Whether it is his wife, a whore, or just any other woman. Lol. Men out here these days run around acting selfish and stupid and I try to give them advice cause apparently no men are helping them or they go against whatever men told them to man up... I feel like males can't handle solid advice from a woman. WE NEED MORE MASCULINE GROWN MEN TEACHING THESE FOOLISH GUYS A THING OR TWO SO LADIES LIKE ME DON'T FEEL THE URGE TO HELP THEM.

So my husband and I have been together for 13 years. Since we were 16. We have children. He works, I stay at home. We divorced once and then got back together. The first time we divorced was due because 1) I had just lost our SECOND baby and he didnt even know. Watched me stand there crying, walked by and never knew anything. 2) because he was so caught up in playing the xbox all the time. He never paid me or the kids any attention. NOW, weve been back together for 4 years. Well recently it has started back with the xbox. Or staying gone all the time with his friends. He treats me like I m his slave. He has no respect for anything that I do. I actually caught him not long ago masturbating to some of his exs pictures. Along that time, I found ear rings in his clothes (me or my girls have ear rings. And I asked all of the female family). He would take small things and make a huge argument out of it. Threatened to leave me because I wouldnt let him send my father a message to let him know how sh!tty he was! Hes super childish. He wont whip his butt all the way, which leaves me with poop clothes to get up. I have to harp on his constantly to clip his nails cuz they get so long. Hes getting really nasty like. I dont know what to do.

Put yourself in this position. You are married for over 10 years, have two young boys, have stable jobs, all of the sudden two young girls are coming forward saying they have been abused by your husband on several occasions? Your husband admits it and says he is sorry. You stay with him because you have children together and don't want to hurt your children. He goes on to molest those girls again, would you forgive him? divorce him? get mad at the girls? REALLY put yourself in that position. Don't just say you would leave him because if you were really in that position, maybe you would react differently. I'm asking this because my abuser's wife came and attacked me and my family even though i did nothing wrong. She said I should remove the police report because she has children and her children are very young and need their father. Would you be uncomfortable living and sleeping with a child molester?

I buy the great value orange juice from walmart's in house brand and sometimes " bright and early" orange juice. We have 5 people in our household. I cannot buy the organic orange juice she likes from wholefoods, it will go too fast. However, my wife complains a lot about that orange juice being way more unhealthy than the organic one from wholefoods. She even tried to compare the ingredient list. That organic orange juice was $8 that is far out of my budget. if i buy that organic orange juice I won't be able to afford to buy groceries or give her any money. I think her sister has her brainwashed. She talked to her sister who told her she needed to get the organic orange juice from wholefoods. She has a cold and has been needing to drink a lot of orange juice. The difference between them is that both my sister in law and her husband both are bringing in a fairly large income. My wife works but makes pennies at her job, her income is ridiculously low. She can't live the lavish lifestyle her sister lives. My wife told me " my sister husband's always buys the organic juice, you need to the same. " I told her since she can't appreciate the bright and early orange juice then I won't buy anything at all." Why does my wife act this way?

My wife had our first baby last month she's suffering from postpartum depression even one month later she's still gets depressed once in a while. She gets upset over everything or nothing also cries at every little thing. Most days she doesn't even want to get out of bed. How can I comfort her ?

My dad and step mom always call me when i get off from work at 12am...ny husband doesn't. One time i didn't text him when i got home. He was on a weekend trip with his guy friends. My husband didnt call until the next afternoon to make sure i was ok... I could have been abducted by then...usually i cant sleep until i know hes home safe. Does he not love me?

I'm 25 and my period is late for 11 days now. This isn't normal so I got a gut feeling that I could be pregnant and took a test. It came out positive even tho I've been on birth control. Talk about luck? I NEVER want a kid and my husband was always aware. He always said "Okay but we will see when the time comes" just like everyone else, but I still strongly don't want a baby. I'm extremely upset over this and still haven't told him even though it has been 2 days now. I'm not sure how to approach him and our families? For God's sake I've only been married for a year now. A baby is not in my list and never will be. He didn't want a baby either but for him it was like "If it happens, it happens, but I don't want one."

