So ex bf and I haven't been together in over a year. During the breakup he was going through difficult time as his brother was in renal failure and needing a kidney and I got shaken up when he said he would give up his etc. We did love eachother a lot but stupidly argued and fought. Anyway he'd constantly stare at me in church, winked at me etc but hadn't made a move. Previously he'd said he wouldn't forgive me etc because during the argument we said stuff to eachother and he insulted my mom's choice of clothing in church and I his. Anyway this time around I just texted him "I miss you" then he went on this rant about how I didn't realize my mistake in a timely manner and caused the other person pain and suffering when I had tried going back quite a few times(I just feel like he didn't know what else to say etc). Then he said don't you think sometimes there's not return after certain things, getting me to talk. I said mainly it'd be cheating I think. He asked how it would workout this time etc I said better since experiences make one better. He went on to say he'd spent this time bettering himself and that he didn't want to put himself in position to get hurt again. I assumed this was his way of getting me to say I wouldn't cause hurt and I did. I said it wasn't my purpose to cause pain or pursue a relationship that would promote hurt. After this he didn't reply for 3 hours then at midnight say he fell asleep. I texted him when I woke up at 8:42 and he replied at 8:42 right away. The relationship convo dind't continue I just complained about my ac and he was telling me to have my landlord install a new ac unit. He told me what he was going to do that day. I was trying to possibly go to yoga with him I asked him where he did it and if the instructor was good. He just replied it's a place in kenneth village not saying name of the place or anything. I said I'd been doing yoga at the gym he said "good job. good for you" He was going on a jog and I said "have a good jog" and he said thank you. So is he playing the hurt card? He thinks because I said I miss him now I have to chase him. The relationship convo ended cause he went to sleep then the following day it was awkward convo. I also told him that next morning that I"d be flying out of the country he just said "very nice. have a very safe flight" didn't ask about how long etc. I'm confused. Idk I"m assuming if he didn't want me back he wouldn't be so hurt after all this time and writing essays about it. Now playing the hurt card cause I contacted him? I need advice please. This was yesterday in the morning. I assumed we'd be constantly talking but just because I contacted him doesn't mean I"m going to keep contacting and continuing this conversation. Don't you believe the ball is in his court?

About 4 months ago I flew to Dallas Texas for a convention and while I was there I met this girl at the convention. We hit it off really well, hooked up etc, basically the entire week I was there I ended up spending that entire time with her. But like most conventions it ended and I flew back home to New York. She lived in Texas so we ended up keeping in touch on the phone everyday and eventually it turned into a long distance relationship. So basically since than we have been together and I even met her in Michigan about 2 weeks ago when she was there looking at apartments with her friend she's moving in with. Things went okay, but not the best because she just had a bad attitude towards me most of the time I was there. Once I came back to New York I thought things would go back to normal, but she just stopped replying to me, first an entire week than I messaged her and it gave 3 days of talking and than back to her ignoring me again. I sorta got the feeling she didn't want to be with me anymore so I asked her and she ignored it and changed the subject, than I asked Two more times and she changed the subject. All while still having a bad attitude towards me and having zero affection towards me anymore. So basically where I'm at now is, she just ignored me again for 3 days and I asked her tonight if we can call basically so I can end it and she just keeps saying she doesn't want to call. Once again avoiding me to even ask where we even stand anymore. Any advice on this?

My girlfriend cried during sex. How can I help her feel better ?

Theres a girl following me insta, she recently text (compliment) about my dp (i dont know her at all) she commented on two of my pics it was like she was totally interested in me, she likes to write to i guess and so do i. A day ago she uploaded a story on insta of a song and to start a convo i text her asking about the name of the song by she didn't reply and only seen the message. What can i do now? How to start convo? How to tell her i like her? Is she interested? Thanks!

