its ok is an abuse.it also means theyd feel breeding with them is ok too its clearly not ok to breed with them what if I ended up poor and married to a first cousin by force? that's worse than death to me I am to be thankful for my life for not being like that

My brother rarely even leaves the house. He doesn't work, (tbf he's waiting to start university next year, but still) he doesn't really have close friends and he's getting fatter and fatter. He basically plays Fortnite all day with only a few breaks. He lives with our mother and stepfather but they don't do enough to stop his problematic behavior. I'm afraid that it will get so bad that he won't even go to university next year.

It honestly takes a lot to get me upset, but this is literally just putting me over the edge. My husband just got mad and blamed me for supposedly losing the keys when he himself had them the entire time. I even asked him if he was sure that he didn't take them when he went outside but he just kept saying he didn't have them. There is a drawer where we usually put the keys and I KNOW I put them in that drawer when I came back from the doctor, but they were not in there so he just accused me of not putting them in there. There is also a lot of other crap that he put in that drawer and he just dumped out the entire drawer and told me to look through it and then accused me of not looking fast enough just because I wasn't finding the keys, when they were not even in there because he had them in his pocket the whole time. But I had asked him if he had them and he said he didn't so that means he didn't even look. Then I was trying to clean the living room and he got mad and yelled at me just because part of the living room floor was blocked by stuff that I was going through, and he kicked over a plastic bin that contained things I was going through. Like he couldn't just step over things or walk on a part of the floor that wasn't blocked until I finished cleaning?? Really?? At least I was TRYING to clean the house. What the hell does he want from me?? Then if I cry or get upset he gets mad at me because I am crying and yells at me to stop crying because it stresses him out. I really don't know what to do anymore. I feel like I can't do anything. I can't clean the house because he will complain about me blocking the floor while I clean, but I can't not clean the house because he will complain  about me not doing anything. I could do everything right, but he will complain about the way I am doing it. I just feel impossible situation, and I have tried telling him this but he just blames it on being stressed and says I should not the way he acts towards me because he is under stress. He has never hit me or physically abused me but he does yell and gets in my face sometimes. We both have a bachelors degree and I was working a retail job until about a year ago when I had to stop due to a medical issue which prevents me from doing the work involved with the job. I was on  SSI while I was working and I am still on it now. My husband used to deliver pizzas because it was so hard to get jobs in this area, now he works at a restaurant so at least he doesn't have to drive around and do damage to the car. We also have a 3 year old daughter. I want our marriage to work because I don't just want to give up, but I have no idea what I can do. If I can't talk to him but he gets upset and yells no matter what I do, then what can I do?

My parents, especially my mom, force their opinion on me. They make me listen to all the pro trump news and when we're in the car, we will be in the middle of a convo and then she goes wait we cant talk rn Hannity's on or Lou Dobbs or Tom Fitton and if I say anything leaning remotely negative about the president she flips. WTF Why is this dumbum **** more important than my mom and I talking and having a relationship? And when we are home I'll ask her if we can do something and she says no because they are on t.v. and all she ever talks about is politics and she supports the wall and has donated a few hundred dollars that my family needs and yesterday we went to the store and there was a pair of pants I wanted and they were $15 and she said no because we don't have enough money. ***** GO GET A JOB THEN

going straight to the point, I've never been good enough for people. I try my best to have high grades and it can happen sometimes to have bad ones, but my teachers during family meetings only associate me with the bad ones and over time I lost my credibility with my mom. I can't even dream of going to university to study languages because I'm considered a burden for my F in maths, even if I try to study hard. I don't like the address that I choose (classical languages=latin/greek) but I still try my best to fit in and go on even if I'm not good enough. For 2 bad grades I have to see my future burn out and my parents yelling at me everytime. I'm 19 and I considered more than once to quit but I can't now it's a year until graduation but it's getting too hard to handle for me

I've been suffering from depression for nearly 2 years now for numerous reasons. My dad died 3 years ago so it has been hard for my family. Quick backstory, i have two sisters, one is 29 and another is 30. One of my sisters became pregnant, I don't know when, i recently found out about it. I live in a country where premarital pregnancies are unacceptable. My other sister comes home drunk very often and creates a scene. My mom tells her to leave the house but she blackmails my mom saying that she'll tell everyone and my nana (who supports us financially and gave us a house) about my other sister's pregnancy and my mom's affair. I just found out that my mom is having affair yesterday. It has all became to much for me. I just want to end it all, I don't know what to do.

Ok so, i have a very hot headed Asian mom. I have already broken 3 glasses in the last 4 months and i just broke my 4th one tonight. What do i do so that my mom doesn t kill me?

They feel this way because I am the middle child.

