Family: Question: My family keep making me feel bad for not lending them my car?

Question: My family keep making me feel bad for not lending them my car?

Posted: 10 May 2017 01:40 PM PDT

They all have their own cars, but since I bought myself my own car with my own money which i'm also giving payments for. They are constantly telling me to let them drive the car EVERYDAY. It's getting annoying and I also don't want to lend my car to any of them because who knows how they'll drive it or take care of it. They'll tell me like I put $10 of gas in your car so you should lend it to me. THOSE $10 THAT THEY PUT WERE SO I CAN TAKE THEM SOMEWHERE THATS WHY NOT BECAUSE THEY WERE BEING GENEROUS. I don't get what do they gain from driving someone else's car WHAT?

Question: Why does my mom think I'm stupid?

Posted: 10 May 2017 01:37 PM PDT

I'm 14 and my parents, mainly my mom, seem to think I'm an idiot. I know I'm young and I don't know everything in the world but I don't claim to know everything. It's like if I have a different opinion than her she goes off. For example, the other day I was talking about how I feel racism is stupid and the color of someone's skin doesn't define them as a person. And my dad goes on about how I'm not allowed to have an opinion and I don't know the half of it. Once I told my mom how my friend had came out and how I was happy for him and she started yelling at me about how being gay is a phase and it's proof he hasn't grown up. I told her I understand she feels that way but I'd appreciate it if she wouldn't talk about my friend like that she just laughed at me. I could go on forever but yeah. Why does she think she's so right about everything. It really annoys me because I'm tired of being bullied for my own opinions by my own parents. Thanks in advance

Question: WOMAN: what does it mean when women wiggle their pinky's at someone thats naked?

Posted: 10 May 2017 01:32 PM PDT

My sister loves pulling pranks and she's pranking people nothing harmful but she doesn't prank me. We were at the pool and my aunt, mom and my cousin Cindy were sitting and chatting and me and my sister were swimming and then our mom tells us to get out of pool for we can eat and we did me and my sister were walking to where my our mom, aunt, and cousin were and then my sister pantsed me in front of them my aunt, my sister and my cousin were laughing and my mom just giggled a bit. My aunt, my sister, and my cousin Cindy were wiggling their pinky's at me. what does that mean?

Question: I wanna live in the country?!?

Posted: 10 May 2017 01:27 PM PDT

I hate living in NYC. Our apartment, even tho it's super fancy, gets so small. I wanna be in the country, where people are down to earth and not all obsessed with money. I wanna ride horses but my parents refuse to let us move. All my friends think I'm dumb for wanting to be a hick. What do I do?!?

Question: How should I 26 deal with my brother 23 who brings his friends and couple over ALL the time?

Posted: 10 May 2017 01:25 PM PDT

Me & my brother both still live with our parents. both studying, I just feel that he invites his girlfriend and friends to our house too frequently - at least once or twice a week - and it s always unannounced. My brother keeps inviting people over to our house with no notice and doesn t think he s doing anything wrong not to mention we re opposites i don t bring people over and all my social live takes place in social venues outside home, i just don t understand why he s not beign neutral and just starts bringing people, i need lots of concentration i don t like meeting people i don t know at home , if he could just keep his guests to the realms of his bedroom and with closed doors and no noice would be great but not, he has to show over all the people he brings, i really feel bogged down, i feel he s trying to take over the house , my policy is, go meet all of them outside home just like i do, he clearly don´t take me into account as he addresses all that with my fathers , i m sorry but my fathers house is meant to be used as that , meaning we are their guests , we are not supposed to bring people they don t know, i act on that, but he doesn´t , off course taking advantage of my parents but still , is like trying to pack a library and a pub in the same house!, all i say i don t like him braking the harmony , doing his own things like is his house, and bringing an end to neutrality by just over using his rights as son living with his parents, i dont like him taking over.

Question: 13-year-old hates their mother?

Posted: 10 May 2017 01:20 PM PDT

So I have this 13-year-old sister and she really hates my mother. She'll scream at her and say that she can't stand the sound of her voice. Now my sister has several mental health issues and goes to therapy although she hasn't gotten much better over the years (although she has stopped beating me up, which is a plus). My mom is really upset and affected by my sister 'hating' her for no good reason. However, while i love my mom, she isn't the best. She'll yell sometimes and say some stuff that can really hurt a person's feelings. Once she threatened to give my sister up for adoption, and i feel like that's one of the reason's my sister is upset with my mom. Now my mom has mental health issues as well (so does everyone in my family) but she takes medication. Can someone advice me on how to help them get along better? they're both always yelling at each other and don't get along at all. thanks.