My boyfriend was over my house recently and we were with my family. My brother mentioned a friend that many find attractive, and was saying that one person disagreed and thought he had a large mouth, which I said I agreed with. My boyfriend then proceeds to make a comment that my forehead is so large they could put advertisements on it. He said it jokingly, but I was really hurt by the comment. My forehead is definitely large, and others have told me this, and he has made statements about it before, but I m really self conscious about it. My mom heard the comment and she wasn t too happy about it. Am I overreacting to a joke or is this something that should really upset me?

I met a really nice and cute girl this weekend and she is so sweet too, I like her but I am all ready dating another girl who I love. The thing is I find the other girl more attractive then my current girlfriend because shes skinnier and has prettier hair. Could it be that I am not attracted to my current girlfriend because of her weight? Help? Thing is my current girlfriend I was very attracted too when we first met, shes put on at least 70 lbs in the last few years. I love her but in the end though she does not care about her health and how she looks.

So, friends with a guy for some years.Hes a womanizing type, and quite successful at that.I have never liked that part of his.But hey, whats that gotta do with me, so never really went into the details .More recently , sister joined the same college that we are at and sometimes, he crashes uninvited when I am with her.Shes sortoff bubbly, open person and knows him as a friend so was ok with him being around. Things started getting weird when like once he asked her, if she can see him as her elder brother and she looks at me as and looks back at him and says..thats ok.your just like my brother. I really dint appreciate her saying that or his question, but she seems to be ok with him around, giggly and friendly while i,m like feeling weird inside.Should I be telling her about the women hes been with?because we dont talk such matters.Am i reading too much.

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It's always happens to when me when our faces are very close. Like if we're talking to each other, and then we stop for a few seconds and make eye contact still really close, and then we both just just move in at the exact same time and it happens. A couple of times this happened there would be so much tension that would literally just grab each other and start making out very hard. Like she was thinking "kiss me damn it", or something. haha

I've had a crush on this girl ever since watching IT Chapter One and it's only got stronger to say the least. We are the same age with me being born in December 2001. I'm an average looking guy standing at 6'3 and weighing 180 pounds looking slightly muscular. I'm on my way to becoming an actor previously taking auditions for smaller roles and short films so I can work my way up. I have been left just over £600,000 from a will and other money which has given me huge advantage for my dream. But my love for her never ends it only gets stronger and I want to know how I can get her. Please help.

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She used to say all these nice things to me while we were apart. A week ago she said I love you so much but I didn't answer until the next day and now she wants nothing to do with me. Will she come back?

like this guy and we have gone out a few times. First time, we went for breakfast and he paid. The second, we went mini putting and I paid and then after went for ice cream and he paid. Third date, we went out for drinks and he bought one round and then I did. He asked if I wanted to go on the Ferris wheel I said yes! Then we kissed. Then he drove me home and said I better see you after my concert this weekend. And he kissed me again. We were holding hands in the car as well. Even when we were playing pool he was flirting with me. And then his friend Jordan messaged him and said don't worry it's a guy not a girl lol. He just hasn't really messaged me too much. I messaged him yesturday cause he posted a picture on his Instagram story showing how sunburnt he is .. so I was like omg that's a bad sunburn and we talked a little.I think the kiss was super cute sweet... but.. i dont know what does that "kiss" mean..does it mean.. were more than friends now?.. should i consider him as I'm seeing someone yes or no?how?why?

I'm trying not to mess things up with her but we had a really nice fun date. Now she'll be busy for a couple weeks so we might not be able to get together. Should I ask when she is available to talk on the phone? What types of comunication will push her away? What should I do to insure she doesn't lose interest over this time? I'm really concerned she will lose interest. Today we texted each other and she said she couldn't get together this weekend but maybe next week. Thanks

He basically dumped me after a year together. Before that, while we were together, he was saying he surfed dating app to make friends. I quarrelled with him over it and he claimed he deleted. He got into trouble with the law by upskirting a woman and was arrested. I bailed him from police, yet he turned ungrateful when the case was closed with compensating the woman. He joined same volunteer club as me and flirted heavily with another girl and isolated me in the group. I left the group because of the rumors and being treated unfairly and he claimed he sided with me by leaving the group too. A month later we brokeup.    I was so upset that over another few months I let his family and friends and employer know about his upskirt incident over facebook and social media. He was furious and claimed I was vengeful and dismissed all his deed to me. He kept arguing with me. I finally cut contact last month unable to deal with the lies and accusations he placed on me. He also once stated he wont contact me even though if I ever go no contact because of what I did to him.    Will he ever regret

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My boyfriend went camping this weekend and he is suppose to be back today but he is completely ignoring my texts and etc.

