I'm 23 years old and I have the biggest crush on this older girl who is 34. Shes married and has 2 kids, and I doo respect that. I work with her and i met her 3 months ago, i find her super beautiful and she has an amazing personality. Apperantly she finds me super attractive but shes married an nothing can happen. But I cant get her out of my head, I'm constantly thinking about her and this is bothering me alot. Can I have some advice please???????

My best friend moved to another school and she was kind of the only friend at school who would always talk to me, make me laugh and act goofy. So since she's gone I have to make new friends and I'm pretty shy sometimes and it's really difficult for me to make new friends. I'm always afraid that when I walk up to someone and say hi, they'll look at me weird and just say hi and nothing else even when I continue talking and it'll just be awkward

There's this guy who works in a thrift shop that I go to sometimes. The first time I saw him was last week. I didn't say much to him he saw me leaving out of the store and he held the door open for me. I went back to the store again today and this time I asked him what sales were going on he said he didn't know. And then the later mentioned the sale over the intercom. He looked at me and said there you go and we both smiled at each other. I want to say something to him but I don't know what to say or if I even should.

I ve never had many friends, recently I graduated from college where I became best friends with 3 other girls. I moved back to my hometown and they are still all in the city. It s been 4 months since I left and I recently booked a trip to visit them a few weeks from now. Problem is they are suddenly ignoring me! I haven t done anything I can think of other than send them snaps or tag them on fb about things we usually talk about - seems like everyone is ignoring me and I can t figure out why :( asking seems needy and I don t want to come off this way. Should I just quietly cancel my trip? Ignore them back? Find new friends? It s been like this for a few weeks and I feel hurt.

Bueno me gusta un chico y me da vergüenza decirlo directamente, es mi mejor amigo y no quiero perderlo...bueno yo lo que intento hacer es enviarle signos a el para que se de cuenta de que me gusta....sé que soy muy importante para el , especialmente en los estudios , ya que yo le ayudo mucho a estudiar , además siempre le voy a despertar para ir al cole juntos y a veces le compro algo para comer y le hago regalos, intento demostrarle de que me importa y hago más cosas ( le ayudo con papeleos y esas cosas , el es un poquito patan). Además siempre intento ayudarle en todo lo que sea... Tenemos una relación especial . Siempre nos picamos , nos "insultamos", nos decimos que no nos importa el uno al otro y "discutimos". Una vez le estaba diciendo de que le odio y sin querer le dije te quiero ( en vez de te odio), yo rápidamente cambie y el se quedó raro y después bromeó y me dijo Suerte que no has dicho te quiero sino te iba a matar! Que tengo que hacer ? Se nota mucho que m

This is kiillin our friendship. Hes like don't send me pics of women to his phone. I say well why, does your gf go thru your phone. Hes like no I just don't wanna see them. Im like wtf man? he seems really odd now. He acts like I cant like women with fake butts or boobs. Im like dude stop hating on them ig models or lol. Hes seems so stuck up now like the past few months. This is the same man that told me about Red tube . com mind you so he aint no saint lol

He sent me: "It was very nice to have met you. I just like to leave this number in the event you would like to keep in touch. Hope we get to see you at the Church sometime. All the best." Do I text: "It was nice to meet you too. Best wishes" or "It was nice to meet you too. Kindest regards"

I decided to go back to school and enrolled for classes recently. My friend decided to do the same program and enrolled in the exact same classes. She didn't ask me how I felt about it. She is very competitive and I don't feel comfortable being in class with her. I feel she is invading my space and my privacy. We are both in our 40's so it's not like we are that young. I'm not sure how to proceed. I might be spending the next 2 years with her in my classes now and I'm not happy about that. Am I overreacting?

My ex and I ended things earlier this summer. It was pretty much a mutual agreement because of things that were going on, but we both wanted to be friends. In the beginning, even though it was mutual, I was hurt, sick to my stomach, pretty much at one of my lowest points. He was my first love and we have known eachother for 4 years (only dated for 1), but there is a lot of history. Recently, I've been doing really well. We both do our own thing with friends and what not, but talk casually every once in a while. We hung out for the first time since everything has happened last night. I was hesitant.. but I was willing to see how it would go. The beginning of the night was fine. We baked, caught up with each other, and just laughed about various things. As the night went on, we ended up cuddling on the couch and he eventually kissed me. I just feel like we're not able to look at eachother without wanting to be cute or act the way we always used to. When I got home last night I was fine - reminding myself it meant nothing. But now I'm just laying in bed and my mind is racing. I don't know what to do. I've never been in this situation. I want to be friends, I really do, but it seems like deep down there's always going to be feelings on both ends.