Question: If my son's father is in jail in another state, will they bring him to court for a custody hearing?

Posted: 10 May 2017 12:43 PM PDT

Question: How to deal with emotionally abusive parent?

Posted: 10 May 2017 12:19 PM PDT

I am at my wits end with my mother. I do everything she asks me to do, I get excellent grades, I don't hang out with the wrong crowd, I do my chores, I cook, I clean yet she blames me for the smallest mistake that either she or I make. And in the end, I'm always the one that's apologizing even if she made the mistake. She screams at me and I try so hard to keep myself contained and quiet because I know getting angry will do nothing to help, but I eventually end up breaking and scream back in anger and frustration and she takes that as a form of disrespect and un-appreciation, not a sign that I am human and I have emotions. When we argue, her words are always peppered with insults "You're stupid." "You're lazy." We can be arguing about literally anything and the argument ALWAYS escalates to you "You don't appreciate me." Just today, the argument over driving turned into one about un-appreciation. And when the argument starts, it's never her fault, if I want the stubborn silence, and the days without talking to end, I have to apologize, and I am so sick of this stupid childish behavior from her. I don't think I can ever change her, she will go her entire life thinking that I was an unappreciative sorry *** and at this point, I'm okay with that. I'm tired of crying and being emotionally exhausted, so please tell me how to deal with this. Please don't suggest that I go talk to a close friend or to a trusted adult because I have none.

Question: Can I run away to England with 16 and live there by my own?

Posted: 10 May 2017 12:16 PM PDT

Hello I'm 16 years old and I have patology in my family. My mom is alcoholic and my stepfather wants to leave us which means that me and my mom are gonna end up on the street because she is not working. Everyday it's getting worster. I heard that in UK teenagers can live by the own, is it possible that when I will tell the reasons why I left my country they will find me home and allow me to stary there?

Question: Why I am so angry at my partner all the time?

Posted: 10 May 2017 11:44 AM PDT

I am a nice person & so loving towards my kids, my mum etc. I feel like I always make arguments with my partner everyday just over the littlest things because he just annoys me so much! I love the bone of him, I can't explain why I feel this way towards him!

Question: What is wrong with this family?

Posted: 10 May 2017 11:44 AM PDT

A woman plans her wedding a year before but only notifies her parents just a week before the wedding. None of her relatives that live in the same city is invited. She doesn't acknowledge any of them. Her parents never knew she even had a bf and thought she was single all along. They never met or knew what her husband was like until the day they stood at the altar. She always had a bad relationship with her parents

Question: Is this something better left unsaid?

Posted: 10 May 2017 11:31 AM PDT

I was sending thank you notes for my wedding gifts and there is a minor problem. The most expensive and nicest wedding gift by far was from my ex husband. We remained friends after our divorce but I never expected such a nice gift. My current husband REALLY enjoys this gift. My ex husband probably knew my current husband would not want us to get a wedding gift from him so he used a fake name on the gift card. It was a name that only I would know who the gift was really from. My husband is delighted with the gift. He shows it to everyone that comes by our house. He is very proud of it. Should I tell him it is really from my ex husband. I am happy with the gift, my husband is very happy with the gift. If my husband asks me who sent the gift, I will tell him the truth about who sent the gift so I will not have to lie to him. Is there any reason I should tell him if he does not ask it is from my ex and cause a problem. Do you think it would be a problem if I told my husband the gift is from my ex? Isn't this something that is better left unsaid?

Question: What is he?!? My cousin or uncle??

Posted: 10 May 2017 11:17 AM PDT

I'm quite confused with all this 2nd and 3rd cousins. I know what first cousin are, correct me if I'm wrong, my dads' sister (my aunt) has two children, therefore, they're my first cousins. BUT, let's just say, my dads' first cousin.. Is he an Uncle or a cousin??? What is he to me? Also, let's just say, one of my first cousins has a baby.. Am I that baby's 2nd cousin? Can someone explain to me what is a 2nd cousin and 3rd cousin? Thaaaaanks!

