I've done a lot of things to get me in trouble, not necessarily legally. I've drank and lied to her for most of my teenage years. She really doesn't like me much and I can tell. I really wanna fix our relationship she said she can't take much more from me and if I misbehave one more time she's going to send me away. I always lie to her to get to do what I want and I don't know why. I've tried to stop and it doesn't really work. She thinks of me as the worst kid ever when other teenagers do the same thing except they don't get caught by there parents. How can I fix my situation? I don't want her to hate me.

I never allowed him to get a job before age 18. I took him out of school at age 16. He has never had a learners permit or drivers license. I don't want to teach him how to drive and he refuses to teach himself. He has told me he can't teach himself as he has no car and it is illegal to drive with no license if someone 21 or older isn't with you. He refuses to walk 13 miles to get to the public transportation and he refuses to walk 30 miles to go live in the homeless shelter. He is under 22 years old. Why won't he move out? He has never had a job, he's called places for interviews, as he cannot walk there as it takes about 5 to 6 hours to get to town from where we are in the South. He has gotten some interviews but couldn't go as I do not drive him anywhere. And I haven't done that since he was 16. I will not be paying for him to get driver lessons and he cannot do that on his own as he has no money. He hasn't hung out with any friends in 2 years I need him to leave. What do I do?

If my parent wants to move to a new county out of my current school system, and I don t want to move with them, is it legal for me to refuse to move with them and live with a friend?

me and my twin sister are in the same pre calc class. my friends are so nice to me, but theyre all mean to my sister. i get that my sister is a bit introverted, but she is the sweetest perosn u will ever come across once she actaully starts talking. shes just very shy. they always talk bad about her right infront of me and ask questions like "how is she even your sister, let alone twin?" It really hurts when they say things like tht. today she asked for a pencil and one of my friends said "ew no get ur own". I tell them to leave her alone but they always laugh and think im joking and continue to bully her. my sister is not a very vocal person, so she just takes it from them. and when she finally gets the courage to strike up a conversation with one of them they tell her to shut up. they says things like "no one asked". it really bothers me to see my sister treated this way.

whenever I speak my opinion or things I dont like, he takes it as desrespect. Just other day, it was a simple thing and it turned into debate. He turned on light in the afternoon because he couldnt see on his phone and I politely asked why he turned light on ? he replied "what does that have to do with you?, I did because I wanted". like who talks like that.. I HAVE DECIDED NO TO REPLY HIM BECAUSE EVERYTHING THAT I SAY OFFENDS HIM. he says that other kids dont reply to their parents, can't I even speak my mind.

So, I'll ask a question like where we are going out to eat or where the wood cleaner is and it's met with screaming about how i should already know or just go get dressed. Yesterday my mom thought i shaved a hair off my chin and she screamed at me about how I'll turn inro a dude and be sorry and that hair grows back darker when you shave it. I didn't even shave a hair and she was just yelling like a maniac. I got a One Punch Man t shirt because i like the show and she said "really? This? Dudes wear this not girls." And i said that i like the show and she said "so?". I remember years back when we were doing garden work and i was around 12. It was hot and i was getting dehydrated. I stopped for a second to grab a drink and my dad got so pissed off that he threw a shovel at me. They have rarely ever hit me...Ever. But there were the 2 times when my dad got pissed and threw crap me. I don't get all this screaming and easy anger and belittling over crap like getting a t shirt.

I think my son needs to learn a few lessons about how important money is. I thought he was a good saver. He's only 14, but he spent almost $2000, everything he's saved in life and just bought a huge bar of silver. 🙄 He won't take it back either. What should I to to help him spend better?

So my boyfriend and I have been dating three years, but will be four years in September and I don't think I ever got her a Mother's Day gift. I have always said happy Mother's Day but wasn't sure if it's appropriate to get a gift or not. I was thinking this year to get her some flowers. My boyfriend's family and I are pretty much close. I work with his mother, go up north with their family, babysit her three youngest, and she practically calls me family. So would it be a good idea?🙂 We are both 20 years old

Him and my mom recently separated which means they don't live in the same home anymore. He's been in my life more than my dad so I don't call him dad but I do consider him a step father figure. he's been acting weird lately.. telling me and my other sister "I love you" which he has never done before until now and I asked him to to get me from school and he just said "yes baby." I thought of it to be weird and I know some dad's call their daughters princess and other names but he's FULL blood daughter - he doesn't even do that towards.

