My wife has to go get her flu shot today the worst part is it's her birthday. She hates needles she had a bad experience with them. Every time she goes for a check up she always asks her doctor if there's gonna be needles. She cries if she gets one. How can I help her feel better ?

Me and my wife just got married it's her birthday for some reason she's really upset I don't know why. She gets upset like this all the time she's very emotional she just turned 18 I'm 22. We've been together 3 years we been best friends forever. I asked her what's wrong she said nothing she doesn't like talking about what's wrong with her. She's not pregnant or on her period. What's wrong with her ? How can I make her feel better ?

In May my husband (42 yr old) mentioned that in October he was going to go out of state to the wedding of his ex-neighbor's son. His ex-neighbor is a 55 yr old woman and her son lives out of state and my husband does not know him. Well I was a little surprised. I never saw the invitation or anything. Well 2 weeks ago (October) on a Wednesday night he tells me that he is leaving for the wedding on Thursday morning. I asked what wedding and he reminded me that he's going to the wedding of his ex-neighbor's son. He had not mentioned it in 6 months so I didn't even know that he was still going. Well the next morning he has his bag packed and is leaving. That's when I found out he's flying and not driving It's a 4 hour trip if he drives. I was a surprised, as he usually says he doesn't have money for the needs of the home eg groceries. I was surprised that I wasn't invited and that he didn't inform me of his plans when he made them eg buying a flight, booking a hotel and rental car, etc. He was gone 4 days and has not said much about his trip since he got back. I'm really upset because at the same time I was needing to go see my grandma who I was told is about to die and I had not seen her in 8 years. Would have been nice of my husband to show some compassion as relates to my need to go see my grandma. My need was for help buying the flight and for someone to watch my kids while I go. I don't know my husband to be unfaithful but I'm starting to wonder if he is. Thoughts?

I will be consulting with an attorney on this question tomorrow morning but if anyone else knows, I cannot wait. My husband and I are getting a divorce. We were gonna take the cheaper way out and do it together online but he didn t want to. He mailed me divorce papers instead outlining his own custody schedule and everything wanting me to sign them and mail them back to him so instead I consulted with an attorney. He s claiming irreconcilable differences but he cheated and put his hands on me so that s MY reason for getting a divorce. I haven t retained an attorney, just consulted but he has the money to retain one before I do it he wishes to do so. So again, if he gets one first then how does that work if he s claiming one thing and I m claiming another? I have all of the proof I need as far as his infedelity.

Me and my girlfriend just got married today. It's also her birthday. What do we do now that we're married ?

I keep thinking of him in her every orifice, I can't get passed it even though we are back together, what's the cure help me?

My inlaws go to pa and michigan and florida . I go to florida . I do not get along with my brother inlaws and sister in laws so i dont want to go to them all but my mother and father in law take offnese to it and they dont seem to get that i am also car sick and ive told them i dont go on trips with my family either if they drive . What should i do

I was married for 10 years. In the course of the marriage, my sister in law died. My wife, at the time, and I took in my sister in law's twins. We have 1 biological child. One day, she decides she's not in love anymore. In a nutshell says, "I don't love you. You go. I'll keep the house. And the car. And our daughter. But you go live with the twins." As you might imagine, that changed my perspective on marriage. I was dating someone for three years. She and I had an AMAZING relationship. Talk about falling for each other. The trouble was...her kids and I didn't exactly get along. The personalities didn't mesh. And I didn't care for how they treated their mother. The older one basically had the run of the place. The younger one had severe emotional issues. Now that's not exactly...reciprocal. She got along with my daughter and the twins just fine. In addition to this...the kids were a constant reminder as to what my life would look like should we move in together...which is what she wanted ultimately. It felt like too much. To take on TWO MORE kids that are not mine, biologically? Truth be told, it got me very upset just thinking about it. Did I mention their dad was a crackhead? I didn't know what else to do. Time was passing...the relationship was getting deeper...I had no issue being exclusive with her. But I didn't want to live with them. It was a bone of contention. So I broke it off. I love her... I don't know if I did the right thing.

So I've been chatting with a guy off Match.com for about 4 weeks now, we have exchanged emails, phone calls and texting. The problem ? Well, he seems to want to change A LOT of things about me, including the way I look and how much money I make. Am currently working as a counselor and love it, he wants me to either get another job altogether as in go back to college to study for a job with a higher paying scale or do a side business of my own that can bring in at least another 25k a year. That's not all though, I have short hair and he says it would look way better longer and with highlights in it to break up the solid color. He also wants me to lose more weight, am 5'2 and 104 pounds, I like my size just fine but he says another 5 pounds that I lose would make me look more youthful. He is also way older than me, I'm 24 turning 25 in 2 weeks and he is 38. The other guys I've talked to on Match haven't worked out for various reasons ranging from they were reaching out to me and are in their 40's+ I find that way too old at this point, they had drinking problems ( like one guy got wasted on our second date eating out at the restaurant !) and other guys had too much drama. The point is, am not meeting anyone that's worth a second or third date. With this guy, I like his pictures he has up, he seems intelligent when we chat and not " Hey wazup babe Wat U up 2 ?" retarded texts other guys have send my way. But he wants me to change SOOO much, is it worth it ?

