I met a guy on a site about one week ago. He is younger than me but he was flattered that I was interested in him. We started chatting and we exchanged phone numbers and he immediately mentioned he would like me to come over for dinner sometime. So I texted him and each time he was warm and friendly and even started to talk racy. We planned to get together this past Sunday but when the day arrived I had to end up texting him regarding it and he said he was sorry that he was going to be tied up today as in work-related. I asked him if he could please text me next if he wanted to get together. So far, he has not texted me. I've done all the texting. When I do text though, he is receptive and friendly. Is this a red flag; should I waste my time waiting for this person to ask me to go out?

Tuve relaciones sexuales la semana pasada con mi novio y lo hicimos sin condón ... lo hicimos 3 veces, pero nunca se vino dentro de mí ... Realmente no sé si estaba en mi día 14 por lo que realmente no puedo saber bien .... estoy muy asustada porque no he tenido ningún sentimiento extraño, pero mi período esta un poco retrasado ... ¿qué les parece?

Hello... I didn't know, where to go with my thoughts, so I just landed here... I'm in a LDR with my boyfriend, who is from England, I am from Germany. Tuesday last week he got a message on FB from the brother of his ex gf, he said that she tried to kill herself. She was blocked on my bfs FB acc cause they stopped talking, and the last time they talked was 6 months before or something like that. I don't know..I just feel soo bad about this situation. After her brother msged my bf, he asked me if it would be alright, that he would be friends with her, so she's not that depressed and not feel alone. I rly love him, so the first thing I've done was, that I didn't want him to feel bad, or didn't want him to always think about that..so I said yes..and THEN I just thought about how I would feel.. Well, he told me, that he would play games with her sometimes, but after that message from her brother, they played like every day, few games. When I'm asking him, if he wants to do something with me, he's just bored after 1 game playing. I just dont know though...I feel sooo bad about this, that I can't describe. I'm trying to understand this whole situation, but I can't really accept. He said, that there is no reason to not trust him and to be so jealous. But what if she tries to get him back? Or what if she still loves him? It wouldn't really help her... He also said, that he would instantly stop talking to her, if she really would love him..I feel so helpless, I dont know what to do.. :(

How do they live in survive in those boxed clay houses?

My friends an coworkers know I am engaged to a man in Nigeria name Olowende, he is minister of finance at the bank of Nigeria, we met 10 months ago by accident on Yahoo, we fell in love pretty quickly an the next day he asked me to marry him, an I said yes. Even though the new this, they set me up on a blind date. I didn't tell Olowende, if I had he may have like done suiside or something like that. My friends also know I am a spiring model an would like to pose for Playboy some day, nude. I figured if my friends was setting up a blind date, he would be rich, hansome, smart an have a huge cock, about 6-1 an 185 pounds. Them is usual the kind of men thats falling in love with me on the internet. The guy turned out to be Ralph Shaffer. He is about 5-7, 150 pounds with a red hair mullet an freckles. He is unemployed an was kicked out of the Navy. He is 38 an lives with his parents an he said the only things he does is smoke, drink an watch pornography. OMG we met at Berger King an I had to pay for are meals, all he talked about was porn an the one time he did sex, when he was 17. I couldn't get a word in edge wise about all these men in love with me on the internet. Then he said "even though your kind of fat an not real attractive do you want to come back to my house an give me a good bl0wj0b?" OMG I almost had a seizure. How dare he, an then I got furious at my friends cause they think this little terd man is on my level? I date male models an docters an buyers. WTF?

If our father had sex with other women, then there's still 50/50 chance we would be born but have a different mother.

Yup.

My and my ex broke up around 3 years ago mutually due to 'losing the spark'. We were together for 3 years before we broke up. About a year after we broke up I found out that she had moved on, it broke my heart but I accepted it and I was happy for her. After 3years of barely speaking, we finally spoke on Valentine's Day this year and in that message she sent me a pic of a valentines present that I gave her almost 4 years ago and she said that she never knew how weird it could be to go from talking and seeing someone all the time to not talking at all, she also asked if I had met anyone I said no then she went on to say that she wonders how things would be if we were still together.After that she said that she hoped I can find someone that makes me happy because I deserve it.I was shocked but I just said the same back. It felt as tho we were close again, At the end of this conversation she said bye and told me to 'stay in touch'.After this I sent her a pic of a place where I used to take her and asked if she remembers she said yeah and asked who I was with.She remembers everything including my birthday in a few weeks and jokingly said that I should start thinking about 'settling down' bcos I'm getting old. I have tried to get over her but after 3 years I'm still not over her and after talking recently I'm beginning to think that she still might have feelings for me,we haven't spoke much since valentines as our conversations are mostly on and off,could there still be a chance?

