I had plans to hang out with a girl so I bought snacks that she told me she liked. When she saw that I bought those exact things she laughed and called me a dork..

when I don't have a bf. He has a gf btw.

my freshman orientation is tomorrow and in middle school i used to get bullied really bad and i got in 3 fights and was always a dick because of it and over the summer i've been trying to reinvent myself how to i prove i'm not a ******** anymore ? (ps i am a girl)

i was in a group project and everyone in my group excluded me while doing the project and even had a group chat without me to work on the project. now they told everyone in my grade i didn t do any work? what should i do?

Since I was 6 I have been surrounded by babies. I have two nephews and a nice that i love like my own kids. I m about to be 15 and strangely I feel ready for a baby. I know my family will still be there for me and my best friend was over the moon to be a godmother. I d do anything and everything to give my baby what they need. I plan to stay in school and go to collage. It does not bother me one bit if people judge me or say that i m throwing my life away. I want a baby because i know i can love it and do everything to provide for it.

She's pretty manipulative and still involved with my former circle of friends (bad influences who I have no desire to be in contact with anymore). Should I ask her why she's doing this or just block her number?

Life is sooo hard and depressing, I got rid of my friends because they're idiots. I feel very depressed, I'm in deep financial debt and can't do anything until I paid everything off. I can't really make friends where I'm stuck at because of the "you need friends to make friends" technique. I have a financed car and I still have to pay off. I can't move out and relocate, and possibly start a fresh life. Why is life very difficult?

I'm a senior in high school and i first me this girl Lilly in middle school. She is apart of my friend group and always hangs around us. i feel like she is always fake towards the group, especially me. I find that whenever the "popular" girls are around she acts like she is bffs with them and forgets about us. She will always go for the next best person.she acts very fake and lovey dovey towards everyone! On instagram she won't comment on my photos but of course she will comment on the "popular girls photos" saying **** like "omg bff your so pretty" "ahahahahah omg u slay!!" But if she ever does comment on my photos it would be something like "pretty" or "cute".its almost like she cares too much about looking cool and is ashamed about being my friend. when i told her happy birthday in may she just commented "thank you" with no hearts or emojis. Although when we are in class together at school, we talk and laugh with each other just like bffs would! I'm honestly so confused if she's my friend or not.

It turns out she never went for 5 weeks and actually went for 2..... why would someone even lie about that? Same with another friend she told me she was jetting off for 2 weeks but only went for 1 as I found out.... why are people lying about silly things?

I am someone who is always giving. I give and give and give. And two things happen. Either people take without gratitude or they reject it through flattery and excuses. I live in New York and work in the middle of Manhattan. I not only work at a lot of events managing them and everything but I also go to a lot of events. When I invite friends, acquaintances and associates, this is what they say. "Oh I'd love to, but Im busy tonight" "I can't, I work tomorrow morning" "I lost my credit card" (literally an answer) "I'm a little tight right now" "I'm broke" "Yes! I'd love to!" **2 hours later** "Hey, sorry I can't make it" " I have plans tonight" "My family is in town" "That's too far" etc.... Like wtf? I don't like the thing from the Goonies, neither am I a boring guy or a spaz. I have hung out plenty of times with my old friends and my family, but nowadays its like people are either broke or busy

Ever since I was 8, I have never made real friends. Not to say that in my life I've never had acquaintances and friends. I have. But I have never had a real close BEST friend. The last time I had a best friend was (2014-2016). We were really close until we both moved to the same college and I saw a side of him I didn't like. I grew to really dislike him over the past two years and at this point we are on talking terms, not enemies...but deep down I have some resentment towards him. It seems that whenever I think I have made a friend these days...it lasts for a very short time and then it suddenly ends or goes nowhere. For the past 6-7 years I have been praying to God for a friend, someone I can relate to, that wants to hang out with me etc. It seems when God seems to answer my prayers and I find someone that seems to be my friend, after a short while they end up being a disaster. Just recently, I made friends with one guy, we were hanging out a lot all summer. Working out etc. He'd invite me to various stuff and I felt really good because very few people have ever went out of their way to try and hang with me. But just recently, he's started ignoring me and doing several things without including me. I texted him why and he told me because "I always say I need to study for an exam"...mind you this was a Friday evening. I replied " Really?...Ok" I didn't hear anything back from him till today. Whenever I have friends, I feel happier and less depressed. I know this for a fact. Doesn't God care about this? Why can,t he understand my sadness and struggle?

I live on my own and my family lives close so occasionally we will make plans to get together. The problem is we make plans and then they will bail on them. I have made plans to go to a fair and they say we will go on a friday or a weekend and then all of a sudden the weekend will come and i will get a text about doing something else all of a sudden. I let them know i can do it because i am available and then there is no text - no communication - radio silence and i got blown off for both things. I am not sure what to do because that is pretty rude. Should i stop making plans? It makes me feel like i am the last choice for their plans - they made other plans and they dont care about even canceling because it doesnt matter. What would you do?

im in the military in a completely different country. when I first got here it was fun. I was social, going out, partying, drinking. then I got really drunk and blacked out.lost my wallet and everything. I stopped going out as much. All I do now I stay in bed, sleep all day. work and sleep. I think I m getting depressed. I want to make some friends and actually explore the country. how do I do that? I only had fun with mold friends because they would use me for the rental cars I had. I don t really have real friends here. I feel so alone. I don t even get lunch because I don t like being seen so lonely. how does one overcome this ?

