LONG story short: I had this friend who I also used to work with. I'm 27, he'll be 40 later this year. When we worked together, he was married, but I developed strong feelings for him. He knew after a few months and took advantage of my feelings by flirting hardcore with me. He'd even go as far as telling me "you know I love you" when he would tease me about something. I would be the same way, of course when I said it, I meant romantic love. Obviously he didn't and couldn't. After I quit, I'd still go back and visit (it was a movie theater/restaurant) and I'd run into him and he'd still flirt. His wife divorced him, but he never mentioned WHY. When they were separated, he led me to believe something would come of us and spent the next year and a half leading me on. Even after he got a new job and left that one, I'd still visit him and he'd play on my feelings. I was super attached. 2 and a half years ago, it got to the point where we were hugging good bye/good night as I was leaving the restaurant he worked at and he grabbed my butt several times and we almost kissed, but got interrupted. A week after that incident, I found out he had a girlfriend and he told me he needed to cut ties with me because he didn't know how to be faithful to his girlfriend while I'm in his life. We haven't SEEN or TALKED to each other in 2 years. I've blocked him on social media numerous times, but in moments of weakness, I unblock him. I need HIM to block ME so that it's permanent. I've tried messaging him many times over the last 2 years. He still won't block me. I've "poked" him on Facebook a few times, still he hasn't blocked me. Now, I've started "liking" his public posts to get his attention so that he'll get to the point where he needs to block me. Why won't he block me? I know he's not good for me or anyone. He's a player, a man-hoe. He always has been. I just can't seem to let him go completely, that's why I am practically begging him to block me, but why won't he? By the way, I know I was wrong for flirting back with a married man when he was married, but he's really hard to resist. I know you may not believe me, but I was totally in love with him for 3 years. He's never messaged back. As a matter of fact, he must have it set to where my messages don't even get delivered. He probably still sees them, but he never lets it show that he's seen them. And yes, I've had one relationship since then, but that ended after a few months. I've been single (by choice) for 2 years. I don't even have feelings for him anymore, but I consider him my first love so he'll always have a place in my heart. I've recently taken a vow to be abstinent until marriage, so the next guy I have a relationship with will be the one I plan to marry, so I've had to be extremely picky. It's not easy finding the guy you're wanting to spend your life with. Nah, he never genuinely loved me. He knew he could've been with me, but he didn't want to be with me. He didn't know I was IN love with him, but he knew I had feelings for him. After he told me about his girlfriend, my then-friend wrote him and told him off and he called me and we talked for half an hour and he said he knew I really care about him, but I don't think he knew the extent of my feelings.

Last night my husband was playing on the Xbox, he knows I can't sleep when he plays it but I didn't wanna start a fight so I didn't say anything. So he took my fan off of me and I asked for it back nicely 3 times, and then he start picking on me with sarcasm (which he does ALOT) and usually I don't way anything back. But last night I did. Then he called me a jinx and a hardluck and told me to go to sleep. All while his friends was listening and laughing. So I got mad and I cursed him I said eff you. And now today We haven't talked. I asked him if he wants to go to chipotle, no reply. I bought him candy. And nothing, I don't wanna beg for his forgiveness because he always starts with me. So I was wondering if it's a good thing to just give some space?

My husband is a registered sex offender, and has been for 10 years. I met him when I was 14, and he was 16. We been together for 12 years. Anyway, after 2 years of dating, when I was 16, I told him I wanted to take the relationship, and my parents pressed charges. He went to jail for 30 days and been a sex offender since. When he got out of jail, he waited for me, and we began seeing each other. We got married when I was 18 and he was 20. Then for 8 years we were happily married, but for the past 2 years, he changed. He is blaming me and my family for putting him on the sex registry. He tells me he wishes he never met me. he curses and abuses me all the time. He is scared of sex, and cant perform, he says he has thoughts of police and jail. He tells me he hates me and my family, and doesn't talk to me. When he gets denied work, he comes home and threatens me, and smashes things, and screams and yells. He says he is going to beat up my parents. and burn there house down. I am scared of him, what should I do?

i fanticize about my wife submitting to the charms of a really good looking man with a large c,,, and being seduced in front of me...and she does it and enjoys it more than with me...would she do such a thing?? when we talk about it she says she never would but i wonder...

My husband and I are on the road to divorce. He moved out rather abruptly, and moved a girl in and her three kids to his new house before he even moved our own kids things into the house. She needed a place to stay I guess and claims it's only temporary. Our kids are 3 and 5. I am not ok with this decision because I feel it's hard on the kids. They don't even get a chance to get used to Daddy moving out before there's another woman involved as well as three kids! I couldn't care less of the fact that he's moved on. There's no feelings there anymore but I'm upset he did this to the kids. He says it's in my head and only "my hangup" does anyone else think he's crazy and should put his kids first?? Or am I overreacting?

I keep looping we are together and we are not. He says the only way he will stay with me if he moves into my family's apartment (we share expenses) and leaves his place. He is tired of us not living together and growing financially. We are not married and doesn't really believe in it. Although I love him I feel incredibly dishonest to my family of having him live there and they not knowing. I feel like I am choosing between my family and him. He gives me the emotional comfort and support that my family doesn't, however how he manages his money (he doesn't believe in pay certain bills) concerns me of jumping into that next step.