I posted yesterday, about an attraction to a married guy in the workplace. I just found out yesterday that his wife is the supervisor there. Today, he never came around. She held a meeting that everyone was supposed to attend and he stayed back. Then he didn't come to lunch. Mind you, everyone goes to lunch at the same time. After everyone came back, he went on his break. Is it just awkward, does she know something?

I had a discussion with my husband a couple of days ago. He said that he does not like to take advantage of people. And he never did either. I tried to refresh his memory letting him know that living with me for two years when we were not married was considered taking advantage of a person. Especially if you are not contributing. He replied telling me that he was contributing because he was helping to care for our child. I was baffled when he said that. I told him that our child was our responsibility. But it still did not constitute a contribution from him when it comes to living together. He stood by what he said as if he believed it too. Almost made me feel as if he considered that our child was not his.

do wives actually want sex from their husbands?

I have a friend named peter who is not treating me well at all and he is accusing me of blowing up his phone when I didn't. He was mad at me about two weeks ago because I wasn't available one evening because I had to go to a chinese new year festival. The next day when I texted him and called him, he used those against me. I only sent him about 4 text messages telling him about something and called him twice to see if he is ok since he didn't respond. He went and told a mutual friend of ours named aaron who I am no longer friends with and aaron has something against me. Aaron hates my guts like crazy. He told peter to stop talking to me for a while. I don't get why I am being treated and punished like this when I didn't do anything wrong. I just don't understand how can anything I did is considered bad. Because of what they are doing, it is making me get attached to this girl who I'm friends with. Her name is nina and we hung out last weekend at one of her shows. I was hanging out with her backstage and I became emotionally attached to her because of how well she treated me. I wanted to spend every minute that I can with her as I see her as an big sister. I am just really sad at peter doing this to me because I never did anything wrong. What would be the best thing to do if peter is treating me this way ? Should I end the friendship ? Am I becoming emotionally attached to nina because of what peter is doing to me ?

I m 19 years old, and all my life I ve been taught that sex before marriage is wrong. Well I noticed that the past couple of weeks I ve been thinking about it more and more, and I am concerned that I will give in to my temptation. Every time I think about it, I feel guilty about it. What are some things I can do to avoid thinking about it and avoid giving into the temptation?

WTF. My uncle is married to a woman and they have one kid together or did he thought the kid was his. Recently the kid was sick and needed blood, so my uncle the 'fathe' volunteer to help. This led to them finding out the kid was actually not his. He gave the blood anyway. But now he has confronted the wife about this and she has come clean. Now this has divided the family. Some are advising him to divorce, some are saying he should forgive her and move on. I myself, I'm saying he should divorce the *****. What do you guys think? **** messed up man.

If you could, please answer with what you think, and also what you think the rest of society thinks. Thank you.

I work full time as does my husband. My husband works a commission job. The more jobs he does the more money he makes. He normally works Monday through Saturday from seven in the morning till around eight at night. Before you go and say he's cheating I know with certainty he is working those hours. It's impacting me and our two kids. We have a 1 and 3 year old. He leaves before they are up for daycare and comes home after they are put to bed. I do EVERYTHING for these kids. I never get a hand because he's never here to help. Even when the kids are sick I have to use my sick time he refuses to use his. He hasn't used a single sick day since starting this job. I feel like a single mother. It's 8:30 I cooked dinner he's still not home. I've told him he needs to find a new job but he refuses insisting he loves his job and sees no reason to quit. It's becoming too much for me. We Alain have no family close by to help. My mother has suggested I leave him and move four hours away to stay with them so they can give me a hand. I love my husband but he's putting his job before his family. Any advice?

My wife, now ex wife since she asked for divorce. Last night she got all aggressive and like crazy. She started screaming and crying, and hitting everything. She broke our television, and a lot of our stuff and she threw stuffs at me. My arm is all cut and I'm bruised. She gave me the divorce papers and I gave her the papers sighned and she turned all violent. Our baby is not even a year old and was present at the moment crying because she was scared. I think my wife, ex-wife, whatever. Lost it, some of you said she might have post partum depression. Then I thought she was angry because I was getting a vasectomy, told her I wasn't going to get it because she wanted another baby. I have tried everything, but I noticed is not me, is her, something is really wrong with her. Before she gave me the papers I talked to her about seeing a psychologist and she got mad asking me if I thought she was crazy. If anyone has gone through this, please what should I do?

I'm from Michigan and my husband asked for a divorce. I still love him and I don't want the divorce at all. He doesn't care. So I contested it just to prolong it. I'm fighting him on everything because I said until death do is part. My question is, can I prolong this for years or will the judge eventually intervene?