I've always wanted to be a mother. I feel like it's my calling. I've always wanted to share that special moment of having a first child with someone and learning about being a parent together. I'm in a situation now where I won't get to share the first experience with my partner and it tears me up inside. This girl basically robbed him of becoming a father by saying she was on bc but wasn't because he was accepted into med school and I guess looked like a walking money sign to her. I can't stop thinking about it. We've been friends for years and I told him I didn't want anything more because of not being able to share firsts. He was very persistent about being with me and he told me he was going to make it hard for me to leave and he did. He has been the most wonderful guy, he's treated me like a queen. Like how ted was to robin. I fell in love with him. He is just perfect. I want to be with him more than anything but i need to make peace with the situation and I don't know how. Every time I look at a baby now it makes me sad. I want to give him his first more than anything. It tugs at my heart and I feel like it's a daily battle to try and cope with this. It's so immature and I just want these feelings to go away. I want to Just enjoy my life with him but I can't stop these thoughts. It kind of makes me just want to have a baby ASAP (we are married now) just to get past these stupid thoughts. Any advice on how to make peace with it?

She never wants to be with people her own age. Every time I'm talking to my friends, she always butts in and starts cracking jokes. I'm so frustrated because this makes my friends prefer being with her than me. Even guys that I like that are my friends start to prefer talking to her than me. It makes me feel like ****. Is this normal, should I stop freaking out about it?

Before we went off to college, my cousin and I loved to lift together everyday at 4AM. We never drank. Never smoked. Always planned our meals together too. He lived right down the street from me. He was almost like my brother. Well, we went to two different colleges. I woulve gone to his college but im in the national guard and the college he goes to is considered "private institution" and he had a full ride there and the government wouldnt pay for me to get an education there. Well, ever since he started college, he joined a fraternity and began drinking and going to parties and even vaping from his snapchat stories. I dont know what got into him and he kinda drifted away from me. But i guess he tried to be cool. He stopped meal prepping with me and no money was not an issue with either of us. We both worked. I still do. To cut to the chase, last weekend i guess he had wayyy to much to drink, and it took a pounding on his liver and he had very bad alcohol poisoning. He was severely dehydrated too so it messed with his brain and before we knew it, he was pronounced dead on saturday. It pains me but do i feel sorry for him, absolutely not. I tried to lead him down my path, our path, but he thought otherwise. Does this make me a bad cousin? Thoughts?

I'm 17 and me and my girlfriend have been together about 6 months now. When we're not fighting everyone is good and it's actually a very strong relationship and we both encourage eachother to be the best we can be which is really important. The problem is that she is very selfish not only to me but towards everyone. If she doesn't like what her mom made for dinner she makes her cook something else just for her and she says it's disgusting when anyone else eats what she made. She wants to graduate high school early and go straight into college and everyone thinks she needs to slow down but whenever anyone brings up not doing that she freaks out. Whenever I bring it up she gets mad at me and starts treating me horribly and ignoring me. When I got my drivers license she wanted me to go straight on the freeway to drive about 20 miles just to get food and when I said I don't wanna do that so soon she said it was completely stupid and almost tried to force me into doing it. Whenever we fight she's extremely selfish to the point where I'm afraid to share my opinion with things like college in fear of fighting with her and being treated horribly. I'll admit I make my mistakes too but I'm not sure if she's being controlling or if she's a toxic person to my life. Any help would be appreciated because I really do wanna stay with her but I'm not sure if it'll hurt me in the long run

Ok so I tried to wake her up at 8 to take me too school she wouldn't wake up she is still breathing it's now almost 10 What should I do thx!

