I am a senior in high school and I really need help from someone who won't judge me too hard. I have always been a loner and currently have 2 friends that have kinda stuck with me throughout elementary school, and I literally have not made a single friend since then. I always have hated looking in the mirror and have struggled with weight issues (was at one point 200ish pounds, now am 150 from some exercise and starving myself, yeah it's ****** up) my entire life, but have always tried my best to be nice to people and just.. talk, I can't ******* talk I hate my voice so much it's embarrassing. The actual problem is trying to make friends and just maybe get a girlfriend or something because I'm so lonely and isolated right now I want to cry. I just go to school everyday then come back home, maybe cry in my bed, inflict pain on myself just to feel something real, and just watch youtube. It's so awful and I have been making an effort everyday to talk to people I don't even know in my classes, but they always just answer whatever question I ask and then it almost seems like I made them uncomfortable even though I'm trying to be nice, they proceed to act like I don't exist. I've especially been doing this with a girl I think is really pretty in my creative writing class but she always talks to the other person at our table and ignores me even though I try to talk to her. Please just help, I can't do this anymore, it won't end well. Thanks for reading if you made it this far.

Could she like him?

I m not a jealous girlfriend I am loyal to him and I give him space I don t mind if he talks to other girls or even flirts but I only have three problems It pops up on my news feed sometimes and I have to deal with seeing her photos he likes on my notifications. 1. These aren t normal bikini he likes this the third time the girl posted photo wearing no panties on and she also has a boyfriend too. She put on her Facebook that she is a sex worker or cam girl. The second girl he likes her photos everyday she had a boyfriend as well but she posts normal photos on there and posts regular stuff. 2. He does not like photos of random girls photos only these two girls he has been liking posts. 3. He doesnt like my posts or photos so o decided not to like anymore of his posts and start giving guys likes as well now he likes his own posts on there.

First off SHE DIDN'T ASK ME TO QUIT. I hid the fact I smoked cigarettes until after a few weeks of going out. When I asked if it was a deal breaker she said she hated it, but no. I didn't mention pot at all until Weds (when I ended it) so we were about 2 months in. After smoking in my truck the other day, she told me she doesn't care if I smoke cigs, but asked to not do it around her because the smoke bothers her and I get it. That's when I mentioned pot and I got the same answer. She works full time and has 10 months of nursing school left, and told me she has too much to lose and doesn't want to be around it/smell like it. She repeatedly told me she doesn't care that I smoke, just to not do it around her and I feel like that's a one-sided agreement and not a compromise. She said she wasn't being judgmental, but I told her from past relationships it just won't work. She admitted she felt strongly about me and it sucks because we shared the same values and future goals, and we were into the same things and she was supportive of my busy work life. When I told her we can continue talking as friends, she said she couldn't and it "honestly kills her" to lose me. Since then I can't find her on Facebook and she hasn't responded, when we went from talking all day every day. Did she really not care or is she pissed?

One of my "close friends" I've been talking to for about over two years now doesn't seem to care about a word I say. Whenever we're texting, she always tells me about her day, her problems, what's going on in her life, etc. I respond with long paragraphs, I comfort her, ask her plenty of questions, etc. She seems to appreciate that more often than not, though when it's time for me to tell her something I'm going through or give her my opinion on something we're discussing, she completely changes the subject to talk about herself without acknowledging anything I said. For example, today I told her I was stressed out over my classes & she responds by saying, "I don't know what to eat today. I was thinking about getting pasta." and in other scenarios, she says stuff like, "I just had some chips." - it's usually about food. I have not confronted her about it and I just go along with it because I don't want to be petty. Is it a big deal? What do you think? I just feel like she never listens to what I have to say or even acknowledges it when I put so much effort into being a good friend for her.

I've recently moved from New York to California and it's the second week of school and i can already tell it's going to be hell. I've made no friends no one seems to want to want to be friends with me I'm falling behind in all of my classes already and I'm very depressed about all of this. I'm just not happy at all I'm scared that i might do something to myself i need help

So basically I knew this girl for 7 months. She told me she liked me to my face several time randomly. She gave me a few hints too. She told me out of random one night that she was single and was asking if I like her hugging me and I told her "yeah as a friend right"But we were messing around and having sex during all of this. She would always touch my hair, give me random kisse, always hold my hands and rest her head on me. She went to study abroad for a month. I rarely reached out to her. Maybe I did twice the whole month while she reached out to me. When she got back we grabbed lunch and she gave me 2 gifts from Europe. We then went to dinner a week later and i could tell the vibe was off. She wasn't all over me like she was in the past. So i asked her out to be my girlfriend and she told me while on break she realized she wants to be alone and that she can only offer her pure friendship... also claiming she has no feelings for me and sees me more as a friend. She said also that she doesn't do friends with benefits. This took me back because of how intimate we were over the past 6 months. So since this talk she's been texting me everyday even calling me. she's asking me a bunch of questions and telling her what she's doing thruout her day... she asked me to help her out with her car the other day and we ended up talking after for like 2 hours... she was all fidgey and getting close to me and touching me and laughing non stop at everything I said.