My wife's constant moving and inability to hold a job is leading me to consider divorce. In the past six years we've moved seven times. From Savannah to Atlanta wife landed a great job stayed six months then insisted we move back to Savannah. We Moved back to Savannah wife struggled again finding work. Moved to Chattanooga for a month. Then moved to Nashville to live with her family. Lived with her family for two years wife had good job. Moved from Nashville back to Atlanta wife landed good job. Company went bankrupt after four months. My Wife insisted we move back to Savannah. I insisted this was a bad idea as every single time we relocated to Savannah she had problems keeping a job for some reason. This only ever happens in Savannah. We almost divorced but we moved back to Savannah and bought a home. We've been here two years and yet again my wife is having problems holding a job here. She's been through FIVE jobs in two years four of which she was fired from. My job can transfer me anywhere in the country which is why we've been able to move so frequently. Now my wife wants to move BACK to Atlanta this summer. Atlanta is where my wife has had the most success with holding a job and jobs in general. We almost divorced because I knew moving back to Savannah was a HUGE mistake. I'm not sure what to do at this point. Is divorce my only option? I can't keep living my life like this we are now in our thirties.

And she says dismissively, "Grow up, Dad, get with the times, a 20-year age gap is nothing these days."

Every time my bff comes over, I catch my husband staring at her. When she's around... he acts very shy, his voice all of the sudden changes. He doesn't talk or answer me much and act like I'm invisible. He talk so smooth when she's around and he turn into mister nice sweet guy. I asked him if he think she's cute or find her attractive and he say she's average. I don't believe him. Seems like he pay attention to her more than he pay attention to me. I feel jealous although I know my bff doesn't like my husband. She probably know he likes her because how he acts when she's here. It's embarrassing. He makes me look bad infront of my bff. Do you think he loves her or just being friendly... this is messing with my head.

It's like they secretly hate men who are attractive and have a family and love their wife and children and are good fathers and husbands

I'm a young married guy with 2 kids. My married neighbor is moving to San Francisco with his extremely beautiful wife. I talk to her all the time and enjoy the eye candy. She doesn't talk to me as much as she used to because I flirted with her a couple of times. I am really upset that she's moving. I posted this the last 2 days and nobody's helped me out. I wish my wife was as extremely beautiful as my neighbor's beautiful wife. I am paranoid that my wife will cheat on me with whoever is our new neighbor. I am thinking about telling my wife that I have a work conference and that I could drive out to San Francisco and look for my neighbor's beautiful wife. What should I do? I feel depressed.

The people you are attracted to and want don't want you and the ones you don't want are the ones that want you ? I feel like this has been the story of my life, ALL my life. Did you settle for your spouse just so you wouldn't be forever alone or did you meet the person of your dreams ? Thanks.

I have a very unusual problem at least I think it is a very unusual problem. My soon to be husband wants to meet my ex husband. I can not see anything good coming out of this meeting. Both my ex husband and I have moved on and don't have much contact with each other. We did not have any children but we parted on friendly terms. Why would my soon to be husband want to meet my ex husband? I hope they do no want to become buddies. That would just be too weird. What does my soon to be husband want to do? Compare himself with my ex? All my friends tell me NEVER mention my ex husband to my new husband to avoid problems. Should I arrange this meetings? People with ex spouses (and others), please give me your input.

I am around 28 years old. I have a active sex life but for some strange reason I love married women more than single girls and young moms between 20 to 30 yrs really turn me on. I get a completely different pleasure from them. So is it just me or anyone else feels the same. And can anyone explain this feeling.

i mean women who want to have a relationship towards marriage with a man

I have a girlfriend who is married for two years and her husband started cheating on her and I heard other stories about others who's marriage has been two years and things start to happen why is it almost always two years?

I'm not entirely sure how to word this, but basically my boyfriend legally has a hyphenated last name. He hasn't spoken to his mother since he was a child, so he has mostly just used his father's last name. The only time his full hyphenated name is used is for actual legal documents. He wants to change his name, but he thinks that it would be way too hard and complicated so he probably will never do it. However, this concerns me for when we marry and have children. I don't know if I want to hyphenate my name or not, but I don't really want to hyphenate my kids names unless circumstances change. So when I marry him, would I have to take his full, legal hyphenated name? Or could I just take the one he uses? Or if I hyphenate my name could I just use my last name & the one he uses? What about my kids? Do my kids have to take his hyphenated name or can we just give them the one he mostly uses or if we hyphenated theirs could it just be mine & his main one? I hope this makes some sense, I wasn't sure how to word it all.

