Family: Question: My Dad likes his step daughter more than me?

Question: My Dad likes his step daughter more than me?

Posted: 14 Aug 2018 01:43 PM PDT

I'm 13 and my Parents got divorced and my step mom has a daughter named Sophie she's 10 years old and he's always nice to her and anything I do he just yells at me and I don't even think he's ever yelled at Sophie ever for doing something wrong it just pisses me off so much she is so rude to me literally anything I do she gets mad and tells on me and my dad yells at me. One time We we're driving somewhere far so I was on my home texting my friend and she was also on her phone and my dad yelled at me to get off my phone and yet my sister Didn't get in trouble. I just hate this so much. I wish my parents never divorced, like today in our hotel room I picked the bed closer to the bathroom because I am sick so if I felt nauseous I could go closer to the bathroom but noooo Sophie wanted that bed so I had to move I text my Mom about the problem but she told me "to be nice" I've been nice when I met her but she just some reason hates me idk what to do anymore I have to go to my dads three times in a week and I hate every single bit of it all my dad does is yell at me I don't get why he wants me there. So is there anyway that my dad and his step daughter can be friends with me my step mom is okay she's not as bad but just pls just answer some ideas so my dad and my Step sister won't hate me, Thanks.

Question: How do you find a blood relative whom you’ve never met?

Posted: 14 Aug 2018 01:32 PM PDT

My mother knows for sure that she has a brother out there in the world. But the only thing she knows is their father's full name. (Never met him, either.) Is there a way to find that brother somehow? Where do people usually go?

Question: Why does my mom say I am living in la la land, but asks me if I want to go to church?

Posted: 14 Aug 2018 01:22 PM PDT

I want to be on tv or film and just be an extra or dance and stuff... living in Hollywood, CA. But she said I need to be realistic and stop living in la la land... cause I won't succeed in that... Million of people dream to be an actor and stuff and most of them failed. I know that... I understand that. How does she know that there is a Heaven?

Question: My mom left the house and we can’t find her?

Posted: 14 Aug 2018 01:04 PM PDT

My mom just had surgery 2 weeks ago for an intestine issue so she can't do too much, but she left the house. She left her phone which is weird. It's ikr she left it on purpose, and she couldn't have taken a car because my dad went to an appointment. I called my dad he said he wasn't with her. Me and my little brother looked outside and can't find her. It's raining outside too. I just got into an argument with my dad and he kept saying he wanted to die and that one day he would have a heart attack. Then he left. I have a feeling this is what made my mom leave. I called everyone she could've possibly met up with but none of them did. What do I do? My dad doesn't seem to care at all. My older brother is driving over here to look for her. UPDATE: we found her. She was trying to help us with a move, because we are moving. We told her multiple times she CANNOT do that because she can end up back in the hospital. She's now in pain and on her bed.

Question: What your opinion of this family fued who’s right? Parents or Son?

Posted: 14 Aug 2018 12:38 PM PDT

So we are in Europe and week are getting off the bus and while get off the bus the tour guide is giving the itinerary paper of the next couple of days. So the son gets off the bus first gets the paper to look at. Then the mother comes and say "Give that to your father, your trying to be in charge." In a harsh tone. Then the son says "I just want to look at it to see what where going to do." Then the father comes out and the son asks do u care that I looked at they paper first and he said no. But then the mother argued. Well guess what he paid for that paper. And the whole trip so we would like to look at it first. She also said it is an invasion of privacy and space personal space. So what's your opinion?

Question: What do you guys think?

Posted: 14 Aug 2018 12:01 PM PDT

If you had a daughter with an autistic kid and If she asked you to take care of her kid cause she wants to go have fun would you take care of them? before you answer let me describe how the things will work Incase some says."well it depends". You have a daughter that work 9hrs a day her 2 days off is Tuesday and Sunday, she only makes you take care of her kid when she wants to have fun which would only be for 2 days and for 3 hrs also it wouldn't be so constant it be once in a while. Would you take care of her kid? I have a friend that does that and my mom always likes to argue about her and say "wow what a pathetic child she is to her mom why would she make her mom take care of her kid when she wants to have fun?", the moment you give birth to a child there is no "I want to be alone and have fun" because you chose to have a kid. If it's emergency purposes I understand but to have fun is not understandable if you want to have fun have fun with your kid. I argue "well some moms need some time off she works a lot plus she's not doing that to her mom constantly, she needs it, she's always having to do everything for her child because the father doesn't do anything, she basically the man of the house. What do you guys think though? I don't mind if you curse at me for this I really want to see others points of views on this. The reason she doesn't bring her child along to events is because he's autistic and can't handle loud noises and very impatient, can't stay still.

