Singles & Dating: Question: I asked my BF to do some things for me in bed and he said it was gross, so.. do you just live with it? |
- Question: I asked my BF to do some things for me in bed and he said it was gross, so.. do you just live with it?
- Question: My girlfriend and I both want to have a big family, how can we best discuss and come to an agreement on how many kids we want to have?
- Question: Should I give my boyfriend time?
- Question: What do you do when your boss denigrates you in fronf of others? And it is because you rejected him.?
- Question: Is my ex still hurt?
- Question: My parents won’t let me have a girlfriend until I’m 18?
- Question: A year and a half later of seeing my ex I still think of her constantly. I've been with many women after her but love her. What should I do?
- Question: My friend (13) is dating a 15 year old that asked her for nudes (2 times)?
- Question: Does he like me??
- Question: My boyfriend stops talking about something serious with me mid discussion so he can talk about it with his ex. is this weird?
- Question: Whats's up?
- Question: Why have guys never shown any interest in me?
- Question: Could a paralyzed man be able to feel a blow to the balls?
- Question: What should I ask her? Should I try to ask to go back to her?
- Question: Why do fat females take offense when a guy rejects them for being fat?
- Question: Is it bad form to give a cashier a compliment?
- Question: How do I force my crush to lovve me?
- Question: Relationship advice. Boyfriend trouble.?
- Question: Why is it different now?
- Question: How to have a successful friends w benefits relationship?
- Question: Why does my boyfriend keep calling me petty?
- Question: How does sex work?
- Question: Am I an awful person if I love my SO’s personality but he’s not at all attractive to me?
- Question: Why didn't Taylor Swift ever date black men?
- Question: Does leaving a girl on read work?
- Question: How do I find the date I registered to vote intexas?
- Question: Need opinions on a situation?
- Question: My underage daughter is drinking with adults, who’s providing alcohol for her, she already has 2 DUI’s and tried to kill helself. What to do?
- Question: My gf gave me a rose?
- Question: Why do I miss someone so much who treated me horribly?
- Question: Why are some people better looking than others??...?
- Question: I know a guy and I constantly prove that I'm superior to him because I had a girlfriend unlike him. She dumped me, so how do I prove it now?
- Question: After 4 months, bf says hes no longer interested. He has bought me things, taken me placesetc.I am so lost. Do you think he's gone for good?
- Question: Anyone think males should get cute skinny virgin girlfriends as commendations for going into high school?
- Question: Can a guy be gay and still be a foot ball player ?
- Question: What's the most important thing in a long distance relationship?
- Question: Why do girls say?
- Question: Haven’t had sex with gf for 4 months?
- Question: Is it bad to contact an ex abuser? I even tried to press charges on him but the urge is driving me crazy?
- Question: Is this picture good?
- Question: What do you guys think? When it comes to looks?..?
- Question: I am having trouble pooping i cant get it out what helps with this?
- Question: Agree or disagree: most 20-year-old females have boyfriends?
- Question: How many people do you need to have sex with to count it as loosing your virginity? My friends told me 8.?
- Question: What are some of your standards in a relationship or friendship.?
- Question: How do I tell my boyfriend he is too short?
- Question: Am i lookin sharp today?
- Question: Why must girls constantly need attention and be pampered every hour of every day?
- Question: Is this a disorder?
- Question: I have a boyfriend with 3 kids & he ALWAYS makes every moment spent "family time." I am tired & want my boyfriend back. What should I do?
- Question: Do guys really want to screw everything?
- Question: Am at a point where I don't bother talking to women because it makes me feel bad, but I get approached by women and it reinforces rejection?
- Question: I keep stressing over this dude that keep trying me and my lady. I need some advice I'm questioning his life.?
- Question: Should I dump my boyfriend for being disrespectful?
- Question: Relationship advice please!?
- Question: Was my long distance girlfriend wrong for buying a dildo and using it? What should I do not she's no longer a Virgin?
- Question: How to forgive my boyfriend?