Question: Why do people bring kids into the world when life sucks?

Posted: 10 May 2017 11:11 AM PDT

let me rephrase, why do people have kids when they know this life is not perfect and full of flaws

Question: Why is my mom getting mad at me for doing my schoolwork..?

Posted: 10 May 2017 11:07 AM PDT

I do online schooling/home schooling and I'm currently a freshman. This year has taken a toll on me. I've been extremely stressed and I told her many times about my stress and anxiety. But through it all I'm holding on and working hard… for some odd reason my mom gets mad at the fact that I'm "always on the laptop, always studying/doing work". I'm in highschool! Isn't that what your main priorities are?? My mom never finished college and I think she kind of regrets it because ever since I started talking about how I'm excited to go to college andget a good career, she brushes it off like it's minor. My mom knows how hard I'm pushing myself just to do well. Whenever she asks me to go out with her she says "you're always doing your darn schoolwork! what's wrong with you?" or something along those lines. What? Isn't that a bit twisted? Now I sort of wish she pushed me like she used to in middle school. It's not like "Oh sweetie, you're so stressed you need to take a break". She literally yells at me for doing my work. Today she and my sister were cleaning the yard while I was studying for a HUGE biology state test and she called me and said "You should be down here helping us! All you do is your school work god d*** it!". When I asked her in a normal way what was wrong and why was it so wrong to be doing what I'm supposed to she said "It's not that, it's the fact that it's all you f-ing do!" Why is she doing this? :/ I see everyone asking "are you on it all the time". Sorry if any part of the question made it seem like I was. But the answer is no. My two classes are from 8:30-11, after that I just do the homework until 12 o'clock and that's it.Nope I'm not on it all day. And yes I do chores, talk to her, spend time with my family. It's more of like my mom asking me to go shopping with her while I'm in the middle of my classes. I tell her I can't, she gets mad and says "you can skip one class." When I can't.

Question: My mum won t answer my calls, who can I call?

Posted: 10 May 2017 10:29 AM PDT

My mum won t answer my calls and it s been a few hours since I last heard from her; she went into town because she had an eye appointment and when she called a few hours ago, she had told me they had put drops in her eyes and so she can t see her text messages clearly, but she wanted to still shop around town and I ve been trying to call her but she isn t picking up and it s unusual for my mum, because she always calls back straight away if she misses a call. Her phone is always on her and it s never on silent mode. I ve tried to call her with my phone, the house phone and my dad s even called her numerous times, but it would either ring once or twice before going straight to voicemail or it would go straight to voice mail. Who can I call? Is there a number I can call about this? Can I call the police? Or the non-emergency police? Can I call hospitals to find out? What can I do? I don t want to wait.

Question: Need advice?

Posted: 10 May 2017 10:05 AM PDT

I'm a full time college student and currently live at home. I have a babysitting job but it doesn't pay well, also looking for a second job. Have to pay my mother $85 a month for car insurance... Money is already tight enough. Now my mom holds my car over my head and won't let me use it, so I really have no way to get to my babysitting job. She tells me if I dont like her rules try to make it on my own,I'm planning to save and buy a cheap used car for my own in my own name just in case she decides to take my car and kick me out. I try to respect her and she keeps picking fights and then acts like its all my fault when someone else is around. She keeps telling me I need to quit college and get a job that she's done supporting me... And that I am no longer aloud to eat her food that her and my father pay for. I plan on moving out but it will be hard to make it on minimum wage... I live in a small town and the wait list on financial assistance housing is really long. Any advice on what I should do? My nerves are shot stressing about my next choice I should make.

Question: Why do people have to be so mean?

Posted: 10 May 2017 09:36 AM PDT

I dream of a world where everyone's nice and loving and there's no negativity. Why can't we all just be very nice to one another and exchange hugs and kisses.

Question: Is this true if our parents had never met we would exist and have been concieved to another woman and still have the same father?

Posted: 10 May 2017 09:35 AM PDT

Most people say that you would have the different mother but same father.

Question: What exactly counts as verbal abuse?

