I'm 17 (girl) and I've always had lots of friends from school but in the past year I've quit talking to a lot of them because they weren't really worth maintaining the friendship, and even the few ones I still have (that live close to me) are making it hard to be around them or hang out with them for many reasons. I'm already going out a lot and am busy but I really wanna make more friends, and honestly at this point I don't care if they're just online but I'll take either one Any help is really appreciated😂

I'm about to be a freshman and one of my friends just told me that in seventh grade the pants I wore all the time didn't fit and everyone who sat behind me in math class could see my buttcrack every single day and they TALKED about this, but nobody bothered to tell me. How am I ever gonna show my face in public again

I've called people out for being jerks before, but most of the time I just don't. Even when I know I should, and I KNOW what to SAY! Seriously. I'm just too nice. Therefore, I stopped hanging out w/ most people, because I can't deal w/ people and their bad behavior. I'm just too nice. WTF is someone like me supposed to do in this world? Seriously? Help?

i'm a 14 year old girl, and i'm not ready for high school. the only thing worrying me is my social life because i'm really shy and awkward, but if i'm hanging out with my cousin who's all the way on the opposite side of the country, i can be really loud and outgoing and myself. i have tons of groups of friends but all of them i just don't fit in with. i hang out with these group of friends who i all get along with and i can be "kind-of" myself, but they never invite me to their group plans, or even text me. the only time i get any messages are from "streaks", which is a thing on snapchat. and each person in that group has a best friend, and i'm just a person they talk to when they have no one else to talk to. it just feels like the only way i'll be able to have friends is having a huge followers count on instagram, a huge snapscore amount on snapchat, or if i look pretty. i just don't know what to do. i'm always the person who's left out on group activities in class. there was this time where 2 of my friends who were in my math class paired up together and they left me out. i'm always the person who walks alone off the bus to school, who walks alone to class, and who just goes to school, go home, sleep, repeat. :/ i want to take part of track because i want to become more fit but i feel like i'll have none of my friends in it with me so i'll just be alone. and my parents don't have time to bring me to the doctor to check up on me.

My best friend who lives really far away suddenly quit talking with me and I'm so depressed. It's been two weeks now, and he usually takes a while to reply, but never this long. I've known him for about four years now, and I met him over the internet. It doesn't sound like much, but he's helped me through so many things, and honestly, he gave me a reason to live in my darkest times, for example, when I lost my mother. I've never met anyone so wonderful and relatable (our birthday is a day apart, same birthplace, same favorite everything, same personality type, etc), and I'm starting to cry just typing this. Sometimes our friendship feels really one-sided, I feel like I annoy the crap out of him, but something just draws me to him, and I can't imagine living a life without him. When I moved across the country to live with my dad who I haven't seen since I was eight, he was the closest thing to family I had, and have to this day. It's really easy for me to feel alone in a crowd, but he's never made me feel that way. I don't want to lose him, but I want him to do what's best for him. But if I have to move on, my life is going to be so dull. I don't know what to do. And I'm really scared of getting the point of relapsing with self-harm or worse. I miss him so much, and I've never cared for anyone like this before. Thank you for taking the time to read this, I hope you're having a wonderful day.

She love the married guy amd they has once experience She know he use her and use her sparetyre but still belieeve he is a good guy She even told me not to tell his wife about this said don't affect their relationship She reply she really love him so she on;y hope him to him to be happy she said she don't want go there and cause troubble she said he already ignore me and play some mind games again She reply she said she confirm won't trust him anymore She said love is not possession She said if you are trying to foce him that isn't love . imposing isn't love She said so nevermind she get hurt but also okay she will accept his decision

First of all, I know I'm a straight guy but lately I've been worried and I'm gonna tell you why. On Instagram I spotted a drag queen knowing it was a drag queen I started telling her or should I say him that they were beautiful and i would like to meet them. The conversation went on for about two days on my messenger. Then the drag queen said before " before we go any further you know I'm not a real woman I'm a man" idk why but I said that's ok. But then I thought to myself " this whole conversation is not me at all I'm a straight guy I wouldn't feel right meeting this person and dating this person" so I then declined and said I can't do it. That person respected my decision and said they will never expose the messeges to anyone, I even told him to delete the messeges so I would feel comfortable and he said he did. My main concern is what if the drag queen didn't delete the messeges and decide to expose them one day then I would be looked at as a gay person which I'm not and I will be judged by everyone. I'm not saying he is lying about deleting the photos I'm just saying what if he still got those messeges and decide to expose them. The thought of people finding out and judging me scares me, because I know I wasn't thinking straight and I wasn't being myself in those messeges. I love to sing and I think if I became famous and he notice me he might expose it to get some kind of attention. Do you think he will keep his word? Do you think this is a small thing to worry about?