- Question: Why are East Coast girls so mean?
| Posted: 08 Feb 2019 07:58 PM PST I asked him for manual stimulation and he said that was gross... but at the same time he has no qualms with anal sex and what comes with that territory.. if you know what i mean. he acutally prefers anal sex. so he likes oral and manual stimulation given to him but he doesn't return it... and refuses though i talked to him about it. so what do you do? He also has very dominant peronsality and is rough in bed and im having very hard time trying to get him to engage in foreplay or the sort of caresses that would please a woman. and yea what we do is fun.. but its not fun when its the only thing that ever happens. im getting bored with rough sex and no foreplay |
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| Question: Should I give my boyfriend time? Posted: 08 Feb 2019 07:29 PM PST My boyfriend and I are back together. We didn't talk for several months. Maybe a year. Ever since we got back together he told me he takes a total of 5 classes and have 2 jobs. Months before we got back together he only went to school taking 4 classes. He wasn't working back then. Now that we're back together he's been busy. At least that's what he said. Like I told him before my friend takes the same amount of classes as him and work. She still spends time with her boyfriend. Her boyfriend doesn't even drive, have a job nor go to school. He takes bart, busses and catch rides to her house. Like I told my boyfriend I'm not saying I want to do that but ever since he went back to school we haven't been hanging out. Valentines Day is next week. We were supposed to see each other to trade Valentines day gifts Sunday but he said he hasn't had time to study and stuff. According to his college website he has a 4 day weekend next week which is after Valentine's day so I am hoping I can see him 1 of those 4 days. I only checked because I had a feeling he had 4 days off. No I wasn't trying to stock him. Lastly if we don't see each other after Valentine's day during his 4 day weekend then I'm not even going to contact him for a while. I'm not mad because of him beinging really busy but we should at least see each other once a month until school is over. I'm having so many problems with my eyes so I'm off until my my doctor says I can go back and of course until my eyes are better. |
| Posted: 08 Feb 2019 07:26 PM PST My supervisor and I were in a 2 month platonic relationship (i experienced marital problems and he is single). I have now resolved my marital issues and stopped hanging out with him. It all ended in Dec. However, he is now not only ignoring me at work, but is also not answering my emails (which are important). I manage a small department myself and we both attend same events/meetings. I act normally but he is not! Advice? |
| Question: Is my ex still hurt? Posted: 08 Feb 2019 07:21 PM PST I said so many hurtful things to her, cheated, and humiliated her numerous times. We talked last week and when I saw her social media she was saying bad things about subliminally but she didn't act hurt when we talked. |
| Question: My parents won’t let me have a girlfriend until I’m 18? Posted: 08 Feb 2019 07:21 PM PST I made a yahoo account for this lol I'm 15 at the moment and there's this girl I really like. I've had past relationships before where I tried to keep it lowkey but it never works out and I want this one to be different. Anyways the girl likes me back and I want to ask her out. I haven't talked to my parents about the whole situation but my grandmother (which I am very very close to) always tells me to focus in school and no girlfriend until after high school. My parents both say the same thing as well and we have a good relationship. I want to tell them about the girl but I don't want to ruin the relationship I have with my parents but I really like this girl. I need help!!!! |
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| Question: My friend (13) is dating a 15 year old that asked her for nudes (2 times)? Posted: 08 Feb 2019 07:15 PM PST I keep trying to tell her he's gross but she won't listen to me and just blocks me when I call him gross. I don't know what else to say to try and get her to break up with him. She thinks she loves him but they've only been dating 1 month and it's ridiculous |
| Posted: 08 Feb 2019 07:10 PM PST I'm a 20 year old girl in a relationship with my boyfriend of 2 years. Over the past few months, I've been feeling like my boyfriend's brother (29) maybe likes me? Like tonight we were smoking weed (I only do this once in awhile, no judgement please), and he was like, "you ready for a shotgun?" at first I didn't know what he was talking about, but then my boyfriend told me what that means. But why would he say that to ME? Isn't that basically kissing? And just in general he's always so friendly to me, always finding reasons to talk to me, finds excuses to touch me, and teases me a lot. For example, today he had a glass of ice water and kept acting like he was going o pour it on me, joking around. He does have a naturally friendly, outgoing personality so it's hard to tell if he's flirting or not. I will admit I have a small crush on him, but it's nothing major, don't worry. |
