The ones turning 30 are still unmarried and childless.

I feel that my husband didn't think about my feelings, my worth.. he didn't know his limit especially with it comes to make friends to other woman.. he only knew that im just paranoid and everytime we fight or argue he only remember my sharp words that i said, my mistakes so our fight will take long before we reconcile, his pride is so high. He admit it that his love for me is not the same like before.. we have kid so even i want to leave him..i can't because i don't want my daughter to grow with a broken family. Should i accept the fact that my marriage will never be the same before? Expect the worst.. time has come he will meet the new one? Im afraid on how to face it..

I don't understand — my boyfriend who is passive is now allowing his abusive roommate to CONTROL not only him but her own boyfriend. Apparently she does not like me simply because I decided to stand up to her after having to sit quietly and deal with her bullying behaviour. The moment I decide to assert myself she becomes violent, cries, makes up stories and lies and pretend to be the victim when all of us know that isn't true. So because she does not like me this means I am not allowed to be there? Even though the apartment has separate quarters and we never interact with her? Why is my boyfriend allowing this? He pays rent. He should be allowed to have his own girlfriend hangout with him at his place? Especially since we have important projects to work on. Instead I can't even hangout or see my own boyfriend in his own house.. Why is my boyfriend allowing this? He knows it's wrong, doesn't agree, yet he refuses to do or be assertive? Am I wrong for feeling sad?

I laugh and thank myself that Im a minus 10 in the dating field and love it when things dont work out for those who supposedly had promise. Women and being with them is tempting for the people who are not me. I can appreciate a woman's looks but have no desire to physically be with them as they do me. So life is more like a sitcom to me. Peoples misery gives me fuel to survive. Plus its really really entertaining.

also is there a place where lonely trolls can meet up ?

When married women get caught by their husbands masturbating, they are often VERY EMBARRASSED. I think any women would be embarrassed if caught. BUT... what do you make of a woman who TELLS you STRAIGHT OUT that she masturbates daily?? It is believable?? "if thats what they do, why question it?" -robert x I don't know if I BELIEVE that she really does this! So it's not a question of IF that's what she does,.. it's am I to actually believe this to be true or is it just a ploy to make me *think* she has a high sex drive thus making her SEEM more desirable to a high sex drive man?? I guess the question(s) ARE: how RARE is it to come across a 61 year old religious woman who masturbates DAILY?? AND: How RARE is it that she would actually ADMIT to being a spiritual christian woman WHO TELLS OTHERS (ME) that she masturbates every day AND tells me WHEN she just DID?? (Does it sound believable, or sound like a trick to get a man.) "I would be interested in her, because she is obviously sexual and knows her body and what she wants".-Chances68 **So you would believe her claims and not suspect exaggeration to trick or trap a man with the promise of plentiful sex? "Maybe they just see masturbation as a gift from god so it's something they enjoy and feel comfortable sharing. I admire those.... " -Rick **Oh i don't see it as bad in any way but I just don't understand the motivation to be so open about it so OFTEN in conversation. It's much different than other women that i know who would not freely talk about THIS. If True I like this allot. But it seems too good to be true. "You apparently live in a sexually repressed society. Most husbands upon catching their wives masturbating would probably just ask to join in." -Foofa I just used the "married woman" scenario as am example. My true question is: How do I believe she is TRULY *THAT* sexual? I've dated allot of women and most women use PROMISES of allot of sex to get a man,..and then the sex dries up. THIS woman seems to be trying TOO HARD to make me believe that she has a high sex drive. It's too good to be true

Some key points: One spouse lives in America. The spouse in Australia wants the divorce and wants money. They've been separated for 3 years now. My main concerns are: 1) Does a financial agreement have to be reached before a divorce can take place? Does that have anything to do with the divorce at all? Is it done separately? 2) Does Australia honor an Islamic Dowry on a marriage certificate? Will it be considered in an Australian court? 3) What are some reasons the spouse in Australia could get money from the spouse in America? What does Australia consider when making the decision? Thanks in advance!

I ran into my former mother in law at a mall and she told me her daughter, my ex, was getting married again. She told me who she was marrying and he was a casual acquaintance. I thought it was appropriate to send her a nice wedding gift and wish her and her new husband a long and happy married life. She thanked me for the gift but said not to contact her again as her husband did not want her in contact with other men especially me. I emailed her back and said I understood and I would not contact her again as I did not want to cause any problem with her marriage. About 4 months later I got a call from my ex's new husband wanting my help to get his computer back up running. He said "I know this is unusual but will you help me". Unusual, I thought it was weird. However I thought why make a enemy when you can make a friend so I agreed to help him and I told him how to fix his computer. He seemed happy. The last thing he said was "Please don't tell my wife I called you" and I said OK. He has called me a few more times asking for help with his computer and each time I helped him and each time he ask me not to tell his wife he had called. I am not sure how I should feel about this. He doesn't want his wife to talk to me but it is OK if he talks to me. Should I stop helping him with his problems until his wife knows about this. Advice please on what I should do.

We've been together for 2 years( getting married in 3 weeks but not co-habiting yet). I'm always the one asking to spend time together. Everytime he is over, he can't wait to go home. He blames it on being tired, but being tired never seems to stop me when I want to see him. I have to admit His job is more demanding than mine (even though we both work full time) which means he has less free time. I always feel guilty for pressuring him to spend time with me. I did try to compromise and see him less, but I'm just not satisfied. I think we have different energy levels and we place different value on quality time. Growing up, I dont think i even ate a meal with my family (everyone was doing his own thing), and I dont want to feel that kind of lonely again.

