My mom has told me to never cheat yet I think she is doing it. I've seen messages such as "I can't wait to cuddle and feel your warm skin against me." That's what the man said and she and him are sending heart eyes things like that It bothers me really badly and she just says he's a old friend and lately my mom has talked about how she might divorce my stepdad or try to figure things out. It makes me sick to my stomach because what she said I don't know her anymore.. She even lied about dropping a friend off and went to his house. What do I do I know the best is to stay out of it but should I talk to my brother he's 21 and I go to him when I feel like I can't go to anyone else.

My sister and I are both in college, she attends one out of state and I attend one in town and live at home. They re both small liberal arts institutions on trimester schedules. I found out that our parents are seriously considering divorce, and have been carrying that secret for almost a month now. I want to tell her, because I need someone to talk to about it who knows or posters like I do, but I also am scared that it will derail her like it has derailed me. She s already having a rough term, and I don t want to make it worse. I suspect my parents don t want her to know for the same reason that I don t want to say anything, but it s killing me having to carry this alone. I do see a therapist, and she says I should tell my sister for my own sake, but that feels selfish. What should I do?

My parents are taking a "break" is what they called it. My mom is moving into an apartment she said for a while, but they said that they will be fine. My dad said they haven't been getting a long, but everything will be fine and they aren't divorcing. But are they just saying that to not make me worry? Are they actually going to divorce later on?

Last night during sex my wife got upset with me just because I kind of tortured her a little she had to get scared and upset about it. I was spanking her I told her to count as I was doing it I did it about 6 times. She's pregnant with our 3rd baby so I tried to be gentle we don't do any of that rough stuff while she's pregnant I don't want to hurt the baby I didn't even hit her that hard. I don't know why she got upset over it. Out of the 7 years we been married and 10 we been together i never seen her cry. What the hell is her problem ? Please tell me this is normal ?

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I have a 5 year old girl, a three month old baby and just went through divorce. I'm a guy, the mother of my 5 year old is not the mother of my three month old girl. My ex wife, when we were still together she turned crazy and stuff. So we got divorce cause this is what she wanted. She lost it so bad this time that she tried to commit suicide, so she's away not and hospitalized in a mental institution. I feel drained, I feel burned out, cause I have a three month old who needs me and her mother. But her mom is not around nor am I that much. My ex girlfriend (mother of 5 year old) is helping me out taking care of my other baby girl. But I swear I feel on the edge. I don't know if I just just go to my therapist but I really don't want him to see me this bad, I feel like he is going to tell me I need my meds back, am afraid I won't be able to take care of my daughter and the taught of it makes me insane. What if I'm not able to take care of her appropriately. I can't even sleep and I get panic attacks Everytime I think about my ex wife.

My husband and I have been married for 8 years. We have 1 son together a 7 year old. My husband gets upset if I'm not up at the crack of dawn cleaning the house and making his breakfast and tells me it's my wifely duties. He says the Bible says a woman is supposed to submit to her husband which it does. Also before my husband leaves the house to go to the store or run a errand he always gives me a list of duties to complete while he's gone like clean house, give son a bath, read bible etc and tells me to have them done ASAP before he gets back home. Also at our church they teach things that I have issues with agreeing to and expressed my concerns to him about continuing going there and he told me I have to go or get put out of the house because he is the leader and ultimate decision maker.

Our nonverbal 4 year old child has special needs and food restrictions. He acknowledged he can't feed our son because he doesn't know how to feed him. I've given him recipes and example but he refuses to talk to me in person or over the phone because he "hates me." So I'm left scrabbling to remember everything at pickup. We used to have a tumultuous breakup but now I have forgiven him for abononing me while pregnant and not seeing his son for two years and moving on so quickly. He has a new child and wife and moved an hour away. He hardly sees our son and I don't want my son getting ill like he usually does when he comes back from his visitation. Why does he hate me. It's been years. I didn't hurt him...he hurt me. Does any person have a better understanding? I want to be a good mom and person and apologized to him. Will he heal his emotional state?

How can husband overcome that awkwardness everytime he sees them(Wife's FWD's and gangbang partners) happy with their wives as they wont have to feel awkward in front of this husband but this husband has to face it after finding out the truth from his wife after marriage only

I don't want anything else to do with him. He married my half brother's granddaughter. This makes her his second cousin removed, because my brother is his half uncle.They may not be close in kin but I don't feel it is right and it's breaking my heart. Any suggestions? Am I wrong for feeling this way?

Did you argue before OR after you got married to the person you are with ? Did you work it out or leave ? How did the two of you work it out and was it worth it ?

I think i might be inlove with a coworker. She is all i think about no matter where i am or what im doing. The problem is we are both married. I would never cheat on my wife but i feel like we should seperate just because i can not get this other girl out of my mind. This has been going on for awhile now.

I am 26 years old. I have been married for 2 years. My wife is always working. I have been having sex with her best friend for 4 months now. I am unhappy in this marriage. Her best friend told me to leave my wife for her. I have feelings for her best friend and the sex is mind blowing. What should I do about this?

