Their dad has been a drunk and so they'll take their mom side but their dad is my blood relative.

I'm debating whether or not it's a good idea to move out of my house and live with my boyfriend and his mother. If I do decide that's what I want to do, then we plan on staying there for about a year or so until we save up enough money to move out into our own apartment. Also, he wants to stay with his mother a little longer because he's the only one that takes care and looks after her. I've talked to my parents about this possible living situation, and they're completely against it. They said that they would be hurt because it'll feel like that I'm leaving my own family to live with somebody else's family. Also, they're afraid that his mother might try to push me around or convince my fiancé and I to live with her a little longer so she won't feel like she's losing her son. I honestly don't know what to do. I want to be closer to my fiancé, but at the same time, I don't want my family to feel hurt or disappointed in me. What should I do?

Are latinas families racist when they say no gringo for my daughter.Is it wrong for white giy to be attracted to latinas ?To want a 50/50 relationship ?

I did make contact with him and told me his dad turned on parental prtection, so he cant unblock me. It is vacantion and i cant make conact with him very often. I cant wait until the vacantion finishea. It is too long. I even told him and his father that i am sorry, but i am still blocked. Helpp!!!!!

My dad like "practical" gifts. He likes things like organization boxes and flashlights. How do I present these gifts in a non lame way?

My parents are currently divorce, but unfortunately my Mom she's been Emotional Eating to make herself feel better about herself because her Boyfriend Dumped her. My Father has a girlfriend who is very nice to me but my Mom is Jealous of her. The Comfort Eating is causing her to Gain Weight to where she couldn't fit into her extra small t shirts that mush anymore. When I try to tell her that her comfort eating is not solving her problems and making her gain weight, she was stubborn about it and denied it. How can I help my Mother with her Emotional Eating habit. Even my Dad's Girlfriend is kind to Pity's my Mom's weight gain despite my Mom's jealousy to her.

Okay I have a cousin Angelina 19 years old who I care about but she can be very arrogant, egotistical and full of herself. She likes to act like she's number one and hot **** because she's one of the popular girls in college and she has lots of frat guys flirting with her and saying how attractive she is all the dame time, I personally find it annoying and petty. How do I deal with a cousin who is like that?

I stopped going out with her because everytime we go out, even to kid or women's stores he is with her yet he can go out with his friend alone to walk in the mall so nothing is wrong with him. Her son won't work, and they are in a bad way where dad is working long hours at his store and his two capable teen sons sit at home doIng nothing all day besides playing video games and walking the mall with mommy. What gives. How can people raise kids to be useless? They both could've worked at their dad's store during the summer yet did nothing. The older son just graduated high school with bad grades and mommy will continue taking and bringing him to community college cuz they won't let him drive. Thoughts?

I have a cousin Angelina 18 years old and she can be very arrogant, egotistical and full of herself. She likes to act like she's number one and hot **** because she's one of the popular girls in college and she has lots of frat guys flirting with her and saying how attractive she is, I personally find it annoying. Why do teenage girl let arrogance get to there heads even tho they are just like everyone else.

So my Parents are Divorce and my Dad has been dating this lady who is actually a very nice women to me and my dad, but I think my Mom is jealous of her because she's kinda the jealous type. What makes things worse is around the same time my moms boyfriend ended up dumping her, this made her very upset to the point where my Mom started to emotional/comfort eat to make herself feel better about herself because her boyfriend dumped her, but it's causing her to gain weight to the point she could barley fit into her extra small t shirt anymore. When I try to tell her this is not the right way to handle your problems she acts very stubborn about. I like to know how is the right and reasonable way to help my mother though this tough time.

I m 19 years old I dropped out of college in February so I m staying with my mom she is charging $300 for rent when at first I jad a problem with bc I was obly getting $400 checks and even when I was working 2 jobs it was just a lot especially when I buy my own food toiletries pay my own phone bill etc but she provides me a way to and from work But I have accepted that so I just give it to her on another hand I have my father who does not stay with us and who is having financial issues and I recently saw that the money I was giving him for the phone bill he was not paying the phone bill with it and with his situation he started asking me for money and I would give it to him bc he would yell at me or make me feel guilty bc of his financial situation and. Everything I gave to him I have not received back today I gave him $105 when I didnt want too and I am really upset about it I even texted him and told him I wasn t gonna send him anymore money after this and he totally disregarded it and now I m really upset bc I didn t wanna send it to him . I m trying to save to get a car and move out plus I gotta take care of me pay rent and help around the house and this is just really stressful Please help!