Question: Did my cousin give me what I deserved?

Posted: 14 Aug 2018 11:21 AM PDT

"Don't ever message me again! And don't you ever call my mom a liar! All she did was protect you, care for you, treated you as if you were her own daughter, gave you a family you never had, we welcomed you with open arms. And what does she get in return? You calling her a liar and breaking our family. Stay away from my family and any one from my extended family." And she told her mom, "You better not call her ever again. I will be really mad."

Question: Why everyone thinks i am a kid and cant fix anything and think i just ruin everything?

Posted: 14 Aug 2018 09:48 AM PDT

i have an asshole brother that is 7 years older that me. everyone thinks i ruin everything and he is jack of all trades. completely wrong. i fix everything and he is just an idiot asshole who is just too big. everything happens they take his side and say its my fault not his. he dosnt even bother move his ***. just so confident that he can beat up everyone and they will shake in fear . no one will say he is wrong. my father always says let your brother do it. lol he doesnt know how to do it but i know. he just seems so big and everyone thinks he is jack of all trades. they think i am a baby girl and he is grown up man. i am 19 he is 26.

Question: What is my mom's problem. she called me a sneaky witch because I cooked breakfast for my dad and my brothers?

Posted: 14 Aug 2018 09:24 AM PDT

I love to cook, it's one of the many things im passionate about and I cook breakfast for my dad and my brothers. I also cook them dinner a couple nights out the week. I suffer from anxiety and depression and it's one of the many ways I can escape and have a little bit of peace. I don't cook for my mom because she doesn't like the way I cook breakfast. I cooked two eggs for my brothers and my dad, a piece of toast, two slices of bacon. My mom got so mad and called me a sneaky witch. She was like "don't cook your dad and brothers breakfast. you cook too much food that's why we run out of food fast. only fix them one egg each." I also would like to note my mom doesn't cook and hasn't cooked since we were little. we're all in our 20's now. my brothers are 21. i'm 26. I've currently been saving to move out and should be able to move out in about 6 months. I'm a recent college graduate. I've been dealing with my mom for a while now and she constantly puts me down with effects my self esteem and makes it harder for my depression to clear out. I was like " they're going to be starving eating only one egg." she was like " you get on my nerves I can't wait for you to move out. you're too much of a sneaky witch". there's 5 people, food is not going to last long with 5 people in the house. I pay for all the groceries anyways and my dad pays for a little bit". my mom was like " your entire paycheck needs to go towards paying your student loan. you shouldn't even ne buying groceries."

Question: Was this sexual abuse/wrong?

Posted: 14 Aug 2018 09:05 AM PDT

When I was a kid, my brother was severely emotionally/verbally abusive. He'd tell me I was worthless, that he hated me, threatened to beat me, etc. Sometimes, we'd play a "game" where I would bounce on him on his crotch and he'd basically talk dirty to me. No penetration happened, though. He initiated it at first, but I also initiated it a few times because he'd always be nice to me when we did it. I was 8ish, he was 12ish. I've heard sexual exploration between siblings is normal, but I don't know if this was... was it?

Question: When will my mom stop being such a lazy alcoholic ?( all she does is drink and chain smoke)..?

Posted: 14 Aug 2018 09:02 AM PDT

My dad works a lot of hours.My dad asked if i was alright so i said " not really its kind of sad that i have to cook all of my younger brothers meals and during the school year and make sure he gets to all of his extra circular **** and help him with homework. I also never get time alone". So my dad started saying " sorry i'll make sure i do more" so i said " thats not what I'm saying I'm saying mom needs to step up and be a parent. I am his older brother not his parent".

Question: How would you handle this issue.?

Posted: 14 Aug 2018 07:56 AM PDT

I live in NY, my parents moved to Florida 8 years ago. I have many financial issues as well as debt and it is difficult for me to visit them due to the airfare, car rental cost etc..... Up until this year they helped a bit with the travel expense as they are financially in decent shape (at 83 my dad still owns a good bisiness). I went to florida 2 months ago to visit them as dad has had a non life threatening physical condition and of course I payed for all expenses. My dad cannot travel for now. He needs more surgery and so I am going again and will have to put the expense on my already maxed our credit cards. Would I be out of line to ask if they could at least help with the car rental. dad is in pain and don't want to add to his woes. thanks

Question: My mother says she would not have alienated me from my father and step-mother had she known what it would do to me. Should I forgive her?