Posted: 10 May 2017 09:20 AM PDT

I've always had a complicated relationship with my father (I'm female), but I've always hesitated to call it "verbally abusive" because I don't really know what that actually entails. Here's some history: While growing up, my father was an emotionally unavailable workaholic, and the only time he ever really interacted with me was when I needed "disciplining." Whenever I would show the least bit of resistance to something he'd asked me to do, he would yell and scream and curse and call me "*****" and "spoiled brat," among other things. One incident that particularly stands out is when I was around 10 years old, he called me a "dirty slut" after I sassed my mom one morning (nothing too bad). I didn't know at the time what the term "slut" meant, so I asked my mother, and she asked me where I'd heard that. I told her that dad had called me that. They then had a massive argument about it, which led to my dad screaming at me that I was "driving a wedge between them," and that if they got divorced, it would be all my fault. In fact, many family disputes were blamed on me, now that I come to think of it, but I genuinely don't think I was a problem child. I've become a reasonably well-adjusted adult with good friends and a stable job, although I do think my romantic relationships with men have been affected by my childhood. Was my father just a bully, or does any of what I wrote above count as verbal abuse?

Question: How do these charges make any sense?

Posted: 10 May 2017 09:08 AM PDT

My dad recently went to jail for the charges as follows : • Wanton Endangerment 2nd Degree • Alcohol Intoxication of a Public Place 1st and 2nd Offense This is the first time he has ever been arrested/went to jail. He was never, under any circumstances aiming the gun at anyone. He shot his gun into the ground and tried scaring my mom into thinking he shot himself. My question is: how did he get the Intoxication of a Public place if he was on his own property that he owns AND how was it a second offense if this is the first charge he has ever had. Secondly, how did he get charged with the Wanton Endangerment 2nd degree if he was the only one on the property at the time? Note- His bond for both charges was $0 and he was able to sign himself out of jail with no bond the next day.

Question: Mother's Day surprise?

Posted: 10 May 2017 08:25 AM PDT

My father and I want to surprise my mom with a week trip somewhere here in Europe (we're an American family and live in Berlin). She's always wants to go somewhere old, beautiful and historical. Any recommendations?

Question: How do I become closer with my cousin?

Posted: 10 May 2017 08:01 AM PDT

I have a cousin (brother) who I was very close with until just 2 years ago. We re less than 5 years apart but we always knew all about each other s lives even though we only met once a year. We would sometimes stay up till 3 or so talking. He was like a brother to me and I a sister to him. But lately he s been kind of distant. I don t know what happened. How do I mend this?

Question: I love mom/dad but ever since we moved here we're sad.We dontgo outside no more or smile.Lil bro's weak.they alwaysdrink flight money. Help?

Posted: 10 May 2017 07:54 AM PDT

Question: My parents always leave me home with my little siblings?

Posted: 10 May 2017 07:44 AM PDT

For the last week my parents go somewhere for 2 hours and I'm alone with the little kids. My little sister who is 4 asks too many questions and asks me to do too many things for her and cries when she doesn't get it. My brother is 6 and he's not that bad except he always wants to play my Ps4 when he has his Xbox. They go out every day and It's extremely stressful. They are going out again tomorrow leaving me alone with them again. can I convince them. Also if should say it. I don't get paid. I'm like their free babysitter My 15 year old brother gets paid for watching them for an hour but I don't. and I watch them longer

Question: Is it rude to tell my father not to call at work?

Posted: 10 May 2017 06:49 AM PDT

Sometimes he randomly calls my cell phone to make small talk. It annoys me, if there was an emergency, then he should call, but I can't stand the small calls. I just want to be left alone to my job. I work in an office and want to be professional not looking like I have to talk to my father.

Question: Should I send my mom a mother's day card?

Posted: 10 May 2017 06:10 AM PDT

My mother has been very abusive towards me for the past 10-15 years physically and emotionally. Our last fallout she told me I was blocked from her life forever because I speak to a woman that used to be her friend. I tried to send her card apologizing about it but never got any response and called her several times and she blocked me from each number (3months ago) I finally said forget it. Why should I keep begging a mom to love me, but her friend said I should send her card. I am not sure for what? I give up. Her walking out my life on something so petty and I haven't even stated the other horrible things she has done. I am fed up, but I will pray for her. Am I wrong?

Question: No sé cómo escribirle a la mama de mi novio ¡URGENTE!?