Basically what it says in the ask. We were friends for two years and we clicked so so well together. I still cry over her and I wonder if it's pathetic that I still do. Any tips to get over her? I loved her a lot and it felt like an awful break up.

A while back I trolled a person who was a complete jerk. I told him to "give his girlfriend the tea", which was a euphemism for consensual sex: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=pZwvrxVavnQ. I also acknowledged his girlfriend by calling her by the name fetus because she's a small person. Did I objectify his girlfriend?

So, after my ex broke up with me, I deleted the account I used to message them on social media. I considered it to be me finally letting go. I created a new account, and did not share it with them at all. Flash forward to 2 weeks later, and I get a message from them because we have some common interests. I answered and have been holding a small conversation about said interests, but I m uncomfortable. I really don t know what to do.

I'm 26 and insecure. Almost all of my exes have said they loved me early on and it never works out. Some of them were clearly still into their exes. Why did they even want a relationship with me in the first place if they want their exes still? Why say you love me when you don't mean it? The only guy who I really believe loved me was an ex boyfriend of 2 years who treated me pretty good and cared about me.

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My bf is a pothead and he acts like a jerk to me

I love that she is addicted to me. The problem is it might be too much. There are days where I am too tired and I just want to sleep. She gets mad and threatens to kick my *** for turning her down but then she apologizes. Then she doesn't get a good sleep and says it's all jy fault she can't sleep without doing it with me. What should I do if I don't want to give up the sex but don't want a woman going psycho just cause she hates being told no. She never changes.

I have a boyfriend and I really wanna suck on dem toes. I ain't gonna ask him for consent imma just suck on dem toes and wait for the cheese to come out. Thanks!

We've been talking and video chatting for about 7 years. It still haunts me that he has his first kiss already. In my family, I was programmed to keep who you kiss on. I cry here and now because I'm really hurt behind that. It made me less interested in kissing him. I'm heartbroken no matter how silly this sounds.

I've been with a girl for 10 months, we're about to make a year very soon. We're been trying to have kids for 4 months. She had 2 miscarriages with me, and 1 with a previous partner. She recently got kicked out her house. We lived together doing Airbnb for a few weeks. Later she went to stay at her friends house. She lied to me saying her brother wasn't going to live there. I found out he's living there. She's been living there for over a month and couple of weeks. I asked about if she slept with him because at the end of the day a guy is going to be a guy regardless. She said no, he's very respectful & etc etc. I found her with him driving around a couple of times and god knows how many times they hanged out before. For 4 months we're been trying to have kids and she couldn't. Out of no where she stays at her friends house cuz she got kicked out & she ends up being pregnant. We had sex and we been still trying while she was staying at her friends house. Recently she told me two days after she took a pregnancy test that the results came out to be positive. Isn't it weird why she waited 2 days to tell me. She said "I thought it wasn't important". Like whaaaat lol how do u not think this is important. Right now I don't know what to do. Be with her for 9 months more and do a DNA test or should I just leave her completely? I'm stuck in this situation. As a man, I love kids. I want to have kids but if it isn't my kids why am I going to waste time.

So the other week I lied to my parents and told them I was staying in a friends house when I actually stayed in my boyfriends because he was home alone for the night , I'm 18. My Mam doesn't believe me and says it's mothers instinct and knows I was with my boyfriend , I keep sticking to my story but I'm so torn I don't know wether to tell her the truth or not. The consequences of telling her would be huge for me as I'm only gone 18 and my mam and I are very close , but if I don't tell her then I'm ridden with guilt

i was just wondering if u guys thought this was okay. before u guys attack me, weve been dating since he was 15 and i was 13. the age gap is 2.5 years.