Our shared father, my Dad, had a kid in his first marriage whom he only met as a newborn. He failed to keep in touch and too much time had passed when he realized he was wrong to not stay in touch. He has since passed away. I would guess the mother may have told her child a step-father was his Dad or that the father had died. I am 55 now and this child around age 62. How do I put this on him of "I am your sister"? I looked him up on Facebook and I see the resemblance. He has a picture titled "my siblings and I at Teresa's wedding with our parents in 1980" so he must have had a step-father he is referring to as his parent. Our father said leaving this child was the biggest regret in his life. He and the wife had married at 19 and divorced at 23.

For example whenever he went on an Alaskan cruise last summer he had all my siblings but me. When he would take everyone to Disney World when we were little he would say he does not have room for me so to stay with my grandma. Most he has done for me is let me have a birthday party once and then he took my siblings to a NY Giants game while my Mom and grandparents watched over the party. I never have been asked to a ball game other then the two my Mom has made him take me to and that was just awkward. My mother argues with him all the time about it and now I just feel unlovable since I am not a kid anymore. Aged 22 and unlovable in Dad's eyes. How do I get over this rejection? Only reason I can come up with was my siblings were straight A students and great at everything, I have learning disabilities and very few friends and something called ADHD where social skills are hard. I am a 22 year old and male.

I'm 25 years old and I still don't have a job. I'm in my last semester of college, getting a bachelor's degree in Geography. It's really hard to find a job in my field. My parents are giving up on me and it's also causing a major strain on their relationship. What do I do?

My mom bought her life insurance for herself about 10 years ago I think. I was a kid then, and she also bought a child life insurance policy for me and my brother. He is 18 now and I am 21. I suspect she has issues because she constantly pays hundreds of dollars every month for her policies and then yells at us that we don't love her for what she is doing for us. I told her how happy I was but I didn't want to hold it because it would make my brothers sad like she favored me or something. My brothers now constantly have this passive aggressiveness towards me. I ask for help and they either refuse or make up an excuse. Like for example, I asked my brother to help with an oil change Bc idk how to do it and he said just take it to the shop and ask for an oil change. I asked my other brother about this and he said to take it in to the shop. I asked him if he could help me and he said yeah but didn't follow up with me after this. He pretended like it didn't happen. What makes me even sadder is the fact that after I asked them both a favor one of them took his car in for an oil change and he didn't tell me after I had already asked him. And I asked him for help plenty of times. Its not like he forgot, he did it on purpose. And my second brother told my other brother to bring his car in to his shop (toyota) to get him a fix with his car right in front of my face and then completely pretended like he didn't say he would help me. I was so sad. Sorry for rant. Nobody to talk to

Sometimes my family says I can be a nice person, which I am. Even when I'm at a store a person or two might look at me but I'm just sort of shy lol. Once or twice a male cashier said I had a nice face....and I'm a guy ha. I am balding which sucks but maybe I'll look better bald? Anyway here is me. http://rs349.pbsrc.com/albums/q377/moviedude24/20181205_011132_zpsufprjleg.jpg?w=480&h=480&fit=clip

My dad sold my honda while I was visiting my mom in Hawaii without my permission. I bought it for 3500, it was in my name and I left it at my grandmothers. He sold it for $700 to someone and sent me $200... i really hate this bastard but I dont know what to do because he says he doesnt owe me anything.

They did not love me enough to call me when aunt Gladys died last October so I found out via Facebook and went to the funeral but no one was particularly excited to see me, just cordial. Christmas and Thanksgiving I was all alone, rejected again by them because of who my Mom was. Had to watch the Super Bowl alone and now yesterday on Michael Cohen Day I took off work and all hoping I'd get an invite to their Michael Cohen Watch Party and I did not get one. My cousin has the pictures on his Facebook this morning and I feel so sad. I would say "wish I had known" but then I will look like I am imposing so I am afraid to. I feel so abandoned. How do I get over this hurt?

Our parents allowed her to get out of punishments if she screamed and cried enough and if she demanded enough something then our Mom gave it to her. Now she is a narcissist as an adult at age 31. I don't even like her. Is this caused by our parents caving to her (our mother especially)? Is this what creates narcissists?

He only loves my brother who is disabled and my sister who demands it by screaming and throwing fits. He has no love left for me, the youngest in a family of 3. If my disabled brother has a bad day he loves and caters to him. If I have a bad day he says to quit burdening him with it.

I leaned on my cousin for emotional support in the past. I had depression and he was there to help. I have gotten support from him for a couple of months. We don't actually see, we just talk on the phone as he is overseas. then he started getting money from me. Not huge amounts of money, but to help out if some things had to be paid for. But it was always pertaining to my case. and then my mother made a comment one day about him asking for help financially But they couldn't help him. I started realizing that it seemed he required money to do things. So I slowly stopped sending money. After that it's Like if I needed his support he would always have excuses. there was a time when he was sick for a while, then when he felt better it was his wife who got sick, then his child who got sick. Or he got very busy and couldn't talk. It got to a point he would say we will talk today and won't answer until the next day after with some excuse. Or he will not even talk to me for a while altogether. yesterday my depression was really bad I reached out and he then told me that his wife also has depression and he felt bad for the both of us. I said ok. I try to understand and give him as much space as I can. But then I reached out again when I felt better, he also said she started feeling better. he said he would call but then he didn't. he helped me so much I don't want to be ungrateful with him But I feel like if he doesn't want to help he should tell me. What should I do?

