Hello, im 14 and my parents are very annoying, the kids my age usually play video games or computer games for entertainment, but my parents for some reason always try to prevent me from playing it. I also have a really crappy laptop witch barely can run games and when i ask my parents for a new one they simply say that its still working and that they dont want to get a new one because i will play games on it. The only possible way of playing video games is going to the internet cafe witch kinda expensive considering the pocket money i get or be good in school and beg my parents. What pissess me off more is that video games are my only way of having fun because i live in a old apartment in bucharest so no friends close by, and the streets aren't suitable for chilling with friends either. So all the time im usually in my room alone watching netflix or youtube all day especially during holidays. Sometimes when i play on the laptop all day they yell at me and tell that i should go outside and jump around that is literally what they say, this makes so mad that i just wanna leave my family and move out but i cant,when i them well if your gonna taking the laptop away what do you expect me to do and he just says go out read books. I like reading books but i dont i have read every book that i have and when i ask my dad to get a new one he says that i should make a list and email to him, i did tell him the book that i want but he doesnt care and simply forget Pls help .

My father has always been the type of person to scream his opinions if no one else agrees. The bizarre thing is that there are most days where he will speak calmly at a regular tone. These days since I graduated college and moved back home to save money and move away, I haven't been reacting to his anger at all. I realize that maybe he's not angry at me. My parents divorced when I was 17. Before I was born, my sister would tell me that they have had issues before that. My Dad was adopted by someone who wasn't getting along with my mom and constantly made her miserable. My mom in most situations was not seen as the good guy. She was always seen as the miserable one while my Dad was trying to be everyone's favorites. Sometimes I get angry thinking about it even when I try not to because my mother is the complete opposite. My sister and my mom were in a situation where they got in a physical altercation and from that moment all hell broke lose. My sister tries to give me advise but it's not the best advise to give someone especially when they're down. It breaks my heart and the only thing I could really ask is how do I really deal with this situation other than just 'dealing with it?' My parents also were great parents to me figuring I turned out the way that I did, but it frustrates me because I still don't understand why my Dad just could not love and respect my mother the way that he should have instead of mistreating her and verbally abusing her.

My husband thinks I should cover up.

I have to see him once or twice a week.

We've been together about 16 years and as you know the saga with her oldest son (from her first marriage) he's a 23 year old deadbeat felon with 2 kids he doesn't support. Last Nov my wife allowed him to move back in with us because his granddad kicked him out for smarting off. Well, since he's been back with us he had his 2nd baby. His mom and I are literally supporting the first one. He's worked probably a total of a month simply because he can't keep a job due his numerous court dates and getting into more trouble. Well, the other week I told her he had till Nov to get a job and start paying rent or he had to go and her argument was that she didn't want him out on the street. That's not my problem. Earlier this week his first baby momma hit us up about when is he going to start giving anything in support for their daughter. I have had enough. Now this girl is texting us about money. I text him this past Mon and told him he had till the end of this month to get a job and start paying his baby momma support and us rent or he had to go. All week when I get home from work he's not here and he doesn't come in till after I've gone to sleep so he'a obviously avoiding me. I'm off on Fridays so today he can't avoid me. He's still in bed. I told my wife that I didn't want him sleeping all day and she told me that I'm stressing her out with this crap. I don't feel I'm stressin gher out as much as I don't want a grown *** man living in my house bringing babies into the world that me and his mom will have to support. We buy her clothes, food, medicine, toys, everything. When she's here for her weekend visits she sleeps in the bed with us because when she was an infant and daddy was in jail that's were she slept. So now she thinks and knows her spot is between us at night. Yes, she's a joy to have around but she's not our responsibility. Am I stressing my wife out with this or does she just now want to face the fact that her son is a deadbeat dad who will be homeless soon? His second baby momma is now telling him that unless he sends her money he can't just show up to see his month old baby. I got full custody of my daughter when she was about 2 so the last thing I'm going to do is sit back and watch a guy skip on his responsibilities to his child.

My boyfriend is mad I took a job working at a school, over a child care job. I am just a launch monitor, but I felt its a better job opportunity in the long run. I don't get many hours, or much money, and with the babysitting job I would bring home more money. I talked to a friend, and she agrees with him, and said we need to support each other, and make decisions together. My boyfriend, and I don't live together, and he does not pay my bills! I live at home, and my parents told me to stick with the school. They said " I am not on the latter, and for me to work my way up. They said its not always easy to get into a school" He's making me pay for everything now! He pulles into a DQ parking lot said I want ice cream! I said okay, that's cool but I don't have a taste for it. He said go buy it for me, and I told him I only habe 7$ left. The rest of the week. He said well, I want ice cream go get ot for me maybe you will realize how f×€k£d it is to take a shytt¥ job that's no money. My friend sais he's just trying to prove that you cant live off that, but my partners pay thr bills, and I live with them, and they said if i stick with it I will move up, a bettwe job Espically if they like me, and I work hard.

I fear I will be judged by the sins of my arrogant father. In my Mom's family the children of enemies are enemies themselves.