We're going to be freshmen (year 10) next year which means everyone in my year will be out drinking and going to house parties. Some might even have sex, I don't know. But loads of people are going to get drunk and everyone is going to age 10x faster than we should. I don't want to do any of that. I just wanna be a kid but I don't want them to look at me differently. Like I'm wierd or not brave enough. I want to get drunk when I'm like 18, not 14. How can I not give in to peer pressure without people looking at me differently?

she follows me tries to talk to me whenever she can and when i left she stared at me and my brother like she was gonna kill us she even followed my brother around like a stalker, CREEPY. she follows me tries to talk to me whenever she can and when i left she stared at me and my brother like she was gonna kill us she even followed my brother around like a stalker, CREEPY. P.S. shes a Special kid

It was super expensive and I don't want him to break it

He basically dumped me after a year together. Before that, while we were together, he was saying he surfed dating app to make friends. I quarrelled with him over it and he claimed he deleted. He got into trouble with the law by upskirting a woman and was arrested. I bailed him from police, yet he turned ungrateful when the case was closed with compensating the woman. He joined same volunteer club as me and flirted heavily with another girl and isolated me in the group. I left the group because of the rumors and being treated unfairly and he claimed he sided with me by leaving the group too. A month later we brokeup.    I was so upset that over another few months I let his family and friends and employer know about his upskirt incident over facebook and social media. He was furious and claimed I was vengeful and dismissed all his deed to me. He kept arguing with me. I finally cut contact last month unable to deal with the lies and accusations he placed on me. He also once stated he wont contact me even though if I ever go no contact because of what I did to him.    Will he ever regret

I texted my friend how has she been because I've not seen her for months, and she replied great, thanks. I hope you are doing well. So, I followed up by asking her how is her school, she texted back few days later saying it's okay, and that she wishes me best of luck in my school work. Is she not interested?

So I met this girl at my college. Weve been talking and going out a lot for the past 7 months. She told me she liked me to my face multiple times and always showed affection towards me. She gave me hints too like telling me she's single randomly and asking me if i like her, ill just say "as a friend right?" But shell just laugh. We hooked up and messed around too. Long story short she went away to study abroad. She reached out to me. When she got back we got lunch one day then dinner the next and i asked her out. She told me she realizes over the break she wants to be alone and that she can only offer her pure friendship right now.. and that she doesn't do friends with benefits. so i asked her if she really didn't have anymore feelings me anymore and she said no... ok then.. fast foward a week since this convo... she called me and is texting me now non stop thruout the day. Asking me a bunch of questions, saying goodnight to me the past 2 nights... its very confusing. I feel like she still has feelings for me but can't admit it? She texted me this the other night... Let's talk tomorrow  good night!! Sleep tight She also called me yesterday to ask me to help her out with something with her car. We talked after and she was just standing close to me, touching me and kept of laughing excessively... when we departed we just hugged.

I went to visit one of my best friends, Victoria, in her state a month ago. She lives with her brother and his family in order to help her sister-in-law with the kids when her brother is at work. Therefore, when I visited, I stayed at their house as well. Victoria kept us pretty busy the whole time I was visiting, but we all hung out the night after I got there, for a couple hours. I felt we all got along well. When I got home, I friend requested Victoria's brother and sister-in-law. A few weeks after, Victoria's sister-in-law finally accepted my friend request. She "liked" a post of mine that night. The next morning, others had "liked" the same post so I checked to see who liked it and Victoria's SIL had "Add Friend" next to her profile, meaning she deleted me. I friend requested her again and it's still pending. Why do you think she deleted me after adding me? I felt we got along well, I thanked her for allowing me to stay at their house, before I left for the airport. It just seems weird. We're both adults, I'm 27 and she's 30. Also, the brother hasn't accepted my friend request either, but has commented on Vicky's post so I know he's been online. I suppose I don't know them well enough to be FB friends with them, but isn't that how you get to know people? The only thing I can think of is that night, we were all playing a few board/card games and during one of the games, you had to guess a word that another was describing. I guessed "bondage" was the word and I was right and Vicky's brother goes "dang, ________'s a freak!" (like sexual freak) and maybe that made Vicky's SIL uncomfortable? And maybe that made her dislike me? I have no idea.

Let me explain first that my friend and I are near the age of 30. This is not some angsty teenager situation. Anyway I've been friends with this guy since last fall. We've really grown close to become near best friends. Or so I thought. He always mentioned that the summer time is very stressful for him because of his work and that he struggles with anxiety and depression from it. He was also in a six year relationship that made him lose all faith in relationships. So apparently this last month he's been having a rough time. As have I, with my own relationship. So as I've been venting to this poor guy, he was apparently so bad in his own situation that he began cutting himself to feel less stressed. I told him that he didn't have to hide anything from me--he mentioned a few times about work "bothering" him, but he's so chill that he doesn't express just how much it was bothering him. It apparently took a meltdown at work for him to finally ask for help from his parents. I feel SO selfish for being upset...but I honestly feel like I don't even know the real him and I feel like everything he's told me is a lie. I feel so bad for venting to him about my own problems, even though he always told me to go to him when there was something wrong. Can anyone offer advice? I'm NOT going to him to tell him how I feel. I feel like that would make things worse for him and that's the last thing I want to do.

I told a friend that he owes me $179.45 from all the dinners I bought him. He lost his job and doesn't eat all the time. Now I feel bad that I told him that he owes me money.

I'm trying not to mess things up with her but we had a really nice fun date. Now she'll be busy for a couple weeks so we might not be able to get together. Should I ask when she is available to talk on the phone? What types of comunication will push her away? What should I do to insure she doesn't lose interest over this time? I'm really concerned she will lose interest. Today we texted each other and she said she couldn't get together this weekend but maybe next week. Thanks

16 years old, guy, uk