I know if a man hangs out with another man's wife he will get sh-t or st-bb-d. But is it ok for a woman to hangout with a woman's husband normally women are usually just to nice to confront other women or do anything for that matter they will just throw their hands up in the air and find some new guy.

So me and my bf have been together for almost 7 years we've known each other for 10 years. About a few months ago I looked in his messages and found that he had been texting this chick who's his coworker. The messages basically were about how good his checks are and basically trying to impress her. She would call him boo. So I confronted him about it and he said she likes him and he apologized and said he shouldn't have been texting her. Since his phone broke he lost his contacts. A few months go by and I found a message from her again. Saying hey hershey. And he said I thought you forgot about me hahaha. Which now I haven't been talking to him. He wanted to argue about it but I didn't because my family was in the other room. I was thinking about breaking it off with him because that is so disrespectful like if you text a coworker it should be work related. And also the text are like 2 months old. We also live and have a kid together. I don't really believe in breaks but as I got older I think sometimes they're necessary since we've been together for a while. But any thoughts? How would you handle a situation like this? We're 27

Here is the deal my ex-wife and I split up a few months ago, she was diagnostic as BPD Border line personality disorder, if you know what it is to live with someone like that it's like nice and sunny one minute the next its nothing a full blast storm, to make the story short she came back and try to work things out but I still know and have that gut feeling that she is lying about something, she was a liar when we met and now I just can't help to have that feeling again, something is just not right, the problem is people like that even if you ask them for the truth they will not give you an straight answer at all, besides if you don't trust your other significant the relationship won't go anywhere, she is being really cold and distance in the last 3 weeks still claims everything is ok but she is not reaching out she is not texting and acting just like she did before a couple of times I found that was cheating. Why would I give this lady another change?? Now we don't live together and just want to find the best way to stop this, should I let her know that I don't like this games 4 days without communication and such or just don't said a thing and walkaway without saying anything? Please help

Me and my wife have been married 5 years we have 4 kids she's pregnant again. Last night we had sex for the first time in 2 years. How often should we do it ?

Haven't done anything in a couple of weeks and have a lot built up. I'm wondering if won't last long cause of it. Will she know it's been a while? I'm def more excited and wonder if she will notice?

Someone told me that he was going to do what's called "save the marriage" by taking stocks out of the company he works for, selling them, and buying himself and his wife motorcycles. Do you think he is trying to "buy the marriage" instead? Do you think he is trying to buy time to prolong dealing with whatever problems he may have with his marriage?

I distrusted her a lot and she confuses me, both times she has been with the same person but she says to forgive her that she loves me very much and that sexually everything is fine that she was a fool to fall, but on two occasions? What do you think?.

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I didn't mean it and it hurt her feelings. She cried so I know I hurt her feelings. At least I know my words matter to her. The next day I apologized and told her I didn't mean it. I then gave her a massage. The last couple days it seems like she is ok and we are back to normal. For the next few months I want to show her my appreciation by action. She is not a big romance person but I want to have her melt in my hands like when we were dating. We have kids so it's tough, but I would like suggestions. What could a husband do to make your heart melt again like when you were dating? I want to get back to cuddling and all of that stuff

My girlfriend and I had a pretty big fight thursday and we havent talked since. We agreed since last year to go to the same college and move in together. We had everything planned out, and thursday she told me "matter-a-factly" that she couldnt go on a funrun with me saturday because she was going on a college tour out of town. When I called her on our original plan she balked on me that she still wasnt sure on doing that. We basically got into a fight on things that extended from that and havent talked since. I even ignored her at school the next day. We had everything planned and now shes pulling this s**t. I'm not sure if her dads behind it, or if this is just her bringing it up now. Im fighting the urge to call her and apologize and ask how the tour went. Im mad still, but I dont know what to do. Should I call or wait.?

7 yrs ago I caught my wife talking on the phone and sending texts to coworker 5-6 hrs a day for a few months. She told me he was just easy to talk to, and nothing sexual ever came up. Well 7 yrs later it came back up and she admitted send a picture of her boobs to the guy out of the blue for attention, but it was still no sex talking going on, and I think thats a lie. I dont think you can talk to someone on the 5-6 hrs a day (both are mail carriers) and it just be about family, and send a pic of her boobs out of the blue one day for attention. She tells me to put it in the past and gets mad if I questioner about it. I m having a mental breakdown cause it just doesnt add up, i haven t ate in 4 days, I cant sleep. So do you think there is more to the story, or am I beeting a dead horse? I can forgive her for what she s done, put I can t deal with lies? Thanks for the answers cause i really need them...

