so where do i begin. like i was at a football game today and like people from my school were there and theres like two stands, one for the parents and the other for students and i thought i would try to sit in the students section but i was like really tired and made excuses not to go. like idk why im like this. im 14 and i cant even pay at a cash register. Like my mom said to invite friends to the game and like i invited people i cant stand because i have no real friends. and the one person i actually am "friends" with took one day to respond to just say "i dont like school stuff" like im fine being alone but then sometimes its like dang i wish i could have friends like them you know. like im perfectly fine but i'm also worried i'll never get a boyfriend because i'm like this. and then im so picky with who i let into my life its crazy. and i feel like i'm missing out on my teenage years because of this and I also hate feeling like i'm not important and stuff. like my brother who's 6 is already better at life than me. he has an obssesion with like sports and baseball mostly and has his thing and my other brothers thing is like video games and stuff and like i draw mediocre and i dont have a thing. like I wish i was more extroverted and idk i feel like i'm missing out is what i'm trying to say. and it's difficult because half the people in my grade like juul, drinking, and posting about how they want to kill themselves on instagram. so my question is what do i do 😂

Do you find it difficult to only be friends with benefits with a guy or a girl. If you actually like some of the same things they like? Or if you have some of the same things in common? Like if you both like the same kinds of movies, food, music, outings etc. Would you find it difficult to maintain a sex only thing with them? Of course I know having the same things in common doesn't mean you should be in a relationship with that person if you don't want to me. I'm asking if it would make it difficult to only meet up for sex when you share things in common.

So today I learned that one of my good friends fainted from toxic gas exposure during a Chem lab. I was sad because of that fact and that caused my mom to ask me about what happened. I told her about it, and all she did was laugh and say "since the teacher told her it was toxic gas, she probably got panicky and caused her to faint. It was a mental problem", and proceeded to tell me about how back when she was in chemistry, she never fainted. I was just furious because she said this, and I stormed out, crying. I feel like I might be overreacting, but I'm not sure how to handle this situation without being angry at her dismissive attitude

I asked this guy if he wanted to be friends with benefits. But now I just want to be friends. I notice we like some of the same things. Same movies, food, places. So I care about actually having a friendship with him and not just casual sex.

Why is it? There are women who can be FWB and don't get feelings. People say it's the woman who will get emotional. Like it's never the men I really think it's bull$hit.

If I asked this guy to meet for a beer after work, would be do it? * We're both straight guys in our 40s/50s. * We've gone to the same gym together for about 10 years. * He initially started saying hello to me. * He seemed kind of crabby every now and then, so I quit saying hello back. * After a few years, I introduced myself, and he immediately became talkative and friendly. * He seemed then kind of crabby every now and then (it's at 6am when we cross paths), so I quit speaking and would just walk past him, but he'd still say hello. * In the elevator going up to the gym, and when I see him in the street, he always speaks and makes small talk. * A few years ago, I suggested connecting (as we work in the same industry), and the reaction I got was icy- "yeah, I'm on Facebook and LinkedIn". I didn't "friend" him on either. But whenever I see him on the street or in the elevator, he always strikes up a small talk conversation, even though I don't start it. He does not speak to anyone else at the gym except his personal trainer. So: should I suggest grabbing a beer after work? I figure it's good to know your neighbors particularly when you work in the same industry. Thanks. To summarize: HE initially spoke to me, and HE kept speaking to me even though I ignored him. HE always makes small talk whenever I see him. He doesn't speak to anyone else. I'd say that he wants to be friends, but when I mentioned "connecting" (using that word, and not suggesting how), the reaction I got was icy- but it was 6am at the gym, and he tells me that he hates being at the gym.

When you like the same kinds of things? The same movies, music, food, same outings. Can you have a sex only thing? I thought I could but I've realized I care more about having a friendship with this person. Not just a casual hookup with other guys I don't care as much..

I am F(20), my best friend is M(20). He was my best friend's class mate. Have just seen him twice in school, have never talked in person. After graduating from high school, he added me on social media. Started talking on snapchat and exchanged numbers.  I went abroad to study. We started talking more and more everyday. We are very close now. We dicuss everything even if we have issues in our personal life and love life we talk to each other, and give suggestions and advices to each other. We talk daily whenever I get time I reply, and he does the same. The only thing pisses him off is when I see his msgs and don't reply. He scolds me when I don't take my studies seriously. We talk on phone too.  He is just a good friend. I don't have any feelings for him.  Sometimes I think it's weird for a male and female to be this close without feeling for each other  Is it normal? What do you guys think?