(this is going to be all over the place bear w me) okay im 17 and i really dont like my family and im going crazy i cant handle this bullshit anymore. i have a ******* crazy step-dad who is the dirtiest human being on this planet and he's always ******* pissed off at everything and is the biggest bigot i have met and is extremely homophobic (he told me i was going to hell when i came out 3 years ago) and whenever he gets me one thing he's just like "see, im not a bad guy" like *****, the thing you got me never showed up and you will never be a ******* good guy you broke how many ******* doors down in this house and said how much ****** up **** to me? then i have my mom, ugh, why? she doesnt seem to give one **** about me and is always high off her *** and its so annoying, she's literally my step-dads *****. she hasnt taken me to the dentist for 7 years and i havent gotten new clothes for 2. and my older sister always seems to want to control me and its so ******* annoying. and to top it all off i have major depression and anxiety (i only found that out after i freaking tried to kill myself, amazing, right?) and it seems like everyone forgets that **** bc whenever i want to be alone (which is always because i would rather be alone than deal with anyone) she always tells me 'you have issues' like wow??? i Totally Didn't Know! Thank You For Telling Me! i dont know what to do, i always want to die but my situation 'could be worse' and 'i should be grateful i have it so good'

My husband suffers from meningitis tuberculosis. Most of the time he has horrible headaches... He's sensitive to light... He has horrible seizures... He has fever almost every night... He can't concentrate on what he's doing... He doesn't have enough energy and he's very weak... He doesn't remember a lot of things about past (he doesn't remember that I'm his wife and he doesn't remember his name)... I'm very worried about him... We have a 3 year old daughter... I'm also worried about her, because it's very bad for a little child to see her father in this situation... She's too dependent on me and she doesn't want to get away from me... I wanted to send her away to my mother's home till the situations will be better, but she was too restless and uncomfortable in my mother's home, so I told my mother to bring her back...

Need an advice. I can't believe what I just saw. I was just teaching my dad a few things about his new cell phone and I saw a couple of adult videos there and he quickly took the cell phone off my hand. There was a moment of silence between the two of us. I couldn't believe what I just encountered.What should I do??

My grandfather was recently diagnosed with Alzheimer s and when were talking about it my mom interrupted and said "he s gonna go anyway". Isn t that harsh...? That s her father and she legit said something that no one wants to hear (especially after losing her grandma last Summer). I know it s inevitable, but we shouldn t be thinking about those things; we should be embracing life and enjoying his presence instead of thinking of his future death.

in my country, those who refuse to look after their aged parents would go to jail. what's the situation in your country?

I think either my g/f or her son are exaggerating things, but I suspect it's my g/f making excuses for him. He never sends as much as a birthday or Christmas card, yet my g/f sends money frequently. She's planning on going out West for Christmas, which will cost her hundreds of dollars. When asked why they don't come here, she says.."oh it will cost them $800 & they don't have that kind of money". My g/f certainly doesn't. The son is a nationally licensed welder & his partner is a water treatment inspector. They're not earning peanuts. Just last night it was learned that they're expecting their 2nd child in December. For a couple that doesn't 'have the money', it's boggling they'd have another baby. I didn't say anything when my g/f told me this news..but I thought to myself this is ridiculous. Now, I wonder if my g/f is still going there over Xmas. I can imagine what it would be like with a 3yr old, a brand new baby, & 4 extra adults in a 1-bedroom house. Personally, I would not want that. A month or so ago, my g/f said she was THINKING of going, but I have found out from another source that she IS going..although she has not told me this. Do I stay quiet?.. There is no big deal. What my problem is..she hasn't told me she's actually PLANNING on going. A very short time ago, she was THINKING about it. If one reads the question (scenario) you'd understand what I'm asking here. She told a friend she was GOING yet she has only told me she's THINKING about it.

Or is it only some people who behave so?

She's 39 and she won't stop doing this to herself... I got a stomach virus today so I'm not going to school. So I read you had to stay hydrated.... I got her a water bottle and like two minutes later she vomited out. What do I do? I don't want her dying... I don't have any friends to help out since none of them deal with that

I'm scared to be an adult as my family is moving away and I'm going to have to stay by myself in Atlanta. Any tips on saving for a car and apartment？And anything I need to know about being an adult. I don't think I'm ready but I have to be ready.