Posted: 14 Aug 2018 05:25 AM PDT

And if I do forgive her what do I do with the hurt I still feel about it? My step-mother had Bipolar and when she stopped her medicine she would get grouchy (a lot like when someone is alcoholic). My father loved me but did not fight my Mom for visitation like he should have. Meanwhile my mother would tell me "your father doesn't love his 2 kids or he wouldn't have walked out on their mother" and very messy details about his affair with a woman (not the step-mother as she came later). When he got married she would tell us "he sleeps around on your wacko step-mother" and yet he DID NOT cheat on her despite her struggles. My parents married too young (22 and 19) and divorced 10 years later. My mother just used us as venting boards. So now 30 years later I want to forgive my mother. She has expressed she wouldn't do this if she knew the damage it did to me. Should I forgive her and if I do what do I do with the remaining hurt? She took 8 years with my Dad from me but was otherwise a good mother. I am constantly to this day trying to make up to my Dad and his family. My mother still has a chip on her shoulder about them but is a thousand times nicer then when I was a kid.

Question: My father says I bring clinical depression on myself. Should I refuse any sympathy when his friend dies of lung cancer from smoking soon?

Posted: 14 Aug 2018 05:21 AM PDT

His friend who smokes is in hospice care. The man seems nice but him being friends with my father makes me dislike the guy since my father is so ignorant. They are not romantic friends, just friends, as my parents are married. My Mom is friends with the guys wife.

Question: My wife is obsessed with me ?

Posted: 14 Aug 2018 04:51 AM PDT

She has to be around me every minute she can't leave me alone. If I leave she starts to cry she even cries when we make love or kiss. Why is she so obsessed with me ? Is this normal ?

Question: My Mom's parents are elderly and she says she does not know how to go on when they die. How do I not get sucked down when it happens?

Posted: 14 Aug 2018 04:47 AM PDT

I will have sympathy of course on my Mom when they do die but for my Mom she talks as though it will be like losing a small child. She literally loves her parents more then her husband it seems. She fears her mother and sometimes her father but also loves them. My Dad was terribly sad when his parents died but moved on. My mother is the type who will not. My concern is she will expect me to stop living since she has (not suicide but just no fun activities and nothing celebratory). Her friend Rose has done this since her husband's death for example not letting her young adult children have Christmas at home anymore without a big fight (one stayed home but she had a fit cause of it). So how do I not let her suck me into her misery when her parents die which is any year now? I will miss them myself but not be unable to function or suicidal or anything like that. Her parents are in their late 80's

Question: Mother and daughter problems?????

Posted: 14 Aug 2018 01:54 AM PDT

Hi my mom and I have a toxic relationship , since I was like 5 yrs old. We never gotten along but she definitely treats my siblings better. Recently we got into an argument and she told me " that she has so many things to say that can tear me down" and I responded what are those things and she said that " she'll rather not say". I asked her if I was ugly and her respond was " I'm not saying anything". What does this mean ??

Question: Brother uses his kids against me?

Posted: 14 Aug 2018 01:48 AM PDT

I am always there for my niece and nephews. Anytime my brother gets to drunk i come pick them up or if he needs a babysitter super last minute i drop everything to help him. but anytime i want to see the kids or spend time with them he makes it insanely difficult.

Question: My family is CRAZY?

Posted: 14 Aug 2018 01:18 AM PDT

My family is insane. The drama that goes on, the people I tell it to think I am making it up beause of how crazy it is. Part of it is my family is huge like we arent very close but it is huge also almost every male is abusive some physical some just emotional but there is abuse in every relationship. People take advantage of eachother and just use eachother for money. As much as I just want to give up on my family, I love them too much; also I am the youngest out of all my cousins ( most of them have kids that are younger than me). It's really hard to watch everyone grow up and turn into terrible people. I just don't know what to do.

Question: Should I call CPS?

Posted: 14 Aug 2018 01:07 AM PDT

My brother is divorced and has three kids. They are the most important people in my life because I grew up with them. I have called CPS because of incidents that have happened at their mom's house. She has severe mental problems which run in her side of the family when they are on her time they are never actually with her they are with her mom (who has some mental disorders as well) oe=r at one of her multiple boyfriends. But the situation with my brother is getting worse. He drinks all day long, and the kids tell me he has beers in the cup holder while he drives them around. On multiple occasions, I have had to pick the kids up because he is so drunk. Also, his oldest has told me he has verbally threatened all the kids which is no surprise because my dad was insanely emotionally abusive. The problem is I am away at college also there's not a ton I can do to help so far away. I want to call CPS on my brother because so many incidents have happened ( more than I mentioned) but I am afraid if I call CPS something will, and they will be at their moms full-time while his even worse. How to go about this if both sides are equally as bad for the kids?

