Marriage & Divorce: Question: Should I leave my husband? |
- Question: Should I leave my husband?
- Question: Can t make eye contact with men?
- Question: Will my husband move back in?
- Question: If marriage proves love, than does divorce prove hate?
- Question: Do I need a divorce lawyer?
- Question: Does it matter if the man leaves the home prior to official divorce?
- Question: For the past five years I have been taking care of myself and children using student loans. My husband refuses to support me and our girls?
- Question: My husband said 'damn' when he saw a beautiful nude woman on a TV show?
- Question: Is amber hurd cheating on her husband ogden utah 84404?
- Question: How to break husband of cell phone addiction?
- Question: My wife is dieing and and I need to talk to someone...Please!!?
- Question: Why do some women play the victim card when their husband withholds sex/romance or has an affair when it was their behavior that caused it?
- Question: Should I leave my soon to be husband? He is verbally abusive when drunk to me.?
- Question: Dating after divorce?
- Question: What will happen to me if i show up for court wothout an attorney for a divorce and custody?
- Question: My husband and I have been having problems,we have grown apart after 6 years, he doesn't believe in counseling and thinks it's all my fault.?
- Question: How does an adult handicapped child become a ward of the state in Illinois?
- Question: Why is my husband an ***?
- Question: How do I have a successful marriage?
- Question: I have been married for 2 years but never changed my name on my social security card. Can I still change my last name and what do I need?
- Question: Is waiting around for a woman worth it. If you truly view her as the one?
- Question: Why isn't my husband affectionate anymore?
- Question: If a spouse is not capably mentally to make a sound discion concerning custardy or settlement what can be done?
- Question: My husband is mad, HELP ?
- Question: Changing name after marriage, help?
- Question: I want to divorce my husband soon, but for now while I get myself in a $$ place to be able do so without disrupting my sons life?
- Question: Why do some wives over inflate their importance and forget their role in their relationship with their husband?
- Question: What do I do?
- Question: Husband's midlife crisis, how can I deal with it? Should I tell his family?
- Question: Does your husband have a right to know your past?
- Question: Handling a student who came on to me in class?
- Question: What does separated and married mean on FAFSA?
- Question: Divorce, Discovery Request Facebook?
- Question: Are all married men who cheat promiscuous?
- Question: Is a 6 years marriage age difference ok in the USA?
- Question: If a guy cheats on a girl he married (his parents chose the girl for him) but then cheated days after he wedding?
- Question: Preferably wives to answer my question, but guys if you answer, please answer what your wife would say.?
- Question: Why did you get divorced?
- Question: When is a good time to talk about marriage?
- Question: I have 1 kid in child support order and I now have 3 kids will the court combine both of mine and wife's income to set the amount?
- Question: Wife mad I changed our daughter's diapers.?
- Question: Why do women blame their husbands for things they wanted but were unwilling to get it done them selves ?
- Question: If I get married, is my house still solely my house, or will it become half mine and half my wife's?
| Question: Should I leave my husband? Posted: 10 Jan 2016 08:36 PM PST I recently got married about 4 months ago when I was 5 months pregnant. I m 37 weeks now and am dealing with a very emotionally abusive husband. I often lay in bed due to contractions and he constantly calls me lazy. He comments on my weight all the time, I was 115 before I got pregnant and I ve gained almost 60 pounds. He says he wants his skinny wife back and that I better lose the weight. He takes my phone when he s mad at me. He s threatens to take my baby away if I leave him. He gets drunk every night and screams at me and tells me to get the **** out his life often kicking me out the house. Everything is my fault. He says I don t communicate with him but why would I want to? He s a dick! He treats me like a child. I can t take it anymore! He s so controlling! If I wasn t pregnant I would have left him months ago but now I m finding it hard. He came up to me tonight and told me he can t deal with me anymore and I don t even know what he s talking about, I asked him and he said I don t have the mental capacity to figure that out. He thinks he never does anything wrong . I cannot stand him! What do I do?? |
| Question: Can t make eye contact with men? Posted: 10 Jan 2016 08:34 PM PST I am currently in the middle of a divorce and ive realized that since the split i have a very hard time looking men in the eyes when im talking to them. It makes me very uncomfortable especially if i dont know them very well. I don t remember being like this before. Any ideas as to why it s like this? |
