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- Question: Should I attend a boarding school?
- Question: Is doing semi-permanent and permanent makeup really such a bad job and shameful?
- Question: Is my friend competing with me?
- Question: When I saw a young blonde woman outside, I greeted to her. Would she be friendly to me as well ?
- Question: Why do women these days want to have jobs and be like men but they still want men to be chivalrous and wipe their butts?
- Question: Aren’t abstinence only areas kind of dumb?
- Question: Making my life thrive, means leaving the South?
- Question: Should I take back custody of my two children that I have no seen since September 2016 due to their custodians denying me visitation?
- Question: What should i call my boyfriend? hard to decide!! we just got together too?
- Question: Is my daughter ruining her relationship?
- Question: I am an adult male. My mom has warned me about spending too much time on adult content online. If I avoid it on weekends, will that be OK?
- Question: I recently realized I my ex was a narcissist.At the beginning of the relationship he said he was drawn to him cause I had jinn.Why say that?
- Question: Ella, aun me quiere?
- Question: Is it rude to write this message to an acquaintance on Facebook?
- Question: Is my neighbor crazy?
- Question: How to deal with a married man who tries to use me??
Question: Should I attend a boarding school? Posted: 05 Aug 2018 03:56 PM PDT So, me and my boyfriend have been in a long-distance relationship for about 6 months now. The distance is becoming more stressful for both of us. However, he does attend a boarding school in which I could attend. The school offers almost identical programs as the one to my own and I could easily slide into the schools extracurricular activities. I know it is stupid to move based on love alone but it kills me not to be able to see him. But, I am a junior in high school and would I want to make the transition to the school and have a whole new social atmosphere? Then, there is also cost, but there is financial aid. From the talks with my parents, they would support me if I expressed so. I feel like its foolish to do such a thing for love but also the thought of not being able to see him is just as bad. I know that either my or his school would prepare me for the university level. |
Question: Is doing semi-permanent and permanent makeup really such a bad job and shameful? Posted: 05 Aug 2018 01:54 PM PDT I want to go to beauty school and after I graduate, I want to go on to study to become a permanent and semi-permanent makeup artist doing eyebrows, eyeliner, and lips. I also want to do scalp microblading on balding men who want the appearance of having a buzzcut by choice rather than actually being bald. The program also covers paramedical tattooing for scars and pigment problems. My father thinks this is a horrible idea because he wants me to go to a four-year university even if its in something that doesn't pay well like history or sociology because its more "respectable" and I could always go to grad school or law school in his mind to be able to make money. However, I have no interest in that and I would like to do something that I am passionate about, which I will graduate in much faster, and which will make me a lot more money rather quickly. I don't want to graduate with a lot of debt. I want to be able to make money after I graduate and then start my life. This is a field where men and women are willing to pay a lot of money, especially in the area that I live in. So is the job that I want to do very shameful or a bad idea? I think that if it makes good money and I am happy that is all that matters. |
Question: Is my friend competing with me? Posted: 05 Aug 2018 09:30 AM PDT Known for about 10 yrs & I've outgrown her. It's gotten better - much worse than when I look back. In the beginning, she would say, "oh wow..private school? Over achiever. Oh wow - family vacations growing up? Must be nice." There always seems to be a comparison. I would ignore & not retaliate. She's also the copycat who passively accesses me of copying her. (I know, it's petty). During a yoga class, I started wearing grippy socks. She saw it & said, "oh I think I need those too." Cool, didn't bother me. Then before a class she said, "oh look, those are the pink ones I HAVE. They're JUST LIKE MINE!" The tone was defensive. Also, when I got into grad school she said, "oh wow, you're making ME want to go to grad school." and "you know you're better than everyone now, right? Because EVERYONE JUDGED YOU." (Backhanded compliment?) When she would ask how grad school was, I'd say how hard it was & she says, "Oh, does that mean you