I can sometimes think of a better way to ask for things, but I just can't get myself to ask it in the way that doesn't express my frustration with having to ask in the first place.. I'll express my frustrated way first.. think about a better way which would benefit both of us better... but then not feel satisfied enough that I'm not expressing how annoyed I am by them.. so then I just don't ask at all What's the matter with me?? How can I better vent my frustrations without ruining my relationships?

So my sister's friend has a gap in between her two front teeth teeth. I love teeth gaps and think it's so beautiful. I was talking to my sister about how I wish I had one and think her friends smile is so perfect. Then I said I wonder if she can whistle between her teeth (cause some people can do that). Then my sister flipped out and said that's so rude Id ask that (she wasn't even around) because pointing out things that are different about people is rude/mean. Some background is my sister has a birth defect so her hands just look a bit different it's not really noticeable but it has effected her life when she was younger but now I quote "she forgets about it all the time". She said asking me if she could whistle through her teeth would be the same thing as asking her if she can hold a pencil?! I find that extremely dramatic especially because I thought the things that make us different make us beautiful? I honestly don't think it's rude and she loves to argue with me. I think she's just being dramatic and likes to yell. Because at the end of our conversation she was just yelling saying i was rude and it would be disrespectful. So my question is: is it rude to ask someone you know, if they can whistle through their teeth? Thanks.

My husband and are seperated and I am just waiting for a divorce. I don't love him and I want to move on with my life so I have been counting down the days. A couple of months ago something happened when he came to drop off our daughter, I had a bit much to drink and now I'm pregnant. He thinks maybe we should work it out, he didn't want a divorce but I honestly believe I can get a much better man than him! We already have a 3 year old and now another one is on the way. What do I do?

3 months ago, this woman moved in the apartment below me and my girlfriend. Night after night she stayed up late partying, keeping us and other neighbors awake. One evening the landlord showed up due to complaints about her. My girlfriend happened to be outside on the back porch. They assumed she called the landlord and started yelling at her and threatening her. I went out to see what was going on and some guy said "come talk to me like a man" Without a word out of my mouth, I went down there. As soon as i got off the steps, him and another guy jumped me, broke my nose and took off running. The cops were called and the landlord was there again. She was told she was being evicted. Well she ended up getting to stay after all. So here we are 2 months later, I'm sitting at work and all of a sudden my girlfriend is texting me saying cops just showed up because this lady said I was beating my girlfriend up, throwing her around the apartment, threatening to kill my girlfriend with a gun, etc. The cops show up and find out it was a load of crap and I'm at work. So this time I called the landlady to let her know what this woman is trying to do. At this point, idk if she's actually going to be evicted or not, but it's complete BS. I have never even spoke to this lady or done anything to her. Can I break my lease? Im either moving or I know people who are willing to beat this ***** until she's within an inch of death. One way or the other, she needs dealt with. What do you do...

I swear they are all dirty lying thieves

I've been having a hard time receiving answers for my question, so I'll include less details. I've known my older, married, male friend for 2 years (I'm female). We've been friends for over a year. We're not super close, but we have a bond. When we talk, it's never awkward, we never run out of things to talk about. The majority of the time when we see each other, it's at church (which he's the one who invited me over a year ago, but my mom joins me now so we sit elsewhere). When we're at church, we rarely talk. If his guy friends aren't monopolizing his time and if his wife isn't there (which she and I are friendly with each other, but we're not friends. She's never tried to be my friend or vice versa, but we get along), he sometimes comes over to me to chat and say hello to my mom, but otherwise, we don't really talk. He did come over to us today to say hello, but we didn't chat. Today, my mom asked me why my friend and I never talk at church. I see him outside of church once every couple of weeks and it's just the two of us (nothing inappropriate) and we talk for roughly 20 minutes, but he just doesn't seem to chat when we're at church. Do you think that's weird or unusual? I told my mom I think it's because he's so popular and always seems surrounded by his friends and I don't like to bother him, which is true. Today, he was surrounded by a few guy friends, but we made eye contact and I could tell he wanted to come chat, but didn't wanna be rude to his friends. My mom is aware that we're like brother and sister. That's why she's confused as to why we don't really seem to talk at church. We talk outside of church just fine, but at church, I might as well be just another acquaintance. Like I said, two Sundays ago, he sat in the seat in front of me for a minute or two and chatted with me, but then went back to his seat once service started. There's nothing wrong with having a female friend, his wife knows nothing will happen between us. I'm abstinent. You all do know that married men can have platonic, single, female friends...right??? We used to work together. That's how we met and became friends. Also, I guess two of you missed the part where I mentioned we're like brother and sister and I'm abstinent. No funny business going on here.

So I decided to take Depo shot because my periods were extremely bad but I came off it due to bone density in my elbows and headaches and cramps every day. Any way I was wondering if I can get pregnant or when can I? Be and my husband are trying. I only took one round of the Depo about 2 months ago so June and July well now just about a week or a week and a half ago I was due for my next shot but I decided not to go back. Since then me and him had unprotected sex twice and he came Inside of me both times. Keep in mind while on the **** I didn't have a period for a while then 2 months in I had a break through bleeding that lasted for 3 weeks then I stopped bleeding someone help me