Last week I went to the gym and told my bf. Usually I'd say I'm done with the gym but I didn't this ime and he was the one who texted me 3 hours later saying he was going to the library(where I go everyday) he was pretty cold then I discovered he got jealous and was wondering why I didn't ask him to come to the gym. So on friday I was going to the gym and told him he said ok baby I'm working have a good workout and kiss. I got upset and said alright thanks. Then unlike him he said alright? Thanks?. I said yeah when I don't ask you you get upset when I do you don't come. He said you know I have a job and if I can't come there's a reason. I said ok which is why I didn't ask you last time. He was like ok you won. I said what's with the attitude s d he said it was coming from my lack of effort to his kids and response. He's usually not aggressive or looking for a fight. Anyway I was like I'm done with this attitude of yours, I don't know where all this is coming from. He said there's no attitude. If you're done ok. I wish you the best. I said okay likewise and he sent a thumbs up. He usually doesn't fight with me or anything but the pay week I was sensing aggression. He even had bought me a 1000 dollar purse that week too. This was on a Friday. Is it strange how easily it ended and I haven't heard from him? He Was supposed to drive me to the airport, I left MondayHe got weird the first time I didn't invite him because he got suspicious that I was with the trainer like last time.

I'm a mom to 2 kids my oldest is 23&15. My boyfriends child is 10 and stays for weekends, holidays and summers. She is a wonderful child don't get me wrong but here's the problem; she IS ALWAYS in adult business. She walks into our bedroom w/outknocking whenever she wants, she doesn't clean up after herself unless she is told 20 times, she always has an excuse for everything or says she doesn't know how to do something (brush her teeth) I catch her all the time peeking through the crack in our bedroom door and my daughters. We have spoken with and explained why she shouldn't do it but still continues to do it then when we catch her and say something she starts to make herself cry and then her father is all ohhhhh it's okay don't worry about it .I should be able to have some privacy. She talks back to him but he does nothing about it.If he puts her on a 10 min time out he goes to her 3 mins later with candy or some type of treat Because he feels bad. I told he doesn't stick to a punishment it's worthless that she will keep walking all over him We have had many convs about steps to take, he always agrees but doesn't follow thru when the time comes which always makes me the bad one because I stick with it (I learned my lesson with my kids lolThese are just a few little examples of her actions. What ways does everyone in this situation deal with it? I feel so stuck and like I'm the bad person all the time for trying to lay down what seems to me just general rules for a child ..

I live with my mother and she's an alcoholic been drinking for almost 10 years now. We just moved into a new house recently and I thought itd finally change things because we were in a new area where my mom doesn't know anybody. But sure enough if she didn't find a liquor store near me. She's going to die if she keeps this up. If I bring in a picture and ask them not to serve my mom anymore alcohol do you think they will listen or do you think they will tell me they have to serve her if she comes in? I just don't know what else to do things are looking extremely hopeless no matter what I say or do it doesn't work. She's been in 4 different rehab even completed the programs and the FIRST thing she does when she gets home is put a drink in her hand. I would hate to put my mother who's 60 years old on the streets but I honestly can't keep taking care of somebody who only wants to drink from the time they wake up to the time they pass out. This is taking a huge toll on my mental health and I constantly worry if I'm going to come home or wake up one day and find her dead. Its just me and my mom and we don't have any family or friends. This is looking like my last option is to go to the liquor store and ask not to serve my mom. I refuse to let her keep drinking until she's dead and then I'll have to find her that way and have that on my conscious for the rest of my life. If this doesn't work I will have to tell her to find another place to live which I don't want to do. Help?!