want to quit now?" NO! She recently just got engaged. I took her out to celebrate. Out of nowhere, she shows me her ring & says, "so what kind of ring do you want?" like she was picking me brain. Almost passively like, "this is what my ring looks like, don't copy it." I'll be done w. grad school at the end of the yr & my bf has been so supportive & waited 'til I would be done. I know she'd find an excuse to be petty & accuse me of copying her of getting engaged. In my 30's, not waiting around bc of her.... Recently, she asked how school was & I was SO excited: I needed take 4 classes one quarter & I surprisingly scored my highest grades throughout the program. It was very hard & was proud of myself. I usually keep a low private but bc she's my friend, I told her and she just responded with shock, "oh wow'. That was it. When acquaintances asked about school, she would be in the background saying, "yeah, smartypants". I couldn't tell if it was teasing or passive-aggressive "teasing", you know? Since then, she's been avoiding me, which I'm kind of glad. She has a new co-worker friend. I feel she's the type of person to get new friends to complain about all the people in her life. Something happened last year where she was CLOSE with a known gossip & of course, she spilled private information about me. She seemed the happiest around the gossip & unknowingly became a blunt gossip, w. no shame. Can't be close w. her... WHY IS SHE LIKE THIS? She's successful in her own right too. |
Posted: 05 Aug 2018 08:52 AM PDT When I saw a young blonde woman outside, I greeted to her. Would she be friendly to me as well ? |
Posted: 05 Aug 2018 04:32 AM PDT Women if you want equality learn how to pick up the tab or open the door for a man for a change.He is your boyfriend not your DADDY. |
Question: Aren’t abstinence only areas kind of dumb? Posted: 05 Aug 2018 03:15 AM PDT They tell people don't use contraceptives yet at the same time you can't get an abortion if raped as an early teen. |
Question: Making my life thrive, means leaving the South? Posted: 05 Aug 2018 03:09 AM PDT |
Posted: 05 Aug 2018 02:35 AM PDT A little background -husband shot himself august 2015 -his family supportive -stayed in AR until I couldn't afford it and moved back home to Texas with my family -started to fall apart after not grieving or processing his death -dads drunken rampages out of control -I was starting to fall into massive depression and drug addiction -asked in laws to care for kids for 6 months -cleaned up got stable job and home almost at 6 month mark -September 2016 they tell me they were awarded custody in March 2016 and told the courts my "whereabouts were unknown" while I stayed with their grandson and had multiple ways to contact me -family started to claim I murdered my husband and abandoned my kids because I wanted to party and didn't want them -2017 finally saved enough to get lawyers -September 2018 final hearing coming up to grant me custody back -specials needs daughter with congenital V, deafness, and physical disabilities that require constant all day, every day care and one on one attention most of the day but with five kids would be almost impossible to give her that. My concern and my psychiatrist's concern is that the kids are in well rounded loving homes and have bonded and attached to their care givers and have no idea who I am or who their baby brother or step siblings are. I'm worried I will be doing more damage bringing them back home to a five child household where everything they know is gone and their world is turned upside down. Thoughts? |
Question: What should i call my boyfriend? hard to decide!! we just got together too? Posted: 04 Aug 2018 09:19 PM PDT |
Question: Is my daughter ruining her relationship? Posted: 04 Aug 2018 08:09 PM PDT My youngest daughter (I have 2, my only kids) started dating her boyfriend when she was 16 he was 19 we weren't thrilled but they've been dating almost 10 years. There was this boy who was 12 at the time who had the biggest crush on her. We ran into him again when he was 16 and my daughter was 21. The attraction stemmed to have become mutual she would awe at everything he said or did there was a certain tone in her voice when she'd say his name and she even called him sexy. He'd message her every night until i guess he gave up, her boyfriend wasn't happy about it but fast forward years later to last night where he finds out family at a party and they start cuddling the whole night. He had his arm around her waist she was all over him there's a picture of him kissing her forehead and she has this giant smile. It also doesn't help that he's become buff since their last encounter. I worry she's throwing away her life by talking to him again he's cute and sweet but she already shares a home with her boyfriend of 10 YEARS |