Recently my wife was verbally abusive again. She started to involve our 10 month old son. She woke him up after midnight by yelling at me. His cot is in pur bedroom. I then went to see a social worker because she was talking about leaving. I found out I can get support for his day care if I apply for his custody. On Monday I'm getting legal advice regarding family law matters. It is arming myself with information. The problem remains that she is still trying to live like she is single. She bought a few investment properties with her earnings during the marriage. Living for free under my roof has enabled this. She used to talk about how they are going. Now she is refusing to discuss them with me. She says they are not my business since I didn't contribute to then. She has also shut me out of her social media again. Intimacy is a lot worse. She deliberately has less feeling for me. I have three questions: 1. Worth it to snoop her phone and see what she is posting on her social media? 2. Am I correct in telling myself that I'm worth less to her than her friends and family because she blocked me out of her social media? I always could tell what she was thinking by seeing her posts... is she doing this on purpose to me to punish me? The lack of transparency is destroying what little is left of our marriage. She froze me out of her sales account as well. But I got screenshots of all bank accounts and property info before she hid everything. 3. Will my son grow up to hate me if he is forced between 2 homes or never gets to know his mum?

I am 26 years old and have been married for 2 years. My wife is always working. I never see her as much I have been having sex with her best friend for 4 months now. What should I do about this?

I'm a 33 year old with 3 kids. I'm not happy in my marriage. I have been sleeping with her best friend for 19 months. I told my wife about this and she says that she wants to work this out. I want to marry her now former Best friend. I'm tired of being married to her. I even told her that I won't fight her for the custody of the kids. How do I convince her?

My married neighbors moved away 2500 miles to San Francisco 10 days ago. I am in love with his gorgeous wife. I plan on coming to San Francisco and writing a letter expressing my feelings for his wife and sending it to his work address and I also plan on writing a letter to her and telling her how I feel and sending it to their residential address. Then when I come back home safely, what would be the ramifications of this? I would have made it back home 2500 miles away back safely?

I love a person who is well settled and waiting for my parents approval. we are in love since 8 yrs, my parents know everything about him and his nature. My mom is suffering from metastatic cancer. My bro knows him and he is his business partner.He knows everything about him. I said everything about him to my dad. My dad dont like intercaste marriage. So my mom is ill, my family is forcing me to marry someone else. I am not able to decide my future without him. I cant live without him. my mom is directly asking cant u change your opinion for myself,this is my wish. what shall i do to in this situation.

I personally do not think, it's a hard work though I haven't been in a long lasting relationship. However, I have my sister who is two years younger than me and I have been living with her more than 23 year under one roof in family. I do not see any problem in living with her instead she is my greatest friend lol.... I do not understand why do people say marriage is hard work? You will get tired of seeing the same face 24 hour of a day. Well, I never got tired of being with my sister 24 hr a day/

Seeing my daughter run up to my husband when he comes home. Seeing him carry her and play with her. It lets me know I picked the right man despite what others thought

if you marry a person whose IQ less than you, you will have a tough life. that is the source of money problem and adultery. because you think differently my point find someone on the same level of IQ. Less IQ, even you are a moron, you will struggle to talk to your lover. More IQ and you will feel stupid..... and not for your confidence. BTW personal experience...

Rape me or want me to bj him or he wants me to make my first move first then he do the above on me, if I don't do anything, he won't touch me but deep inside he wants to do it, he knew I like c h o k e sex and he wants to try on me but the question is - he is married! He masturbates and let me know also ! He did not get sex from the wife? Then why he do all these?

Been married 12 years we used to have sex all the time. But now. We do it seriously once a month. Im 29 and he is 30. He says he is tired or not in the mood. But i look on his phone and find porn. I have asked him about it and she said he watches it cuz its something he will never get. Fine. But now its becoming all the time he even deletes his stuff on his phone. And i can see that. Im a girl who would do anything for her man. I have even offered just a bj. And he still turns me away. Like really. Im so hurt and confused. I love him so much snd want to be in that zone with him but he doesnt. He says its all i want but its not. Im just i guess in my prime. I just dont get it. He is so called tired but has no issues watching porn and handling his self. But sex with me is a big deal. What do i do or think. Anyone else have this issue. Thanks

My wife is upset because our childhood babysitter's husband passed away she died two years ago. They were an old couple they were like a grandma and grandpa to us because they took care of both of us since the day we were born. I'm 5 years older than him she was with them a lot longer than I was. They have a grandson that just got adopted he only been living there for 3 years we go over and take care of him now. It was devistating for us two years ago when she died now we're going through the same again with him. Also she just had a cousin who passed away too so we'll have two funerals to attended this weekend. I think she's more upset about this than I am since she spent a lot more time with them than me it's like she almost lived with them. We go over there everyday after school and play we even spend the night there she stayed there a lot because her parents were always busy so were mine but I had an older brother to take care of me most of the time. It was very different going over there without her being there now with him gone it's gonna be even more different maybe a little bit scary for her. How can I comfort her ?

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