It has always been just me and my 16 year old daughter, ever since her mother (my wife) died when she was only 2 years old. We have an extremely close relationship, and she is the light of my life. However, I have fallen in love for the first time since my wife, and we are currently engaged. She also has a 16 year old daughter, and they recently moved in. My daughter HATES my fiancee and her daughter. She thinks that my fiancee is with me for the wrong reasons, and fights with her and her daughter all the time. She tells me that she doesn't want to have to share me with anyone else, especially them. My fiancee's daughter and I have become close, and she has even started calling me "dad". Naturally, my daughter hates this. My question is, what do I do?? I love my daughter, but I can't let my fiancee go. I've tried to talk to my daughter and tell her she will always be number 1, but she won't listen. Do you have any advice?? Thank you!

My mother lives in a 2 bedroom 2 bathroom apartment , it's her my father and my sister , my aunt and cousin ended up homeless and she took them in for the rest of the year due to a divorce and being homeless what I've lookd up in laws is 2 people per room plus one that's with the living room counting , My question here is in the contract it's only my parents and my little sister , could they be kicked out and all end up homeless if the office finds out ? I know it's 2 per room law but they had told my mom 5 people can't live in a 2 bed 2 bath ect ect , but family come first of course would like some advice here

My parents try to make me feel like I'm the worst scum of the earth always thinking I won't amount to be ****. I am 18 I began smoking weed at 16 in high school but it was a very light use (once or twice a week) but later I began to use it often. This is the main problem I have with my parents. They claim I am an addict , need rehab and therapy asap because I will end up smoking crack so this week they're kicking me out after my paycheck. I began drinking at 17 just to try it and like other teens my age I like to have a good time. But my parents call me an alcoholic bc I would take some drinks from there bottles and have caught me. I admit I shouldn't have done that but let's talk about my upbringing. I was always beat for the smallest of things :crying ,whining, talking back but I mean BEAT. I rmemebr one time I was hit with a cable so bad on my leg it was dripping blood and was a dark purple I've never seen before . My mom later aplogized .Sometimes I feel like I deserved it but the. Again maybe it was excessive. She left me with my a abusive uncle who all day made me learn difficult math problems and if I got anything wrong he would yank my ear so bad it cracked. Even for writing with my left hand he would beat me with a belt. I was terrified of him but my parents were ok with that. For that I was so Insecure my whole life up and didn't realize it until now. I try to tell them but say I'm stupid. Had no luxeries as a kid not even play outside more than 20 min. Thoughts?

I just turned 18 a couple weeks ago, and now that i'm 18, I want to move out. I want to move out because my parents STILL won't let me make my own decisions even though i'm a legal adult now. They still tell me when I can and can't have sweets, they still tell me when I have had enough sweets, they still won't let me drink soda, they still won't let me go anywhere by myself, they still punish me, they still make me do things I don't want to do, like go to church, and they still won't let me date or have a boyfriend. I also still have a curfew and I still have to follow my parents rules. I have a full-time job where I get paid a lot, but I still don't have enough money to be able to afford my own apartment. I can't even afford my own car. Not only do I not have a car, but I still don't drive. I WANT to drive and i've already studied the manual and everything, but my parents won't let me go and take the test. They want me to wait until my 23 year old brother starts driving. Now, my brother is too lazy to even want to learn how to drive anytime soon, and he still makes my parents drive him everywhere! I don't want to end up like that! I was planning to start driving at 16 and started studying the manual when I was 15, and I was hoping to have my LICENSE by now, but because of my brother, I still don't even have my permit! My parents have a rule where the younger sibling isn't allowed to do something before the older sibling does it. Please help me! I am tired of living my my parents strict rules and want to move out NOW! I don't want to wait! I want my freedom NOW! I'm not allowed to date or have a boyfriend, so I have no boyfriend I can move in with. None of my friends will take me in either, even if I offer to pay rent and buy my own food and everything while i'm living with them. PLEASE don't say move in with relatives! I'll still have rules to follow if I move in with relatives. On the other hand, I wouldn't have to follow rules if I lived at a friend's house because it's not like my friend's parents will tell me what to do. I'm not their child, so they would let me do whatever I want. Please help me move out! I need to move out real bad! I have a job, but it'll take me YEARS to earn enough money to buy a car and move into my own place! :(