At first we thought it was sibling rivalry that has lasted so many years. But it seems every year my daughter gets worse and worse and meaner and meaner. I'm even afraid of how bad she gets. My other daughter has gotten to the point where she just can't take the bullying anymore it seems to be every day this is happening. We tried taking her to get help but the psychologist said that she was ok. She puts on a show for other people and they don't see her true colors. I need help I don't know what to do next. Please please help me She is 15 years old and hasn't grown out of it

I've been dating my boyfriend for about a year and a half and been living with him for about 4 months. About a 3 weeks ago his parents and Little brother died in a terrible car crash. He was crying so hard he was shaking. It was the first time I saw him cry it just broke my heart to see him that upset. They were the only real family he had, his extended family could careless about him. Only a handful even bothered to show up at their funeral. Since then his freeloading family has the nerve to start bugging him for money (his parents had large savings and life insurance policy and they know it). He tries to act strong but he can't sleep, barely eats anything and sometimes he'll kinda zone out. It must feel like the world is coming down around him, just don't know what to do. He's already seeing a counselor, I just want to help him the best I can. So I have a few questions. 1, How can I get his family to leave him be? 2, is there anything I can do to take his mind off of things? 3, is there anything I can do to help him sleep and eat better? I know it'll be a long time before things even begin to get better him, and I'm sure it be really rough on the holidays. We always use to go to his parents for thanksgiving so I'm sure that will be especially rough on him. I just want to be there for him however I can. Moving and having a new start doesn't sound like a bad idea but it definitely not something I would bring up for at least a year. But a vacation a few months from know might not be a bad idea.

My mum's shoulder replacement operation is on 14th September. I've saved up for years to go to New York City and I finally got enough money for a 3 week holiday. However, the day I leave also falls on the day of my mum's shoulder replacement op. Because of this, she wants me to cancel my once-in-a-lifetime trip to New York to look after her while her shoulder heals. This is a once-in-a-lifetime trip for me. If I don't go, I probably won't ever be able to go in the future. I've asked her if she wants other people to look after her when she's gone. However, she doesn't want anyone to look after her besides myself. While her shoulder heals, she can't pick up anything that is heavier than a glass of water. What should I do? Should I cancel the trip to look after her? Or should I go? If I go, she'll never forgive me.

My mom passed away when she was 78, my sister is saying that our mom was so young when she died but I don't really see 78 as too young. what do you think?

I ll be working in the fall a job that makes mid 5 figures, ( not a lot), and my parents offered to let me live there rent free, but these people make fun of my weight, call me racist names ( i m darker than they are), make fun of my acne. Is it worth saving those 2 years of rent or should i just move out? what would you do?

My family got into a huge fight because of my sister being a toxic manipulative person. My dad kicked her out and then me. I'm staying at my friends house and now my dad is texting me to come home. It's been two days since I've been home and last time I went out when my dad wanted me home he slapped me. I'm scareded he's gonna slap me if I go home. It sounds ridiculous and I don't want to get the police involved

my dads been in a relationship with this girl mary for almost 5 years now. they're dating. they live in separate houses and aren't married. also, mary's 8 year old daughter is kind of a brat and whenever my dad sleeps over (which is rare) she yells at my dad to get out of mary's bed and go to the guest room. my dad looks at mary like what and mary just goes "brian can you just sleep in the guest room please?" my mom tells me that mary is just using him for money or just doesn't know how to break up with him. i used to find that hard to believe because mary is actually a really nice lady. why hasnt he moved in or anything? i mean we've gone on week long vacations and camping trips with mary and her daughter so why can't we just move in after 5 long years?

my mom is a bipolar alcoholic. when i'm living with her i'm walking on eggshells constantly. everything i do angers her. she's vindictive and manipulative toward her boyfriend (who i'll miss a lot if i end up moving). my moms boyfriend's parents live in the in law in our basement.. i love them dearly. when my mom has threatened to kick me out and calls me all these names they stand up for me and take me in. that'll be hard for me too. they've practically raised me (while i'm at my moms house at least.) i also have a puppy who id miss SO SO much. my dad is an amazing parent. i can be myself around him, he lets me do stuff outside of the house (he is fairly still strict though.) he makes sure i do good in school and he loves me and my little sister a lot. he lives with his parents right now but that's because he had a rough time finding a job, he has a great one now and could get an apartment or small house in a year or so. if i live with my dad, i could be happy and free, but if i live wih my mom id have constant fear and anxiety, but i'd have my puppy, my grandparents, and my moms boyfriend and my stepsiblings. sorry for this ramble. i just don't know what to do. ps i'm 13

Currently in college and am having all sorts of trouble; from parking to registration, etc. My parents died at a young age in a car accident and ever since then my aunt has been taking care of me, my autistic brother, and my two little sisters. I'm almost done with college but today had to have been one of the most stressful days of my life. I look at those who have better cars, parents, homes than me and start cursing myself and my deceased parents for starting a responsibility they can't finish. I look at my little siblings and try to tough it out, but it seems like an everyday beating. I try not to pity myself and be humble but it just hurts mentally. I choose not to talk to people about it because all the responses i get are either "someone is in a worse situation than you, be grateful" or it is not my problem. Why is life so difficult for those with no parents? Why is it much easier for people to say your not working hard enough rather than actually helping out?

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So my Parents are Divorce and my Mad been dating this lady who is actually a very nice women to me and my dad, but I think my Mom mighty be jealous of her because she's kinda the jealous type. What makes things worse is around the same time my moms boyfriend ended up dumping her, this made her very upset to the point where my Mom started to emotional/comfort eat to make herself feel better about herself, but it's causing her to gain weight to she could barley fit into her extra small t shirt anymore. When I try to tell her this is not the right way to handle your problems she was being stubborn about. I like to know how is the right and reasonable way to help my mother though this tough time.