Guy and I were set up by a family friend in front of our parents, and he gave me his number after his dad told him too. I also gave him mine because of my mom. Later, my mom kindly told the friend that I'm not interested in the guy, but now I just received his text which includes: "It was very nice to have met you. I just like to leave this number in the event you would like to keep in touch. Hope we get to see you at the Church sometime. All the best."

Alright so when I was little my sister had a friend named Kelly.My sister and I are 5 years apart.Which means her friend is also about 4-5 years apart from me.Anyway.I basically grew up with the friend.I knew her since I was 5 years old.25 now.She recently wrote me and said that she wanted to hangout and grab some drinks to catch up.But 2 things. 1:My sister and her ended on bad terms but still friends on FB. 2.I really don't wanna hang out with her.Especially at a bar.Because I grew up with her.She watched me grow up from age:5-14 and I just think it would be just really weird.So what do you guys think?

Last week I went to the gym and told my bf. Usually I'd say I'm done with the gym but I didn't this ime and he was the one who texted me 3 hours later saying he was going to the library(where I go everyday) he was pretty cold then I discovered he got jealous and was wondering why I didn't ask him to come to the gym. So on friday I was going to the gym and told him he said ok baby I'm working have a good workout and kiss. I got upset and said alright thanks. Then unlike him he said alright? Thanks?. I said yeah when I don't ask you you get upset when I do you don't come. He said you know I have a job and if I can't come there's a reason. I said ok which is why I didn't ask you last time. He was like ok you won. I said what's with the attitude s d he said it was coming from my lack of effort to his kids and response. He's usually not aggressive or looking for a fight. Anyway I was like I'm done with this attitude of yours, I don't know where all this is coming from. He said there's no attitude. If you're done ok. I wish you the best. I said okay likewise and he sent a thumbs up. He usually doesn't fight with me or anything but the pay week I was sensing aggression. He even had bought me a 1000 dollar purse that week too. This was on a Friday. Is it strange how easily it ended and I haven't heard from him? He Was supposed to drive me to the airport, I left MondayHe got weird the first time I didn't invite him because he got suspicious that I was with the trainer like last time.

I was kind of friends with this guy. He has no friends I was his only friend he was a bit of a loner. He literally sat at the lunch table by himself I sat with him for a whole year talking to him. He graduated a year before me. Over the summer he was fine but then he went to a community college to only drop out week 2. I was told he had depression or something. He doesn't really leave his house and he's an internet troll. He doesn't talk to people. Well I said a couple things and he tried something every time I talked to him only to blow up block me. Try to start something every day almost. Had an issue all the time. Have some issue then block me. It was always something. He had a sense of power over my emotional sensibilities trying to exploit them. Well one day he started freaking out because of a girl I was talking about for months and he was threatening something I didn't like getting me worked up and when I said repeatedly don't played victim because I asked him not to. I cut him off and never really spoke again. Day after, sister says he wants to talk to me block her. His mom sends me a thumbs up 2days later. Block. He gets on grandmas fb messaging me 2 weeks later and I was civil. He basically that our friendship was ruined over something stupid and there's no communication. He literally has no friends and I was his only friend from highschool but now I'm gone. I won't unblock him or resolve anything with him. I didn't want to deal with him ever again.

My friend recently asked me and our other friend to hang out before she goes back to school. But the day she wanted to hang out I had already made plans to go out of town and our other friend had her own plans too. She had asked us this two days before the intended hang out day. We both told her of our plans and her reply was "cool guys". She also brought up that we haven't gone on a trip with her and that we never hang out with her when she's off of school. I feel bad but at the same time she also asks a couple days before she wants to hang out and I am busy with work and my relationship. Am I wrong to be annoyed at her for being upset at us for not being as available as she is, or should I feel guilty for not prioritizing her. I never know when she's in town and it's like she expects us to know and to be able to hang out at a moments notice. Should I cancel my plans to spend it with her or just keep apologizing or just let her get over it?

Last week I went to the gym and told my bf. Usually I'd say I'm done with the gym but I didn't this ime and he was the one who texted me 3 hours later saying he was going to the library(where I go everyday) he was pretty cold then I discovered he got jealous and was wondering why I didn't ask him to come to the gym. So on friday I was going to the gym and told him he said ok baby I'm working have a good workout and kiss. I got upset and said alright thanks. Then unlike him he said alright? Thanks?. I said yeah when I don't ask you you get upset when I do you don't come. He said you know I have a job and if I can't come there's a reason. I said ok which is why I didn't ask you last time. He was like ok you won. I said what's with the attitude s d he said it was coming from my lack of effort to his kids and response. He's usually not aggressive or looking for a fight. Anyway I was like I'm done with this attitude of yours, I don't know where all this is coming from. He said there's no attitude. If you're done ok. I wish you the best. I said okay likewise and he sent a thumbs up. He usually doesn't fight with me or anything but the pay week I was sensing aggression. He even had bought me a 1000 dollar purse that week too. This was on a Friday. Is it strange how easily it ended and I haven't heard from him? He Was supposed to drive me to the airport, I left MondayHe got weird the first time I didn't invite him because he got suspicious that I was with the trainer like last time.