She's 3 years old than me. She's tall, athletic, pretty, talented, outgoing, funny, kind and the thing that crushes me the most is that she is super close with out other sister (4 years older than me.) They do everything together, songs, media..they read each other's thoughts. I am such a loner. They never talk to me, and if they do, it's short and quiet. Anyway, she is so talented. Her singing is incredible and everyone at school loves her for it. She's super outgoing and funny, even friends with the teachers. And she's gorgeous. Her facial features are just...beautiful. Nothing I can ever compete with. it's symmetrical and well placed. It makes me feel like crap. She's also 6'0. She's super athletic and always comes home from athletic events holding blue ribbons and 1st medals. She's achieving everything academically and career wise. I just can't be around her because I feel so useless compared to her. She's getting so much love and attention and i'm just the younger nobody. I don't want comments like "you're beautiful just the way you are" or "it's just the inside that counts" --because SHE'S PERFECT INSIDE AND OUT so it's not going to help me. I am just feeling very insecure and unhappy. I find her a threat and that's bad because she's my own sister.

My husband suffers from meningitis tuberculosis. Most of the time he has horrible headaches... He's sensitive to light... He has horrible seizures... He has fever almost every night... He can't concentrate on what he's doing... He doesn't have enough energy and he's very weak... He doesn't remember a lot of things about past (he doesn't remember that I'm his wife and he doesn't remember his name)... I'm very worried about him... We have a 3 year old daughter... I'm also worried about her, because it's very bad for a little child to see her father in this situation... She's too dependent on me and she doesn't want to get away from me... I wanted to send her away to my mother's home till the situations will be better, but she was too restless and uncomfortable in my mother's home, so I told my mother to bring her back...

So I'm only 15yrs old right now. I really want to move with my friend to another city which is 50km away from my home so I can finish 11th and 12th grade in another school since the one that prepares 11 and 12th graders in my city is pretty bad. We plan to ask our moms to rent a room in that city so we could live together. I'm finishing 9th grade right now so we will be 17yrs old, we don't have much time and we want to get prepared (cooking, cleaning) before we ask so our moms can be sure we will 'survive'. Also, I want to solve my main problem - money. My family is pretty poor so I really need job. Are there any chances for 16yr old to find a job for summer?

I can't disown them, at least the two that are family. One is a narcissistic hater of her own child, and the other two (my Mom and sister) my mother is bitter and uses me as a pawn and my sister is like the worst and most immature adult I've ever met. It is almost funny how bad my sister is. My mother is not as bad as she used to be.

I know right from wrong (not that I am perfect) because I was taught right from wrong. My mother had two marriages. Her second marriage was later and she and m step-father adopted three infants (different birthfamilies). My Mom has two older kids from her first marriage. The oldest of the ones from the 2nd marriage has had some issues but not at all his fault (mental illness with OCD and anxiety) he is a perfectionist so easy to be around and well behaved. The middle of the younger kids is your role model easy kid. The youngest is a spoiled brat. She is 22 and orders her parents around and they cave to it. When my step-father would punish her as a teen my mother would lift the punishment if my sister screamed and pleaded enough. She gets whatever money she wants and never shows appreciation (I should say rarely as she did once). So is this perfectly normal since she is the youngest and my mother was 39 when she was born? My mother even taught me right and wrong despite being single until I was eleven (my bio father left the family when I was 3 and hasn't been heard from since except meeting us once at a funeral). So is it perfectly normal in a family of 5 kids (6 if you count my step-brother who is much older) to have the parents unable to discipline as they get older and to enable? Are they just too exhausted to parent anymore?

She is sick by choice, not by illness of any kind (mental or physical).

31 years old parents treat me like a child. I cant have friends round, always need to tell them where I'm going and what time I'll be back, I'm not allowed to smoke/vape in the house, they moan at me for spending my own money, I have to be indoors by midnight latest otherwise the doors get locked. I just don't have my adult life freedom that most do. I'm don't have a job at the moment but I'm actively looking for one. Anything I can do to stop this treatment from them?

Okay as I perviously said that he has become very apologetic, its getting really bad. Today, we were watching a vampire movie so he asked me that he wanted to bite me just like a vampire so I let him do it so he ended up giving me a hickey on my hand. The affected area got red and now he thinks he has hurt me pretty badly. Now, he is crying and apologizing for hurting me and has locked himself in our room. How can I get him stop crying and come out ?