People have treated me like garbage in the past and I'm still kinda going through it and my family is nice but they can be rude sometimes too and it seems like when someone outside of my family is really nice to me it's like it surprises me because I also feel like that I'm so used to people treating me bad and I think what did I do wrong? Isn't it sad though that I'm so used to getting hurt by people? I really need some answers

When you like the same kinds of things? The same movies, music, food, same outings. Can you have a sex only thing? I thought I could but I've realized I care more about having a friendship with this person. Not just a casual hookup with other guys I don't care as much

When you like the same kinds of things? The same movies, music, food, same outings. Can you have a sex only thing? I thought I could but I've realized I care more about having a friendship with this person. Not just a casual hookup with other guys I don't care as much.

My best friend just recently came out of hospital and she's all better now she texted me last week " we deffo need to do something when I come out" I got really excited and replied with " yehhh can't wait!!" She then all of a sudden have attitude to me and she's never usually like this. She later texted me saying I can't im going with my other friend who tried to steal my best friend away from me last year???? I don't like her friend and I said I'm moving house that was the last time we could see each other and u chose her. What should I do I've been crying myself to sleep I've told my mum. I need help .

But this time it's different I care about the friendship more than casual sex. At first I thought I could do it like I have before.

She's the type of person who will go like this: Her: Where do you want to eat? Me: I don't know, you choose. Her: No we'll eat where you like Me: Okay, Subway? Is that okay? Her: Yep. (Passive aggressive ****). 1 hour later. Her: I'm offended you didn't notice my feelings!!!!! I told you I hate subway but I just said yes because YOU super insisted on it. Blah blah blah talks for an hr about everything else I did wrong in last 10 years. Ends with - You always want to do everything your way, why are you immature???? Talks another hr about correcting me. Me: WHAT THE ****? (Gets super mad) Her: gets SERIOUSLY mad Us : screaming fight. Petty girl bitching behind each other's back to other friends + won't talk for days. WHAT IS THIS??? CAN YOU EXPLAIN WHAT IS THIS ****????

I used to be really close with my bestie, but now things are changing so much. The whole summer we only hung out once. In the beginning she just didn't want to hang out because she wanted time to herself, and I respect that. The rest of the summer she was busy with other people. All my other "friends" either were too busy or we would make plans and they'd ditch me last minute because they found someone better to hang out with. I was recently at a group event where I only knew one person where the rest of the people knew each other quite well. I'm awkward and tend to come off as sassy and rude because of social anxiety and I don't know how to communicate. I don't mean to. I want to make friends but my awkwardness gets in the way. The whole time I was pretty much talking to myself. The others were engaged with their conversations that I just existed. When I talked they gave me looks as if I was retarded. They wouldn't talk to me. I just existed. People in my life who I thought I'd always be around are leaving. I can be in large groups of people but still feel lonely because nobody wants to put the effort into talking to and getting to know me. It's so frustrating and I've grown to resent myself for the way I am... If I were prettier and wasn't so awkward I'm sure people would want to be friends with me and be with me. I'm so sick of feeling lonely and miserable. Every part of me feels unwanted and unloved.

So if it came down to it and a choice had to be made where you would have to sacrifice your own life to save your best friend, would you actually die to save your best friend, or would you let your best friend die instead? Be honest... If you are afraid to answer honestly use the anonymous answer. Personally I would die for my best friend, even if it was painful and slow. I might be stupid but I would do anything for my best friend. But what about you and your best friend? Also do you think your best friend would die for you?

So my friend andy is ticking me off so much today because he keeps on getting on my butt about how he thinks that I am so immature. He told me that I need to grow up and get a real job and have my own income in order to sponsor to bring this vietnamese girl who they are setting me up with to america. He then told me that I need to be truthful with her about everything. He said that I need to tell her about my secrets and my crossdressing. What I do with my spare time and my hobby of crossdressing is my business and it is not her business. I get money by my crossdressing hobby now. He then criticizes me because I won't get tested. The guy says he was clean. I just don't get why he and everyone thinks that I am immature and I don't get why he thinks that I am not ready and that I can't support a woman. He keeps on annoying me with these thing. I am ready for marriage and I don't get why he thinks that I am not ready and I don't get why he thinks that I can't support her. Why does he think that I am not ready for marriage ?? How come he thinks that I can't support her ?? Why does he think that I am immature and a horrible person ??

My friend is moving and his last day is tomorrow. Last chance to spend some time with my friend before he moves. Problem is though that I happened to get sick this week. I've recovered to an almost-healed state. I'm somewhat sick but my friend's last day is tomorrow. Can I still ask him to hang out tomorrow before he moves, anyway, to spend some time with him? Or should I keep a little distance from him cuz I'm still sick? I don't have a runny nose, just a somewhat horse voice, and I'm not having to clear my throat constantly anymore. Should I ask my friend or not?

Hello, I'm gonna get straight into it...I sent a girl a pic of a BULGE not raw dick it then somehow ended up with a 19 year old male who's now spreading the picture I want to know if there's anything I can do legally.