| Posted: 08 Feb 2019 07:04 PM PST so he was actually talking to me about -another- ex separate from this one that he wanted to be friends with again. or at least get closure from. i tried to give him some advice but right through the middle of it he says "[first mentioned ex] wants to call me now to talk about this" he told me he was waiting all day for her and ANOTHER one of his exes to respond to his messages. this made me realize that one, i was the very last person he decided to contact about this, and two, he talks with every. single. ex he has. and he s constantly talking about them and he hangs out with them too. normally i wouldnt have a problem but he never tells me! its always behind my back and without me being there. sometimes he s honest and tells me when one of the girls flirts with him but i have no way of knowing if there s other times. i used to trust him so much and now i just... dont? maybe i dont trust the girls? am i crazy? |
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| Question: Why have guys never shown any interest in me? Posted: 08 Feb 2019 06:57 PM PST I'm honestly so confused. I am a smart girl, I feel like I am very down to earth and kind. Guys literally look straight past me, and go right to the nastiest girl in the room. What is it because I'm so sick of being alone all the time? |
| Question: Could a paralyzed man be able to feel a blow to the balls? Posted: 08 Feb 2019 06:53 PM PST |
| Question: What should I ask her? Should I try to ask to go back to her? Posted: 08 Feb 2019 06:45 PM PST I'm 26 and dated an amazing 24 year old girl from spring to fall. I had to move in late October while we were still in the honeymoon phase of the relationship and we both decided to stay friends after I moved out of town. We kept in touch rather romantically after pretty regularly &I visited her and everything was so smooth but one time I told her I was coming to town and happy to see her, she ghosted me. Weeks later she contacted me missing me wanting to see me so we went for coffee. So I met up with her a month ago. I never asked her why she ghosted me and kept the coffee date relaxed cause I did not want to put any pressure on her. After the coffee she ignored one of my texts asking her to a an event. I felt heart broken because I genuinely love her. Then... she texted me saying she would like to tell me everything that caused her to leave me. We are meeting up for lunch next Wednesday and I was wondering, what questions to ask her? Should I go back to her if she gives me a good reason why? Should I tell her how I feel? |
| Question: Why do fat females take offense when a guy rejects them for being fat? Posted: 08 Feb 2019 06:31 PM PST I'm just lost. Even though I'm fat I know my looks don't matter to females. So I don't have to look good. Females looks so matter to males so you females have to look good in order for a male to want you. The ugly fat feminists incels think this is a double standard. Why do they think that? I mean I chocked up laughing when a fat girl actually had the balls to ask me out. And then she got butt hurt when I said I didn't like her and she also ask "why". And when I answered she got all ticked off. As I said female don't care about male looks. There is no double standard there so I don't know why they made one up. That's all it is, it's made up or imaginary. |
| Question: Is it bad form to give a cashier a compliment? Posted: 08 Feb 2019 06:29 PM PST |
| Question: How do I force my crush to lovve me? Posted: 08 Feb 2019 06:25 PM PST |
| Question: Relationship advice. Boyfriend trouble.? Posted: 08 Feb 2019 06:18 PM PST So very long story. My boyfriend and I for three years lived together the first month of our relationship, he moved me in with when I started being abused by my family so he took me in when I had nothing until I got a job and he was taking me both to school and work without a single complaint, but now everything is crumbling and I know I should break up with him because I'm in work full time making $50k going to school full time trying to my bachelors. I know I don't need a man because I'm already independent. Recently a month ago he told me out of nowhere he was leaving without me three hours away and that I ask him what about me and he said what about you, we had a convo and we're not getting married or having kids. I said if that's the case let me pack my stuff and go. So I left for a few days he's crying for me to come back home that he's sorry and he knows he's been a bad boyfriend he's been miserable, etc whatever. So I told him I'm getting my own place because I felt like we needed space and he takes the rest of my stuff out of our room and puts it in the living room and says your sleeping on the couch until you leave and on top of that don't speak to me until you do. But doesn't want to break up but I do. I was going to give a week to see if it would get better but it hasn't now we just don't speak when I get home. Mind you I work 14 hours clean cook wash the dogs and he doesn't do anything but sleep smoke eat and play video games. He's 29 I'm 22. It hurts me though.. |