| Question: Will my husband move back in? Posted: 10 Jan 2016 08:20 PM PST My husband moved back a month ago now we are talking again he comes here everyday and he sleeps over half the week. It's been a two weeks like this will he move back or what should I do . |
| Question: If marriage proves love, than does divorce prove hate? Posted: 10 Jan 2016 08:18 PM PST |
| Question: Do I need a divorce lawyer? Posted: 10 Jan 2016 08:10 PM PST |
| Question: Does it matter if the man leaves the home prior to official divorce? Posted: 10 Jan 2016 08:03 PM PST |
| Posted: 10 Jan 2016 07:48 PM PST I don't know much about US laws bc I am from a different country. I feel lost I don't know what to do. During the holiday he would leave home very early and would return late, I started looking into stuff and i found out that that he has an apartment that he pays $900 every month. He did the same thing two three years ago and when I confronted him he moved out and brought his stuff home. I feel so humiliated and confused. Please I need help. |
| Question: My husband said 'damn' when he saw a beautiful nude woman on a TV show? Posted: 10 Jan 2016 07:27 PM PST I was watching this TV show with my husband, they showed a nude beautiful woman and my husband said 'Damn'. Was it appropriate to say this or is it too much? I am his wife and I don't think he should show that he finds other women attractive. What should I do? Should I talk about this with him? |
| Question: Is amber hurd cheating on her husband ogden utah 84404? Posted: 10 Jan 2016 06:47 PM PST |
| Question: How to break husband of cell phone addiction? Posted: 10 Jan 2016 05:57 PM PST My husband is always on his phone researching stuff, looking at videos, on Facebook, etc. It drives me absolutely nuts. During dinner, he does it as well and several family members and friends have made comments and asked him to kindly stop. He never, ever helps with anything around the house- nor the children- nor the pets because he's constantly on his phone. He even will look up stuff while driving and claims he is "using his gps" (despite the fact that one of our cars has gps in it. I told him that if he can do that, I can go play my computer games and ignore him just the same. He gets mad when I do that, but goes right back to his phone. It has progressively gotten worse in the last couple of months and no yelling/cursing/asking nicely works on him. Seriously, what causes him to be addicted to his phone and neglect his family and what can I do? He cant even watch tv for having that darn phone to his face. It doesnt look like he's looking at porn, he looks at car videos, political satire, barbecue pits, musical equipment setup, etc. |
| Question: My wife is dieing and and I need to talk to someone...Please!!? Posted: 10 Jan 2016 05:47 PM PST |
| Posted: 10 Jan 2016 05:47 PM PST First things first, this is not about me and my wife. My wife is learning that she has to take care of my needs or else I'm an angry panda. It is hard work because she's selfish just like the rest of us, but she's learning. My question's about Yahoo! Answers as a whole: Listen to any of the sob stories on here and you will see question after question of women complaining about their unfaithful or sexless spouse; but what we aren't hearing is the whining, the complaining, the manipulation, the overthinking, the emotional outbursts, the assumptions, the controlling, the snooping, the negativity, the frumpiness (lack of sexual attract ability), the drama, the unrelenting and untreated depression, or the insecurities of the woman who created this behavior in his man. But why is it this way? Why are women creating their own self fulfilling prophecy of getting cheated on or not getting sex by treating men like crap then playing the victim card? Aren't they smart enough to know they are ruining their OWN relationship by not treating their husband like a man? I hear a lot of people on here promoting women and how men are dogs but that's not true. As a matter of fact, men couldn't have it any worse than women! We don't live in a patriarchy; we live in a matriarchy!!! Every where you go there's things treating women with special treatment! What an evil patriarchy, they give me free entry at the club and free drinks, just for being a woman!!! Seriously women, get over yourself. |
| Question: Should I leave my soon to be husband? He is verbally abusive when drunk to me.? Posted: 10 Jan 2016 05:42 PM PST He got into a fight with a man at Burger King because he cut the line. Should I leave now! |
| Question: Dating after divorce? Posted: 10 Jan 2016 05:40 PM PST I was married to my husband for a year but he's been cheating since 6 months into it. Now we're getting a divorce. I feel like I have huge walls built when it comes to talking to other guys. I want to connect with other men but I don't know if I'm terrified or what... does anyone have any advice? These answers were better than I could have asked for... thank you so much. |
