My daughter was engaged and we agreed to wait a year. I went to a Bridal Bazaar with her and went to potential wedding venues. Then last month it turns out she married her fiancee with his parents as witnesses. They asked if she wanted to call her mom but she declined because she said she knew I would be disappointed. She told me this last night and with tears streaming down her face said she regretted her decision and wants a divorce. What should I do?! This is a painful experience. First, to see her in pain, second because she betrayed me. It was a sharp and mean break from her family and the fact she wanted his family there but not her own is a slap in the face. She said she didn't tell me because I would be disappointed. I recommended she should take it slow. She is a teenager. I wanted her to finish her college degree first but I told her if she wanted to get married first, okay, but at least wait a year. She agreed with me, but then they decided not to wait and knowing I would be disappointed and not approve, they got married. His parents were very happy because he has depression and they felt getting married to my daughter would cure him. He agreed as well. It was the plan. She is very young and though I would have wanted her to get her degree, she wanted to marry. So I said at least wait a year and get to know each other better. They both agreed!