Question: Brother makes it insanely difficult to see my niece and nephews?

Posted: 14 Aug 2018 12:29 AM PDT

Question: Was I wrong to hit my sister? Am I the bad guy?

Posted: 13 Aug 2018 11:43 PM PDT

So what happened was I went upstairs to get a glass of milk because I thought I was allowed to since I had 2 carrot cake cupcakes for dessert(w/ no frosting). Then my sister comes up in my face and saying no we don t want you up here. And I m like all I want is some milk and she s like you can t have milk after had the cupcakes awhile ago. But I still just wanted milk but she kept on blocking my way like it was all a game! When I finally got to open the darn fridge, she proceeded to actually put her whole body into the darn fridge to block me from grabbing the milk jug! So in my mind I was like if she wants to be in the fridge then let her be in the fridge , so tried to closed the fridge door on her. But I guess it hit her "ankle?" and she got mad at me and hit me first! She even ended up scratching me! So in my mind I had to options: 1.) Sticking punch her in her ugly face. If I did that I would be grounded (2.) I softly punch her in the stomach. Which I did. She did even cry from the punch because I didn t even try, but then she has the nerve to tell on me and make me out to be the bad guy?!?!! I was pretty much protecting myself!!! Am I really the bad guy?

Question: Is this trauma?

Posted: 13 Aug 2018 10:34 PM PDT

About a year and a half ago, my parents had their first huge fight. 2 in the morning, screaming at the top of their lungs. My dad said he was leaving. But he came back. A couple weeks later he said he was leaving again. Both times he didn't bother even saying goodbye to his 3 children. To this day I find it a difficult topic, and I can still find myself sobbing in the middle of the night over what happened. What to do??

Question: I Dont Know if I like My Step Dad...?

Posted: 13 Aug 2018 10:33 PM PDT

So, the first born was my brother, then my sis, im the youngest. Our dad left the day I was born 😔. My mom started dating again tho and found "the one." They ended up getting married. IDKW but i always feel tense af around him 😔😂, he is not humorous at all, but my mom says thats bc he's never had kids before 🙄. Im happy that she's hapoy but, for some reason i dont like him 😕. When he does try to scold me i just dont care and when he does laugh its at the wrong stuff😞. He and my other siblings get along great, but me and him barely talk all we say is "hi." I sound selfish rn, but i wish it was just me and my mom, sis and brother again. Everythin was perferct but now **** is different. I know my momma loves me but when she says she is going somewhere wit him i just get aggravated 😭😤😡. HE NEVER buys my mom good ******* gifts. The only thing he has ever brought my mom was a 15 dollar gift card and her wedding ring. But i stay giving and buying my mom jewelry. I dont even feel comfortable sitting near him let alone being a in a room without my mom and siblings with him. I sound stupid af but why tf do i feel this way??

Question: As a son, was I wrong to call out my father like this?

Posted: 13 Aug 2018 10:19 PM PDT

Sometimes, I use his laptop to play games or contact friends. So I came into his room, found his computer and started using it. When I turned on though, there were several tabs open that led to Facebook. Each of these tabs were logged into fake accounts that my brother sometimes creates for fun. On each of the accounts, he had trolled and left very racist comments on the pages of certain celebrities and made very demeaning posts which bashed females in particular as well. I screen-shotted these posts and I used my own account and posted them, tagging my father, and called him out for being behind all of these posts that he had written. After minutes of posting it, I received several comments and notifications. Men were calling him a cowardly **** and the women who were saying he's a narcissistic piece of ****. Random guys have also begun sending him death threats, was I in the wrong to expose him like that? His own friends were saying they were going to beat his ***.

Question: I hate my dad. Any advice?

Posted: 13 Aug 2018 09:10 PM PDT

So my mom and my dad dont get along and I have to suffer because of it. He is refusing to pay my college tuition which is only 4,000 a semester since its a state school and wants my mom to pay all of it. He pisses me off so much. I can never have a conversation with him without him getting an attitude. He never confides in me, never once congratulated me on graduating high school, and never seems happy for me and my accomplishments. I can never talk to him because he s always so negative and blames everything on me. And of course my brother is always on his side. Nobody ever understands how I feel having to deal with this angry man who always makes me feel like crap. The number one man in your life is suppose to be your dad but not my dad. He never gives me any attention and he treats me like ****

Question: My little sister gave me an erection. Am I going to Hell?