Friends just grow apart eventually and I feel like the few friends that I have really don't care about me so why have any at all. I have felt let down by them. So why have them? I just don't think i'm meant to have any friends

Okay so first of all,i know i'm childish and i'm human i cant control this feeling.Yesterday,the final result was out and i didn't manage to get Dean's list but my friend did.She kept on asking me whether i got DL or not and i told her the truth but she didnt believe me.Then she asked to be honest and she told me she didnt get DL and i was being honest from the very beginning and told her again that i didnt get it too.But then when i was being serious and told her how i felt etc she then told me that she actually got DL. I was annoyed and mad not because of her achievement but because of the way she lied.Why did she do that?I know it was childish but i hate liars.I mean im not a person who likes to stick my nose into other's business.I dont know how to stop being so mad over a simple thing.Pls reply politely dont curse on me.Thanks really appreciate it.

I stole a girl (named Jada)'s work from school and I copied her handwriting. I'm copying how she taps her book while her pencils eraser when reading. And I also copy her body language (how she stands and how she walks). As well as her confidence. Why do I want to be her? How do I stop copying her and trying to be like her? I can't get her off my mind. I want to talk to her and become her friend but my friends and other people make fun of how she looks "retarded", so I don't want to be seen with her because she'll make me look bad.

The other night, I was watching a film with my two female friends. It starred Kirsten Dunst as Nim on Nim's Island, and under my dr who blanket I was fiddling with myself cos she has always been my film idol. But then one of my friends became suspicious and pulled back my lap blanket, and she saw it all. But I could not stop, if you catch my drift, and the two of them were laughing while I came. I was so embarassed, and I just want to know if i should talk to them about it. We have spoken since, and they keep threatening to tell all my friends about it if I don't do everything they tell me. So far, every time they see me they make me do embbarassing things and they film it. Last time, they blindfolded me and did my makeup and took pics. They have also attacked me with sharpies, and im not allowed to resist. Help! Should I tell someone. Is this assault.? Update: They just left again after another session of embarassing me. This changes things and changes my question, because what they asked me to do was get off again while they filmed me so they had proof for their blackmail if I stopped obeying them. It seems now that giving in and telling people that anything these girls say is a lie is no longer an option!

So this is a person with who I used to hang out. She travelled to work somewhere but coming back in the near future. We aren't really that close but I like her as a friend and would wish to hang out with her when she returns. We haven't spoken for a long time and it is nothing person, we aren't even that close. But we parted ways. And like a a year later she initiate text on whatsapp apologising for not having texted me for a while since she was busy. We had small talk and then she suddenly didn't respond to my messages, even though she saw them. Honestly it's baffling and I don't know what's going on but I still wanna continue our friendship. Should I text her again sometime later?

I wouldn't say im 'unpoular'. Everyone knows me (in school) and I used to be popular for about a year (in year 8.) but suddenly for a lot of this year this BIG popular group has kind of split, and a lot of the kids and new ones from my year are hanging out together outside of school, and me and some others aren't anymore. Makes me sad seeing them on snapchat knowing im just left out. I'm not really 'popular' anymore, but I wish I was still. I just want to know if kids who weren't popular in school can be popular adults? Or have good experiences doing things like drinking n **** like that. I just feel like I'm missing out in life at my age (15) and that I'm never gonna do things lads do like holidays or banter and I've seen a lot of stories of popular kids being unpopular as adults, but never the other way round.

I have a friend not a close one at 7 eleven and she always asks me for money and I give her 10 or 20 bucks at times and yesterday she asked me for 500 bucks for rent she doesn't have and I told her I can't do it and now she said if I go into 7 eleven, she will have me trespassed, so I went to the manager of 7 eleven and told her what happened and the manager was very mad with her but ninam afraid of getting her fired.. did I do wrong?

She do that in a very rude and humilate way.... Why she is so mean toward me?

She always say bad things for me in front of others She always try to convince me that i am ugly She interrupt me all the time when we speak with others I told her that i like a guy and she told me in a rude way that i am too ugly for him One day she told me that a girl called me ugly behind my back and i am very sure that she told me that only to make me believe that i am ugly Btw i have seen a smile on her face when she try to make me feel bad Why does she do that???