We broke up about a year ago because we were fighting and arguing and his tense family circumstances didn't help as his brother was diagnosed with kidney failure. During the fight he said i didn't know how to treat a man because my parents were divorced and i hadn't seen a loving relationship like his parents. I then went on to say that his mom had no voice in their household. He attacked back saying "at least she didn't come to church dressed in club attire, arms and legs showing" I then responded which I shouldn't have "your mom looked like she came from the stable, you never buy her new clothes." Fast forward two months I saw him staring at me in church so I texted him but he said he would never forgive me and wouldn't allow himself to have feelings for me again because of what i said about his mom. I didn't respond. Every Sunday in church he'd keep staring at me but I gave him cold looks and avoided his looks. He started smiling and talked to me as I went down the stairs saying hi how are you. I saw him peek through a door crack as he walked past to see if i was still looking at him. The other Sunday, he walked past me and smiled and I smiled back and he winked at me. Recently I've been warm to him looking at him and smiling. I texted him the other day and this how the conversation went. I asked about his brother then he asked me about school and when I get acceptance letters. Is he interested? Why isn't he making a move? h

i have a crush on my friend and before the summer started i heard from another friend she wanted to hang with me this summer. well we did hangout but it was always with other people. so later during summer i asked her out for ice cream and she aggreed. but then she invited a mutual friend who she finds annoying, i guess she didnt want to hang with me alone? and i invited her hiking next weekend and she aggreed but she also said to see if our mutual friend who she finds annoying is coming. i guess she again doesnt want to hang alone? its just weird like why does she want a friend who she doesnt like to hangout with coming with us when we make plans but before summer she talked about hanging with me. she does show signs of slight interest btw.

Growing up my parents put a lot of pressure on me to succeed academically. They sent me to a very prestigious prep school for high school, and while it was very stressful, it allowed me to make very close friends. Then they made me attend a very stressful elite college. While all my friends got to chose where they wanted to go, my parents sent me to a stressful college on par with Williams or Amherst. Why are they doing this, and why can t I be like my friends?

I sent a friend request about two weeks ago to this girl I mentored. There wasn't anything she asked me for that I didn't do. We stared at each other from time to time (nothing inappropriate happened). We get along well. Her family and I are on great terms. Since I sent the request, she changed her profile, but I am noticing she is not adding anyone new. What could be going on?

I have a girlfriend. However over the last 5 years pretty much since the end of high school for me my friends have just stopped talking to me. Wether they moved away or for some reason don't want anything to do with me. It's been a hard pill to swallow lately as I'm 23 and all the people I thought were my friends don't talk to me anymore. What can I do to make real friends not just work friiends but friends that'll call me or I can call them and and hang out?

What did you do?

I have a friend who is an awesome person, my only issue is that we hardly ever hang out. We snapchat / text a lot, and every once in a while he'll say "I miss you we should hang out" - but then there's no follow through on his part. He's done this a couple of times this summer to me and other people, but he hasn't made actual plans. But now that I'm leaving for college in a week he's saying he misses me and can't believe we haven't hung out? Like dude I asked about your schedule and you never got back to me?

I text my friend to let me know things that happen in her life. For instance, I told her to let me know when she hears from colleges that she applied to, but she does not let me know. I told her to let me know where she end up going, but again she does not let me know unless I text her first. Why does she not let me me?

I'm on the Verge of being homeless with a toddler. I'm disabled. I can probably work sitting down but I can never get jobs that offer that. I have education , highschool and vocational tech for business and finance. Multiple certifications. I do not receive disability. I'm broke and have been providing for my family by prostituting up until last year. I decided I wanted to change my life around because I never liked doing that anyway and I wanted to be a better role model. Just needed the money. So since I stopped I have gone completely broke. From riches to rags. And maybe I deserve it for being a bad person by selling my body. But I want to change everything and become positive. Get a honest living. I'm not dumb but I'm not the brightest if you catch my drift. I have a hard time learning. And multiple painful disabilities. That effect my ability to stand for long periods of time or walk and lift things over 20 pounds. So can someone come up with a game plan for me that would help me out of this situation within 3 months? Like what should be my first step ? I'm good at customer service but that's about it. If I could stand I would love a retail job but it's too painful.

Some people tell me "don't go alone" others tell me "It's ok". I'm 21 and I'm a loner. I can't help it, it's just like it is. I would like to go to the club but have nobody to go with, should I hire a street prostitute and take her to the club just to not be alone, or would that be worse?

Whenever my friend comes over he compliments my wife's beauty and usually gushes how "attractive" she is. Today my wife was very pleased with his comments and even said, "I wish my husband would give me compliments like you" and that hurt now I'm wondering if my friend is being innapropriate with my wife. He told me she's really hot a few times. Is it appropriate for my friend to make such comments?

I find it hard to make friends. I never really had a real friend. I've had acquaintances and people who I thought were my friends (turned out to be snakes in the grass). Is it just me having a hard time finding friends? I'm only 19. Am I doing something wrong?