Posted: 13 Aug 2018 08:49 PM PDT

I feel like crap now. She walked into my room with just bra and panties, and I got super hard. SMH! I swear I do not like her at all. I just couldn't control my erection. Ever since, I can not look at my sister the same way.

Question: Do You Ever Regret Being Nice?!?

Posted: 13 Aug 2018 08:48 PM PDT

My brother laptop hard drive broke. I started seeing him going to the library just to look for jobs he really did try I started seeing him getting applications from stores so I feel really bad about it. I had a extra hard drive so I thought If I give it to him he will look for jobs like he says he will if I give it to him. So I did then a couple weeks went by a few moths went by & all I ever see him do is playing games again. So one day I confront him about it. I say you know we are poor It would be nice for you to look for jobs & help out this family but then hes all like I was just testing you. Hes known to be a liar alot so I dont even know why I trust him anymore. I was just trying to do a nice thing.... But then he treats me like im a terrible person. He just wants to do what ever tf he wants I should of never give him my damn hard drive! My own brother lied to me! Thats my biggest regret of my life I guess people really do take a advantage of nice people even if it is your own brother! Trust no one!

Question: My brother is talking to someone late at night. When i talk to him about it he gets mad. What do i do?

Posted: 13 Aug 2018 08:28 PM PDT

Around midnight and later my brother is talking to someone. My mom talked to him and wanted to know who he was talking to. He said he is talking to a college friend...an older girl and my brother is a senior in high school. My mom is concerned he's lyingore talking to Ann older man our woman ore that he might bee talking about inappropriate things. What should we do. I don't know how to help my mom and I'm worried about my brother

Question: What to do? Need advice?

Posted: 13 Aug 2018 08:17 PM PDT

Ok it's almost midnight where I am at my brother and nephew are being loud I tried asking nicely to be quiet cause I'm sick but they are still loud so I asked again, my nephew is 3 years old he should be sleeping anyways I need advice on making them quiet without slamming doors? If this was the other way around he would be so mad as well what can I do without hurting anyone?!

Question: Parents Ignore Me?

Posted: 13 Aug 2018 08:13 PM PDT

Ok, To Start Off I m Sixteen Years Old And A Junior In High School. But Anyways, My Parents Ignore Me Whenever I Talk To Them Or Just Try To Say Hello When Getting Home. When I Tell Them How My Day Went When They Ask They Ignore Me And I Get Annoyed Because They re Not Listening To The Answer I m Giving Them. I Have Siblings But They Are Not As Distant As I Am With My Parents. Even When I Ask What There Is To Eat They Ignore Me. And Often Times There s Nothing Left And I Have To Go Out Or Just Not Eat For The Day, Until Lunch At School. Sometimes I Feel Like I m Invisible To Them. Why Would This Be.

Question: How do I stop being mad my mom uses my car?

Posted: 13 Aug 2018 07:25 PM PDT

I haven't driven because of insurance money however mom uses car for work. How to I get my self to stop being so selfish. Cuz I will drive soon please any advice. Thanks in advance

Question: I have a brother with anger issues. I really don’t no how to deal with it.?

Posted: 13 Aug 2018 07:23 PM PDT

I've lived like this my whole life, screaming and yelling at my brother. My parents are obviously scared of him since they only discipline me and not him. He's 16 and gets away with everything. I don't no what to do cause this is getting out of hand. I've been seriously hurt because of him emotionally and physically. I am only 12 I don't no how to deal with this other than just be depressed.

Question: How can I get my daughters (ages 10, 13 and 14) to realize that they cannot choose their siblings?

Posted: 13 Aug 2018 06:32 PM PDT

The girls wish they didn't have sisters. Their schoolmate has four brothers and no sisters. They're appealed to how this girl is left alone a lot. To the boys, she's just there. The relationship isn't as personal since the brothers aren't interested in "girl problems" and do their own thing. In my eyes - this child has to entertain herself more (as she appears introverted??). My daughters are more stuck together. I spend individual time with each child. As for clothes, they have to share sometimes and I try not to give too much hand-me-downs. With bedrooms, they have to share because there just isn't enough rooms. This can be pretty frustrating, to see them quarrel and argue over petty matters. I really try to show them that the grass isn't greener on the other side. This girl, while is on her own, doesn't have sisters to be there for her and talk to her. She doesn't have someone a few years apart from her to relate to her, etc. (while good, involved parents are always a need, siblings can be helpful).

