I have been living With a close friend of mine for the past year. He has been helping me with my daughter, taking her to school, doing homework with her. He is my best friend. Our lease is up this year and I found out that he went and put a deposit down on another place without telling me. I was very hurt by this. He just said that he changed his mind and wants to sign another lease with me. But he is asking me to pay $800 of the $1200 that he is losing toward his new place. Remember, he went behind my back and put a deposit on a new place. There were some signs that he wanted to move but he never actually told me and he just went and put the deposit down. Should I pay him? I offered to pay him half so he doesn't lose that much because I don't want to lose him as a roommate or best friend.

My room mate was going to move out. We spilt the bills down the middle. He wanted to move out at the end of outle current lease and didn't tell me. He went and put a deposit down on another place without telling me. He paid $1200. He now decided that he wants to stay and I'm very happy about that. He's a very good friend and helps me ALOT with my daughter. Takes her to school, does homework...etc. so now he expects me to pay him $800 of the $1200 he paid to secure a new place. What do I do? I offered to pay $600 which is half of what he's losing. Remember that he went behind my back and put this deposit down. Should I make a big deal and tell him I'll only pay half and risk him leaving?

I've asked a couple questions about this before, but I've always left some details out and I've never gotten any really helpful, good answers. I started a new school really recently, within the week, and upon entering the building this uncomfortable, dark feeling just washed over me. I don't know if this makes sense, but whenever I'm there I always feel like I'm in danger? It is just this specific place, I've never been there before this so it's not like I have anything negative to attach it to. I met a girl there, she is really my only friend so far, and on the first day she started talking to me about she was abused, suicidal, and got in fights a lot? I've been sitting with her at lunch but she honestly gives off such a bad vibe and I don't know what to do. I went in there hopeful and positive, I was even excited, so it isn't like I was looking for the negativity in the situation. Advice?

my name is George, and I work in a factory. There is a beautiful girl that works in the cafeteria and she's really cute. Her name is Jasmine and she always makes eye contact with me, but one day one of her co-workers came up to me saying that that Jasmine really likes me. so when I was paying for my food I gave Jasmine my number, she smiled and blushed. Later Jasmine messaged me after work but her conversations were really boring, she kept giving me one-word replies. So I asked her if she wanted to get some coffee with me this past Monday, she said "maybe" ( like it's a yes or no question) so Monday comes around and she never texted me, so I began messaging here today, and again she's only giving me one-word replies so I got pissed off and I deleted her number. why is she acting this way???????? he clearly shows no interest in me but she's always staring at me at work Can i have advice???????

I want to ask my wife and some of our couple friends to play messy games. I plan to make a large version of the game pie face and have a pie face tournament. The loser gets covered in a large pie and the winner gets to play the winner of other rounds The winner of all rounds gets gunged and pied in the face by each "loser". As an adult would you be up for this? How should I ask? What should the winner be gunged with? Any other messy games you can think of?

My friend seemed to be upset with me yesterday for technically leaving her behind when she was taking to long to put her things up. I figured it was okay to leave because she said bye when I walked out of the room. I dont know if she was being sarcastic or not, but she never actually went to lunch afterwards and I don't know why. When we left for our next class I asked her if she was okay, but she sarcastically told me she was fine so I thought she was mad at me and I decided to just walk ahead. I still feel like she is mad at me because today, even though she sat at the table with my friends and I, she got up and left soon afterwards. She doesn't like being around one of my friends so, I figured that's why she left to go stand outside. When she had first gotten to school, she was more quiet and seemed more out of it and tired. It was at least 27°F outside when she left to sit outside alone. She was previously sick and out for a few days, but she was still sitting outside in the cold despite that fact. She ended up randomly snapping at me in our second period and was actually freaking out. She told me that we needed to talk about everything and that it needs to happen before she loses her mind. I dont know what she meant by that, but she ended up running out of the classroom and grabbing the trashcan with the teacher telling her to. She ended up leaving with the principal and then someone came to pick her things up. I don't know what is going on with her anymore.