I laugh and thank myself that Im a minus 10 in the dating field and love it when things dont work out for those who supposedly had promise. Women and being with them is tempting for the people who are not me. I can appreciate a woman's looks but have no desire to physically be with them as they do me. So life is more like a sitcom to me.

For example I go to the grocery store I see many men with their wives shopping with them but I catch them looking at other women. Same also at college.

What exactly do you have to offer a man today? You don't want to work, don't want to cook, don't want to clean, don't want to have sex... You are broke at 35, getting ugly by the day, getting fat by the day.... I have a house, degree, fast SRT, no debt, great credit score, dog for companionship, video games when I want to rage, booze when I'm bored and Fast food when I don't want to cook...Lifes great without paying for a nag around the house all day.

She's been throwing around the idea of us meeting each other's families during spring break and I'm honestly terrified at the idea. We've been going out since July and I've purposely been avoiding telling her anything specific about my childhood or my family. She comes from a good family and had the solid two parent structured American child upbringing. My family is basically the opposite. I grew up poor and my family is troubled to say the least. My dad can be difficult and we honestly don't talk unless we have to (he's a bit of redneck). My mom is great and I'm not worried about her, just everyone else. I feel like if I bring her back home I'm going to have to go into everything else I've been trying to avoid. At this point she knows very little other than I got into trouble a lot as a kid and did good in high school just to be able to go to college far away. Should I just tell her everything now or try putting things off. We haven't been going out long and I'm terrified of scaring her away.

I suggested we get together for sex about once a month. We have been divorced for about 3-1/2 years and don't really speak to each other. But neither of us are in a relationship. Even though she gained significant weight over the 25 years we were together, she had the tightest vagina ever, and I miss it. I offered some financial incentives (I know she has money problems - the main reason we got divorced). We had sex thousands and thousands of times over the years - why would suggesting we do it a few more times be so terrible?? dablues - I hear about divorced couples hooking up all the time. i - I knew she might - she is a bit prudish. But she has had no dates and no prospects (she is quite overweight). Between that and her money problems I thought she might go for it. Patricia - I just wanted to make it mutually beneficial. I made it financial because that is where her needs are. If she needed help re-wiring a room I would have offered that. Caz - I was the one who sought the divorce. Her out of control spending and financial issues had us on the road to bankruptcy. And she refused to deal with it at level, let alone make a change.

When my wife can't bare children anymore and we adopt kids as our biological kids grow up would it ruin our marriage

I feel that my husband didn't think about my feelings, my worth.. he didn't know his limit especially with it comes to make friends to other woman.. he only knew that im just paranoid and everytime we fight or argue he only remember my sharp words that i said, my mistakes so our fight will last long.. his pride is so high. He admit it that his love for me is not the same like before.. we have kid so even i want to leave him..i can't because i don't want my daughter to grow with a broken family. I

He used to help out in the beginning. and he still does up to a certain point. but now when she cries at night he wants to automatically leave the room and go sleep elsewhere. I tell him I need him there in the room. He says he has to get some sleep for work. I don't require him much expect stay in the room, or maybe make a bottle once in a while. why does he act as if it is now only my duty.

To elaborate: When it's a question where a guy is saying how his wife won't give him sex, and that she is cold, distant, etc... Women will say things like "You should do some chores for her! That will make her happy" or "have you tried helping her out around the house?" or "If you help her out with the chores, she will be more likely to give you some extra loving in the bedroom and wont be as tired". However... Numerous scientific studies (including one in Scientific American- you can google "men doing more chores get less sex scientific american" to see the study), actually show that the more you "do chores" for your wife, the LESS SEX men actually get, on average. Meaning guys who are nicer and do more chores actually get LESS SEX FROM THEIR WIVES, than the guys who dont really do much, do. The problem isnt whether or not the guy is doing chores, or how many he is doing. The actual problem, the problem that women refuse to admit, is that a guy's physical appearance and attraction levels relative to hers are what matter when it comes down to whether she gives him sex or not. And If she is considerably more attractive than the guy, she will eventually lose interest and cheat. In fact, she may even be doing a 2 part mating strategy, where she purposely marries an ugly but successful guy, and cheats on him on the side. If a guy is ugly/fat in relation to her, then he subconsciously will do more chores to make up for it... But him doing chores doesnt make her like him And the issue is, women often will LIE about this, and claim that "chores will help", because she wants to help the cheating cuckoldress enjoy both the cheating, AND enjoy her slave hubby doing all of her housework in the meantime. That way the answerers here are benefiting the female, by allowing her to both cheat, and also do minimal housework at home. The women answerers on here are NOT helping the guy, and they KNOW IT- but they lie on purpose, to benefit the female. Why?

My husband was married to his ex-wife for 14 years, they got a divorce in 2015 and I met my husband in 2016 and married him in 2017, she always calls his cellphone and I am usually the one to answer and laugh at the dumb things she says, but I feel like that is stupid. This lady is a lot older than me, she is 47 and I am 24. I have had problems with her on facebook before, she has sent me messages about how she thinks I am too young to be married to him, he is 49 but I don't see a problem, we are both adults. She is still single and I know she wants him back which is why I laugh. If she contacts him or me again what should I say? and should I try to get a restraining order? she is psychotic in my opinion.

LOL LETS GET MARRIED