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Question: Ella, aun me quiere? Posted: 04 Aug 2018 05:24 PM PDT Hubo una chica(Aria) que le dijo a su mejor amiga(July) que le ayudara a conquistar a un chico(yo). pero la mala amiga, termino conquistando. a ese chico (el chico no supo, del amor que Aria sentía por el). Ese chico soy yo, y mi relación con July se termino(después de 2 años) porque ella se canso de mi. y un día me dejo, hace no mucho, July me confeso lo que un día Aria sentía por mi, y que ella se metió en el medio de lo que pudo haber entre Aria y yo. Hoy entiendo porque Aria me decía "Jhonny, Jamas seremos amigos, Jamas !" ella si le tenia lealtad a esa mala amiga. hoy ella no son amigas. ya no se hablan hace mucho, e tratado de acercarme a Aria, pero ella me evade, aparte se que anda con un chico. mi pregunta es ¿Ella aun me amara? Nota: July siempre le contó lo peor de mi, para que ella tenga una mala imagen de mi. |
Question: Is it rude to write this message to an acquaintance on Facebook? Posted: 04 Aug 2018 04:14 PM PDT "I have a question I wanna ask you? Do you by any chance remember this particular student from school? If so what did you think of him? Me even though he was a very difficult person to get along with I did feel a great deal of empathy for him because of the bullying and the cruel treatment he received from his classmates. I kind of feel bad for not being there for him when he truly needed a friend and felt his school years would've been better if I've befriended him. There were times he would act obnoxious towards me and all I did was kindly ask him if he could please stop doing that, looking back I'm starting to think I was being rude & snobby towards him by not asking him if he was having problems and me not comforting him when he was acting obnoxious towards me." I feel like I'm a total jerk for not being there for this particular student when he was crying to me for help and attention by acting obnoxious towards me. |
Question: Is my neighbor crazy? Posted: 04 Aug 2018 11:25 AM PDT I live in an apartment building and she lives on the second floor. Everytime she goes to the garage, she has to pass by my unit because we live on the same side. Everytime she passes by, or when she leaves or comes home she always says "Hi'" to my mom and us, and her voice is very loud. She would have a long conversation with my mom, even if my mom is inside and she's outside. If no one answers or if I'm the only one in the house, which I never answer, she would call out my mom's name and say, "Where are you?" She does this even at 8 in the morning, and it always wakes me up since her voice is very loud. |
Question: How to deal with a married man who tries to use me?? Posted: 04 Aug 2018 06:35 AM PDT I met this man 7 years ago. I fell in love with him shortly after we met and didn't know he had a girlfriend. I asked and he told me that he had a long distance girlfriend But I was too in love with him at that time and started having sex. I always knew I should have ended having sex with him as the relationship between him and me was going nowhere. But I was too blind and was crazy about him so was not brave enough to walk away. 5 years ago, he broke up with his then girlfriend so I expected I could be his gf but while I didn't notice, he started having relationship with a new girl (now his wife). I told him I would leave my but he never let me go because he wanted to keep me on his side. We have been doing what normal couples do such as having lunch, dinner, shopping etc. just spending time with him makes me happy even if I was the other woman. He got married 3 years ago, without telling me so I didn't notice for one year. I just kept seeing him like always have and I had an affair without knowing. He never told me he is now married and have kids. Since I found out his marriage, we met a few times but didn't have sex though he wanted to. I don't want to have sex with a now married man. I know he wants sex from me. A part of me still care about him. This maybe just an obsession. I don't want to see him anymore but he keeps contacting me and insists he wants to see me. Why does he still need me? I really cared about him when I was with him even though I was just for sex. The fact that I was never chosen keeps making me sad. I am worthless. All I need to do for man is sex because I am not attractive inside. I am not a girlfriend or marriage material. This is what all men thinks about me. Now married man who had kids still wants me just for sex? I don't know what to do. |
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