Often when young people go to party with group of friend, maybe classmates from school. Party get big after few hundreds showed up. Often when they saw their ex boyfriend or girlfriend that they having big problems with in past. They decide to time to leave party. I mean why willing to gave up their rights to stay at party and enjoy the party for rest of night? I mean can't they pretend they didn't see their ex at party? Or at least avoid ex like go to different room. Hang around with different people to avoid ex? My attitude is you have a same rights to have good time, no matter if enemy is near you or not. You can't give your freedom away by avoiding them. You let your enemies win and you lose.

I went to pick up my girlfriend for our date. She was not ready so I talked to her mom Ann for a while. Ann told me her computer had a problem and she could not get her email and ask me if I know anything about computers as she was desperate to get her emails. I inspected her computer and it had a virus. I went to my car and got my laptop computer and copied an anti virus program to Ann's computer and it removed the virus. To say ANN was happy she could now get her email is an understatement. She was overjoyed. She said let me give you a hug to show you how much I appreciate you fixing my computer. She gave me a hug and much to my surprise she also gave me a kiss. WOW. That is a great way to say thank you. Then the totally unexpected happened. My girlfriend watched her mother kiss me and said "Our date is off. I will never kiss someone my mother has kissed". Should I just move on and not try to explain this problem was not my fault. Please give me some advice on what I should do. THANKS

One of my best friends has a little problem. His buttcrack is always showing. If him and I hang out, it is showing. If we go out and eat, his buttcrack is showing. When we were in high school, I saw it showing everyday. What should I do? Does it know it is showing or does he somehow not feel it?

So my friend of 10 years owns a group that I am in all the time. A few months ago a girl joined which we greeted and stuff. We barely know her but she told us some very personal information about her and her illness. My friend began talking to her and gave her admin permissions the first week of entering. Two weeks later I got a Dm message from her talking about " Your friend really likes you and he talks so much about you to me." Also me and my friend want to become roommates and meet in real life and she kept asking me "So -Insert friend name- said you guys are meeting up this following year and going to become roommates?" My friend in Dm is telling her what we are going to do? And I kinda try to ignore her but she'll ask my friend "Hey have you talk to -Insert my name- and he'll be like yea about an hour ago. Then I have to answer. Around December she gave my friend some cake through mail and kept asking me for my address so she can sent me some. I told her that's ok and you don't have to do that, but she said, "-Friend name- accept them and lol that'll be rude not to accept this gift." So I didn't want to seem like the bad person and accept them. NOW in voice call my friend brought up about the roommates thing and she'll like I wish I had bond with someone like how you guys are. Then he said you can join us and be our roommate too. And she was happy and eagerly accept. I don't know maybe I'm being the annoying one but I feel like I'm being forced into a friendship I don't want. I barely know her, don't know what she looks like but my friend just telling her all the stuff we talked about over the years. Also don't say I need a life and need to make friends in real life. Because I know that. My situation at the moment isn't good enough for me to make friends in real life.

We're essentially a trio of college best friends who have no one else really to be close to, and so won't let go of each other. She became friends with him first, and has had feelings for him since the beginning of their friendship, which i supported because they seemed sweet together. However, I've noticed that as ive gotten closer to him, and as our friendship trio has really solidified, it seems more and more like unrequited love and i dont know what to do. He treats me the same way he treats her, and sometimes even appears to care more for me in certain situations. Additionally, i definitely feel a potential for deep friendship between me and him, but i am always so afraid to try and become better friends with him because I don't want it to seem like I'm interested romantically, but he's such a good friend to me and i love the conversations we have. Do i keep my distance from him and not allow myself to become good friends with him to protect my other friendship and her feelings? Do i let my friend know that it really doesn't seem like he'll ever like her back? It's incredibly sad given the extent of her crush, but he does not ever show any indication that he likes her romantically, and he's had plenty of opportunity to do so. He's never flustered around her, he never initiates as ny type of flirting with her, and the only tension they have is competitive tension because theyre on the same club sports team. What do I do?????