To start off, this is my first boyfriend, and I m a virgin. When my boyfriend and I started dating, I was under the assumption he was too... For a couple weeks we were getting sort of intimate and I thought this was a first for both of us. I was confident and it felt special... and then he told me he had been lying to me. He s slept with 2 other girls, "more times than he can count" he said. I was totally devastated and it s been months. I just can t not think about it. That his 1st girlfriend has those memories for him, and it won t be as special when it comes to me. I just feel so hurt. I don t know how to get over it, and it s really taking a toll on my mental health. Also, we both are young, so the fact he did that at all was already shocking. I try to tell myself that it s in the past, and there isn t anything to do about it now, but it s all I can think about. I think I m being kind of crazy, but my virginity is really important and special to me and it felt like I was tricked.

We started dating 3 months ago he used to live 1 hr away from me so we try to communicate as much as we can through text, videochat, as well as make plans to hang out when neithet of us are busy. He would always be the one to text first and initiate the conversation and keep me updated with whats going on with him through snapchat. He graduated college & while he was in the process of moving out 3 hrs from me for his new job, ive noticed hes started to get more busy for me. I get why he hasnt been able to hang out, text, or videochat with me as much since he needs to get everything ready w/ his apartment. but hes posting snapchats to his story and liking stuff on instagram, yet he cant even take 5 seconds of his day to send me one text. We've argued about this lots of times and eventually broke up. He texted me again last week & says he'll make time for me this time. So i took him back thinking that things will change but they havent; hes still not texting me & still posting all over social media. I called him out on it again on Friday but he just says "i get busy, you dont understand, youre just overreacting, relax". He has left me on read since then. Am i wrong for feeling upset about this? Im not asking him to drop everything and just talk to me, but how much does it hurt to send one nice text? His job starts on Monday so I will give him till the end of this week to see if he'll try to reconnect with me. If not, I might as well just drop him because i deserve better.

We've been together two years and lately I'm beginning to question where we're going to go. We're currently long-distance since she had to move away for uni, and we've talked about what we'll do when we've graduated. She's looking forward to getting her own house and stuff, but she wants to live in the area she already lives in. All her family live in the same area all around the corner from each other, and that's honestly not something I would want (not because of the family but because I'd rather have some sort of solitude, if that makes sense). Not only this, I may have to move to England for a good job after uni and that's something I'm wiling to do, but she isn't. If anything, she said that if I went she would too but only for me. One thing we do agree on is that we would want to have kids after we've really settled down (job, house, have ticked stuff off the bucket list, etc.). However, she dreads the idea of even having kids, whereas I would be excited about it. This is something we'll not have to worry about for a long time, but I still think about it. What should I do? I'm getting worried over what will happen to us

I'm at the last year of high school (only 3 months left) and there's some cute girl i've been wanting to talk to. Since i hesitated several times to approach and talk to her, i dared myself to do it last friday. Long story short, i followed her when we were heading home (She was heading the same way i had to go) so i went and said "Hi, how are you?" I got REALLY nervous for pressuring myself to do it that I couldn't even show her how my personality was, so I ended up looking really creepy and she had such a creeped out expression, I told her I wanted to meet her and she told me she was heading to his boyfriend's house (The conversation was REALLY awkward and I could notice how uncomfortable she was) and I wanna know if I can change her first impression since I'm gonna see her at school for the rest of the year (She's not from my class and nobody in my class knows her) PD: Somebody gave me an advice that I should apologize to her, but I feel like she's going to run away if I try to talk to her.

Let s say you follow each other on ig and you text but haven t met yet, but you have a date planned. You re a guy who likes lots of girls pics. Would you, for any reason, intentionally not like that girl s pictures (like, vacation pics, pics of her, a selfie... tasteful things). If you would, what would the reason (s) be? This is assuming you are really interested in her/getting to know her! So the reason "Im not into her", doesn t count here.