We used to do laundry for my cousins to help out their dad when they started living with him. One time he refused to help take them up from my car and I had to with no help and claimed that he didn't need us to do him any favors (he was quite rude). So we stopped and asked him to start doing it for them (he is their dad anyway) but sometimes he sneaks it past using the kids so we can't say no to them. Should I feel guilty for saying no with the kids involved? I feel like it is HIS job and not ours especially since he is being rude and claiming he doesn't need our help anyway. Ps. He also borrows money or delays financial obligations so we have to pay so we never see that money of course but he knows if the kids are involved (honestly the only good thing that came out of him) we cannot say no so he takes advantage.

My daughter is 16 right now, he dad left when she was just a baby. So it's just me and her. When she was younger she was so sweet and innocent and smart but a while ago things started to change. She started becoming distant and hostile towards me for no reason. When she was 14 I caught he with marajuana in her room and grounded her and took it. Yet she kept bring more into the house, then she started drinking and I suspected her of doing other drugs too but could never tell what they were. She avoids me as much as possible, I pretty much have to force her to talk to me. Anyways I got worried about her so I put secret cameras in the house, it was really so I could tell if she was doing drugs while I was at work. I don't even know how to say this but I checked the cameras and saw her doing things sexual things with a man who looked to be in his 40s and they also had drugs I have no clue what kind but idk. I don't know what was going on but it was sick, I can't stop crying and I don't know how to confront her. I feel like she's thrown her life away. This strange man came into my house while I was at work and drugged and raped my daughter. I just don't know where I should start. Should I call the police? should I talk to her? Should I get a family counselor? What do i do? I never thought I'd be in this situation

I have a psycho mom who meddles my bin. Im a simple person so theres no pregnancy tests she could find them. No condoms. ****. Why do i have a mom thats nuts in the head? Shell drive me insane too.

My siblings do not like who my mom is renting to because of a long bad personal history with the person nearly ruining our family. This person only pays rent and never sees us. We are all adults. My siblings are essentially disowning her. This is stressing her so much she is seriously considering suicide. She has not told me this but, it is obvious with how she behaving. (Harming herself(possible attempted suicide) crying all hours of the night and other very down behaviors. Just no idea how to help. My mom cannot afford to evict her and I dont have the money to make up the difference

today was my grandmother's birthday (she lives w my family, and my dad woke up early to make her blueberry pancakes, and he made her a homemade lunch, and for dinner he bought her red lobster. i know, very thoughtful very sweet. but what pisses me off is that for my mom's birthday, his wife of almost 20 years who's never left him despite the fact that she hates his drinking, or that he emotionally manipulates her, my older sister had to force him to go with us to chickfila for her birthday. he didn't even tell her happy birthday, and at dinner he just sat there the whole time silent. it makes me so mad that he treats his mom like a freaking angel, yet he ignores my mom, who does literally everything for him. so yeah, not really a question, just a rant because i am very upset.

My fiancée has DID, he has a 7 year old little and while he was at work on an excavator he disassociated and the 7 year old little started to destroy everything in its path causing unrepairable damage to the excavator and the tenants yard making damage cost worth around 100,000.....he's so upset he won't even say he loves me anymore. he just hangs up after saying bye or just leaves the house. I don't know how to help him or cheer him up.... help?

while I go to college full time and pay my own bills? My parents say I am being a spoiled brat but I have to work an extra 5 hours/week for my sibling's bills on top of my own expenses and I don't like spending 2-4 hours/day cleaning up after and doing chores for my sibling. My sibling has a history of health issues but is doing really well right now so even though I know she has bad times i feel she can contribute more when she is well

My family and I are in the car. My sister started coughing with her mouth open, I told her to cover her mouth when she coughs bc it's disgusting and spreading germs. She proceeds to fake cough with her mouth open again. I told her kinda like forcefully to cover her mouth bc we're in the damn car. Then my mother gets mad at me and says "where did you even come from, look at you acting all high class." I literally just said to cover her mouth bc it's literally common sense... I share a room with my sister and she started coughing with her mouth open. It makes me feel like disgusted.

Not material items/money I don't care about those things, they are nice but I grew up having to make do. I want to be more grateful for my (often dysfunctional) family. Often I feel like they are using me as a house assistant and for money but they aren't evil. They always want me to put cleaning up after them and paying for their expenses before my education and it is so frustrating.

Church obsessed woman leaves her 19 yr old son homeless when he's depressed

He treats my mom like crap. He has treated my real dad and stepmom like crap too. He repeatedly yells in my face and calls me names and he will repeat the same thing over and over again and he oversteps his boundaries. He has beaten the dog and he never is accountable for anything he does wrong. It's always someone else's fault. My mom can't leave him because he's sick and she doesn't have the money to get her own place.