I have older siblings and their dad is more like a father figure to me than my own father..

hi so basically long story short i spent 60 dollars on my parents credit card however, my mom and i both agree he deserved it because he owes 10k in child support and i shouldnt feel guilty because hes messed our life up.. however i still feel guilty because im not that kind of person. should i? oops excuse the typos

My mother got married. She had a child with that man. She later divorced him but kept that child. Then she remarried again and had another child (which is me). Therefore me and the first child she had are half-sisters. My half sister at 15 goes and sleeps with my dad's cousin. (Keep in mind they are not related by blood) My sister gives birth to a baby girl. What is that baby girl in relation to me?

My daughter is turning sixteen in a few months and she has had her eyes on a Mercedes Benz G Class for almost a year and a half. We have the money to buy her one, but is that extreme for her? She'll have it hopefully through college, but I'm worried about the way people will treat her. {No rude answers}

My relatives from overseas are coming to our country to visit soon. How to curb my excitement and calm down?

He lied cause he fears her wrath. My Dad is a chronic liar. My Dad is such a chronic liar that his complaint about me is that I don't lie much and was not good at it the few times I tried for my parents or when a little kid to get out of trouble.

I couldn't go as a kid cause of my Mom and so when I miss something now it opens the floodgates of shame of not being good enough.

Apparently he has a warrant or misdemeanor or something of the sorts for not taking my little brothers to school so he wants me to get one and to leave it at his place. A couple months back a couple guys tried to break into his house and he doesn't have any protection so he said I'm his only option. What do I do? And I don't live with him I live in a completely different city.

My brother is dating this girl. I've only met her a few times in the year they have been dating. He talks highly of her, and I'm glad he's happy. But I just find it so hard to be around her. She, on one hand, is very blunt. She is not afraid to say what is on her mind. The first day meeting me, I asked her opinion on what shoes to wear going out to eat. She said straight out she hated them both. She didn't say much, she didn't really complain or whine, but every time someone asks her a question or an opinion it's negative. Even when she's around my brother she doesn't really smile. She is offputting and just sucks the energy out of the room. My brother says I just need to give her a fair chance because she is a nice person, funny, compassionate and so much fun to be around. I guess I just don't see it. My bachelorette party is coming up and I'm going to invite her to come along, I don't want too, but I just really want to give her a chance. Good point. I just hate to single her out too. I'm inviting my older brothers girlfriend who I really don't know that much better, and I just don't want to make it obvious I don't like her. So maybe I'll ask my brother beforehand, what she enjoys doing and invite her out and maybe get a feel for her there.

I work in an office of 26 people. I am the only woman in the office. The guys I work with are all great guys. I really enjoy being with them and I think they like to be with me. They had a "take your daughter to work day" and I brought my 15 year old daughter. She liked the day in the office with me but what she liked most was talking to my co workers about sports. She is a big sports fan and so are most of them. What was surprising to me is they liked talking to her about sports. There must be some bond between sports fans. Some of the guys had extra tickets to sporting events and they invited us to go with them. These were tickets we could not afford as the were in the expensive boxes at the arena. We all had a great time and my daughter just loved talking to these guys about sports. After we got home from one of these games, my daughter asked me why I hadn't asked some of these guys for a date. She said they were great looking guys. I told her it is usually the guys that ask the girls for a date. She said girls waiting for a guy to ask them for a date was SO IN THE PAST. Girls ask guys for a date all the time now. Anyone know if that is true?

But after my suicide attempt he wants to talk to me but I blocked him

my ex boyfriend and I broke up 4 yrs ago, we were dating for 5 mths. Reason why we broke up is cause I found out that he raped a girl before at his old highschool, him and his father was planning to sell me to human trafficking and that he was sending my nudes around. His father works the same place where my husband works and he's the boss. He found out that I was my husband's wife he told him that he stole me from his son and he foiled his plan on selling me to human trafficking. He told my husband that if he tells anyone he will send my nudes to everyone at his job and he said that he's not entitled to benefits from his job even though he has the right and is entitled to it. He made my husband work the hardest at work causing him health issues, he's been threatening him saying he will kill him. One of his coworkers heard their conversation and recorded but she's scared to report him because she can't report anonymously and the most they would do is suspend him for a day. I told my husband to call the police but he said they would ignore the situation due to the fact that I shouldn't have gotten myself involved with my ex in the first place which is true. I want my husband to quit but in the area we live in its extremely hard to find jobs and we have numerous bills to pay. Moving is not an option yet because money is a problem. I know. I don't want to sit back and watch my husband get abused like this. It's not fair to him and I feel so helpless snd useless. What do I do?

