hello I recently got married and I received my section 8 pre acceptance packet I been separated from my husband and he is not in the household can I still qualify and if so what proof will they ask for I'm in the state of California

Husband has been away for almost a year due to his job. He said to me over skype that he does not want to have sex with me when he gets home. In fact, he doesnt want to have sex for a good minute. My family has told me that he is either sleeping around on me or has caught something that he dosnt want to give me. He did cheat on me early on in the marriage. 4 months to be exact and we were away from each other in that time period due to our jobs yet again. So what do you guys all think? Is he sleeping around or what?

It bothers me I feel like I'm his woman and he should be with me for the holidays He has already told me that he has plans for halloween with his kids Christmas and Christmas Eve. My issue is the kids dont come over or split the day he jist leaves me and goes to be with her altogether. I can't deal with this any more. At first he would argue with me and find a reason to leave until me and her got into it and she told me that they had sex and he was with her that last holiday. I was pissed! He said she made it up but I cant help to think that's whats going on when they are together. Does anyones spouse/significant other spend the holidays with an ex? Is this normal am I over reacting?

So my husband and I are in our early 20's and got married last year. We live in San Diego, CA, in a little bedroom in my parents house. The wages are so bad here, however, both my husband and I working full time, would not equate to enough to qualify for a low income home loan (USDA). Is there any methods of financial help that you know of for us? (state grants, first time home-buyer help, etc.) Its not ideal to stay in San Diego, but my parents are elderly and so I do not want to be forced to go to a different, cheaper, state because of this. On top of this ever since I got married, after taking birth control for just 3 months 2 years ago, my periods have fizzled out into nothing, and the doctors just say, "oh, hormonal fluctuations are normal".. I haven't had a period for months though, and I haven't used protection in the whole past 2 years, but I don't believe I can even get pregnant with no period there. Not that we can even afford a baby right now, it's just I feel nothing seems to be working out at this moment. Any words of encouragement and advice is appreciated. Thanks. Thanks for all your advice guys. Guess I just expected a house and children to be possible at my age,as my friends and family my age who are getting married, are now pregnant or living in their own home. For instance, my husband's sister married shortly after us, and moved right into their own home that was given to them by her husband's uncle. And my husbands family friend, our age, who got married a month after us, is already in her own home and expecting a child. I need to focus on us I guess

My boyfriend and I have been together for almost 3 years now and he and his wife had been separated a year prior to us becoming a couple. She filed for divorce (I've seen the papers) a year after the separation but he's never signed and it seems now they've just agreed to be legally separated (also have seen paperwork stating they are separated. Some background info.. they were married for quite a number of years and established a farming company and together share land, livestock amongst machinery. She doesn't have much to do with working with him other than she takes care of the paperwork. My boyfriend loves his job and it would be a huge financial loss to give up half so I can see why he doesn't want to get divorced and just stay separated. I'll also mention that they would never get back together, so I'm not worried about that. I just find it unsettling that my boyfriend, although separated from his wife for 4 years now, still works with her and prob plans to forever. What do you Think? I want to bring it up but I don't want to argue about it either.

My husband and I have been married for 4 years. Its been an ok 4 years but not the best. We were invited to a family dinner where my husband met my cousin. They exchanged numbers but I didnt make it a big deal because he was exchanging numbers with pretty much all my cousins. After this, I noticed my husband was constantly texting her day and night. I know this because I glanced over and saw her name. A few nights later I went through his phone and noticed he was telling her how she has a beautiful voice and how she is pretty and that she resembles some celebrity. I also noticed that he was sending her selfies of himself. Their conversations sounded a lot like she was playing hard to get and he was trying to get her attention. She kept saying "brother" but he didnt want to be called "brother". I also started noticing their instagram stories are almost the same. They would post the exact same quotes the same day..my husband would try to say things try to make me jealous of my cousin...things like what if she comes to the uk (where we live), i'll be sad when she gets married, shes actually pretty, im surprised shes still single etc, he also lies to me if hes spoken to her or not and i usually see them online on whatsapp at the same time..ive never had any issue with my husband talking to women and tbh he has more female friends than male friends..but this doesnt seem right..can someone please tell me whats going on?

My husband and I got married 5 years ago. He's 33 I'm 30. Our marriage has changed drastically in the past year. We have sex maybe once a month MAYBE. When I talk to him about it he says it doesn't bother him. (Well it bothers me.) He's always been a workaholic but for the past year it's been really bad. He works from 6AM - 7PM (almost daily) *he works a commission job* He works (M-F & every other SA.) Hes always been a mommas boy. He stays with his mother M-TH because his job is 45 min away and it's across the street from her house. I'll see him Fri nights (around 7/8PM) then he's gone by (7/8AM) Saturday morning for work. Now since football is starting he wants Saturday to himself on the weekends he's not working for football games and every Sunday we always drive 45min to his moms house for church and lunch. He told me the reason we aren't having sex is because I got fat. I used to box but had surgery a year ago and I FINALLY got cleared to get back into it. I admit I gained 15lbs and now weigh around 125lbs. He's constantly saying I smother him and I need my own life/friends and how I should go out and meet new friends. I've felt so rejected I've begun talking to other men. I want SO BADLY to be in love with him. Everytime I look at him it's just disgust. It's not excitement it's just "Great another boring conversation." I've suggested marriage counseling but he's refused to go because of his work schedule. I don't know WHAT to do!!! Any suggestions?!

I have been married for 3 years and my marriage is declining by the minute we're to the point now where he put me on call block, sleeps in another room, doesn't come home some days, and so forth. I wrote out a pros and cons list and I could only think of 12 pros but found 23 cons and 15 of the cons are deal breakers. My question is , are these signs of divorce ?

I try to be the perfect wife. I try to have lots of sex with him so he will be sexually satisfied. I try to cook and clean and run his bath water and I try to have his clothes set out for him and make breakfast for him and make his lunch for work. But he still has "slips" in our marriage. He has been having affairs and he guiltily tells me. we tried counseling and he tells the councilor he will stop But he told me his urges grow everyday and he cant control it. He says he thinks about me when hes with other women but this makes me so sad :( What do we do? We tried counseling and I cant help but feel insecure and cry about this a lot. I want to stay committed and try to help my husband through this. This is "struggle" that we have to surpass in our marriage. please help

Women in 2018 are so ridiculous. Back in the day all a man had to do was have a great job. Now he has to be 6'2'' plus, have a modelesque face, a body builders physique, and a very deep pocket. Not only that, but he also has to have a large social circle to prove his status. He must have many hobbies. He must be entertaining. Now every man has to be a womans circus monkey while women bring absolutely nothing to a table other than their rapidly fading looks. Can you believe that I get turned down constantly despite my extremely chiseled mandible, my good eye area with hunter eyes, my ideal fWHR, my forward maxilla, my masculine chin and brow ridge. my face is a 10/10. The only thing that takes me down to about an 8 is the fact that I am only 5'11 and have a small frame. However, despite being an 8/10 women, I can't even get 2/10 women. I have ZERO matches on tinder despite swiping right on literally everyone. I approach women on the street and I know that women do not like to be objectified so I don't comment on their appearance so I instead tell them "you look sympathetic". Women either treat me like I am a rapist or like I do not exist at all. I even approached a haggard milf who didn't have on a ring so I assumed she was single and she ignored me. I keep trying to get her attention and she acted like I was invisible. How will I ever find a wife when women are so impossible in this day and age? I just want to be a traditional husband with a large family. How can I ascend?