I am 16 and my little brother is 6 years old. He was such a brat that I always wanted to hit him but couldn't because my parents always took his side. But, for the past few months, his behavior has been completely changed. He is now a nice, obedient and very apologetic little brother (Every older sister's dream). So today I asked him what has caused him to change his behavior, he just said that he thinks that he won't be able to live long enough so he changed his attitude towards so me so I can forgive him when he dies. He now apologizes for every little thing and honestly that's scaring me. And no, he's not fooling around, he is super serious about it.

My grandmother's funeral is on Tuesday. I wasn't that close to her, especially these past few years where she had dementia. But I was/am sad to hear of her actual death. I thought I had finished being sad over her loss (she hadn't been a real person for quite some time). Under normal circumstances I would easily take a day off work to attend the funeral, but since I changed positions last week I am going through a 6 day training course that finishes on Thursday. They told us it was important and it's best if we can avoid missing any days. I want to go to the funeral. I don't want to miss training. My mum says people would understand if I didn't attend the funeral because of my training (it was my dad's mother that died though, dad doesn't know yet, so I can't ask him his opinion). I don't know which I would regret missing more, the training or the funeral. I don't know which is more important to attend. Should I attend my grandmother's funeral or should I miss it to attend training?

My brother's daughter, my niece, had a baby. Am I a great uncle? Grand Uncle? My father says grand because my brother and I are in the same generation. And how do I refer to my niece's baby? Great niece? What do you think? Thanks

Right now we live five hours away and I am very comfortable with that. He wants us to move into their same city. Last year we lived an hour away and my life was absolutely miserable. His mother is overbearing and his siblings "posse" are completely rude to me. My husband hates his job now and there might be an opportunity in his hometown or in another state that I hate. I dont want him in a job he hates but his hometown has low job stability, a bad econcomy, high crime, and his mom that tries to control our lives when we are close.

Alot of teens want to stay at home and don't want to go to school since they're getting bullied there but in my case everything is the opposite - I don't want to stay at home because my mom and my grandmother are always making fun of me. They think that I'm a 15yr old teen and all my decisions are stupid. I wouldn't say anything if they just laughed and explained why my decision is not right but they act like I have no feelings - out of nowhere they take out any stupid(they don't look so stupid for me) idea I've said earlier and just laugh. When I try to explain why I am right, my mom says her favourite sentence against me „yeah yeah, you're now the most clever in this house and we're dumb". She says this because she heard somewhere that teens always don't know what they want and pretend to be smarter than adults... I don't know how should I actually feel and what should I do...

So I have to go to a kickboxing class every Saturday, but I really hate going there. I keep asking my parents to not make me go there anymore but they just keep saying that I have to go. I don t want to go there anymore, so how can I persuade my parents withought getting in trouble?

So I'm not sure what's going on and whether or not it's logical. I'm pretty tired. It's 2 am, I got up at 6 am. Anyway. I'm hungry. I close my computer so as to psych myself up for the trip downstairs. It's kind of nerve-racking. Creaky steps, sleeping parents, etc. So I hear a move my foot a bit. A clicking comes from the wall. I have got a few small holes in my wall for various reasons. I move my foot again. The clicking doesn't stop for a few seconds. I move it again. Same thing. I'm thinking it's just my foot moving. But I open my computer and shine a light on my wall. Nothing. I move my foot again. No sound this time. I close my computer, turn off my music. It's totally black and completely quiet in here now. I move my foot. No clicking. Is there a murder in my wall? Probably. Am I still hungry? Yes. Please help, I'm really really hungry but what if there's something under my bed/in the wall and it kills me when I get up. I'm not ready to die.

I just bought this house a month ago. I was super excited because it's a 4 bedroom house and its super big! With 3 stories it has privacy for all. However, my plan was to rent the 4th room to help me pay for it. I didn't give it much thought and so I found a guy that works next to where I work. He was cool and I've kinda been talking to him for a year or so. (As friends) However, today he brought someone over and they were eating with my stuff and sitting on my couch and watching my tv in my living room. Last night I had to call him out because I heard sex noises and smelled weed. I have my mom here and shes a bit elderly and my little brother. What can I do?