He is 21 i am 17 i know illegal and stuff but anyway i was considering running away with him when.i turn 18 he also said this to me a lot since my parents are so strict and i am not happy at all in this house my mom is a cheater my dad is alcohlic and my brother and my sister are never here so he asked if i would run away with him and marry him since 1- i am not happy 2- my parents won't approve of him and 3- he doesn't have a degree ( he has a job tho) my parents are super strict and never let me go anywhere i found happiness with him that i never really expierienced before but above all that i am afriad to hurt my parents feelings what can i do

I am real and the sun has directed me to do as I do. My mother does not believe that the sun talks to me and stole my brother who she and my sisters don't remember. How do I get her to believe me and remember my brother, her son, so we can get him back from the sun? I have to block my name or the doctors will track me

The family name he brought shame to and he alone and not just by blowing his chance at UCLA.

Just as my Mom was getting better with it and respecting my age my father is now doing it through his ignorance. By alienator I don't mean she is an alien but she is one to ban me and brainwash me against family members she has grudges against.

I got a cousin who's a big time alcoholic it gets him in a lot of trouble idk if he was drunk or high or sober but when I was 13 he was 19 he kept chasing me in a yard until he got me wet in a pool but I didn't have back up clothes and didn't want to play like that. It's like I'm almost 19 now and to me 13 is like a baby. My nephew is gonna turn 11. Like that's kind bogus to me for a grown *** man to do that to a little kid. Not a little kid but at 12/13 you're still growing up

This probably sounds weird coming from a 26 year old, but I think I am still deeply affected by the loss of losing my childhood home 6 years ago, and shortly before, my mom moving out and separating from my dad. My mom moved out in 2010, the house was gone in April 2012 but my dad had been fighting to keep it since 2009. The time I lived in the home was pure joy most of the time for me, although there were issues between my parents at times. We were mostly happy. It wasn't really my childhood home as we only lived there from 04-2012, but to me it felt like I grew up there. I still imagine our happiest times there, together as a family, and I imagine how in love my parents once we're. It breaks my heart. I many nights reminiscing, and sobbing over those memories. It hurts so bad still. I dream of buying that house back one day...I loved it so much. I loved the memories more. It was a ranch, and I had my horses with me (both of whom have passed away now...more heartbreak). Things are good now, I'm married, we have a nice apartment, I love my hubby, and I spend lots if time with my family, ny parents are able to be friends, but I'm still so sad. I've gone to therapy, it didn't help. Will I ever get over this? What's wrong with me? I feel such a sense of loss, people in my life have died and I have been sad, then accepted it, I feel I'll never cone to terms with this though and I do not get it.

Although it is not unusual for a 24 year old to feel lost, the circumstances in which led to me being so are highly so. Everyone has a story, and with humility but deep eagerness and drive in mind, I am trying to figure out what comes next for me. I have read a lot, learned a lot with my business degree and experience out of college, which ended with me getting fired from Coca Cola for my unwillingness to bend to the deceit and lying culture which was established. I am entrepreneurial at heart, having started most recently a reselling / consignment business. I see how being an employee is the path to never getting ahead as you provide value to those above you and you can be fired tomorrow for nothing, but I don't know what else to do and can't really fit in. I am thinking about uber / lyft driving (again), getting back into the gym, and scheduling time consistently for all of these things and networking to expand my horizons. My father and grandparents are dead, mother lives in France and is not that successful herself, my aunt and uncle whom I lived with are getting divorced soon. The circumstances are overwhelming beyond space available here. I started a selling / consignment business, which may grow? What should I do?

Rachael. Couple. Aizen. Constitutional Conservative. Bada Bing. Lib Crusher. Moon Shot. chad. Bazz-B. The Clown. Summertime

So my children's father and I get into a little argument because I sat down to watch the VMA's. So earlier today we had a conversation about the whole thing and talked about how it is fake and rigged up and just isn't important at all when you got **** to do. He saying that he is tired of dumbass people who are fooled and that he wants a strong woman and I'm lame. I'm also a piece of **** because I don't understand where he is coming from. I say that I agreed with him about this show I just want to watch the performances. So he is upset with me and my night is really ruined over some bull!!