Posted: 10 May 2017 05:42 AM PDT

Quiero mandarle un mensaje a la mama de mi novio pero no sé cómo incorporar l que tengo en mente en el mensaje esto es lo que tengo Buenos días Sra. "@/) , espero se la pase de lo mejor este día de las madres en compañía de toda su familia y seres querido, pero le quiero agregar que tiene unos hijos maravillosos,inteligentes y que son muy buenas personas pero no sé cómo

Question: How do I proceed/Holy drama...?

Posted: 10 May 2017 05:22 AM PDT

I moved back in with my mother (who i had originally moved in with my ex to get away from) and she immediately reverted to treating me the way she did when I decided to leave a few years prior. Since i had no other options on where to go, i took it with grace. She's currently divorcing my stepdad and has had 2 separate boyfriends in the last 6 months (the first one came before my stepdad moved out, she broke up with him, and booked a flight with her 2nd new boyfriend the same night). she has entirely ignored my situation despite trying to talk with her about it multiple times (dealing with postpartum depression, left the father of my child because he told me he doesn't think about me after i asked him why he hadnt asked how i was doing at all after i expressed to him my suicidal feelings (i was being medicated but had to stop taking them cold turkey due to unexpected circumstances)), ignored my sister throughout my sisters divorce, and is barely around for my 2 much younger siblings. when she takes these trips, none of us expect to hear from her at all. even when she was away on easter day. she has taken multiple trips with her boyfriends in the last half year and just disappears. I told her that she hasnt been there for us and she kicked out my 3 month old daughter and i. she changed the locks and wont let me get any of our stuff. I have no clothes, work uniform, or breast pump, and everything that fits my daughter and is warm enough for this weather is there. what can i do? Since there seems to be the impression that i have something to apologize for: i paid rent, watched her 3 dogs, and was her dr.phil the entire 2 weeks I was there. I never complained about 1 thing until my step dad told me that neither of my siblings had heard from her in over a week. at which point i told her she hasnt been there for my siblings or i. due to her locking me out, i can not go to work until i at least get my breast pump. i have contacted her twice asking her to at least put my daughters clothes and my pump on the porch or allow me to come get them over the last 2 days however she is ignoring my messages problem solved: my things were dumped outside my ex's house. thanks everyone

Question: Am I a bad person because I don't like children or am I just mean?

Posted: 10 May 2017 05:16 AM PDT

I can take it LOL just he's whining snot no screaming brats at restaurants or the ones who don't want to go to school in the morning's that live at my apartments " wah wah wah" Shut that brought up by the way I had my tubes tied when I was 25 thank God

Question: How can I convince my mom to let me buy a hoverboard with my money after she has said no? It's ul2272 certified, and I'm 13?

Posted: 10 May 2017 04:28 AM PDT

Question: I have evil parents?

Posted: 10 May 2017 04:20 AM PDT

My parents are terrible. They've struck again. Yesterday my dad came to the bedroom I shared with my sister he said that I had to share more of the pillows with her because I had too much on my bed. I got up to give it to her but I dropped some. He thought I did it on purpose so he started hitting me. He kicked me, punched me all over, and slapped me in the face repeatedly until the point my cheek began throbbing. Then my "mother" came in and said I was causing too many problems n the house and said that she wanted me to leave the house. She forced me to sleep in the basement. Help?

Question: Should i have a 3 day vacation with my Sister?

Posted: 10 May 2017 03:39 AM PDT

Question: Is trying to move out a good idea to avoid verbal abuse? (Possibly, running away to move out)?

Posted: 10 May 2017 02:25 AM PDT

I live in a broken family. My mom gave up on my family ten years ago and my dad recently passed away. I'm currently living with my aunt and my disabled brother. My disabled brother is capable of working but my aunt prefers him to stay at home and do nothing. I gave up studying just to support my family. Half the time, I face constant neglect-ion and verbal abuse. I really want to live on my own to get away from the verbal abuse and mean comment but I know it sounds selfish. I want to be able to live on my own and make real friends since my aunt would always say everyone is bad which makes me not make any friends at all. I'm going to be 20 this year and I really want to be more independent and have a proper social life and more importantly, I really want to get this surgery to remove these burn marks on my face. I've had it for ten years and my aunt never really bothered to get me any professional help no matter how much I stressed how irritating it felt and how ugly I felt. But however, whenever my brother asks her anything, she instantly gets it for him. For example, he asked her for a PS4 and that thing and along with three games costs more than my cheap surgery to remove the burn marks. I just feel so neglected and I really want to enjoy life and study but I can't because my family holds me back. And like, even when I mentioned wanting to study again, she goes silent. I feel like my whole life, I've always put my family before me. what do I do??