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| Question: How does an adult handicapped child become a ward of the state in Illinois? Posted: 10 Jan 2016 04:33 PM PST My husband has a daughter, who is 36 physically, but around 8 mentally. His ex wife has sole custody, but she does not do anything beneficial for the child. My husband provides medical insurance for her, but we were recently told that the child has Medicare, Medicaid, and SSI.... My husband feels he has gone above and beyond the call of duty, and he thinks she should become a ward of the state. How does he do that?? |
| Question: Why is my husband an ***? Posted: 10 Jan 2016 03:19 PM PST I work full-time, take care of his daughter, clean the house, do the shopping, and help take care of his kids when they come over every other weekend (one of his daughters lives with us full-time). 2 of his kids have special needs and every single time they come over he turns into an asshole. He gets mad at me for this...he gets mad at me for that. He says I'm too sensitive then goes about the rest of his day while I am stuck feeling like I have been taken advantage of. I am starting to hate when his kids come over because...yes...they are special needs and a lot of work, but mainly because my husband gets so worked up and just isn't pleasant to be around. I know that I am not perfect, and I have talked with him about this repeatedly and stopped complaining if he does/doesn't do something, but I am really close to just leaving the house when his kids come over. His daughter will sometimes say snarky things and instead of disciplining her...he will just laugh and encourage her. But it's not funny. I feel disrespected. |
| Question: How do I have a successful marriage? Posted: 10 Jan 2016 03:18 PM PST I been married for 9 months now and I'm still young I'm 27 and feel like I have a lot to learn |
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| Question: Is waiting around for a woman worth it. If you truly view her as the one? Posted: 10 Jan 2016 02:18 PM PST I love my ex wife more than anything. I know how wasn't the perfect husband in our marriage but I have change and grown and supposedly. We both has admitted to been at fault for the ending of our marriage and has remain civil about it. About a few months back we begging somewhat dating again and even discuss working on us again and timing the knot again but that has lead to heartache on my end because she have told me after two months of dating that she didn't love me like that again but was still willing to try. We communicate occasionally and she has been telling me she have been go I mg to church, but at the first chance she can she has been drinking and staying up all night with her loser friends who doesn't have a job but have kids to support. She constantly on dating websites talking to other men and seems to keep me on the phone for long periods of time when we are speaking. I love her and I will not waste a another woman's time if my heart is still with my ex wife but there isn't much I can do until she realize what we had and put all of her focus and energy into us. I'm waiting patiently but I will not distract her from living her life. She told me the other day if I would still always be there for her and I said of course I will but I just can't help but realize if she will ever see or what is it that I'm lacking compare to other people |
| Question: Why isn't my husband affectionate anymore? Posted: 10 Jan 2016 01:51 PM PST My hubby was always a lovry dovey guy and I loved it. But as time progressed it became too much and I asked him to tone it down a bit because I was feeling smothered by it and I sometimes need a little space for myself. Since that day (2 weeks ago) the affection has completely stopped. He doesn't kiss me anymore, he doesn't hug me anymore, he doesn't touch me anymore etc. :( He now doesn't even come to bed anymore, I ask him if he's coming to bed and he just sleeps on the couch. We haven't had sex since then either and I've been really horny and he's just been watching porn in the basement which makes me REALLY sad and upset 🙁 What should I do? I miss his affection a lot Please help |
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| Question: My husband is mad, HELP ? Posted: 10 Jan 2016 01:44 PM PST Well, first of all my husband is mad because of my mom, she doesn't live with us, but she often comes to visit us, she's bitching around, and he doesn't like that, my mom is the kind of women who like fashion and like to talk about money and material stuff, she comes to our home and start talking like that with my husband, and telling him what to do with our life, and how to do this and do that, my husband hates that, he never said anything about her cause he's a sweetheart, and i adore him for that, but i know he's mad just by the way he reacts, i don't know why my mom is doing that but she always used to tell me that i need to marry a rich man and the rest doesn't matter, but i'm married to a normal man, i mean he works as a lawyer and i'm a teacher, we both work and build our life together, she doesn't seem to like my husband as well cause he's not the richest man in US, and he doesn't have any properties or fortune etc... he just works to gain money. this is the first reason why he's mad, the second reason is... we went to have dinner yesterday with my mom, (she called me and invited herself lol), my husband had that weird look on his face when he saw her coming to the restaurant like "wtf is she doing here ?", and there was a guy who's actually my ex-boyfriend, long ago before my marriage, he came and said hi to us, i don't know what he wanted, and he asked me "it's been a long time?", my mom started laughing and she made my husband angrier, now he doesn't talk to me ? |