I live with my mom and older brother

I was standing waiting for the train to go home, and a handsome man approached me and asked if this was the right place to get on the train. I didn't think anything of it at the time, so just told him yes. Then we got on together and ended up standing next each other, and I could tell he wanted to talk, so I just broke the ice and asked him if he worked in the area, and he started talking right away. He said yes, and then he asked me if I worked here too and if for so long. He explained what he did for work and asked how long I'd been living here, and if I'd always been with my company. Come to find out, we work in similar field. I remember him cracking a joke and then asking me several other questions. It seemed like we hit things off and people around us were smiling. It seemed like he wanted to keep the conversation going because he kept asking me follow up questions, but I kept getting distracted because it was so crowded. Unfortunately, I got pushed away from him as the train got more crowded. I overheard someone ask him if they wanted them to move and so he could call his friend over. And I think I heard him say, that's ok, I actually don't know her. I thought he may have done this though to not seem like he was following me. Then I had to get off, and I told him that it was nice meeting him, and he flashed me a big smile and told me it was nice meeting me too, but that was it. Was he interested? If this happens again, what should I have done differently?

I'm a 14 year old girl. I've always been an over-the-top tomboy, unlike other girls who claim to be tomboys but occasionally like putting on makeup and dressing girly. I never, and I mean NEVER, wore a dress in my entire life (maybe when I was a baby and I couldn't speak), nor did any of the things girls do today. I have really short hair and I only dress with clothes from the men's section. I refuse to wear literally anything that's for girls, even if it's athletic clothes or sneakers. If they aren't for boys, I ain't wearing them. Period. You might tell me I'm transgender, but I'm not. I'm completely fine with the fact that I'm a girl; I accept my identity. But you'll never see me dress or behave like a girly girl. Even at formal events, I wear a suit and a tie. I'm not a lesbian either. I'm also really athletic and childish, my goal is to develop huge muscles. The thing is, my parents don't understand this. They accepted me before, but now, they act like it's the end of the world. My mom has also grown up as a tomboy, but now she's into makeup and all the ****, so I don't understand why she's so concerned about me. The thing that bothers my parents is that people often mistake me for a guy, which I don't really have a problem with, tbh. Earlier, my mom said she won't take me outside with her anymore because I make her feel embarrassed. How to get my parents to accept me for who I am? Please don't say "try being girly from time to time to please them". NO. JUST, NO.

We volunteered together, he d 12 years older and led the office where the volunteering took place. He told in me about how depressed he is, how mean his wife is etc. He would text me all the time, sweet things, never forward at all, but completely ignore me in front of people we knew from church, going as far as turning his back on me when I went to talk to him once. After that, I finally told him how I felt and that I didn t think I should volunteer anymore and tried to tell him goodbye but he convinced me to stay for the kids I was working with and that we just wouldn t work together anymore. It worked for about a week but I still saw him every day and he tried to talk to me even more, knowing how I felt about him, and I felt like I was disrespecting his wife by being there, so I told him I was leaving and to please block me on all social media after taking me off the pages I ran for his office. He BLEW UP, he called me crazy, told me I shouldn t be working with kids and that he d call the police if I ever contacted him again. After I tried to cut ties with HIM. Now, he shows up where my bf works all the time and when he saw me in a parking lot today, he blocked my car waiting for me to get out. I waved him away through my window and he looked so angry when he drove off. Should I tell his wife about his actions? I am over how I felt about him and I realized that his relationship with me was inappropriate from the beginning from the things he talked to me about.

He is now 27. When he was in school, he was always getting in trouble and talking back to the teacher, and skipping days on purpose. He dropped out when he was about 17 or 18, and around that same time he called a cop a pig when he was in trouble for drinking and driving. Since then, he has moved back and forth between his mom's house, his dad's house, and his grandmother's, and has never been able to hold a job for much more than a year. Last year, he started dating this girl who is only 25, and had 4 kids since she turned 18. She is still in the process of a divorce, and his mom warned him not to stay with her. But he didn't listen and got her pregnant. Now he is going to be a dad, but he broke up with her and is back living at home with his mom. She says he's being a bonehead.

Recently a coworker started becoming more friendly with me but I always held back because there's something about them I don't like. A few weeks ago some other people at work said that this person had been saying they needed to talk to me about something when I was away from work for a week. A few days after I came back they asked me on a date and I said no. They seemed to take it well but after a few days they started to doing stuff that seemed like they were trying to draw attention to themselves and now they keep lingering near to where I am and staring a lot of the time and it's starting to creep me out. I told another worker that this person had asked me out the other day because I wanted someone to be in on what had gone on. But now I feel bad like I'm just starting gossip. I have to go back to work tomorrow and I just don't know how to handle it. Am I right to let my coworkers know and am I right to be creeped out?

I was thinking of taking steroids but im afraid of having a small penis(or failling below average). Are the rumors true? Also, why would any men take it if it makes their weewee smaller?

And I'm in love with her but she won't leave her husband who she says she doesn't love anymore. I am ready to leave my gf to be with her. I feel like she wants me and her husband this is killing me I just want to be with her more than anything why can't she leave him is she says she is not happy with him and wants to be with me

If our father had sex with other women, then there's still 50/50 chance we would be born but have a different mother.