This year has been so rough... The person that I fell in love with left me for another woman and broke my heart. Months later, the person that I dated a few years back came out of nowhere and confessed his love to me and I was at my happiest. He told me that he never stopped loving me and that he couldn't move on ,I was surprised but glad too. I liked him a lot but turns out he was moving away the next year and he didn't want us to be together. Find out weeks later that he's with a woman who is far from where he is at and he told me that he would wait 4 years to see her.. A few days later I started losing a lot of friends., even ones who i be been in a friendship with for years. I have also had a bad time with my body. I don't know what to do anymore, I feel useless and I feel tired and drained, physically and emotionally. I wish I could disappear, but then again, I don't. I really don't know what to do at this point, I ruin everything, I feel like everyone hates me.

I only have a 23 day streak with this girl but she hasn't snapped me at all today and our streak will expire in like 3 hours. I sent the last one so if I send another will it save the streak or does it have to be her who sends it?

I'm dorming this upcoming school year and so I'm talking with my two roommates to discuss what to bring so we won't bring doubles. Most often, I ask them a question and they just read it. Both of them don't respond and just leave it seen. I can see that they've been active on the social media platform we're using so I don't understand why they can't respond to my message... HELP!

I did some work for someone a few months that I also consider a good friend and care about . However this person is very manipulative and a liar. They have been going through a rough time financially for a little while now. Although most of their issues have been caused by their own poor choices . They own two businesses and they are not doing well. This person owes me a little over $1,000 and has yet to give me a dime. They are used to me spending a lot of time with them and deep down I know they value the friendship. Recently we got into an argument and I really don't want much to do with them anymore because I realize their character . And unfortunately, they are the type of person where if I stop coming around and being friendly it will be nearly impossible to get my money back . So should I lose some of my dignity and play nice until I can at least get some of my money or just let it go and walk away?

My best friend and I have known each other for forty years, and went to grade school and college together. He became a stockbroker and now owns four houses and is worth around $7 million. I own a convenience store, which makes me about $2,000 a month, and I have three children. From time to time I ask my friend for a little change, only when I'm greatly in need, and always with an apology and gratitude. Little things like my power bill or my children's dental fees. I only ask when I have no other choice. My friend has always obliged me, but he's been getting mean about it. Recently I went house-hunting because my apartment is in a bad area of town and now that my kids are older, they're starting to notice. I found a three-bedroom home way out in the suburbs for $500,000. After talking to the bank, I found out I'd need to make a down payment of $100,000 (20 per cent). All I've been able to save up over the years, with great effort, is $22,000. I asked my friend if he could give me the rest ($78,000) and he completely blew up at me for the first time. He called me a leech, a bum, and a deadbeat, and told me to never ask him for money again. I was so mad I cursed him out and haven't talked to him since. I mean seriously? I know $78,000 is a lot of money, but he literally has 50 times that much in the bank. He lives in a $1.2 million home and drives a Lamborghini and he can't help me buy a safe house for my children?!

I went to visit one of my best friends, Victoria, in her state a month ago. She lives with her brother and his family in order to help her sister-in-law with the kids when her brother is at work. Therefore, when I visited, I stayed at their house as well. Victoria kept us pretty busy the whole time I was visiting, but we all hung out the night after I got there, for a couple hours. I felt we all got along well. When I got home, I friend requested Victoria's brother and sister-in-law. A few weeks after, Victoria's sister-in-law finally accepted my friend request. She "liked" a post of mine that night. The next morning, others had "liked" the same post so I checked to see who liked it and Victoria's SIL had "Add Friend" next to her profile, meaning she deleted me. I friend requested her again and it's still pending. Why do you think she deleted me after adding me? I felt we got along well, I thanked her for allowing me to stay at their house, before I left for the airport. It just seems weird. We're both adults, I'm 27 and she's 30. Also, the brother hasn't accepted my friend request either, but has commented on Vicky's post so I know he's been online. I suppose I don't know them well enough to be FB friends with them, but isn't that how you get to know people? The only thing I can think of is that night, we were all playing a few board/card games and during one of the games, you had to guess a word that another was describing. I guessed "bondage" was the word and I was right and Vicky's brother goes "dang, ________'s a freak!" (like sexual freak) and maybe that made Vicky's SIL uncomfortable? And maybe that made her dislike me? I have no idea. Update: I habitually went to my Sent Requests tonight and saw that not only did she deny my request, but she made it so I can't friend request her. What the heck?

I played in a fortnite tournament with my friends. It was a russian site (because my friends are russian) I was unfamiliar with it, they said it was new and didn't know much about it but we played. Anyways we won and the money was split with me and one other friend for 1000$ each. I received it in the mail today and I took a picture on my phone and did a mobile deposit. It was from a landscaping company but said fortnite tournament win so i was impatient and stupidly deposited it. My phone is very crappy so I used the money from the check and bought an Iphone X, I lost my receipt and i never put any info because i dont have a specific phone number that isnt the point. Since it was today nothing has happened yet but im worried im ******... I dont have the money to pay for refund on the iphone x for the bank am i ******? im 16 btw so for credit fraud i know the bank reinbursts you but i looked online and basically im ****** right?