Question: Is it weird to hug my cousin when she sleeps with me?? Sometimes I have family over and all the rooms are used so she sleeps with me..?

Posted: 09 May 2017 11:39 PM PDT

Question: I can't handle it it's not my job why is everybody blaming me why can't they just leave me alone?

Posted: 09 May 2017 11:28 PM PDT

It's not my job to find my stupid cats toys when she loses them I can't lift the 800 pound sofa It's not my job to get rid of the bugs its the landlords It's not my job to drive I'm used to taking trains or planes are subways Why am I being billed for hospital bills and I have insurance goddamnit Why does everybody bother with petty shitt I'm in college I don't have time to worry about my ******* tire pressure or higher interest rates I'll give you a high interest rate right up my ***

Question: Why is my dad overprotective of me but yet I am 22?

Posted: 09 May 2017 10:58 PM PDT

He is against me having a boyfriend when yet most people my age are engaged and attend college too. Overprotective dads are worhless and don't actually love their daughters. A good dad wants his daughter to have a romantic proposal and a good marriage by the time that she is 32. A good dad wants his daughter to get a ring on that finger in her 20s and not at 44.

Question: How should I 26 deal with my brother 23 who brings his friends and couple over ALL the time?

Posted: 09 May 2017 10:19 PM PDT

Me & my brother both still live with our parents. both studying, I just feel that he invites his girlfriend and friends to our house too frequently - at least once or twice a week - and it's always unannounced. My brother keeps inviting his girlfriend over to our house with no notice and doesn't think he's doing anything wrong not to mention we're opposites i don't bring people over and all my social live takes place in social venues outside home, i just don't understand why he's not beign neutral and just starts bringing people, i need lots of concentration i don't like meeting people i don't know at home , if he could just keep his guests to the realms of his bedroom and with closed doors and no noice would be great but not, he has to show over all the people he brings, i really feel bogged down, i feel he's trying to take over the house , my policy is, go meet all of them outside home just like i do, he clearly don´t take me into account as he addresses all that with my fathers , i'm sorry but my fathers house is meant to be used as that , meaning we are their guests , we are not supposed to bring people they don't know, i act on that, but he doesn´t , off course taking advantage of my parents but still , is like trying to pack a library and a pub in the same house!, all i say i don't like him braking the harmony , doing his own things like is his house, and bringing an end to neutrality by just over using his rights as son living with his parents

Question: Father keeps one child longer than the other should I be mad about it !?

Posted: 09 May 2017 09:58 PM PDT

So my daughter is 1 years old and She has a sister that's 3 years old It's not my child though. So I don't Know if maybe I'm being dramatic but Saturday he came to get his other daughter and came to get my daughter Sunday and brought her back today (Tuesday) but he still has his other daughter. I'm really pissed off because I feel that's not right if your gonna send one home the other should go too. I wanna address him but not sure if it's really even worth it. I don't want anyone to play any favoritism with my child at all. So so you think I'm being to dramatic or is that really unfair

Question: How can I help my niece with moving away?

Posted: 09 May 2017 09:09 PM PDT

She wants to move to Nevada or somewhere in Europe where prostitution is legal. She said she will make the most money doing it and will save it all to go to college. How can I stop her and make her understand her sins and she will likely go to he!! ???

Question: What to get for my sister for mother's day?

Posted: 09 May 2017 08:39 PM PDT

my sister practically raised my siblings and I so i want to get her an amazing gift as a thank you for taking care of us through the trauma our parents put us through. She is an English teacher and my hero but i can't figure out what to get her

Question: Why does my mom keep asking me to do things when she just gets upset when I do them?

Posted: 09 May 2017 08:17 PM PDT

Whenever my mom asks me to do something I intentionally do it wrong so that she'll stop asking me to do things but she doesn't stop. Why?

Question: I want to get my sis a gag gift to teaser her because she breeds dogs any ideas?

Posted: 09 May 2017 08:05 PM PDT

we joke around with each other all the time

Question: My Mom is dating someone...?