I cant shake it...2 weeks ago i checked on her phones history..i use her account for some things and came across it...she looked up her ex a few times one sitting...than his sister...but it was a day before my birthday..we had sex the day before..and while talking about what kind of cake i want...the type i mentioned was searched inbetween his name while talking with her on the couch. We are in completely different states so i know tgat isnt an issue...i dint think she has cheated..although she can be a good liar if she wants to..i am just really good at detective work and catch her alot. i dont know how to bring it up...if in a fight would make it real easy..but i dont seek those out. Or if i should..it is eating at me..i definitely feel even more distanced because of it.. havent felt the want to be with her...and i know it has affected me to where she sees it..but i think she just sees it as i am stressed with work. Not sure what to do...

I cant shake it...2 weeks ago i checked on her phones history..i use her account for some things and came across it...she looked up her ex a few times one sitting...than his sister...but it was a day before my birthday..we had sex the day before..and while talking about what kind of cake i want...the type i mentioned was searched inbetween his name while talking with her on the couch. We are in completely different states so i know tgat isnt an issue...i dint think she has cheated..although she can be a good liar if she wants to..i am just really good at detective work and catch her alot. i dont know how to bring it up...if in a fight would make it real easy..but i dont seek those out. Or if i should..it is eating at me..i definitely feel even more distanced because of it.. havent felt the want to be with her...and i know it has affected me to where she sees it..but i think she just sees it as i am stressed with work. Not sure what to do...

A typical day would be I wake up early to go to work and she stays in bed because she doesn't work and stays home with the our 2 kids.. I usually spend most of the day working hard.. when I come home there's usually no food made because she claims that she's not a kitchen lady and that she grew up with her mom acting that way because her mom was always a single lady.. then I'd try to go to sleep early sometimes but that's when she would come in the room and turn on the TV, yell at the kids just talking loud, turn on the lights, doing all types of things like I'm not sleeping.. I'm not used to this life I grew up completely different.. we've been married for about 2 years.. and only knew each other for about 2 and a half years.. I got her pregnant so we got married and I took her in along with her son.. I've been the provider ever since.. even bought her her first car and everything thing else she wants.. please help what's wrong here.. thanks

Especially when he gets paid. She has no remorse on how little she leaves in the account but my husband is too nice to say no and she cries everytime he tries to hesitate on giving her money so he feels bad and gives in. What points should I tell him to stop this from continuing. We are newlyweds and I don't want to have kids with a man who is in this situation because if it doesn't stop I know it will be a problem in this relationship.

I have been with my boyfriend for two years (and lived together for one). Friends of ours are engaged, (I met them through him) and are to be married in 2 weeks. These friends and I are very familiar with each other; we all attend the same social events and get along (at least I thought we did!). I've spoken with both of them about the upcoming wedding and shared in their excitement. I was even verbally told to save the date, received an invitation to my house and all. My boyfriend and I got in a huge fight and caused us to break up for a day and he went to them to vent. Now I'm not invited even though they talked to me about it and stated they thought I wasn't coming because we broke up and it's too late to add me because they gave my spot to someone else. Now I'll be the only one not going. I bought a dress for it, requested time off too for it. I fully understand weddings can be expensive and stressful. If they are planning a small family affair, I completely support that. But all our friends are going except for me.I believe that in a situation like this you should support your partner and if he or she is not invited, you should respectfully decline.how do I respond to the engaged couple after the wedding? Stories of the wedding will definitely be topics of conversation for a while afterwards, andit hurts that I was deliberately left out.how do I deal with my boyfriend not supporting us? I feel like he should talk to them and try to get me back on the list.

I'm not interested and I felt pressured to give him my number when he asked for it at work. He made me feel bad for not giving it to him but now I regret it and I get regular texts from him asking for photos, asking personal questions, asking to get together. I told him to quit texting me because it was causing problems in my relationship and he won't for a few days but then will start texting again. He is a married man trying to be my friend but I'm not interested. Is it ok for me to just start ignoring his texts?

I am not speaking to my husband. He snapped at me because I was handing him a large slice of pizza with one hand. I did this because if I put my plate down my cats would go for it. He got passed said I'll do it go my god! I dropped the pizza said not to snap he squid then don't disrespect me. He said how would you like if some one had their grubby grimy hand all over your pizza and the topping where falling off.he said i buy you pizza and you can't even set down your plate to hand me a pace. He does this a lot spoils me but acts like that is enough to hold his attitude and hold his spoiling over me. I am thinking about divorcing but not were. He went do counseling he thinks nothing is wrong with him

When you joke around with them just like you joke around with anybody else just by saying a musician they like is corny or whatever and they get really upset at you for a comment like that? Like they get super angry. Is that normal?

we watch each other masturbating most nights, I see him at work next but we act like nothing happened- its not every night, sometimes his wife is nosy or my husband wants to watch tv with me. I never climax so hard as I do when I'm with my co worker. how is it cheating if we aren't kissing or touching?

She is with a gal pal from work. Was dolling herself up, obsessively doing her nails, and checking herself out in the mirror quite a bit with different clothes. Tells me not to worry. What do you think? And how would you feel with your spouse going on a cruise without you? Thanks

right now im living with my mom most of the time and for reasons i wont go into i want to never see her again. I want to live with my dad full time and i do not want to be at my moms house anymore. im 15 and living in California and i would like to know what age i have to be to choose who i want to stay with