So guess what? I got married and you know what? I picked the songs that were going to be played. There was no electric slide , there was no Humpty dance, there was none of that bs. I played what I wanted to hear. Some of the guests commented on it and said "I didn't recognize the songs you played at your wedding." I told them with a straight face..... "It was my wedding, not yours. I have gone to enough weddings to earn the right to hear what I want to hear at my own Wedding! Too bad you didn't like it, not my problem. Thanks for the money though!"

I'm 18 years old I met an Irishman on the internet he came here and it's been 2 months now that we have a relationship my father did not like the story at last we'll book for Saturday it's only the witnesses will know my family does not know and I know that if they know they will not I'm going to get married and we're going to spend the honeymoon in London and then go to his house in Ireland

My older brother is getting married in September in a cow paster behind my great grandma house. I will have my son in july through c section. Where the paster is are hills that you can barely walk on and with me having c section, I won't be able to walk down them with a newborn baby. My mother seems to be putting a lot of money into my brother wedding then she did mine. I got married underneath a gazebo at my old childhood house which is up the road from where my brother wedding will be. Sunday was my brother fiance bridal shower and most people who came didn't come to my bridal shower or wedding. I'm not really married but I am by common law due to my social security check I get every month from my learning. I heard people say it's the best way to be married without signing the paper. I just want to know what you think about all of this?

I've gotten invitations before to weddings/receptions and I'm always lik UGH i'd prefer to just go to the reception, especially if the wedding is really long. We want an extremely small wedding, like barely 10 people, than we want to invite all of our friends/family to a bigger reception. What do you think? He'd prefer we did a reception with just our wedding guests, but I know that the reception normally helps pay for the wedding, honeymoon, etc. Plus, I want to be able to celebrate it with our family/friends. OKAY - So there's been a lot of jumping to conclusions, I obviously wrote my details wrong. I'm not expecting guests to bring gifts, or whatever. Believe me I'm not that type of person, I work in Nonprofit for crying out loud, LOL! I was simply saying that I've heard, that it has helped some people. I was just wanting some insight. My main question was, is it okay to have a small wedding but bigger reception? A lot of my family and friends hate weddings but love the party afterwards.

My cousin (who I am very close to) said that if I don t invite her boyfriend to my family-only wedding, then she might not go. She s the only family member who gave me a hard time about the guest list. Everyone else seemed to understand the cost restrictions (we were paying for it ourselves) and they d been dating for less than a year. Even my sister wasn t allowed to bring a +1. We decided to invite him to avoid any drama. On the day of the wedding, he showed up before the wedding in jeans, and then we never saw him again. Turns out, he was just there to drop off my cousin because he d booked a gig (local musician) in another city and had to leave before the wedding even started. This is not the first time he d done this, as he d ditched my then-bf a day before his birthday for the same reason after we d bought tickets to an event. It took him months to pay me back, and we couldn t find another friend to go on such short notice. My cousin did not mention that her bf couldn t go to me (probably knowing I ll be mad) but I can t just let it go. She ll act like it s not a big deal and blow it off. I m really mad, my husband is mad, and I don t know that I can let this go. Not only is is very disrespectful, but this is the second time it s happened! Wedding websites online seem to have different opinions on this subject. Some say that emergencies happen and to let it go, some say to send a bill. This was not an emergency, as I found out that they'd known about the gig conflict for at least a couple of weeks before the wedding.