It appeared the guy who was hitting on me at work and that I was attracted to, is married. Married to the supervisor. I asked a coworker if he was married and was shocked to find out he was and to the supervisor. He is obviously extremely attracted to me. Any thoughts about the situation?

Husband only has sex on weekends and wont do it if he is stressed or tired in any way. This easily turns into 3-4 weeks straight. No matter what I try, it still hurts me horribly when he says no. It hurts that I want him so bad and he doesn't even think of me unless everything is perfect. I don't know if I can handle this for the rest of my life. We've talked about it before but nothing changes. I know we are just not compatible in that area. I don't know what to do. We do not have kids so I am worried what life will turn into if we do have kids.

I introduced my husband to my new coworker. They have a lot of things in common. Video games, sports, gym etc. At one point he wanted to hang with her alone without me because I was working at the time. Now I'm an insecure woman and would never suspect my husband to cheat. So of course I allowed it. Then I noticed after a few weeks of hanging out, she changed her availability to match my husbands. I just assumed they were great friends and thought nothing of it. Then it got weirder when he started staying at her place from being too drunk to drive from her place. I took it upon myself to take him home and I saw them together intimately... Is it my fault he cheated? He said it was because I "knew" how attractive she was. I don't get it :( What should I do?

You, would you be upset, or would you be totally fine with it?

About not wanting to get married and manipulated her into having abortions.,,

I'm a young married guy with 2 kids. My married neighbor is moving to San Francisco with his extremely beautiful wife. I talk to her all the time and enjoy the eye candy. She doesn't talk to me as much as she used to because I flirted with her a couple of times. I am really upset that she's moving. I posted this yesterday and nobody helped me out. I wish my wife was as extremely beautiful as my neighbor's wife.

I find that the men I've liked, I've had to pursue.

It was not a legal separation. He was out of the house before June 30. I can file HOH. Does he file MFS?

Dream starts out with me and stb xhub in our room and he tricked me to get some type of paper. And I had my friend there after and me and him were cuddling and getting along and he was telling me my husband tricked me. Then it goes to me talking to the lawyer and my friend is with me. And the lawyer is pregnant with what we think is my xhusbands baby but she said she didn't know who's baby it was. And she was laughing at me like she was winning something and my friend said well I know it wasn't my tiny dick... which I can add up everything myself mostly but the paper he took that I had wrote something on and why she was pregnant. Yes, I have feelings for my friend and he feels the same. I'm just trying to figure the dream out. My friend has been a big help in real life . My x was abusive mentally/verbally/physically. And he has been trying to get me mad on recording . But it hasn't worked because it's illegal for him to record me without my knowledge. So I catch him on it every time.

I knew what I got into when marrying my husband, and I knew he played the Xbox. Him playing is NOT the issue, I understand it is his de-stress from work, and that's what he enjoys doing. The problem is the rage, games like Fortnight make him so angry, and he'll bang his desk, throw things, and yell extremely loud, even as late as 2 am(we have kids and live in a duplex, so I'm always scared he's disturbing the neighbors). We've have been married for almost eight years, and I've put up with it. Now it's starting to affect me, and I get extreme anxiety now when he yells. We have had had countless arguments over this, and he KNOWS how I feel but he keeps telling me its a trigger, and he can't control it. On the other side I can see that but at the same time is there any way he can manage it and is he using that as an excuse to keep yelling? He does feel guilty after the fact but he keeps doing it, and whenever I confront him if he's too loud, he gets mad at me and is defensive. He always says " I know I yell, you telling me makes me even more mad" So I feel stuck if I don't confront him about it I'm supposed to sit around and accept it?! I can't even take a nap in my own house because of his unpredictable yelling. Any advice?!

We've been married for nearly 30 years. Recently, I found magazines featuring shirtless pictures of Lindsay Naegle and Lurleen Lumpkin, who was trying to steal Homer back in 1992 or so. I've caught him reading the magazines for hours on end, and he's repeatedly turned down snuggling for it, Well, the last straw was when I found out that he and Ned Flanders went over to Las Vegas and married a couple of cocktail waitresses AGAIN. Last time he did it, I kicked him out. I can't take any more of Homer's buffoonishness, can you help me?

What do you think of that? The purpose is to protect your brother's kids from a potentially abusive step father.

lol so if a wife is not sexual, she's a scam...how dumb can u get? What about asexuals and people who value love above the physical stuff? What if she had past traumatic experiences preventing her or even the husband what if one of them has STDs...you are soo sooo SMART not.

Almost 5 years ago I had a baby with a married man. We have talked maybe 6 times in these 5 years. Neither him or his family has ever tried to see my daughter. He's never asked about her, his parents have never tried to contact me or my daughter. Do you think thats strange? If it was the other way around, i would want to know about her. If I was the grandparent I would want to know who my grandchild was regardless how she got here. He is still married and had a baby thats exactly 9 months younger than my daughter almost to the day. His wife and family didnt find out about my daughter till she was one. It breaks my heart for my daughter. Its not her fault

What happened to your marriage?

Don't substitute conflict resolution with stupid tradition and man-dogma. Haha pathetic. Anon coward blocked me. I'm female. Funny. Believers are the most immoral. https://www.cnn.com/2018/08/14/us/pennsylvania-catholic-church-grand-jury/index.html My morality is intrinsic. That's the beauty of it all. I am my own God. Oh, and I don't go sleeping around. Most people disgust me anyway. Married people, you are very outdated. That's the only truth.

I have been married with my wife for the last four years and we have been together for the last 8....her sister moved in with us and ever since it happened my wife doesn't want to sleep in the same bed with me....we haven't slept in the same bed for the last 5 months.....should I give up and except that it looks like is over or any advice on this situation.. Thanks

Three of my wife's friends and I organized a surprise birthday party for my wife. I came up with the idea that since my wife and her friends don't see each other much that they should do a "girls day" surprise party. We set the party up so that one of her friends would show up to "kidnap" her and take her to out for her birthday. She knew someone would be picking her up. The day of the party my wife wasn't feeling well and was in a bad mood. She wasn't happy over having to go to the party because she felt it was a waste of time when she felt she had a lot to do. She then yelled at me over something I hadn't done. I was angry at her but I said nothing because I knew she didn't know the true nature of the party. She left for the party and I was angry the entire time she was gone. She came home and said she had a great time and was surprised. I asked her if she knew what my role was in organizing the party. She said she did and apologized to me for being grumpy and thanked me. I know I need to let it go because she had no idea I was involved bit I am having a hard time doing that. What should I do?