When my dad was a kid, he grew up in Hawaii, but I forget which island. Apparently, he, his younger brother, and two of his friends snuck away from a field trip when they were like 10, climbed up a volcano, and ate the food left there as an offering. Immediately after, one of his friends fell in the volcano (after climbing over the safety rail) and landed on the only ledge near the surface so they could help him climb out. They got lost trying to get back to their school field trip and wandered until morning when a tour bus picked them up and took them home. My whole life, my dad has had terribly bad luck. Something at his house is always broken, the car breaks down, and he's always getting hurt. He's a very nice guy and doesn't blame his problems on anything, but after he told me that story everything made more sense. So my question is, can I travel to the same place he went and leave an apology offering as his daughter, or does he personally have to do it?

Im 20 years old girl and my relationship with my mom is not always good, not always bad but most of the time she is yelling and acting aggressively. She never advised me. She never taught me anything like a normal mom does. We are friends and Itell her everything but she always speaks loudly (yelling tone). When I dont help her - let's say with cleaning the house - she spends a whole day, even 2 without speaking to me. She always gets sad of the smallest thing we do (me and my sister

I'm 16 and I live with my dad along w my brother (15) and sister (19) my dad always been know to get angry and be really crabby. Bc it's summer my sister is never home and my brother has been staying with my mom. My parents are divorced and my mom lives w her bf. Me and my dad went out to eat this morning and things were fine. But today everything went downhill again. He started screaming about hair being in his shower which wasn't me, it was my sister. And then he started screaming saying "Jesus ******* Christ what the **** is wrong with you, you're ******* stupid" about a wet towel being on the floor. He was so mad, he was throwing stuff and calling me stupid and retarded. I hate when he gets likes this bc it scares me so much, I couldn't stop crying. I texted my mom asking her to please pick me up and she said "you can't expect me to pick you up on demand just bc your dad is yelling." my mom and me don't have a good relationship at all. I suffer from bad anxiety which I tell nobody about for that reason. My dad has been like this before and I've gone through this plenty of times, he's throw glass cups on the floor and gotten in my face before. My dad left for work and I still can't stop crying. My mom thinks he's just yelling and it's whatever but it's so much more than that. I'm afraid of him when he gets like this. I feel stupid and weird even writing this. I have trouble talking about my feelings with anyone so I can't talk to anyone about this especially my dad.

Both my parents were born and raised in the Middle East, I believe this is one of the many factors that contribute to my fathers anger/hot temper. He's been like this ever since I can remember. During his raging fits, he threatens, yells and belittles. As a kid he belted me a few times but that hasn't happened for the past 8-9 years now, currently I'm 16 years old. I've read all around the internet of ways of trying to deal with this and the answer I keep getting is to move out/away, But the problem there is that I'm not 18 yet so that's not a viable option. I've also read that in order to make our relationship better I have to spend time with him, but the problem there is that it usually makes things worse. Whenever I'm working/spending time with my dad his huge ego usually causes him to get mad at any suggestions I make and starts name calling. And God forbid if I give my opinion on anything then he'll just say that I'm always arguing and that I never agree with him. I'm really getting fed up with this whole situation and I can't wait to move out in 2 years but can anyone give me some advice for these 2 years that I'm going to have to endure?

My dad has made it clear that because of limited finances we need to move. Specifically to a state that has much lower property taxes. My mother is set on Florida. That's fine but the fancy house that she wants near the water, she can't have. I suggested we look at the houses on the Carolina coasts. The taxes are very low and housing costs are low. She became angry and upset and yelling and whining and it was like I was watching a baby. How can I help her see the realty of our situation? My dad makes the final decisions as far as what we can afford etc... My dad calms her down by telling her ok we'll find the house you want in Florida. He doesn't want to upset her. Should I just leave her be and eventually she'll come to grips? I feel like our roles are reversed. I'm the mature one and my mother is throwing tantrums. I don't care that she feels upset about not getting what she wants. It's time for her to look at the situation for what it is and accept that we can't afford a more expensive house and taxes. What do I do? What can I say to her?

Hey everyone so today at school, I had the worst day of the week :( I failed my EXAM!! Then at home o have little to no support.. my parents don't talk with me, they just yell bad stuff.. the internet is the only good place.😢😢

I only seem to be attracted to asians and whenever I tell my mom about an asian guy that I find cute she always stays quiet or rolls her eyes. She's not racist or anything it's just that she believes that when you marry a foreign person they'll end up getting fed up with living in our country and she says that he'll end up leaving to go back to his country and that if we're married and have kids he'll leave me alone with them or something, just because of stories she hears on tv of women leaving with their children back to their home land or men leaving their wives with children when they marry foreign people. She thinks that marrying a foreign person will be complicated but nowadays even if you marry a person that has the same nationality as you, it can get complicated. I believe that in a relationship there needs to be patience and trust and you'll fall in love with whoever you'll fall in love with as love can be interracial and stuff but she's making me overthink things. Any advice please?