If they asked where did (Relative) go and you said Heaven? Only God himself determines where we go after we die. Heaven is where we wanna go, but only he knows where we end up after we pass. P.S nobody died was just a thought thst ran through my head

I have two sons, Jacob and Michael. Jacob is 20 years old and Michael is 14. Jacob's a bit of a prankster and wouldn't stop playing jokes on Michael the other day which caused Michael to lose his temper and he became very physical towards Jacob. Michael is 6'1, 150 pounds and Jacob is only 5'9, 110, a very small guy. Jacob made it clear that he was only messing around and wasn't trying to fight Michael, but Michael tried wrestling him to the floor anyways. Despite being very small, Jacob was somehow easily able to roll on top and hold Michael down while Michael kept struggling. Jacob kept telling him to calm down and that he wasn't trying to fight. When I eventually separated them, Michael had bruises from the encounter. Jacob apologized to Michael later on. A few days after, Michael hid Jacob's computer and cellphone as a joke, so Jacob decided to take Michael's phone and didn't hand it back until Michael agreed to show him where his belongings were. This caused Michael to try wrestling the phone out of his hand and he pinned Jacob for a few seconds, but Jacob managed to roll on top again and hold Michael down, asking if he was really going to try fighting him again. While he was holding Michael down, Michael had Jacob's head locked with his arm and told him to release his cellphone. Jacob didn't comply and managed to escape the headlock seconds before I broke up the fight again. I'm sick of these two fighting, should I kick my 20 year old out of the house?

Like I want some signs Peoples tell me if you have chills or butterfly in your stomach when you see other twins it means you are one too

She kinda treat my hubby as a child, like do this do that. You are the youngest thats why you should. Bladiebladiebla. She bother me too. Because everytime I come to their house she say to her grandchild oooh look there is *my name* go to her, I do not even want to play with her. And things like oh *her grandchild* is gonna sleep with me and my hubby. That kind of bullshit she says all the time. How to react? Any tips?

Everything started when I was looking at pictures of my aunt on Facebook. When I was looking at her "my mom's sister" and her husband " my uncle" I was like wow I look so much like her and him I have her eyes and the same mouth and I have his nose and the same curly hair. So I went to see my parents and we started talking about the cat how she was getting old and in out of no where I just politely ask if I was adopted because my sister and brother looks like my parents but I don't look anything like them. My mom's response for this was to yell and swear at me and she kick me out of the house and said if you love them so much why don't you just go live with them also I don't have pictures of me before the age of 4 my brother and sister have some since they were born.ndoes it means I was adopted

My older brother says that middle children are the worst children because the oldest child is the sexiest and the most mature, and the youngest child is the most clever and funniest. My younger sister says the same thing. Are middle children known for being the best at anything? A first google search says that they're known for being troublemakers but that's not me. I think maybe middle children are the most creative? Help!

I'm worried about starting a family at such a young age. I make over 150,000 a year. I have a 5 bedroom 3 bath house and own 2 cars. I have been married for 8 years.

ok so im a junior in high school and i just told my parents that i would wanna go to college in california, specifically in san diego, and we live in the new england area. financially my parents were okay with it but they really didn t like the idea of me going there because its so far away and my dad told me that he will be so far away from me. we have no family there and it would be hard especially because i wouldn t be able to go back home often or if something urgent happens to me they wouldnt be able to be there in time. i don t know what to think and I m trying to think about it from their point of view but i just keep thinking that I m not the only kid who has done that in their lives??? my parents are immigrants if that helps and so they have a little more life experience and they're not ur typical north american parents so they think that my arguments for going there to school are negligible since I've never visited california in my life and for thinking that i need to choose a college based on where its located.

My mom needs me to play soccer because she doesn't socialize much and doesn't like being stuck with my dad. But I hate soccer I play goally I a thought we agreed to quit at the end of last season but then my mom just randomly signed me up. I find this very unfair she's lecturing me on commitment when I didn't want to commit to another season it was her who forced me to sign up every time I confront her she tells me she hates arguing and she'll talk when I calm down. Please someone help me out here!

