My best man has randomly turned vegan and has been for a year but neglected to tell me... - our food choices have been confirmed (roast beef) and he agreed with it although he was vegan when I asked him so why should I fork out an additional £198 because he didn't have the minerals to tell me? - His time in replying drives me insane, he's supposed to be my best man and can't reply to a text or call within 72 hours. How can i expect him to be on the correct timings at my wedding day or come to a suit fitting? - He's too lethargic and laid back (which is great socially) but not when we're planning such a big event. - The lying of his phone not showing a notification, i've been alone with him and when his GF was texting him his phone was pinging and tinging more than a business mans phone on the brink of a deal. - I asked him to be my best man the day my fiancee and I got engaged he said yeah, I don't have a clue what to do though. So I told him the basics and when i said about a speech he said ' why? do I really have too?' I also asked the other week if he's looked into it more and he said ' not really '. - I love him to bits but even my Fiancee who said he's lovely has said she's got zero confidence that he'll do well as a bestman and we both agreed that my other cousin who isn't a tortoise would excel and do a great job Now my main issue is how do I tell my original best man that I don't want him to be my best man any more and that he'll be a groomsman instead?

My fiancé and I have been together on and off for 5 years. During one of our breaks, I briefly got with another girl. During that time period, my fiancé and I discovered we missed each other, so I dumped that other girl. A few weeks later, that girl called me and told me she was pregnant. I got an in utero DNA test, and the child was mine. I told that girl that if she decides to keep it, all I'm going to be is a co-parent. My fiancé understood, and said she still wanted to marry me. Well, things got sour lately. My fiancé and I spent months planning a wedding. And by bad luck on our wedding day, my baby mama went into labor a month early. When I heard the news, I left and attended my baby's birth. My fiancé was angry because her parents had paid all this money for our wedding, and I left. I told her I felt bad, but I needed to be there for my son. She didn't even ask how the baby was doing. She even added that our wedding was more important than the baby because it cost more. I then got upset and told her she was being selfish. Now, she's demanding that we reschedule another lavish wedding. I think we should just go to the courthouse. I told her I don't have the money for that since I have a son to support. She said if I loved her, i would sacrifice my son's needs for her. Should I just pay her parents back and dump her? I'm starting to believe my son's birth falling on our wedding day was a sign we shouldn't get married. Am I right? what should I do now? Is she worth it?