I'm 27 years old and have 2 kids. I have been having a Sexual Relationship with my wife's best friend for 10 months. I told my wife about this and she kicks me out of the house. I don't want to be married to my wife anymore and I don't want to see my kids either. All I want is to be with my wife's now former Best Friend and start a life with her. What do I do?

A guy I've never met but been friends with on facebook for years got jealous when he found out that I had a boyfriend. He has a big social media presence and has a lot of girls who comment on his post and flirt with him and ofcourse he flirts back. We tried talking before, we exchanged numbers and at one point he seemed really into me. He loved all my post was the first to comment and say good morning he was very charming and then it slowed down. Eventually he would tell me he was going to call and wouldn't but would come on my page liking pictures and post like nothing happened. Well recently he found out I am now seeing someone and he called me and wanted to make things official even offered to marry me and wanted me to leave my current boyfriend. So confused when he's so hot and cold with me. We've been friends on facebook for years but never met in person. I just need to know what he did this for does he really like me or is he playing a game. I have to admit I have started liking him over the years but he has so many women that flirt with him everyday and he flirts and likes their pics and some days he says absolutely nothing to me and then maybe two days later here he comes liking and loving pics and telling me good morning beautiful. But my main thing is when he asked me to marry him when he found out I was with someone and this was just two days ago.. We haven't even met and don't live in the same state why would he say that and get so jealous?

When my ex wife died in 2015 I jumped for joy when I found out

How come some women who a new moms get to be stay at home moms, their husband looks after them and they live in a nice house, meanwhile I am a mom too and we are stuck renting an old apartment and I work at a crappy job just to prevent being on welfare? Or I end up on welfare if I lose my job and then I'm in an even worse situation as the whole world looks at me like I'm a piece of sh** and a bad parent

Gymnast Shawn Johnson had a miscarriage with her husband Andrew East. Shawn Johnson because of the miscarriage, has been having an affair with USWNT Soccer Player Morgan Brian's husband Fabrice Gautrat. Who agrees that Shawn is trash?

My boyfriends ex wife (whom he has a daughter with) still goes by his last name. I wouldn't have a problem with this if she hadn't cheated on him and got pregnant with the other guys child. When the child was born, the baby's father wanted nothing to do with the baby so my boyfriends ex wife gave the baby her maiden name as her last name. I've read online that mothers like to keep their married name so they can have the same last name as their child. I completely agree with this except for the fact that my boyfriends daughter lives with him the majority of the time. His ex wife's illegitimate 2nd child lives with her all the time. Her father lives in a completely different state. Am I wrong to think that since his ex wife isn't around much that she should change her last name back to her maiden name? What do people do in these kinds of situations. If I were in this situation I would want the same last name as the child I see the most so no one questions me about why I don't have the same last name as my child. The least his ex wife could do is change her last name back to her maiden name on Facebook.

I see so many women dating guys who are still stuck as boys and never really grow up to be responsible, caring, and mature men. They date guys who are 30 years old who still think it's cool to be a "bro" and wear air Jordan's and backwards SnapBack hats and still work a low wage job, no health insurance, live at home with mom and dad still, drive a souped up Honda with cool rims and a spoiler and blair rap music full blast and don't respect women and just want sex. And all the men who are responsible, good looking, hard workers in medical school or doctors or lawyers or engineers with masters degrees who own their own home, are romantic and loving, responsible, dress well and take care of their appearance, workout and stay lean and fit, and are confident and sociable and good family values and want to raise a family and love their wives are ignored

6 months? a year?

I'm in shock to find out. I ask her to wait a year, take it slow, she's so young. She agreed and even though I wish she had a little more time to grow I decided to help her with whatever she needed to plan her wedding. She couldn't wait though!! She eloped with her fiancee and his parents went with them. They were very happy and supportive as their son has depression and they see an improvement in him because of my daughter. I am heartbroken. They rushed in and now she is not happy being married. She is 18 She told me with tears streaming down her face she made a big mistake.