Posted: 09 May 2017 07:59 PM PDT

So I was looking through my Moms phone (I know, I should mind my own business, but I was using it to look up something because my phone died) so after I finished looking the thing up, because my mom was asleep, I decided to look through her messages. I found this number from where the most recent text from my Mom was talking about my sister, brother and I, which was telling where my brother worked at, he isn t really suppose to tell people who isn t family where he works, which my mom did tell to this person, who none of us know in real life. The thing that infuriates me the most, besides her telling these strangers who her children is and showing them pictures of us, is when I found the dating app (which is called our life or something like that) it said she is a widow, which she is not! She is still married to my dad, but my dad is sitting in a nursing home with dementia, dying, while my moms out here seeing other people, which is cheating to me. Also, she didn t tell my siblings or me that she s doing this. I am really, really p*ssed right now.

Question: So-Called Family?

Posted: 09 May 2017 07:55 PM PDT

Why is it that family is the first group of people to turn their back on someone struggling to survive?

Question: Are we force into love?

Posted: 09 May 2017 07:53 PM PDT

I feel we are forced into the people we love (family) and we have to deal with it because family is family. Is it wrong to not love your family? I find that I like the people in my life, but what if I didn't, is it acceptable?

Question: How did telling a dying grandfather that Trump was going to be impeached allow him to die peacefully?

Posted: 09 May 2017 07:49 PM PDT

https://www.google.com/amp/s/www.yahoo.com/amphtml/news/man-91-died-happy-family-161459141.html

Question: My Parents Are abusive And I Hate Them. I'm Currently 13 So I Can't Move Out. Any Tips To Help Me Deal With Life Better? I Wanna Kill Myself?

Posted: 09 May 2017 07:44 PM PDT

Question: My parents caught me wearing a thong help what should i do ?

Posted: 09 May 2017 07:40 PM PDT

I'm a 18 year old guy and i like wearing women thongs or g-strings. however i only use them at home when im sleeping or im walking around in my pajamas. and yesterday i slept with a thong on and no pants. however i had my blanket covering me which i always make sure to do incase my mom or dad walk into my room. HOWEVER this time i feel asleep with half the blanket over me and i guess during the night after tossing and turning my blanket was completly off me while i was sleeping. and then i woke up randomly in the morning to the noise of my mom shouting "OMG" as she was walking out of my room and i look at myself i a realized i was sleeping on my stomach with no blanket over me with nothing on but a pink thong . i dont know what to do she then told my dad about it and i havent talken to them barely since the incedent i tried avoiding them as much as i could.

Question: Are insane people aware they are insane, or are they oblivious?

Posted: 09 May 2017 07:25 PM PDT

Question: Do my parents hate me?

Posted: 09 May 2017 07:20 PM PDT

Hi. If anyone seens my previous question it was about me sleeping on the floor while my twin has a queen size mattress while our room is getting remolded. Anyways, shes my twin. She is obviously more favored, and it makes me feel like crap. While she gets to go out and "go to the mall" I have to stay back and clean. I get better grades, not that it should make me the favoured sister. No sibling should be favoured over one other. She gets new clothes, I'm still wearing ones from a couple years back and I've grown out of them. I AM grateful for the roof over my head, and even food. She was just taken shopping 5 hours away in Los Angeles for a $500 shopping spree. All I ask for is a couple t shirts and some shorts for like $50. I don't get it, I clean the house, I don't talk smack to my parents like she does, I love my sister don't get me wrong but it makes me feel crappy when it is really obvious they favour her. I don't have any other siblings, no uncles aunts, no grandparents. Plus I am homeschooled, I have to really teach myself though since they focus on her more. Why is her studies more important than mine? My best friend who I stay at her house sometimes maybe a couple times a year sneaks me out to go to her moms tutor lessons? I don't know what it's really called, but she helps me over there. I really don't get it. Why do my parents not like me? Plus before you say living with them isn't free, I KNOW! But every parent shouldn't think one kid is better than the otherHelp!

Question: How can I tell my mom that leaving my job is the best choice (10 points best answer)?