Question: Why is my mom obsessed with being thin?

Posted: 13 Aug 2018 06:04 PM PDT

Like she is almost 50 and she put pressure on herself and me and my sister to stay in shape. She hit me twice and said dont gain weight and stuff but I think mom made big deal out of nothing

Question: How can I deal with my step father for 2 more years ?

Posted: 13 Aug 2018 05:55 PM PDT

So I'm leaving my grandmas house next week. I have to go back with my mom and stepdad to go back to school. My stepdad abused me when I was younger now he just acts mean for no reason some times I don't understand. I've tried to talk to him and he doesn't even let me finish the sentence. I'm a junior and the only reason why I haven't moved because I'm trying to finish my last 2 years of high school. After that I'm gonna stay with my grandma for a while then go to college. But I just try so hard to respect my stepdad for my moms fate. It's hard cause sometimes I just want to blast him out. He tried to replace my biological father and I hate that cause it's not fair. I barley see my dad as it is and my mom try's to keep me from him when I want to see him. My stepdad yells, screams, cussed me out and makes fun of me when I can't do something I hate it. I don't know what to do these last 2 years. How do I handle this ?

Question: My aunt says her husband had an affair, husband denies it. How do I respond when she tells me about it?

Posted: 13 Aug 2018 05:27 PM PDT

She waited 5 years to even mention it and then at my sister's wedding of all places brought it up. The aunt and her husband had a fight on the way there apparently with one of their teenagers who is often lying to them. How do I respond? I kind of believe the husband as the aunt wouldn't have waited on it for 5 years if he really cheated as she is the least forgiving person God ever put on the planet when it comes to family. My Mom says to stay out of it and I will but when aunt brings it up to me, if she does, how do I respond?

Question: I came home from Alex's and my Dad is drunk as all get out. Do I tell Mom when she gets home or will he get in trouble again?

Posted: 13 Aug 2018 05:25 PM PDT

He is what they call an alcoholic (someone who drinks alcohol all day and sometimes is drunk) and so my Mom is always threatening to leave him and my sisters are always crying about it. I am 14 and the son.

Question: I found out my Mom lied to me when she told me her friend's husband's death was a drug overdose. Yesterday it was a suicide. Why did she lie?

Posted: 13 Aug 2018 04:12 PM PDT

Why would my Mom have lied? Yesterday she told the true story. She did this when my brother's friend died in a fall while drunk and my Mom claimed it was a suicide, then switched it to drug overdose, true story was he fell while drunk.

Question: I am good friends with my daughters Mother in law. My daughter has ended our relationship because its inappropriate. What do I do?

Posted: 13 Aug 2018 03:48 PM PDT

Question: FEMDOM Role Play question..Lately, I am seeing more while males are seeking out domineering latinas to enslave them..?

Posted: 13 Aug 2018 03:38 PM PDT

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Question: Need help from someone that's been homeless?

Posted: 13 Aug 2018 03:33 PM PDT

Where did you sleep? My friends mother and brother are getting evicted tomorrow from their house...my friend is staying with his girlfriend so he has nothing to worry about for housing but his mother and brother have no where to go at all. They unfortunately can't stay with my family and myself because we are moving due to my father's work in a month so we are prepping for the move out of state. I don't know what to suggest to him to help...

Question: Family drama?

Posted: 13 Aug 2018 03:18 PM PDT

My nephew has liked spending weekends at my house since he was very young. Recently my husband and I had a baby so when he comes over things are very different. He used to always play Playstation with my husband and watch movies but now he takes backseat to what the baby is doing. As an only child he hates it. This weekend the baby was taking a nap and my nephew slammed a door so loud he woke the baby up. I was pissed but I calmly told him to not slam doors and that he woke the baby up. He is very spoiled and sensitive so when I said that to him even though I said it as nicely as I could he got very upset and called his mom. I did nothing to make him feel better about the situation because I felt justified in telling him not to slam doors. His mom, my husband's sister now is ignoring me. I don't know what my nephew told her I said to him but clearly he exaggerated because she's upset now. Should I try to talk to her about the situation?Have my husband talk to her? Or leave it alone since I feel like I did nothing wrong. Any advice?

Question: My little brother always use the friend insult?

Posted: 13 Aug 2018 08:57 AM PDT

Whenever we fight he pulls the "this is why u dont have friend" card. What do i do?