Firstly I'm 12 in 6th grade.Two days ago when I was at school my uncle picked me up from school and we went for ice cream and I'll admit my uncle was better Gn super nice.Afterwards we went to his house and waited for my parents to pick me up because they were still working. My uncle and I was sitting down watching Tv when he started to stroke my hair. I TOLD HIM TO CUT IT OUT!. But he kept stoking my hair. I tried to scoot over because he was acting weird,but he started to play with my breast. I didn't know what to do so I pushed me off of me. He took me by my arms and started to kiss me on my face and neck. I kept yelling stop but he wouldn't and took of my clothes he told me if I scream or move again he would kill me. I didn't want to die but I had to do something I begged begged him to stop but it was too late he already done it. After he was done he threw me a towel and told me to put my clothes on before my parents come to get me. And he said if I told anyone he was going to do it again and kill me afterwards. It's been days now and I really want to tell my mom and dad but I'm scared! I don't know what to do😪😪😪

She keeps coming into the kitchen and stealing food. She has been caught on numerous occasions. When questioned she cries (she's on the verge of that, "I'm still a baby coddle me" transition phase into older childhood) and says she was hungry though we feed her regularly and she has a snack bowl with healthy snacks along w/ yogurts. The behavior continues even when she has been punished harshly and I don't know what else to do. She is my step daughter and her bio mom (who recently lost all custody of her) only fed her sugar and salt filled prepackaged foods. It is more than stealing food at this point. She is coming into my room and stealing my personal treats that I save for myself after a long day. I had special easter candies my mother had brought back from Europe and she ate those too. She has snuck everything from chips, cookies, and candies to leftover McDonalds. I have been with her a long time but this behavior has recently increased to unbearable levels and I can't think of why. We sat her down after we realized grounding her wasn't working and basically showed her pictures of heart disease, diabetes, obesity etc and said those things would happen to her if she continued her behavior. Yet, she still keeps on. We have followed through with all of our punishments so I don't think it is a commitment thing. I'm this close from just putting locks on all the cabinets and my room door to keep her out and making her come ask anytime she wants a snack. Please help.

I made a friend who is older than me last summer, about 1 year ago and we've gotten pretty close. I want to know what she thinks of me now that's she gotten to know me. I sent her a message and hour ago asking, I assume she is busy, she hasn't answered. Was it a dumb question to ask?

I hate her. She's a bully, she tries to destroy everything good in my life and in fact, she is jealous of anyone who is better than her in any way. She is shorter than me by 4-5 inches or half a head and she tries to bully me for my size and She's the older sister. She tries to put me down for everything, including make me feel bad for the way I look. She never dated anyone either and is almost 39. She was berating and insulting me when I had a boyfriend and trying to make me feel bad because she never had a relationship and I did. Whenever i try to do anything, she tries to get in the way and sabotage it. When people compliment me, she has a nasty look on her face and as if she's mad that anyone says anything good about me. She calls me fat all the time, just because i'm taller than her, she has never complimented me either. She also made negative comments about my body image to make me feel bad about myself even when i was thinner. She's a disgusting person. She compares herself with me and says she's 'better' than me, and tries to ruin other people's lives and i think she is jealous. She puts me down when I try to do anything. She even told me "i wish you were fat so I can make fun of you" Who the hell would say that?. So is she jealous of me? Isn't jealousy or envy expressed through anger and hatred? She also starts fights with me for no reason and provokes me all the time. What is your opinion and how do i deal with people like this? EDIT, oops, i meant to say, she's almost 30 years old.