| Question: Why is it different now? Posted: 08 Feb 2019 06:18 PM PST I liked this girl a lot. And she liked me. We were friends on fb and talkrd almost all the time. She told me once she liled this girl and I told her how I felt that I would be hard to look at her etc. Cause I would cry. After a while that feeling of hers disappeared. Then things went back to normal Until she sent me a.pic of her ex and it hurt really bad cause she kept going on how she coulsnt stand this girl etc. When I found out that she was still friends with her on fb and she liked her stuff I told her pretty much the same as what I told her before but this time she blocked me. I think because she thought I was following her to much. I tried making amends but she doesnt want to hear from me at all and she has changed. Why is it now that she acts like this? I am trying to let go cause I really like her but its hard |
| Question: How to have a successful friends w benefits relationship? Posted: 08 Feb 2019 06:16 PM PST I am single for the first time in a few years. I m trying to have my first friends with benefits relationship, but I worry about what I m supposed to do. Like how affectionate to be, how much to talk to him, etc. Please give me any tips you have from your experience and I will apply it to my situation as needed! |
| Question: Why does my boyfriend keep calling me petty? Posted: 08 Feb 2019 06:14 PM PST My boyfriend makes fun of my voice all the time saying I sound like a ban-chi and all kinds of other things and it makes me feel really really bad so I stopped using my voice and now I just use sign language or text him. Now he is mad that I stopped talking and keeps yelling at me calling me petty and a child. Thoughts? |
| Posted: 08 Feb 2019 06:11 PM PST Ok well I'm a virgin girl and I'm confused on how sex feels good for so long. So say you receive oral sex before real sex and then you orgasm and then you have actual sex, can you orgasm over again or is it the feeling of penetration that makes it so enjoyable |
| Question: Am I an awful person if I love my SO’s personality but he’s not at all attractive to me? Posted: 08 Feb 2019 06:10 PM PST I love my boyfriend with all my heart. We talk and text all the time, and I could see myself spending my life with him. He's my best friend and lover all in one. But the problem is, is that I don't find him attractive at all. Am I just being a shallow b****? I just don't know what to do. |
| Question: Why didn't Taylor Swift ever date black men? Posted: 08 Feb 2019 06:02 PM PST |
| Question: Does leaving a girl on read work? Posted: 08 Feb 2019 05:56 PM PST |
| Question: How do I find the date I registered to vote intexas? Posted: 08 Feb 2019 05:54 PM PST |
| Question: Need opinions on a situation? Posted: 08 Feb 2019 05:48 PM PST Kind of a long story, but bare with me please. At a halloween party I met this guy, got a GIANT crush on him instantly. Throughout this party we were making eye contact a lot...dancing with eachother...etc... After this we didn t talk for like 3 months. One night, he spams my instagram with likes, so i do so back. He ends up sending me a DM telling me i should add him on snapchat, which I do. He messages me...we talk everyday...we make plans about traveling together. I m really excited at this point because i ve had pretty bad luck with stuff like this. A few weeks go by and he asks to hang, which I agree and then we continue talking. A few days later, i ask him if he s still down and he says... "I m not sure about 1 on 1 because there this girl I really care about, but we can when we all link up, i ll let you know." ...My heart completely shattered. I don t know what to do. I m so confused. I really just want other people s take on this situation because it makes no sense to me... like does he like me or not?? |
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| Question: My gf gave me a rose? Posted: 08 Feb 2019 05:43 PM PST what should i get her back it is a single red rose btw i just want to show her i love her |
| Question: Why do I miss someone so much who treated me horribly? Posted: 08 Feb 2019 05:40 PM PST 3 years and we loved hard and we fought hard. In the end, he was an alcoholic and it became to much for me to handle. I never knew which version of him I was going to be dealing with. We became violate towards each other in the end. Verbally abuse was horrible and he was worse, but I wasn't exactly a victim. All I know is I thought that is being apart would be best and I believe it is, yet 7 months later, I find myself thinking about him all the time. I have no contact and don't look or ask questions to anyone. I have no idea what's going on in his life and not do I want t know. Yet, soul hurts and I just wish we could go back to what we had the first 2 years. I am dating someone else and he is great, yet sometimes I cry when he isn't looking because something takes me back and I miss him so much. I ended it and he felt betrayed. Now I am broken and my soul feels empty. It took me 5 months to even go on a date. He and I both are very good looking and could date anyone we really want to, but I compare and everywhere I go, I hope to see his face. I emailed him once-That our lives were both very different now and I hope he is happy and had a wonderful holiday. I never heard back. I thanked him for the good times we shared. The way we ended; I boarded a plane to fly home from vacation because he was drinking to much and when he woke up, I was no longer there. Maybe we both knew it was just to toxic. Then why do I miss him?o Can someone explain to me why I am so messed up? |