My close friend and I usually talk everyday, but due to our busy schedules she's gotten into the habit of replying to me less frequently, every other day, I didn't find that as a problem, I understood that she was busy and couldn't reply and I thought it was the same for her. She sent me a text saying that she misses how we used to text all the time and that she understands that I'm busy and that I can't be on my phone all the time. She said that she misses me and that she's not mad that i'm busy. The message mainly focused on how I was busy and how it was "my fault", she added in a "i'm a crappy replyer" at the end. Part of me wants to be blunt and say that she was the one that didn't reply to me for three days and that I always reply by the end of the day, but it wasn't bothered by the lack of text, I just don't like how it feels like she's blaming me. Am I wrong to feel like she's blaming me and to be upset by that? She has insecurities and needs to be reassured that I still consider her as a close friend, so I don't know how blunt I should be.

My friend is moving back to our home state with hopes of us moving together. Way before we found out she was moving, we had talked about moving in together. Since then I've gotten myself into a serious relationship where we've talked about moving in together. My friend is still asking if we can live together when she moves back, that she'll get a job as soon as she gets here and that we'll be able to have a cool apartment like we talked about. I've told her that my future plans will be stay with my parents to save up money then move in with my boyfriend. After that she started asking if she could rent a room at my boyfriend's house. I don't really want that and neither does my boyfriend (she won't have a car or money for the first month). I feel like she's taking advantage of my situation but at the same time I feel like maybe she's trying to make it work and doing whatever she can to move back. My bf and I would prefer it if she didn't live with us but at the same time she is a good friend. Should I let her live with us or am I a bad friend for not wanting that? It should be mentioned that the main reason we're hesitant on letting her rent a room at my bf's house is because of her not having a car. He has stated that he wouldn't charge her rent. We also don't understand why she's pushing staying with him, when she has an aunt that lives nearby

My good friend is visiting me from my home state and during our hang outs he left me to talk to another girl. He's only here for a little while and I wanted to spend the time he's here together. I feel abandoned and upset but at the same time I want him to have fun on his trip. Should I be upset and tell him or should I root for him and be happy for him? Should I even bring it up or just let him do what he wants?

I'm a shyer person in general, and I suck at making small talk and getting to know people. Because of those two things, I always unintentionally don't make the best first impression when I meet people; I probably come off as meek and awkward. I'm starting a new job next week and I'm really worried about fitting in with my new coworkers. They're all college age like myself and I'm worried that they'll all be really outgoing and exclusive or something. I know that sounds crazy and it's probably all in my head, but I don't know how to stop worrying about it. At my old job, being quieter and bad at conversations caused a lot of people to avoid me. I'm not a bad person (at least I hope I'm not!), I just suck at making small talk and conversation so I think a lot of people just figure that out quickly and avoid talking to me because of that. I'm worried that will happen with my new coworkers at my new job. How do I keep this from happening? What are some go-to topics to keep on hand for small talk? Any tips on uh...not sounding awkward? :')

I feel like she doesn't care about me anymore. We're both adults and she's really busy but when we text she sometimes doesn't respond and she leaves me hanging and I texted her to tell her how she made me feel but she never responded and she told me I probably let you down I'm sure because me and haven't talked in over a week and I told her I felt abandoned by her and that I feel like she doesn't care about me anymore but all that was for nothing so how should I react? I'm thinking about just not being her friend at all anymore. I feel like me and her don't click anymore

This family friend had set up this guy and I this weekend in front of our parents, and the guy ended up putting the ball in my court with his number after his dad told him to. I also have him mine because of my mom. Later, my mom kindly told the friend that I'm not interested in the guy, but now I just received his text which includes: "It was very nice to have met you. I just like to leave this number in the event you would like to keep in touch. Hope we get to see you at the Church sometime. All the best."

So I was going out with this girl months ago, and everything was fine. But things later ended between us back in March, she said she doesnt want to be in a relationship with anyone. But now my besfriend and her have been talking, My bestfriend thinks I'm over her but I havent. So my bestfriend is taking her out on a date Friday and deep down it hurts alot. I told my friend to have fun but its killing me. Any advice please??????