My wife passed away from cancer when I was 25 we were married for 4 years, her best friend has helped me through this and we have developed romantic feelings for one another. We had a coffee,date that was casual and we kissed and talked about what was happening with us, I feel that it's time for me to move on but I'm not sure if I'm moving to fast.

It just doesn't cross her mind. Never has with the exception after she's read a softcore porn romance novel but it only lasts a few days.

My son married his husband since gay marriage became legal ( however long so that was. Since then my son quit his job (he's now 23), and became a housewife basically because his husband income. Not only that he's become very spoiled, for my son's birthday his husband bought him a new luxury car last year and this year he bought him another newer luxury car, gets drowned with clothes and jewellery, haven't paid for anything himself the last few years. My son spends his day at home going out and partying, spending and that's all. Only good part is that he still in college. I'm seriously concerned for his future, God forbid they ever divorced my son would have no real future because he spent the last few years just being spoiled. I brought this up to him and he became very upset. Am I wrong to be concerned? How do I approach this situation? I dont want to sound like a bad mother because i am truly happy for him but also concerned. i brought it up to his husband as well and he said he didnt sign a prenup so he should be fine for a long while which only made me more concerned

My husband and I got married in August of 2018. Since then we have moved into a house a little more than block away from his best friend and his wife. It's the same damn routine every weekend, about 7-8AM he will call my husband and if he doesn't answer he will call over and over and over (the record is 89 missed calls within 5 minutes) eventually he will give up and show up at our house and pound on the doorbell (if the door isn't locked he will match right in) if we still don't answer he will go to windows and knock and yell our names until finally my husband gives in. We have spent more time with his friend and his wife since we have been married than we have with each other. We can't go anywhere without them, grocery shopping, simple errand runs, out to eat, etc. my husband works out of town so I don't get to see him all week as it is, the only time we have are the weekends and they have been taken over by his friend. I have to ask my husband if just me and him can do things together but it always is ruined and I always feel so defeated, crushed and exhausted. His friend is the type of guy that will not take no for an answer, he doesn't even listen to his wife and she lets him get away with these things. I have tried to talk to my husband but he doesn't understand he feels like I'm making him choose me or his friend and he gets mad and it turns into a huge fight. Guess who's spending their valentines with his friends? I'm at wits end what do I do?

I've expressed my need to have a traditional marriage and its only been met with negativity or thoughts of some stupid *** fetish among my peers.

I'm a young married guy with 2 kids. My married neighbor is moving to San Francisco with his extremely beautiful wife on Friday. I talk to her all the time and enjoy the eye candy. She doesn't talk to me as much as she used to because I flirted with her a couple of times. I am really upset that she's moving. I posted this the last 2 days and nobody's helped me out. I wish my wife was as extremely beautiful as my neighbor's wife. I'm also paranoid that my wife will cheat on me with whoever our new neighbor is.

My husband (at the time, boyfriend) really hates kids and always swore to never have them. I want kids, and I think that mindset is immature, but I didn't want to make him whine, so I told him that I was infertile when I wasn't. I did this to trick him into getting me pregnant, but he found out what I did and wants to divorce me now. I'm sorry, but that mindset is really immature, and I really hate how people now sympathize with those losers thanks to Reddit. How do I convince him that this was for his own good?

Why do some people choose to get married before having kids or while dating after many years?

My wife has given me the rules to buy as many 22's as i want but I can't own two of the same caliber center fire guns. I can go into details about the deal however it is pointless and kind of personal. but I wanted to tel you all before the obvious one liner answer comes up. For the records, it's not because she is anti-gun it's because if i didn't have that rule, we would be stuck in debt. I am debating getting rid of my charles daly 8+1 pump action shotgun in 12 gauge for a double barrel shotgun. reasons are as follows. A. I've always wanted a double barrel shotgun, more than any shotgun i could ever think of B. in a WROL id dump my pump and carry my ar15, but i could and would shave my double barrel short enough to carry it with me C. I love a wood furnished gun, my charles caly/chiappa shotgun does not have wood furniture available. I know some will say do the trade, get a pump in 20 gauge. but a 20 gauge cant breach doors. 12 can. I do like to bird hunt sometimes, 3 is better than 2 but i think the double barrel would let them off quicker. What do you guys think? should i suck it up and keep it? or get rid of it for a double barrel? That's part of the part I didn't get into hah that would become a violation of our agreement which would result in my punishment and not a good kind. She has rules too, if we both found loopholes it would become as pointless as SBR laws I love answers that haven't anything to do with my question! Maybe. Maybe a pump in 20. My every day life does not consist of breaching doors, however after the world wide famine, EMP or civil war 2, I very well might be