First of all I will let you know that this is a difficult a long situation I had to go through. First of all me and my husband were introduced because my brother and him are cousins due to their dad *i have a different dad*. We got engaged and next thing you know my brother and his cousin (husbands sister) are dating. My husband caught them and it ended terrible. No one wanted to see them together. Made many problems. It was really bad. Well that was two years ago. On Christmas my father in law decides to invite him over and we re one big happy family again after two years of not talking. Just last month my father in law finds out my brother "cheated" on his daughter with his ex wife. Well it ended quite bad because she has a son that is really attached to his grandparents. She had to choose whether to go back with my brother or choose her parents. She ended up going with him because it turns out she believes it was a lie. The son is not allowed to make contact with their grandparents and refuses to see him just because she chose my brother. What do you guys think of this. Sorry I know this is long.e

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The corner is lifting a little and i cant pull it off.. The screen is still responsive a little but i cant see the battery life or time. I dont really care bc my parents bought me a really bad bad stupid phone LG. im not trying to be ungrateful but lgs reslly suck. thue pissed me off so bad for a STUPID REASON THEY smacked me i had to throw or break something. So first i threw a perfume bottle in the shower tub which broke it. I wanted to throw myv phone bc of this irrisistahle urge so i did..... And it shattered a lot on the corner and under it and cracked everywhere on top... wtf do i do?? It still works its just hard to see?

i will give you a brief back story, i come from a broken family, my dad was the abusive type and the alcoholic type and my parents got divorced when i was young, we moved away, year after i was sexually molested by two different men. i was bullied in school up until the day i graduated i have little to no friends because i was different or weird or annoying, everyone had called me a slut because i lost my virginity young.... i was diagnosed with major depression and PTSD i cut myself because i hated who i was and i tried committing suicide three years ago.... i now don't talk to many people i once knew and i have a fiance, im in college.....my dad is getting remarried and doesn't speak to me anymore even tho i tried calling him he always said i would never make it into college and i would just be like every other person in our county...trash. yeah sucks that somebody "daddy" would say that right?....anyway i just got my first car and i still havent been able to drive it because nobody will ride with me so i can learn, i have a part time job in a deli which seems like a full time job that takes into my school work. my fiance had the hardest time telling his parents we were engaged as a matter of fact... he didnt they found out through family members that have facebook that told them. im ready to move out he still wants to live at home. i grew up very young and new what i wanted to do with my life i want to become a radiologist and live in the country where i will have my family and a nice little farm. i started becoming aware that i wanted to have kids when i was about 14 years old, but i never had them that young thank god but i thought my only purpose in life was to be a mommy, and my and my fiance decided in about 5 years we will make that family and i though ok cool i can do that, but its really difficult when you go on facebook and somebody new is announcing there having a baby and its somebody you know so being around that makes me feel sick with jealousy because they have the little one that i am waiting desperately for. i went through a lot and didn't have much of a childhood every time i brought home a cheer leading form or an audition paper or a tryout paper my mom said no im not wasting my gas for that ****. i wound up being you sad little emo kid in the corner, picked up guitar and wrote songs that was what i did. for my senior year i bought everything myself and my mother made me cry on prom because she wasnt even there to help me get ready i bought my own dress and shoes and i cried because she didn't make me feel like the princess i should've felt like. with my kids i would rather they not turn out like me i would give them what i never had (not spoiled of course) but a chance to experience every opportunity they wanted i would rather have my kids in clubs and sports than on the street doing drugs or hating themselves and wanting to end there lives, if my kids came to me and said mom i really want to play tennis or mom theres this musical in school and i really want to be in it can you be there for me? i would say yes and support them in what they love....my fiance isn't ready and i don't think he ever will be all he cares about is enjoying his young life while he can before kids come along he wants to have things like a big screen tv and nicer cars he already has a nice nice honda that his parents bought him. i have to pay for school, he gets his paid for. we come from two different sides of the track. and theres so many things in my way i don;t think my life is ever going to start...whats wrong with me why do i think like this

my aunt had a mechanic friend who helped fixed my car. When I went to pick up the car I had 200 in cash. She told me to put my money away she took care of it. I told her I will pay her 200 but she went to work right when I picked me car. I had to pay 40 to the dmv that day. Today, I gave her 160 and said I will pay the 40 tomorrow and now she is whispering and making it awkward for me at my own house. Am I in the wrong?