| Question: Changing name after marriage, help? Posted: 10 Jan 2016 12:58 PM PST My full name is Veronica Solorio-Juarez. Solorio being my dad s last name and Juarez being my moms maiden name. My husband s last name is Gable. So I went and got my social security card name changed to simply Veronica Gable. Now I m changing my mind and want to also keep the Solorio. So I want to be Veronica Solorio Gable. I don t want a hyphenated name or anything. I don t have a middle name so I d want my maiden name to become my new middle name. Could I go back to the office and change that again? Or would I have to go through a legal process and pay the fines? I live in Washington state. |
| Posted: 10 Jan 2016 11:51 AM PST & to give my husband an opportunity to find a job so he isn't couch surfing at others homes. I'm trying not to withhold sex until he knows I really want to separate, but I cannot for the life of me get in the mood unless I drink ... Any suggestions on how to hype myself up for sex? |
| Posted: 10 Jan 2016 11:30 AM PST This is NOT about my wife, I am just asking about women I've read the questions of on here. While I understand the hard work it takes to raise kids and clean house, this isn't anything new. Women who are at home or working outside the home have done this for many centuries, so all this whining about him not giving you what you deserve is bullcrap. You are getting his paycheck to help pay bills aren't you? You are getting his cooperation in keeping the lawn, car, and house maintained aren't you? You have someone to argue with when you are pmsing and he doesn't unfriend you or backstab you don't you? And he gives you the D when you work for it doesn't he? I have no clue where this sense of entitlement came from. What makes being a woman so much harder than being a man? You try dealing with someone like you for the rest of your life! Have some gratitude and know your role! |
| Posted: 10 Jan 2016 09:46 AM PST My step daughter wants to live with her grandparents. Her grandparents helped raise her for the first 5 years of her life, as my husband moved back home after his first divorce. I came into the picture just before her 5th birthday and we ve had two boys since then. We have our own home and my husband has full custody. My stepdaughter doesnt want to be here, she doesn t want to be at her mom s either. We have rules at our house not over the top rules but enough to teach them what s right and wrong. Her grandparents buy her anything and everything, they make her life rainbows and sunshine. No rules, no discipline etc. Whatever she says goes. There s definitely favortisim for my stepdaughter over her two younger brothers. I have pictures to prove this. We ve tried to calmly talk to them and even angrily talk to her grandparents on more than one occasion and it s always the same, they agree, things are great for a while and then they go right back. I can t take much more of this. She wants to live with them and I agree but that makes me feel guilty. It would easier on us but at the same time I feel like I m giving up on this child. What do I do? I know this is not my place as step parent but I care and want to help my husband make the best decision. I ve tried to come up with everything I could think of so I m asking for others advice and/or opinions. |
| Question: Husband's midlife crisis, how can I deal with it? Should I tell his family? Posted: 10 Jan 2016 09:43 AM PST Recently, my 50 year-old husband suddenly his behaviour, it's like there 2 persons in front of you, sometimes, he acts like a total stranger, sometimes he acts slightly my husband. These are what I've seen from him, mood swings, indifference, illicit affair, irritable, critic, depressed, acts like a man in his 20's. He still lives with me and he told me he loves me but he continues to shift his moods. I know some men/women under midlife crisis chose to leave their spouse to live a single life or live with other woman. What should I do, he doesn't want theraphy? No contact rule? Speak to him like a normal wife? Talk to his family? ignore him? Just follow the flow? Remind him of our marriage? Ask one his family members to talk to him? How long he will go back to normal (acceptance)? Because I'm scared it will take longer before he will go back to me as a man I married before. I'm at my wits end, I'm also depressed, paranoid and anxious dealing with his midlife crisis. (identity crisis) |
| Question: Does your husband have a right to know your past? Posted: 10 Jan 2016 09:09 AM PST or is your life before you met him none of his business? should he be allowed to know only what you are willing to share with him? |