I'm told I'm being selfish and often I think I am. But I just want to do normal stuff like my peers. It is so rare to have $ to spend on myself cause it all goes to help my family. I am in my mid 20s now and havent really had friends since my early teens because all my time is spent helping my family. If I dare say I want to do something for myself or that I dont want to do something for my family I am told I am being selfish, but I am not a third parent. I feel that my family is being selfish for not recognizing that I don't want my entire existence to revolve around them. As much as I want to help them, I want to have my own life so badly

I told (or rather yell-cried) my mom that i feel like I am never going to be good enough for her. I am a sophomore in high school. I don't want the next two years to be a living hell. My mom said she's going to stop trying to do anything for me. I cant drive (i am only 15) so I can't work so now I am left utterly helpless. Does anyone have ANY advice please.

my mom is married to one and is ruining my life, why can't they ALL go back to Mexico where they belong, America is for whites

My 6 year old daughter drank my husbands drink and it had LSD in it. Idk what to do, this was just a few minutes ago. My husband says we should just wait it out but I don't want to this to hurt my daughters mental health what should I tell her? I can't just let her think she's dying? If I take her to the hospital will this make it worse? She's going to start feeling it in a second and she will ask questions and get anxious idk what to say. Will law enforcement get involved? Help please !!

My stepfather's brother just entered into hospice because he's dying from cancer. I've known my stepfather and his family for about 30 years since I was a little kid. And while I am not as close with them as I am with my blood relatives, I've pretty much known them for most of my life. Having said all that, I'm not sure if I should accompany my stepfather when he visits his brother as I was told that its best for hospice visits to be from close family. Since I am not blood related, I don't really think I fall under the "close family" category. So do you think it would be ok if I accompany my stepfather when he visits his brother in hospice? I would like to, but I'm not sure if it's right to do so since I am not blood related.

she lives at home, works but doesn't make a lot of money at her job. i also give my eife $40 because wife barely makes money.

Long story short: dad has full custody, I turn 18 in May, mom decides NOW that she wants visitation even though I've been living with my dad for more more than a year. I really don't want anything to do with her, but the real question... why would she wait until now considering in 2 months I can finally tell her to go **** herself and leave me alone?

I live with my mom because I don't make enough money to get my own place. My mom controls my life. She tells me all the time that I'm going to do this or that or we're going to do this or that. I tell her I don't want to and that I'm grown, but she doesn't care. I also can't drive because for health reasons and she drags me everywhere she goes and all she says is, "Sorry, it's happening or it's already been planned out," or she just says it's more convenient for her. She never listens to me. She also lies to others about me receiving SSI money, and I'm supposed to, but she keeps the money and I don't get a cent. I've tried to get the checks in my name, but I have to have her sign off on it and she won't. She says I don't need the money, but I do, because she works a full time job and makes good money and I only work part time. She won't leave me at home by myself either and we live in a gated community with mostly patents and elderly people. I'm fed up, deeply depressed, have insomnia, am single and have no friends. She calls me so smart, but treats me like a restarted kid and my syndrome only makes me mildly disabled, everyone else I know with it lives on their own. What do I do? We just moved out of state, so I don't know if the SSI is in new state or old.

I am a 16 year old girl with a beautiful 36 year old single mom. We are very close and I feel I can share most things with her. Many of the guys I know and even some of the girls tell me that I have a hot and sexy mom. I am not sure how I should feel about that. Should I tell her what they said? Is that a complement that she would appreciate? A couple of older guys I know ask me to set them up with a date with mom. Do I dare share that with her? If you were my mom, would you want me to share this info with you? Thanks for your advice.

I think this is full crap. His mother does things with his brothers wife. She never ask me if I would come too. His brothers wife is a Lazy whale she never helped our mom in law in household or anything. (She used to live with them) she even dont work. And there is me, Always caring and helping, But she is the fave one i think. (My family doesnt like my hubby, They think I can get someone better) They never said it like that But I see their action... not Looking for us.. not supporting me. But I think They just Need to support me. They dont even do. Nothing wrong with my hubby tho. Help me out?! How to handle this?