We text through Snapchat and instagram the most and he's been uploading videos on Snapchat and liking photos on Instagram but he never replied to a text message and I was not upset over it but now I am because he claims his phone broke. We text through both apps, insta and snap so I'm not sure why he's lying. How do I respond to him?

He wanted to move and we thought it would be a good idea for him to just get a roommate. A woman in her 60s emailed us, she has a nice house so that's where he went. He is a veteran & was waiting on disability, so I paid his rent which was only 200/m until his roommate who I will call Kat called, said her and my dad made a deal that he pays her with some of his back-pay. My dad had to wait a couple years for it, it was enough to put a down payment on a house, that was his plan. When my dad finally received his money, he paid Kat what he owed her & I was helping him look for houses. Next thing I know Kat convinced him to pretty much spend every dime he has on her, her home and repairing it, doubling his rent to 400/m telling him he's helping pay off the house (mortgage is $350) &that if he does this she will be leaving her house to him or me. This is the short version of everything, I'm leaving out a lot but believe that we helped her out a lot. She never had children & my mom died when I was a child so Kat and I became close, like mother/daughter, spending mothers day and holidays together. Well my dad called me not long ago and told me that Kat was drinking and apparently the truth came out, that if anything happens to her she wants my dad to pay her brother and sister 100 each a month for the rest of their lives. She has never brought this up, her siblings have put nothing into the house, ¬ only that but my dad has her house almost paid off. 200/m isn't bad but he's already put nearly 20,000 into her & the house. We're unsure if she's going to leave it to him. She drinks &smokes. If she dies before the house is paid dad will be stuck with that bill too. She said she doesn't care what happens after shes gone& she wants her siblings to have a little money. Dad only gets about $800/m after insurance comes out. Idk what to do. Should I have my dad move in with me and look for a house while he still has a little money left? He wants to. She has refused to put anything in writing but when asking my dad a year or so ago how does he know she's going to leave him her house or or at least let him stay there for the rest of his life, he said she told him she "Took care of it". I'm starting to feel like she has taken advantage of my dad while I have been gone. He got money and she wanted it. She talked him into buying her a lawn mower, computer, car, gutters, she even got new furniture from Ashley's on credit that I'm sure he's paying Apparently my dad is trying to turn me against her, is what she just called to say

Women have to bear the pain of losing virginity, gag reflex, anal, penetration, pregnancy, childbirth, breastfeeding, painful latching, engorgements and lack of sleep due to feeding every 2 hours. She had to sacrifice her career and hobbies more than the guy. Also, the biological clock is way more lenient on the guy than the woman. She has to get serious, but he has the liberty to play around more. Why is the burden more on women than men?

This was accomplished through a "cousin who can fix it up and sell the car for you." A cousin that you've bought vehicles with before, had work done by with your vehicles, and had a general built level of trust over time with. This jerk though, took my car to, "him" after we had discussed it with him personally. Only it wasn't his cousin, it was this new ***** he decided to help out. Obviously, I never would have sold it to her. That being said, nothing was signed. I was simply waiting for a buyer for any paperwork or when this, "cousin," found a buyer. I wasn't expecting much, as the car was having some serious problems by the look of it. Should I go to the police and press charges? My dilemma is in thinking; does that make me the vindictive scorned ex partner? What consequences can you imagine though? Yes, I understand the whole, "**** those pieces of ****," and how wrong and selfish this is of them. BUT... I, on the other hand, am looking at my options in this. Obviously, I'm already disgusted with these two and their selfish behavior. I'm not looking to react, but to come to whatever is needed here. But what the hell am I supposed to do with this? What can I do that's not just me being the ***** ex? I know I shouldn't care about that, but I don't want to be creating any more drama and bullshit talk over this.

I stay out of social media because its all drama and and it comes with being depressed which I do NOT want to be. Does every cool guy have social media?

El hecho es que siempre me preocupe que no dure lo suficiente, pues cuando me masturbaba duraba que, unos 6-8 minutos creo y hoy con mi pareja el problema es que no logré acabar, creo que estuvimos por más de media hora y yo al ver que se estaba impacientando pues me movi muy rápido por unos 5 minutos al final me frustre y fingí el orgasmo, lo saqué rápido y bote el condon para que no lo vea, me pudieran explicar porque paso esto? Y la verdad es que si estaba exitado solo que no llegue a ese punto

I'm 15 female I'm in an all girls school and that's probably one of the reasons for my awkwardness, I never had an activity outside school and I always find it difficult to start conversations even with girls but mostly with boys my age or older. I hate how weird I am but I always try to get out of my comfort zone and talk to other people but it always ends badly. If it's about self esteem, I didn't like my body but then I started working out and putting effort in my diet now I accept my body bc I know that I've been working hard to look how I do now but I still can't really build friendships. I've dealt with a lot of trauma when I was younger and I am bipolar but I don't let it show so I really don't get it I'm trying my best but it doesn't seem to work

There is this woman who used to attend the same international college in America as I did. I was a foreign exchange student, as she was. I'm originally from the UK, she is from Japan. When I was 18, I won a scholarship at one of America's top colleges. She attended the same school shortly before I did. She was 20. So long story short, she would bully me into giving her money, since I come from an affluent home. One time, she threatened to lock me in a room full of snakes and spiders given my phobia for both if I didn't give her what she wanted. She even slapped me in the face whenever I resisted. And whenever I appeased her, she would just walk away, blissfully. However, whenever I caught her alone in an empty classroom or conference room, she would self-harm or be curled up on the floor or in a corner in a fetal-like position. I would even catch her crying. I always wondered why. After she spent 5 years in prison and was charged with a $25,000 fine, she was sent to a mental institute to be put under psychiatric evaluation. She was diagnosed with ASPD, BPD, Bipolar I and Major Depressive Disorder. After much contemplation, it then all made sense; the reason why she would always say to me "I'm gonna pass my pain onto you. The pain I'm feeling will be yours". After 7 years of therapy, she is now living what appears to be a normal, happy, healthy life with a husband, a son and a twin son and daughter on the way. But why? Why did she want to pass her pain onto me? I'm not in touch with her. I got word of how she's currently doing from a friend. And one of her friends invited me to a dinner party that her and her husband is holding in Japan. It's at a steakhouse in Tokyo. I'm conflicted as to whether or not I should go.

For example: #1: Not being open about what is bothering them and then getting mad when the man doesn't know what the problem is. #2: They tell you they're mad about something you did and when you ask them what it was, because you're not sure you did, they won't tell you but again automatically expect you to know what it was, still won't tell you anything you ask. #3: Saying one thing when they really mean the opposite, like saying "No" when they mean "Yes"; like: "You don't have to do that", when she really means: "I would LOVE for you to do that, and then getting all upset when the man doesn't, because it sounds like she wouldn't care or appreciate it if he did. #4: When you ask if you can do something and if they would be okay with it, they say: "Sure that's alright, I'm cool with it", when they really mean: "That's not alright, I'm so NOT cool with it at all, and if you do that you're in deep ****!" And then when you actually go do it, they come unglued later, when they were the one who made it sound like they would be okay if you did what you did in the first place. #5: Turning something you said, something completely innocent in and of itself, and turning into something nasty and using that to cause an argument. #6: This is one of my favorites, when they actually like you, but play hard to get. (And women complain that men don't share how they feel...) Why don't women just say what they mean, and how can you get a woman to open up to you like that?