5 estrellas al mejor Hace 7 meses termine con mi ex habíamos durado 2 años, yo le rogue mucho y sólo salimos un par de veces despues en una yo andaba ebria y en la otra no en ambos días nos besamos pero no regresamos luego hablamos por mensaje pero días depus me deja a hablar el, yo le marca ebria, le mandaba mensajes etc, el sólo una vez me marcó también andaba ebrio creo, pero yo había prometido olvidarlo y le colgué después de 7 min la llamada Fue la única vez que el me contacto La cosa esque yo siempre supe que el fumaba mota y nunca le dije nada no quería decirle que no lo hiciera porque a veces cuando le dices algo a la gente adrede lo hace Hace días me encontré amigos cercanos a el y me dicen que anda muy metido en las drogas y ahora tambn a la cocaina y yo como no se nada de el y que vive muy lejos, no lo he vuelto a ver desde diciembre y no lo tengo en face agregado, me bloqueó de whats, me dicen que anda bien mal y yo no lo he dejado de querer pero si he intentado alejarme porque pues el no tiene interes ya por mi aunque cuando me pongo ebria si le mando.mensajes pero muy apenas me contesta Quiero ayudarlo, yo no se cuando empezó a entrar le tan duro a las drogas pero se ve que sus papás no hacen nada y yo no se que hacer porque el, no me habla y no creo que quiera saber de mi pero no quiero que su vida se acabe por culpa de eso, yo no le hice nada tan malo para que se alejara de mi nunca lo engañe ni nada de eso Sólo quiero un consejo de como ayudarlo

The thing is I was not a good guy to her or my wife. I made huge mistakes. I lied to her, tore her world apart and told her I had no feelings for her. Which I did, but she will never know this. But I feel like five months post mess, it's the least I could do...? Any suggestions!?

Does it differ from man to woman or woman to woman/ man to man?

a close friend of mine recently died of brain cancer and it's very important that i make it to her memorial service, but it's at 11 and i have to pick my little sister up from school at 2:40.

So, I've been thinking about a nose hoop for a while now and I really want to do it. I told my parents that I will do it not ask for their permission but they're saying I'm crazy and stuff like that. I reminded them that I am not asking for permission and I'm going to do it anyways. What I hate the most is that their argument is a nose piercing makes a guy look gay. Like what does that mean, I like girls, only date girls, been with girls my whole life, am in a long term relationship with a girl. So do you guys think I should do it?

We met in Dec of last year. Before we even made it official, she told me she had leukemia as a child, I could tell it was very hard for her to talk about but I was there with open ears. She told me it was the most horrible experience she has ever had. Also, she told me she was allergic to chemo and they had to use benadryl with it..the cancer went away. The doctor told her there was a possibility that the cancer might come back when she's an adult. My baby is just 20, who knew it would come back now or ever in that matter. She told me 3 weeks after she knew, I felt she was trying to break up and thats when she told me, but I told her that I'm not going anywhere and that I fell in love with her and that her having cancer is not going to get rid of me, thats not the type of man I am. But she also told me she refuses treatment because she said it wont help. Yall I just want my baby to better, everyday I wish I could feel her pain. Its been bout a month later but still I want this fking cancer TO GO AWAY FOR GOOD. Did I mentioned that we in a long distance relationship,(we've video chatted, no need for Nev and Max lol) I have 2 more weeks til I see her for the first time ever and I cant wait to finally hold her.

Hello, I dated a coworker last winter for approx 2 weeks, and during that time we went on two dates. Once to the movies and dinner and the second time we watched a movie at his house. We work part time retail together (also both attending college and only working a few hours a week during the semesters). The first date went fine and he kissed me. On the second date, he asked me to be his gf which I thought was a little soon. I should also add I had never been in a relationship before and was 18 at the time. However, we had known each other for about 3 months at that point as friends, not close friends just like coworker friends. In the second date, he got a little touchy and we kissed open mouthed but it was sloppy and gross. I broke up with him the next day and said I wasn't ready for a relationship, really I thought he was only interested in a physical relationship and I wanted to get to know each other first. He also said a few things that concerned me about how much he respected me wishes about how the relationship would go which I will not go into detail about. He wouldn't stop touching, hugging, poking me at work so I spoke to my manager about it and we didn't speak at all for a few months afterwards. It was very awkward. we are back to normal and talk at work but still don't text. I can't stop thinking about him. Advice would be appreciated. Is this because he was my first relationship? I don't think we would have worked out long term, our interests were different

I decided to have an affair with a man I met while we were working together. We were casually flirting back and forth and I first thought it was cute and funny. Upon both of us being laid off for separate reasons, I found out that he was a married man. I still have feelings for him and he's still married. Times are now troubled and we seem to argue a lot. I can't help these feelings and I have my doubts as to what I should do. Nothing has gone on in the physical sense for quite some time and it's been more of an emotional affair than anything else. I know I should leave, but should I tell his wife or just walk away and forget the whole thing. I'm so lost and torn over this.

Im from Brazil and im going to San Diego in July to take a two week english course. What do you think? Any advice to give me? Is it worth?