My husband & I moved abroad and agreed on a house share with our friends and their baby to save costs (all hoping to get on he property ladder and rent here is crazy). Our friends have a now one year old & my husband is brilliant with her, which is amazing. However he spends so much time with her. I wake up on the weekends alone to find he is downstairs with her Mum & her playing like a family together and it makes me so jealous! This happens almost every weekend. He says he cant just lay in bed 'waiting for me to wake up'. Then when we are speaking about important things or just life in general (important to me!) & little one runs over starts screaming or wanting a cuddle he immediately stops the conversation and gives her attention. He then thinks I'm over reacting if I get annoyed. I should say at this point the parents are in the room so it's their responsibility to give her the attention. We have a pool in our garden & When all of us are in there together he plays with her throwing her back and forth to her Mum &putting her on inflatables. I got involved but not that much because I actually feel awkward. He can't just be in the pool, sit with me & have a drink or anything, he has to get involved. Her dad is sometimes hands on soemtimes not and I don't think he minds the majority of the time, (sometimes I think he does especially when she runs up to my husband saying 'Daddy daddy' but the thing is... I do!!!! Am I overreacting and being petty getting jealous of a baby?!

My wife is 8 months pregnant with our daughter we been having sex almost every night she doesn't seem to mind it. Is it safe to have it during pregnancy ?

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My sister's husband left her in her first pregnant month for two weeks now with no call or anything What should we do now for her she is broken I feel he is cowered

I m 9 months pregnant and got married to my now-husband on Saturday. One of my girlfriend s came over on Friday and spent the night at our place. One of my now-husband s guy friends also spent the night. My husband and I decided to let them sleep in our room, in our bed, because we weren t tired yet and wanted to watch some tv before going to sleep for our big day. Now I find out they had sex in our bed and am kind of pissed off about it. Am I overreacting? Or should I just get over it?

My wife had a bad dream last night she woke up crying she was really scared she didn't want to talk about it. How can I comfort her ?

I can't say he's a full blown narcissist as he is not diagnosed. But I'm in a very bad mental struggle right now. I suspect my husband has many narcissistic personality traits. We have been together for 14 years, 5 of those married. He has always had a side to him that I really disliked. He has at times been disgustingly mean to me over the years. When my sister passed away, I needed to catch a taxi the next morning to go be with my family. But instead of support he threw a fit over our food processor that wouldn't work and ranting at me and blaming me for messing the thing up, and eventually smacking it off the counter causing it to break. All this as I just started processing the shock of her death. Another time he got drunk, and it was 1am (I only had one drink) so I insisted that I drive - not him. He refused to let me and became verbally abusive. It wasn't far so I caved. He drove like a maniac and I told him if he doesn't stop I would get out of the car. He ignored me and at the next stop street I got out. He left me there to walk home (a 45min walk) woman alone in the wee hours. And we live in a crime ridden place. Thankfully our friends had a store nearby and I walked there and they gave me a lift home. I got home to find him casually watching TV. Not concerned for my at all, and having the audacity to ask for sex (which when I refused another fit of rage ensued - just verbally) These 2 examples were not recent, but they are engrained in mymind.So much more now.

Hitting and swearing at me since the birth of our son. She has been abusive for many years. Just a few weeks ago she lost it with her mother. Started smashing up the kitchen and she hit/bit her own mother. I called the cops. They charged her. She came back same night and said nothing about having an AVO and being on bail. She started again and was punching me. I called the cops again asking for the crisis team and they sent the cops to arrest her. She has accumulated a lot of debt in her real estate. Told me her savings have run out... Every year she runs back to China alone and has a nice holiday. I ask her to come with me and she leaves me behind. After 9 years of abuse and being left behi nd, I'm on the verge of walking out, seeking divorce and taking our son who is only 4 months old. She dumps our son on her parents and now mine because we cannot afford child care. Just before she leaves she gets arrogant and blocks me off her chat so I cannot see all the nice pictures she posts of having a good time. She doesn't want to go anywhere with me. She has made that clear. I feel like I'm being used at this point. Used and abused. I have made my mind up not to contribute yo her lawyer fees as this would be bailing her out. Am I so wrong to seek a divorce and custody? Just tonight I asked my wife who will take care of our son whilst I planned to go to HK in the new year. She said her and her father would. She has no clue that I plan on divorcing. My wife always disappears for several weeks and expects me to stay behind on my own. She doesn't want to make any effort with me. I'm not worth it in her eyes. I have to place my son first. Her father said he doesn't want to come back for at least 3 months. My parents won't take care of my son for that long and threatened to call child services on me. I am in Australia. I gave up hope on ever travelling overseas with her. She prefers to go over there alone every year with her girlfriends. More than a year at a time is too much for her to handle around me. I have a restraining order in place. And my son is on the passport watch list so he cannot get a passport. Now that he will be with my parents, he will be safe. Next step is custody. I'm seeing s financial advisor about debts and consulting with a solicitor. I read online that most couples discuss their plans and make sure they are ok to travel. They don't just refuse to go away with their spouse year after year. I think I'm bring used to fund her lifestyle at this point. Thanks for the support. I still care about her. We both carry a lot of hurt. Today she said shebdoesnt want to see me for 6 months but that she has no choice because she needs to work and doesn't have somewhere to live and cannot afford a car either. So she needs me. We both have no alternative as my parents live too far away from our apartment. We have a child to look after. It's not the first time she has said she is tired. Then by the evening she would be acting normal and like nothing. For what it is worth, not wanting to see me or her mother is just running away from her demons as she has explained that she grew up with domestic violence and thought it was normal. Part of the court case to avoid criminal conviction is seeing a psychiatrist. Seeing a psychiatrist will be a massive help for her. I still care about her no matter what has happened because we even have a child together. I am seeing a psychiatrist and they want to focus on rebuilding my self esteem and focus on not thinking too much which was fuelling anxiety for me. I need to be well for my son. My psychiatrist will be making a report to child protection services and notifying that I have taken my son to my parents where he is safe. This would help with child custody. Between now and then I'm going to focus on my son and I. I'm gathering information and looking for support groups. Seeking info and support to come to grips with the reality of what divorce looks like. It doesn't mean we have to finalise anything. If she gets help and does a 180, I can consider moving our relationship forward again. Right now it feels like it's on hold until I decide.