I want to become a singer later on in the future, i am 14 years old, and started singing at age of 12, The problem is that Every time i start singing to my mom, she is always telling me to Study, to Read, Work on education, on school, and every time she says that, i start crying from the inside, without my mom noticing that i am crying. My dad buys me what i want, but doesn't support me. A few months ago, my dad bought me a Recording Package, but i don't know how to use it, he told me to check out tutorials on how to setup, and start recording music, i told my dad to help me, and when i show him the video, he acts like he doesn't care, and i know that he doesn't care, My parents believe that Education/ School is the most important thing in Life, they don't care about what i want to be in the future, and i know school goes first, but it is just not fair that other Teenagers like me get to live their dream, and not me, i already have plans for the future, At age of 18 i will go audition for American Idol, but i just can't wait to grow up and become more than a teenager, i am always telling my friends that i wish i was 18 right now, because the things that i want to do right now, like going audition or performing on stage, that will never happen right now because i don't get support from my parents, they don't care about my dream, all they care about is Education, It's not fair for other teen like me that are already living their dream and not me, What do i do?

So my boyfriend and I have been dating three years, but will be four years in September and I don't think I ever got her a Mother's Day gift. I have always said happy Mother's Day but wasn't sure if it's appropriate to get a gift or not. I was thinking this year to get her some flowers. My boyfriend's family and I are pretty much close. I work with his mother, go up north with their family, babysit her three youngest, and she practically calls me family. So would it be a good idea?🙂

So my friend has asberger syndrome but it's not like super extreme but a little. She had a baby it was premature came at 25 weeks, she was severely stressed the father walked out and her mom moved her hours away from her family and cut her off from everyone even me her best friend, her mom forced her to sign her rights over and she put in her mind it was best and she was unfit. Ever since she has been harassed and her mom has pawned the baby on her and she has went through every struggle new moms has, but she's unfit in her moms eyes. But she's really not. She has therapists to back up get stories as well. She finally left, got kicked out basically because she couldn't handle the abuse. Her mom was never there for her as a kid, because she didn't want to take care of her, and she even lost a kid because it has an upper respiratory infection and died because her negligence. So now she just comes in and steals her daughters baby and set her up. The father signed his rights away from the beginning and I had her to save the messages of harassmenr before and after she left. can she get her baby back after she gets her license, disability money, and housing with help from section 8? Also the birth certificate hasn't switched over but she went through the judge and got full custody. They forced her and threatened her to give her baby up. I feel so horrible for her. The baby is now healthier. The mom just wanted the baby for money since it was premature and she gets $700 a month.

So my aunt's boyfriend's niece who is 16(I'm 18.)is probably coming in town in a couple weeks.Last time she came in,she asked people I know if I was single and such.The one conversation we had she kept smiling and staring into my eyes and bitting her bottom lip.What should I do?

So this happend in about march or April of last year my mom and step mom broke up because they were arguing alot the were together for 8years and i miss my step mom qnd sister so much they were the. Only source of my happiness my mom just got into a relationship with another girl and shes nice and all but she will never my like my other one i just really need your help i want everything to be how it was can you please help me

I made a friend who is older than me last summer, about 1 year ago and we've gotten pretty close. I want to know what she thinks of me now that's she gotten to know me. I sent her a message and hour ago asking, I assume she is busy, she hasn't answered. Was it a dumb question to ask?

my parents are on vacation and my grandma is watching me for one more day. and i don t think she ll let me skip. so i don t know what to do.

I'm 13 and within the past month I've made some bad choices like dated behind my parents back and all that drama. But now I have started drifting away from my parents and I barely talk to them unless if I have to at home. I spend most of my time in my room also unless if I am forced out of it. I'm ok not being close to them though and I know they won't be around forever. Nothing seems to be going the right way now days though.... any advice ?????

So, my biological father cheated on my mom and left me when I was two and before my little brother was born. He wasn t a part of my life for 11 years. At first, when I was young, I wanted him back. But now I have a great stepdad and have been getting along without him for a long time. Then, a year ago, he magically reappeared (By the way, I forgot to mention, I live in California, and he lives in Florida, so it was through calls that he appeared). My little brother is thrilled, but even though it has been a year, I don t want to talk to him. I guess I m kinda scared that he will leave again, and I don t want to get attached to him. But at the same time, I feel bad for him, because I feel like he is genuinely trying to get back to me. What should I do?