| Question: Why are some people better looking than others??...? Posted: 08 Feb 2019 05:35 PM PST Like life isn't fair??...why are some people drop dead gorgeous...like it's a minority group...while the rest of us are average to ok looking? Like wtf?? It makes me feel really sad? I mean im always told im pretty..but that's it? While I wish I could be beautiful. :( |
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| Posted: 08 Feb 2019 05:19 PM PST I think they should. And the fat and ugly ones should be kicked out of the country. Or if they wish to stay they should be castrated as a way to prevent them from spreading their ugliness 🙄 |
| Question: Can a guy be gay and still be a foot ball player ? Posted: 08 Feb 2019 04:55 PM PST |
| Question: What's the most important thing in a long distance relationship? Posted: 08 Feb 2019 04:53 PM PST And what's the most important thing in relationships in general? (Boyfriend-girlfriend-husband-wife) |
| Posted: 08 Feb 2019 04:51 PM PST Why do they say they don't look at you in that way but their emotions and behavior say completely opposite. |
| Question: Haven’t had sex with gf for 4 months? Posted: 08 Feb 2019 04:51 PM PST So we have been together for a year and the first 6 months it was sex all the time. Now I don't base an entire relationship on sex but I do enjoy having sex a lot. I am there for her in so many ways we have a really good relationship we get a long we argue a little we have great chemistry and our sexual chemistry used to be amazing. But I used to be really aggressive with sex because she liked it and so did I I would use to just rip off her pants and **** her and it would be awesome I mean we would foreplay a little or I would eat her out. But the past 6 months we have had sex maybe 5 times and none at all the past 4 months. I quit being aggressive because it wasn't working and she would just get mad at me. So I tried being romantic ( I'm not just saying this for sex but to be a good boyfriend also) I took us to a nice dinner , Dave n busters all on me and got us a hotel room and I tried to have sex with her and she said she didn't want to. Last night I was drinking a little and I did get aggressive because I thought maybe if I was aggressive and passionate it would work but she said no and that I was pissing her off. I told her that it's not fair that we haven't had sex in 4 months and she just said we will have sex Tommorow but now it's tomorrow and she said she has to be home early tonight. It's just I'm a 19 year old college student and it's just very unfair to me. I also don't want to have one sided sex.. she used to love it |
| Posted: 08 Feb 2019 04:49 PM PST t's been about 2 years since I last saw my ex. It was in court because I was filing for restraining order and pressing charges .. why am I now currently having a strong urge to contact him. I committed to having no contact which worked and feel very upset about what happened (long story short when I left him after living together for 3 years he stalked me for a while and kidnapped me and r aped me ) I hate him for it it caused me a lot of damage and sadness.. anyways lately I have been thinking about him. Dreaming. Non stop. It's like I start sweating and wanting to cry when he pops up in my head. It's constant now for the last few weeks I don't know why it's happening all of the sudden. I've moved on got a good job and even a new partner .. but ... I feel irrational . Feeling like I miss him but I know I don't.. he was very psychologically abusive . I don't know why after two years I still feel like I'm living with him when I have these memories.. or flashbacks.. how do I stop myself because these flashbacks are making me think and act like I have to apologize to him. It sounds insane... but I feel like I have to tell him I miss him.. I don't know what's happening and it's really affecting my relationship and work. I feel I will regret it but I can't stop this thinking it's like he's in my head manipulating me all over again and again |
| Question: Is this picture good? Posted: 08 Feb 2019 04:45 PM PST https://ibb.co/JmYStpQ |
| Question: What do you guys think? When it comes to looks?..? Posted: 08 Feb 2019 04:33 PM PST I hope this is not a silly question, like on most days, everyone outside is just average, but like for example when it comes to race, I see white men and white women as equal such as in looks Black men seem to get more attention than black women as I've noticed, I don't know why? Asian women and men seem equal to me in looks, but Asian women are fetishized for some reason? As for hispanic men and women I would say the same, but I could say the women are more sexualize fetishized. So what do you think? Are women in general more attractive than men? |
| Question: I am having trouble pooping i cant get it out what helps with this? Posted: 08 Feb 2019 04:31 PM PST |
| Question: Agree or disagree: most 20-year-old females have boyfriends? Posted: 08 Feb 2019 04:21 PM PST |
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| Question: What are some of your standards in a relationship or friendship.? Posted: 08 Feb 2019 04:17 PM PST |
| Question: How do I tell my boyfriend he is too short? Posted: 08 Feb 2019 04:07 PM PST |