| Question: Handling a student who came on to me in class? Posted: 10 Jan 2016 08:27 AM PST My wife and I teach at the same school. She teaches freshman algebra down the hall from my class, senior English and literature. We work in a small school for a small district. Anyway one of my students who I know does not have the best home life, and I think that is part of the problem, stayed after her piriod released to ask if I could help her with her with her ap history essay. I told her I would. Then she pulled me by my belt and grabbed me by my waist. I immediately separated myself from her and I honestly lost my composure a little. She left my class and I immediately went and told my wife. This happened on friday. My wife and I are the youngest teachers in our school at 25 and this particular student isn't a child. She's 18 years old and that's why I told my wife immediately. I don't want her to think that anything is going on behind her back. But at the same time, as troubled as she is, this is a great student and I know she is capable of great things. I don't know if I should handle this personally or bring it up to my administrator. This is the first time anything like this has happened to either my wife or myself. And if I do handle this myself, I don't even know how to go about it. Any advice would be great. |
| Question: What does separated and married mean on FAFSA? Posted: 10 Jan 2016 08:14 AM PST i have parents who are married but not living together. I live with my mom. would they be considered separated or married? I read an article to choose married if the parents are married AND living together so I'm confused. they're not getting a divorce. |
| Question: Divorce, Discovery Request Facebook? Posted: 10 Jan 2016 08:03 AM PST A friend of mine has been ask to produce certain documents to be used in his divorce hearing. Does he have any rights to privacy as far as his Facebook information being requested? They have been separated for years and I'm sure she has information in her Facebook history that can be used against her. |
| Question: Are all married men who cheat promiscuous? Posted: 10 Jan 2016 02:58 AM PST Or is this a hasty generalization? |
| Question: Is a 6 years marriage age difference ok in the USA? Posted: 10 Jan 2016 02:46 AM PST I am Greek and I have been dating this American girl for almost a year. We are thinking now about getting married and moving permanently to New York. She is 6 years younger than me and I was wondering if this age difference is considered normal in America (we are currently living in Spain). I am 34 and she is 28. |
| Posted: 10 Jan 2016 12:32 AM PST Will he ever grow to love his wife? He is stuck with her forever now. And I am the only one who knows that he cheated on her with me. The wife probably has no idea. Will this man ever love his wife (now and even in the future)? |
| Posted: 09 Jan 2016 10:45 PM PST If you had to choose, would you: 1) have sex with your husband, just dive right into it OR 2) go to sleep, to get a more full night's rest Basically I am wondering what the strength of the married sex drive is these days. #1 or #2? |
| Question: Why did you get divorced? Posted: 09 Jan 2016 10:12 PM PST |
| Question: When is a good time to talk about marriage? Posted: 09 Jan 2016 09:23 PM PST Not even close marriage, I mean in like 8 years. Or the future. |
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| Question: Wife mad I changed our daughter's diapers.? Posted: 09 Jan 2016 05:35 PM PST So this morning was my second attempt in changing the baby diaper and my wife was furious. The first time, my wife was sleeping and I was playing with the baby, and I noticed her diaper was full, so I figured "hey I got this, I'll let the wife get some rest and I'll step it up and stay doing more" well when she woke up she found the used diaper and accused me of touching our daughter inappropriately because I didn't tell her that I was going to change the diaper. And threatened to call the police. Well I got pissed and we had a fight and I promised her I won't change the diaper anymore. Well this morning, I changed my daughters diaper while the wife was sleeping so she could be more comfortable while she playing (last night my wife was up till midnight, so I wanted her to sleep). Wife said I used the wrong diaper; so I said okay definitely messed up which diaper and then insinuated that I did something inappropriate without actually saying it. She said she doesn't trust me(because I talked to other women while we were dating and other random BS she pulled out of her *** - basically our entire history) l. I told her I have no history of such sick behavior and I would rather kill myself because the thought is just sick. I told her if she can't trust me, just leave. She left the house with the baby. What now ? I am afraid she will go to the police for some BS that I would never do.. Well I'm pissed and unsure what next. |
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| Posted: 09 Jan 2016 10:50 AM PST would I need my wife's signature on a loan application to put it up for collateral? |
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