I cant for the life of me remember what it was called and all my google searches have turned up fruitless. I used to use it a lot like 4+ years ago and I'm dying to find it again. I know it started with "the" and ended with "project". My brain keeps going to the Lazarus project even though I know that's not it.

how would u rate her body from 1-10? with 1 being the worst body and 10 being the best? does she look like she needs to lose weight? Will choose a best answer

I am a girl. I met this other girl at my workplace about a year ago. I was very reluctant at first to call her my 'friend' because she bullied me. She pushed me into the wall, pushed me in my seat, and treated me like I was her enemy. - the first time I met her, she was making fun of what I was wearing and the way I spoke. Told me I was 'royal' and that I should live with the royal family - she would spend time staring at me, and then she would say to me 'I wish I was you, you look nice all the time and wear nice clothes' - Other people started telling her that she was so obsessed with me, because she kept asking me if she could meet my boyfriend and she would stay behind after work just so she could get a chance to meet him. - She would constantly roll her eyes at me whatever I said. One time I walked into work feeling confident about myself, and she would say to me 'you're so elegant' and then roll her eyes' - She would always compete with me at work on how much I would get done, and she would keep asking me how many papers I had scanned - She would also compete with me about a mutual friend we both had, and would ask me if she had texted me, and kept telling me how much they were exchanging texts.. Now I believe she has turned me against our mutual friend, because my mutual friend never communicates with me anymore, but they always hang out together. What is this girls problem with me?

I am a 22 year old college senior who has a roommate that has been bullying me since last week. She's called me all kinds of derogatory names such as ugly, nerd, weeaboo and autistic just because I did not allow this guy that she met through tinder to spend the night at our dorm. He ghosted her the next morning and she physically attacked me in the bathroom over it, breaking my glasses in the process. I had to miss an exam the same day to get new glasses costing me 10 points from my grade. A few days ago she threw all my things from the desk to the floor, breaking my HP pavilion laptop in the process and yelled out that my ***** *** is too poor to afford a MacBook and spit in my face. A few hours later, I showed her a box of donuts I bought from the bakery after she got out of the shower and said "see these donuts u ain't getting them anymore u clod!" And she threw the box down to the floor and rubbed two of the jelly donuts all over my brand new top leaving a big stain and I was forced to go to class with it since I didn't have time to wash and everyone pointed and laughed at me including the professor himself and it got to me so bad I started crying and had to leave mid-lecture to sob in the bathroom. I wanna kill myself! 😭💔 my roommate is gone for the weekend and I'm crying really hard right now thinking about what she would do next for me and I contacted residence hall already they keep saying they'll look into it and they never do. Oh my stars, I can't take this anymore!! Please help I'm shaking and hyperventilating in fear!!

So, on September 19th 2018, my ex went to a mental institution because Crisis center forced her to. She was there for a long time, I believe it was called "Belmont behavioral health" and she stayed in the juvenile section. She was inpatient and got caught with her iPad after informing me of what happened. We broke up basically cause we're not allowed to see each other ever again. Fast forward to about November, and she gets her iPad back. She's now on Instagram again and has the app hidden. Me being a certified stalker and spy, I pretended I was my own friend and started to "become friends with her" so I could get info about what happened. She had to clean and fights broke out often. It's heartbreaking. Eventually, she got caught and her iPad was taken. She has no tech and her phone is disabled. Her mother caused most of this because she was a narcissist who couldn't take care of her child properly and blamed me because I was the closest to her. Before her iPad was taken, she had said she missed me and wished I was with her still. Fast forward to now, her birthday was Feb 7th so I decided to text her friend (we'll call R) and R was a total *****. But she decided to tell me that my ex found a girl and didn't wanna see me ever again. That. *******. Broke. Me. She wasn't allowed on her phone, and I text (H) about it and the chick was found at some studio. What? Wtf is this?