| Question: Am i lookin sharp today? Posted: 08 Feb 2019 04:07 PM PST |
| Question: Why must girls constantly need attention and be pampered every hour of every day? Posted: 08 Feb 2019 04:02 PM PST We always go out on weekends when I'm not as busy and as focused on work but then when I have work 45-50 hours during weekdays I just feel exhausted when I come home and I don't always feel like going out to do stuff or stay up hours talking to her. We're both 23 living in an apartment and 9 months ago I got an entry-level accounting job. I love my job but the company I work for is highly competitive and I have to work longer hours and produce much more financial info than everyone else for the company if I want to be a long-term and high level employee there. And when I say I don't feel like going out or talking on weekdays she saysthat I just don't love her or care about her. Sometimes she'll start crying in which case I just get up and walk away because I'm not in the mood to put up with it. All my ex-girlfriends were like this too and even my mom was like that growing up. Why are girls like this? |
| Posted: 08 Feb 2019 03:58 PM PST I asked my husband to return a sweater to the store. I told him that I was going to call the store and let them know about the return. I also said to him that I was going to call him later with the name of the sales associate he needs to ask for when he is there. He responds to me by saying that it would help if he had the name of the person who knew about the return. I'm like, "Did you not hear what I said just now?" He said he didn't hear it. He has done this not just to me but to our sons too during a conversation. We'll be discussing something and he'll suddenly say something that we just mentioned a minute ago but to him its the first time its mentioned. It's so weird. Its like I was talking the whole time but he never heard me say those exact same words. He does this often. He has been diagnosed ADHD. I'm not sure if this has anything to do with it. I hope someone can share some insight on this trait because it is driving me crazy |
| Posted: 08 Feb 2019 03:50 PM PST I won't start by not looking innocent. Me & my boyfriend started as an affair. I had a boyfriend & he had a pregnant wife w/ 2 kids. This was wrong. I know. No matter how bad our partners were there was no need to cheat. 2 years later, we now live together. We had gone thru quite a bit. Lots of fighting over his ex (always being compared to her, paying for her, putting her feelings before mine, etc.). Trust me, I've tried leaving but always ended up going back. Some days are great & other days I just think it's too much & want to leave everything behind. He always tries to convince me to think about what will happen to his kids if I leave & says to think about everything I made him give up by being with me. I love them very much but I never told him to leave. I've learned to just grow a thick skin & try making this work. I just miss it when it was US spending time with one another. Every single chance he gets, he tries to make it about family time. We have the kids 5-6 days (morning & night) & on the rare 1-2 days we have time to ourselves he calls the kids for over an hour even after seeing them that morning before school, seeing them once they get off of school, & calls them before bedtime at 9:30 or 10. He says he's just trying to incorporate me into his "family life" by ALWAYS putting the kids first & carving out family time. He tries to change my perspective & says time with the kids is "us time." At this point I don't even look forward to our little alone time anymore.. |
| Question: Do guys really want to screw everything? Posted: 08 Feb 2019 03:48 PM PST My guy friend (we are both early 30s) was talking to me about how his gf gets mad when he looks at girls in yoga pants and he was like yeah even though i want to **** them im very loyal. I was like erm i can see knowing someone is hot but if you really loved or were satisfied with ur gf why do you think about ******* every chick in yoga pants?! Wondering how this works in a guys mind.... |
| Posted: 08 Feb 2019 03:45 PM PST Am a guy in his mid twenties and I've been rejected by women all my life. Never been on a date, never experienced a hug or my first kiss and It's damaged my self esteem. I don't want to feel bad any further so, I decided to stop asking women out since it's rejection all the time. But am faced with another problem, as I keep to my self and the remaining pieces of my esteem, women approach me to talk, and they just ghost me or stop, this reinforces the feelings of rejection that never seem to have an end to it. Am tired of being rejected by women and I don't want to keep reinforcing this feeling but when girls approach me, it reinforces this feeling of rejection am trying to get away from, further damaging my self esteem. even though women won't give me a chance, I don't want to feel rejected over and over again. I'd rather be left alone and single forever than to be reminded how much women dislike me so much. What can I do to prevent being approached by girls in college so that it doesn't reinforce my eternal feeling of rejection because at the end of the day, they never seem to be interested.? |
