So I've known this girl for 8 months. We never started out as friends. She was all over me and into me from the beginning. We went out a lot together, such as lunches, dinners, bars etc. we also went food shopping once a week together. We had sex and messed around quite often. She would always show affection towards me. She even told me she liked me to my face on multiple occasions. She went away to study abroad for a month. When she came back we got lunch and dinner. I asked her out to be my girlfriend and she told me she could only offer her pure friendship right now, and that she wants to be alone. She also mentioned that she sees me more as a friend. Which is odd because 2 weeks earlier when she was abroad she texted me saying she wants me... Anyways. Fast foward a week from her telling me this. she's been texting me non stop. Saying good night to me and stuff and being flirty. We even hung out in person and she was getting really close to me and kept rubbing her body against mine and laughing at everything i said. She invited me out for her birthday and she told me her she invited her friends too. So I went. I sat next to her and she kept leaning into me and touching me. Even feeding me her food with her fork. Also when I left we just hugged and kissed on the cheek but she held on a little longer. Its just all very confusing. She's 21 and told me from the beginning that she's not as sexual as most girls. She told me when I asked her out that she doesnt do FWB

I do not know what to do. I wrote a review of my current employer on indeed and I said that I love my job, but management sucks. I didn't think it would notify the employer. I don't get along well with the managers most of the time, but the Doctor who owns the practice is awesome. He is so lenient whenever I make a mistake (I am fresh out of school) and is just such a great guy. He saw the review and got pretty upset thinking that it was about him, when in reality it had nothing to do with him. I feel so beyond bad about what I did and I posted it in the heat of the moment after an argument with some of my managers. I don't know if I should talk about it to him or if I should just act like it never happened. Please, no negative comments. I know that what I did was juvenile and immoral. Thank you in advance!

Parents are divorced, father has custody and is a good Christian man. I try to help out with talking with them about their fears and other issues of being a part of a split family.

Last night my bf and I of 8 years spoke about our future together. Where our relationship is going and he said that we both have a lot to improve on ourselves. I've been attending school all these years on and off. Tbh I have not even received a degree yet ( I know) so he says it's "been 8 years and it's like there's no progress in yourself, I'm only telling you to be sincere. So until I see you really focused and ambitious and dedicated on what you decide to do for yourself. I'll then ask where do we go from here"...(marriage of course) "you have to value yourself before me".... I felt that he was giving me a list of things I need to do but he said it's not the case that we should be growing together and that's why he's being honest. But what's your intake on it everyone?

I never knew he was married until tonight. I assumed he was a single, gay man. We had been seeing each other for the better part of a year. He always came here, but tonight, after not hearing from him for a couple of weeks, he asked me to come to his place. I thought nothing of it. When I got there, he told me via text to wait outside. I was starting to feel anxious. Then, I get a text saying "This is his wife. Leave:. I m calling a cab at this point to leave and he comes outside telling me to pretend I don t know him and that he was talking with his wife. When I get home, I start getting a series of texts from his number and what I assume to be his wife s number. "Do I know you?", who is this etc. I initially ignore it but then say that they have the wrong number. I then get a screenshot and a message asking If I hooked up with someone last monday and was texting her husband about it. I ve ignored everything. I m still getting texts from the guys number every 20 min or so saying block (wife s number) and to act like we never met. I m completely freaked out because my address is definitely in those texts and I m afraid one or both of them will snap and show up here to hurt me. I never would have slept with him had I known he was married. What can I do if the texts keep coming or one or both of them seeks me out? I don t even know if I can sleep tonight. I m sorry if I sound dramatic. I m just scared. How do I deal with this?

Every once In a while when I go out side I always see bunch of people wearing red black & white standing all together. When I go out side they always stare at me like they going to do something to me. Im a little scared going out side even out side in front of my yard. Im like the only asian in this block. When I 1st moved here I did not even know that this place was ghetto. I cant efford a house so I always lived in a apartment my entire life it sucks living in apartments with all the ghettos. It would be nice having a house having my own private yard with fence. i never go out side because is to ghetto here the only time I go out side is when I take out the trash. I did herd if you act scared gangs will test you but so far they have not did anything to me yet. My stuff have been stolen before though my dog got stolen on the 1st week I moved here & my recycles gets stolen all the time surprised my car has not got stolen yet. I been here for 6 years I think if the gangs really wanted to harm me they probably would of did something to me a long time ago.

Ok, so yesterday my family went to this lake to swim for the first time. The weather was perfect for swimming! I almost never go shirtless around people I know, so I had a rash guard on. Now, I think it would have felt great to be sans shirt, and when we go again this Saturday I think I'd like to...the only problem is, I feel awkward being shirtless around friends and family. I'm not fat or anything, I just never did it because of that awkward feeling. But I want to do it now. How can I do it without feeling awkward?

I (24 f) asked my bf (22 m) what he was doing on his bday and he said he and his friend, "Tracy s"b-day s are close together so they are thinking about a boat party. He said he is not sure if he going because his friend's are bad at planning. I said, "ok". We ate dinner like we typically do and met up with my friends. When we were out he said, "I probably won t see you next weekend". I was visibily upset, but didn't say anything. We got to my friend'splace and he said," what's wrong?" I said nothing, and he got mad. I said fine I'll tell you. He said, "Let's go outside and talk". I told him that it wasn't that I had to hangout with his friend's but like we aren't going to hang out at all and I was a little disappointed. He asked me was that all and then later after talking some more he said he understands. I told him to have fun with his friends and that I was sorry, but I still feel some type of way.. Are my feelings justifiable?

Been together for more than a year. I want to move forward because i m almost 30 and he is older. Both have good paying jobs. I am sick of waiting to have babies and buy a house. I want to leave him before a certain time. How much patience should I have?

I'm a young man and one day i was looking to cross the road and a man on a bicycle that was passing in front of me, saw me and said to me with a smile: "Hello darling!", i saw him and i smiled. I'm a good looking young man, i'm tall, with a cute and sweet face, white skin, pink lips, very long blond hair, blue eyes and a small beauty mark between nose and lips. The funny thing is that i didn't know that man! he thought i was a woman and he wanted to flirt with me! Is it weird?