There's a 65 yr old man who is a musician at church.He was fat but around the holiday he had to drop like 180 pd.s so far.Anyway during Sunday school his wife was already sitting inside. She was at the end of the table but there were 2 empty on the left and right of his wife. Next to the one empty on her right was another woman. When he enters in he comes i and sits inn between 2 other woman and across from the woman he was caught staring who he also blocked on Facebook who he complained about the way she dresses. Anyway when the other woman finally got up to leave as she left first. The musician looked at her. opinions

I went snooping and I found out he cheated a month before we got married. He had sex with another woman once and fingered another woman. This was 8 years ago. Should I tell him I know and confront him or let it drop and not saying anything? Should I confront him?

Husband and I live in a different state. When MIL visits us 2-3 times a year, she wants to "clean" our apartment. She immediately goes to the bedroom almost every time and goes through our sex toys and my lingerie. She told us we shouldn't be using sex toys and that I have really pretty lingerie. She also asked my husband if I we satisfy each other. On 1 of her visits we wanted to have sex after not having sex for 2 weeks. She was going to the store so we decided to have a quickie in our bed with the DOOR shut. She ended up coming back sooner than we thought and she walked into our room, screamed, and told us to cover up. She wouldn't leave until we were dressed. That same day, I said I was going to go to the gym and she immediately says to husband,"I dont need to go to the gym because I already have a good figure right?" Additionally, she hated when we were dating and would go on dates without her & she cried when we announced our engagement and said I was taking him away from her. She tried to take control of our wedding details and when husband shut her down, she cried and said that she just wanted him to love her and not hate her. What kind of weird attachment behavior is this? I'm getting frustrated.

I found that my husbAnd was searching for slutty looking girls (that we know in real life) and a porn actress on his Instagram page. They showed up in his recent searches (not the suggested people) and he flat out denies it. From what I can tell, a person would just not show up magically in your recent searches, if you did not in fact search. So, it's been 3 days of arguing over this and he refuses to admit it. To be clear, things haven't been that great between us in the bedroom and I feel like he would prefer one of those girls to me besides that, at least if he was honest about it, then I could move on from it but it's now really the lying straight to my face that is the issue. Not really sure where to go from here??,

My wife doesn't want to have sex with me anymore. She's only 46. I'm on a business trip and I've emailed her at least four times telling her that I love her and she never responds same way. Our children are now in their teens, 14 and 15 years old, and I think they are now old enough so the divorce will it not be terrible. 10 years ago my wife had an affair and kicked me out of the house for a few days. This was the love of her life. An old boyfriend who she noe swears she wants nothing to do with. I worked very hard to keep the marriage together for the children. We did that and we've been happy for the last 10 years. We're still OK we have a good family unit we don't argue and I care about her deeply and I want her to be happy. But frankly I don't think she loves me so maybe it's time for her to find another mate and for me to as well. I'm guessing the children are old enough now so they can take this . As you might see I've pretty much figured out what I want to do but I would like the opinion of others that might be in the same situation or have been in the same situation and what they have done. Thank you.

I'm not weird, I'm just upset that some married people have certain privileges like when it comes to taxes for example. My bad I dont want to stuck with the same woman for the rest of my life! **** you government!

Is it ok not wanting to have sex at all? I love my wife, I really do. But last time we had sex she bit too hard to the point my penis is still hurting. I have no idea if she was mad, but she bit like she wanted to harm me. When I asked her why she did that she said she was being just playful. I am scared to have sex with her again. I don't know with what she might come next. Is it ok not having sex for while? I still have the mark and it bleed. Thank you.

real old as in 70s not 50s .

My wife and I are both 25. My wife went out of town for 4 days. During this time, her best friend came over to the house and we spent quality time together. We were in bed and she was naked on top of me. The sex was great. Can I trust my wife's best friend to keep this secret?

My partner has a problem with alcohol, finally he decided to think about go to A.A I'm scared to be in this situation and scared he never changed and doing this just because I've sad I would live him... What do I do?