| Posted: 08 Feb 2019 03:44 PM PST So I met this girl at school she liked me and what not after a while we started dating and what not. It was this boy I remember from a while back was never cool wit him cause he got mouth. I guess him and my lady used to like each other a couple of months before me. She made it obvious she wants me. He keeps trying me calling her bae. We fought I lose got embarrassed and what not. I moved on living my life with my girl now he is trying again commenting saying make me a video to bae under our video today and it's my birthday. I'm questioning right now I have stress problems and I'm thinking about just killing him. |
| Question: Should I dump my boyfriend for being disrespectful? Posted: 08 Feb 2019 03:33 PM PST I was watching TV with my boyfriend downstairs and my brother and his girlfriend were upstairs in his room studying. I heard my brother loudly say "Oh God, I am coming". Then I heard his girlfriend say "Oh God, I am coming too". I told my boyfriend that isn't it wonderful that they were studying the bible. He laughed so hard he almost fell out of his chair. I told him studying the bible is serious business and he should not be laughing about it. Should I dump him for being disrespectful? |
| Question: Relationship advice please!? Posted: 08 Feb 2019 03:30 PM PST Hello, I have been seeing this guy for a few months everything has been great. It just became long distance because I had to move home. We made a plan of flying back and forth etc and everything seems pretty great in that way. Recently he asked me if I was seeing other guys and I answered honestly and said I was. He seemed to be sorta bothered by it. But didn't ask for that to change he told me he's not seeing anyone else and has no interest in seeing anyone else. I decided to ask for commitment because I do only want to see him. He kinda went cold said he doesn't like labels. I told him that's what I need. And he kinda has now avoided the topic and is still trying to talk to me about other things. I just haven't responded because I know that Is what I need and no matter how much it bothers me I need to stick to what I do need. |
| Posted: 08 Feb 2019 03:18 PM PST Last month my long distance girlfriend bought a dildo and she used it, her sister texts me and told that she brought and dildo and use it when I told her not to buy it or use it before I told her virginity but she didn't listen to me, I texted after her sister told me. :/ my girlfriend told me it's "her money and her body" and she's "not cheating". Should I break up with her for someone who'll listen to me? |
| Question: How to forgive my boyfriend? Posted: 08 Feb 2019 03:15 PM PST My boyfriend and I just moved in together this past month. We have been together two years, we are in our late 20s. Almost a month ago he came home early from a day trip with his buddies in tears telling me he just slept with an older woman that he met before he started dating me. He was drunk and high and upset and followed up on a random message that he got from this woman and decided to follow up. He said it's not an excuse he did the wrong thing. He was mad all day about how I decided to go see a therapist instead of confining to him with my issues. He has now blocked her from Facebook and agreed to tell me whenever a woman contacts him. He has been so far. He has been apologizing last month. His plan for us is to get married. This is the only time he has cheated on me in our relationship. I've told him that If he cheats on me again I'm leaving. I love him but I doubt his character right now. I used to be confident about how I wanted to marry him now I'm not sure what I want. He has been doing everything to earn my trust back which is why I'm staying. I stopped seeing the therapist because this whole ordeal even though he told me I should try it if I want to, that I shouldn't stop because of what he did. He swore he will never do it again and he is still worried he ruined our relationship. I love him and I believe he regrets it. Hes treated me perfectly up until now. How do I stop thinking about the betrayal? I'm less sad about it and more angry. |
| Question: Why are East Coast girls so mean? Posted: 08 Feb 2019 03:10 PM PST I'm from California and never had issues with other females. All of my female coworkers in California were so nice and friendly. I could make friends easily with other females back at home wherever I went. I just recently moved to the east coast and girls out here seem so competitive towards each other. I have a female neighbor about the same age as me, I've smiled at her a few times and she just looks away or keeps her head down. Her roommate does the same thing to me, just keeps her head down. Whenever I check out at a store here on the east coast, a majority of the time if the cashier is female, they will always give me attitude or not even say hi. I have a full time job here now, and I have a female coworker who treats me like crap. She's twice my age, in her 50s. She is so nice and smiley to all of our male coworkers but is always competitive with me. I'm so nice to her and always help her but she will never help me. She always slows me down at work and plays mind games with me. Why is this more common on the east coast? Is this how they are raised here? |
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