I've recently found out he's been putting his hands on her, multiple times (not that one time would make it any better). I really don't understand why she hasn't left him yet, and like every time I think about it I get so angry to the point of almost crying. I just don't know how to politely say "Why the **** haven't you gotten a divorce" because I find it hard to talk to her, one, I'm antisocial, and two being we're not that close. How should I broach the subject?

I live in a maternity home and one of my roommates always dumps her two year old son off in daycare and when he's home she's always yelling at him then on weekends she drops him off at her friends house even if she's not doing anything. She works so I can understand the daycare part but she spends no time with the kid and the worst part is that the house mom who lives there wants me to do the same with my 4.5 month old. She's angry because I told her that I'm having my Mom babysit while I go back to school and not put him in daycare, I don't need daycare because my Mom is able to watch him during the day. And I want to actually bond with my son while I work and go to school and not stick him with strangers.

So we didn't have a fallout but we have never been close, due to a big age gap and that she has an on and off relation with my mom. (I've always been in the middle.) Our relationship mostly exists outof courtesy for my mom and her kids so we only see each other on birthdays/holidays and that was okay. So lately she started a fitt with my mom about little things without really vocalizing it and now she unfriending us both while nothing really happened. I don't now how to react exactly, acknowledge she unfriending me? Asking whats up? I personaly just don't want to end up in the drama like when I was younger so should I just ignore it untill she feels like talking herself?

I'm a 16 year old girl. Teachers worry about bullying that I might face. My parents educated themselves about suicide and mental health issues before adopting me as a baby (but they didn't take the class when they adopted my Vietnamese brother). I was born in Thunder Bay in Canada. My mom is Aboriginal too. Compared to most parents, they are more worried that I'll be killed, raped, kidnapped or turn into drug addict. Like I said, nobody is like that with my brother. There's so much more on the plate when it comes to me.

I am trying to say that ineffective communication between my siblings, parents, and I has caused bad blood/ animosity/ or a separation because my older sister has not spoken to me in over 8 years, disowned me when I was going through a rebellious teenage phase and felt misunderstood so communicating with me was very difficult and she decided to quit trying to talk to me and hasn't talked to me since

I never knew my father (this was his other son) and was about 6 when we met. I am 45 now. We were born to two women but weeks apart. My wife thinks this was so cruel of me. I would not have known anyone there other then the dude's older sister who also met me that day (his mother has died per the obituary). I only found out cause my cousin knew the guy. Also he was not a role model as he was on trial for sex abuse at the time of his suicide.

I continuously try to avoid my sister as much as possible because she has an attitude problem, she's quick to anger, inconsiderate, and complains a lot (my mother says the same thing too). Today I got into an argument with her in front of my dad, and I hated it because I'm a calm person and I don't want to act like that in front of my dad. My chest hurts, and all. But I realize how much I dislike my sister, and I want nothing to do with her anymore. I feel guilty about how I feel even though I'm upset, I know it's the truth; and wouldn't care if I moved out and had little to no contact at all with her. Would it make me a bad person to do this?

Mom is 50 and she insults me or my sister if we gain weight and mom is very hard on herself to look good. Thing is dad never cheated on mom, but I dont know why my mom pressures herself and me to be in shape. She said fat women arent attractive, and that men will look at other women if the wife get fat.

Maybe she has repented but if not will she and the man she had the sex with and is still with be sent to eternal hell?

It is the only topic in my Mom's side of the family right now. The narcissistic aunt is mostly estranged from the family. Last Christmas was spent with another aunt speaking of how the devil stole my narcissistic aunt's soul when she surrendered it to Yoga and how our grandmother enabled her surrender to the devil after our grandfather died last March (march 2017). It is the only topic in the extended family though the devil beliefs only the other aunt has (my parents say there is no devil other then child abusers). So how do I change the topic? I try not to talk about it as it makes me nervous though it feels better to ask on here.