Posted: 09 May 2017 07:20 PM PDT

I like my job, but I don't like my coworkers. They are spreading gossip about me. They talk behind my back about my clothing, my eating habits, my appearance, and mock my behavior. My boss won't stop by my desk, won't greet me, and will act like I am invisible if I do stop by her desk. She won't respond any of my emails.One time I came to her desk, and she walked away from me. She made a call right away. I admit that I have social anxiety and depression which makes me withdraw from office lunches and parties. But when I did attend them, I notice coworkers got quiet and wouldn't socialize with me. I try to ignore this work situation but I think it's negatively affecting me. I can't sleep or eat well. I get panic attacks at work. How can I pluck the courage to leave this job? My mom wants me to stay, but I can't take this anymore. How can I tell my mother that this job isn't worth all the stress?

Question: Do i tell my parents I smoke weed?

Posted: 09 May 2017 07:12 PM PDT

I've been smoking weed for about 6 months now. But I started smoking a lot for about 2-3 months already. It did kinda affect me in the beginning since I started skipping school to smoke, but I'm done doing bad things. I only smoke in the nights. I don't harm anyone, I don't do anything. Me smoking doesn't affect anyone. But thing is, my sister smokes with me. And recently she's been trying to throw me under the bus with my parents. They know she smokes but don't care since she's 19. I'm only 16. I'm getting tired of keeping this a secret from them, but my dad threatened me and said "if you ever smoke I'll...". I feel bad lying to them. Should I come clean and tell them or should it remain a secret?

Question: What should I do if I think my parents are going to divorce?

Posted: 09 May 2017 06:47 PM PDT

i think that they're staying together for my sake

Question: My Dad is an alcoholic and our family intervention failed. How do I get over how sad I feel he doesn't love us because he drinks?

Posted: 09 May 2017 06:37 PM PDT

Question: Alcoholic Father. Help?

Posted: 09 May 2017 05:27 PM PDT

My dad has been drinking all his life. Just recently he has been drinking more and more. My mom called the cops because he was being crazy. He then went to the hospital and broke out and walked home. Now I have no clue on what can fix him. I try to help but he will not listen to me. He says he doesn't want help. Is there anything I can do. He is not abusive physically, but he is emotionally.

Question: My girlfriend is 2 months pregnant, everything was good and now it is going bad?

Posted: 09 May 2017 05:12 PM PDT

So 2 months my girlfriend got off birth control. We knew that what could happen if she got off it, so we did try for a kid. Not even two weeks after we tested positive. Everything was great and we were so happy and excited. Our whole relationship we've been completely happy and honestly alsmost stress free. We barely argued really bad. Only bickering and some arguement. Nothing crazy. A few days ago she decided to stay at her mothers house for a few days because she feels she needs space. Wish I understand. But not she is saying she isn't sure she wants a relationship and scared for her future and doesn't feel she is going anywhere in life. I have my own house, a working job making decent money. She is without a job but looking. I feel we're financially prepared. It is scaring the hell out of me of what she is going to decide to do. We've spoken a few times the last few days and I was obviously emotional and trying to explain how bad it would be to break up and how much worse the situation would be if she went a separate way. She's also wondering if she even wants to keep it now. This is breaking my heart and making me think the worst. I do not want to lose her, let alone my first child. Is this normal for women to do? Is it her pregnancies hormones? I don't know and honestly freaking the hell out about it all.

Question: Is This Werid?

Posted: 09 May 2017 04:48 PM PDT

Sometimes when my step-sister and I goof off, we get into play fight and wrestle. I get hard sometimes and I do not know if she notices. Does she you think? What would she think about that? I am sixteen and she is fourteen. Thanks! :) Is it weird if I am aroused by this?

Question: Why does my dad never do anything around the house when I want him to?

Posted: 09 May 2017 04:43 PM PDT

My dad always puts off everything until the weekend just because him and my mom work 12 hours a day five days a week. He tells me if I want stuff done around the house that since I'm a 30-year-old man at home all day without a job I can do it myself. No. I spend all my days playing video games and watching movies. He's the parent. He should do it when I want him to do it, not make me wait until the weekend.

Question: 19 and live at home.?

Posted: 09 May 2017 04:42 PM PDT

I m 19 and still live at home, if I go out with friends my mom will call being hateful and tell me I need to get home. I do chores around the house but she still calls me being rude. When I get home her excuse is " you dont need to be out running the roads or with friends all the time" I understand we should have family time but when I m there all she does is set on her computer playing Facebook games. Would really like to move out but I work minimum wage and know I d never make it.