I sometimes smoke weed and obviously I can't do this at home so whenever im outside I just smoke I had an accident with my own car and I paid to get it fix my father was upset and everything then he went for holidays then few weeks ago I had another accident while I was on drugs as well and the car was completely ruined I called my mom to tell her about the accident she said 2 accident in a month I doubt there's something wrong with you ,, and guys I really feel sorry for what happened I just don't want my parents to know that I'm in to something so how to make a good excuse on why did I get in a car accident twice plzzzz help

I am 23 years old and Not that long about my mom used to bully me and was very verbally abusive. Whenever she's mad she thinks it's ok to put over people down and say whatever she wants but when she's back to normal be all nice. She's very loud and narcissist when your around her your not allowed to have an opinion without being called every dirty name in the book. Now I'm at the name where I never wanna be around her life is so short and I don't think you should surround yourself with negative people not even family..being past 21 your not 16 anymore you need to be able to make your own chooses and have your own voice without someone screaming over you all the time..most people my age loves hanging out with they're mom but I never do and hate it..its just because she part of the reason why I have anxiety and she's very loud sometimes and that just scare me..I just was done being hurt by her..of her being so nice than being my worst enemy and making me cry..I'm very independent and learned to never ask or need my mom for anything..when most people my age don't even have a car because they mom takes them "everywhere" overal is this bad?

My daughter is never home and on her days off she leaves the house all day..whenever I invite her places she makes excuses..please tell me why my daughter doesn't like spending time with me? Every since she got a car she's been distancing herself

My two older kids weren't like this. With him, he loses everything - jackets, a tablet, library books, water bottles, bags, etc. He is old enough to know when school starts yet he missed out on the first day. My son just went to school the day he saw his older sister and brother wake up. It was already a day late (high schools start later on compared to elementary schools). There is also lots of whining and crying over minor things. He just can't seem to handle as much as the other kids could at his age. I can't trust him to go camping (because no adult can look after him 24/7 in a program of 30 kids, he is never responsible for himself and we won't be there).

Found this white powder with a slightly blue tint in my brothers room. I search his room often because he is a fentanyl addict so I take his drugs and throw them out. I used to do cocaine so I tasted the smallest amount to see if it was that, but it was completely tasteless. I ve never seen anything like it and can t find identification for it anywhere. Can anyone tell me what it is?

My sister is very upset right now I asked her what's wrong she said nothing. Me and her were talking she hugged me started crying on my shoulder. I keep asking her if she's ok she said yes. She wants me to sleep with her tonight both of us are girls. How can I comfort her ? What should I say to her ?

especially at night in the dark?

I liked this step-mother. I am 17 and my Dad is divorcing for the 4th time. My mother was wife number 2. He has cheated on every single wife but the 1st (and I would guess he did on her also). He lasts about 5-7 years. This wife was 6 years. I liked her. I did not like my first step-mother who he left my mother for. He left her for a woman named Fran and then left her after a short dating for my current step-mother. She is shocked he has cheated but he had a record. So how do I stop feeling so embarrassed by this? I know he is the chronic cheater and not me but cause he is my Dad it feels so embarrassing.

Laat week a close fam member deleted me and a part of my fam from fb and normally she would invite us for her birthday tomorrow. Somehow there is radiosilence and there have been agitation's recently but not head on confrontations with me personally.

I've seen with my own family that all my brothers were forced out of the house and to go to college and get a job and pay all their own bills right after high school while all the girls were allowed to live at home and were supported financially in college. After college, all of my sisters were never forced to find good jobs but instead told to follow their dreams and passions even if they couldn't support themselves while we were told to man up and pay our bills or be homeless. They were off being photographers and artists and volunteering at churches and animal shelters and having our parents pay their bills at 25 and we were working office jobs and living in our own at 25

i live at home with my mom and my two younger sisters. i'm 20 and my younger sisters are 16 and 8. i argue a lot with the 16 year old but its alway basic and unimportant things we argue about, like not touching each others stuff or being annoying or yelling at each other when were being too loud and every time we fight mom takes is as an opportunity to blow up on me and its always the same. she calls me gay or too sensitive and yells at me to leave, saying i'm too old and i should just move out and get out of her life. i usually just ignore her and go to my room. My younger sister defends me. i wish i could move out by i have a year left at my community college before i transfer to university so i can't just leave yet. but i'm worried someday she really will just kick me out and i'll have no where to go. should i try and talk to her? or play it safe and keep quiet until the day i leave?

I am an only child but I want to move to the spare room in the house. Although it is tinier, it is shaped better, bug free, has a tv, gets more AC, etc etc. I told my parents all of this and they won't let me move rooms because "we are already settled, the house is already fixed". However, today I moved my mattress and moved the couch in the spare room into my bedroom. They were a bit mad and made me change everything back but I did it to show them I can move things by myself. What should I do next? They said tonight I can sleep on the couch in there if I want to make it my room

She banned me from relatives you would you were perfectly nice people but allowed me around a pedophile. I was even in the pool at the same time as the pedophile once. Sorry this wrote wrong, will re-ask

My parents are out of town and they wouldn't let me stay at home overnight so they are forcing me to spend the night at our family friend's house which includes my sister's ex boyfriend and this awkward kid. Also the first night my sister isn't going to be there so I have to be alone and I'm really dreading it. I don't know what to do. Also I don't go to public school, I go to online school and they don't know about it, so it's going to be awkward to have to leave their house/ tell them all about it. I really need advice

My partner and I were together for 7 years (our daughter is 5) We split 2 weeks ago. Out of vengeance he cancelled our holiday to the Maldives where he was going to propose to me. Months ago I booked a ferry for my daughter, my sister and I to surprise my dad for his birthday and spend the weekend with him. My ex partner after cancelling the Maldives has booked a holiday for his and his children, the same weekend I'm taking my daughter away, to take them to Portugal to meet his family. My daughter is DESPERATE to go with him. Me feeling bad for her I asked him to change the flights to the next school holiday so she doesn't miss out on either as I already have plans with her. He tells me I'm evil for not letting her go with him. What do I do?

As an ex is she an enemy now and forever? We knew her family well and I presume will never speak to them again after the divorce.