I asked this before yet I cannot find the answers or it might have been deleted so I will try again. #1 Now instead of phone faceup it's now facedown. #2 Accidently I saw a text that said goodnight sweetpea & she replied goodnight baby with an emojie thing with a heart. #3 She told me it was a schoolmate and they were just goofing off not to worry. #4 Now her passcode has changed from 4 digits to 6 digits. #5 She has now started working in a new clinic he also works there on a different floor. She leaves for work and returns at about the same time each day. Work is apprx 45 miles away. Am I making too much out of this or should I start spying or something? If so how to do that? Update: Update to # 2 Text was from him saying goodnight sweetpea to her. She said he calls everyone that.

My husband loves to have his alone time. He enjoys spending time with me and our son (1year old). But really cherishes his alone time. I'm a stay at home mom and he works M-F 9-6. During the weekends I want to spend it as a family, whereas he will spend time as a family but also always wants time alone or with his friends. I have a hard time being ok with him doing this because we rarely see him. On weekdays when he gets home from work. Once our son is in bed at 8pm, he also wants his alone time then too for at least an hour. He's starting to feel trapped and unhappy because he doesn't have his space. But I just know that If I let him have all the time he wants, we won't see him much. I'm worried and idk what to do. Please only give respectful help.

After a long marriage my wife divorced me for reasons I'm still not sure of except that she said she was not happy. We were separated for over a year before the divorce was finalized. Then she asked me to come back home shortly after and it hasn't been working out too well for the past month. Did I make a mistake for going back and why would she even want to try again? We have kids and that's been my concern if we end it a second time around but this time it would have to be for good. Thanks, Joe

For years my husband has had this idea that we have a top 5 list of celebrities that if we ever had the chance to get with them it would be cool simply because they were celebrities. He'd always make a joke of it but 15 years later he's still talking about it and it's starting to piss me off. He said most women can't handle hypothetical situations so that's why i can't have fun with this. He even told me to pick my top 5 guy celebrities but why would I want to do that when I'm married to him? Am I that much of a prude who can't just have some fun knowing I'll probably never meet any of the guys on my list? Lately his list consists of Cardi B, Paula Patton, Janet Jackson, Rhianna and 1 more I can't think of right now. I'm his wife and don't want to think about him with any other woman, even a celebrity who he has ZERO chance of meeting. Does any other couple do this of is my husband just weird? Is he trying to say he'd cheat on me if given the chance?

This really infuriates me. I had one of his friends wives call me and threaten me for sending pictures of myself to his friend. When I tried to explain she didn't believe me. So I confronted my husband and he's been very inconsiderate about it. He says I should be happy that he's married to an attractive woman. He also brags about our sex life to his friends and sends my pics as well. I'm really upset with him about this. but he doesn't see anything wrong with it so he's continuing. What do I do about this?