There is nothing more shameful than not being able to control your own ****!!!

My girlfriend is very close to her uncle. Her dad passed away she was little and her mother was taken in by her younger brother as she needed financial support. So her uncle was her father figure growing up and she gets along well with him, but has a strained relationship with her mother. Her mother married again in 2012 to a man, who also has a son, but she didnt tell her daughter or brother, which made things worse. So my girlfriend is very close to her uncle, she gets all huggy over him whenever they meet. Recently, she called me over for a night out with her uncle, after Christmas 2015. We went out, had dinner, yes her uncle is a really nice person, having given up marriage and having own children, to help raise a wonderful neice. later, by bed time she decided we all sit together, chat and sleep in his room.When we were going to sleep, I slept on the long couch while she slept in bed with him. I felt strange, I mean, there was nothing 'inappropriate' between the 2(both were in 'appropriate night clothing' she wore a modest tank top and full pants, while uncle wore a t-shirt and short pants) she hugged him and had her head on his chest and they slept. I asked her how often does she sleep with him (in a casual way) she tells me its occasionally, since few years ago. But is it actually appropriate for a 21 year old to sleep on the same bed with her uncle who is in his early 40s and he's single ??? I don't know, I just feel so weird...

A few days ago my dad was helping me out with a plumbing problem at my apartment. Yesterday I called him to let him know that it's working well and thank him. My mom calls me a few hours later angry and upset because I called my dad and not her and that she is also interested in knowing how things are going with me. I talk to her about basically everything, whenever something goes wrong I call her and I see her about 4 times a week. i called my dad because he was the one helping me and I figured she'd find out through him anyway. Now she won't talk to me.. Is she being unreasonable or am I missing something?

So I use to restrict food and was underweight now I stopped and gained back weight and I'm normal weight but I binge eat all the time. Me and my younger sister live alone and we had an agreement that one of us cleans and one of us does the shopping she wanted to clean. But she would always complain how hard it is and she never really did a good job so I was like okay let's switch jobs she never wanted to until I forced her. So this morning I woke up early and was cleaning for about 3 hours. And she had to go food shopping but she didn't want to screaming at me that I eat too much and that I'm so spoiled buying food for 20$ just for me for 2 days. And she's just screaming at me how fat I am. I'm only 5"2.5 and 118lbs. What should I do ? Am I spoiled for always eating. She's like I can just go a day with out eating...

So I know this girl who has three kids with three different guys. Her kids are from the age 1, 7, and 14. The 1 and 7 year old daddies are not in their child life and don't want anything to do with them. The 14 dad is in the child life. It seem she don't want the 14 year old dad to be in his child life and try to push him away. The 14 year old use to stay with the dad. The 14 year old didn't like following dad rules (go to school, get good grades, do homework, take care of hygiene, make up the bed if you're not in it, he has to know his friends parents if he want to go to a friend house). So when the 14 went to stay with the mother for summer break he manipulated his mom so he can stay with her. The dad was against it because he knew his son was going to get over his (son) mom. And that's what exactly what he did. He don't have to go to school when he don't want to. He stay outside all late. Basically he do what he wants to do. The boy got all F's on his report card since he been staying with her. He never received all F's when he was with his dad. When he did get a bad grade. His dad would talk to his teachers to see if he can make it up and would have a behavior book for the teachers to sign and comment. This was when he (son) tried to get over his dad. The mother just ditch every thing and moved to another state. The school 14 year old was attending called the dad and told him his child hasn't been to school. So that means when she moved to she never checked the 14 year Old out of school. And that also mean she didn't check her other child out either. She was never going to tell the father of the 14 year old that she was moving. The 14 year old let it slipped out of his mouth. He talked to his child mother and told her to bring him back to him because she can't handle him out here and she will not be able to handle him out there. He just going to get wilder. But she said he (son) have a choice. The child is under 18 he has to do what she tell him. But she let The 14 run her like he's the adult and she's the child.

my dad and my stepmom currently have a bad relationship and they always are arguing i also should say that my country is a muslim country that having sex before marrige is ilegal and prohibited so they did maried and after that my father understood that my stepmom has some kinda weird phobia about having sex so they didn't and don't have sex with eachother and with the interesting point being they don't want to get divorced because it doesn't seem right in the comunity(see it's all about religion) and they sometimes get really mad at eachother that they might hurt eachother any way my stepmom is always good with him but my dad is not good with her and because the sex thing he always tease her and all. what do you think should i do ? help my stepmom and make her a little more self confident or help my father and tease my step mom

My girlfriend is very close to her uncle. Her dad passed away she was little and her mother was taken in by her younger brother as she needed financial support. So her uncle was her father figure growing up and she gets along well with him, but has a strained relationship with her mother. Her mother married again in 2012 to a man, who also had a son, but she didnt tell her daughter or brother, which made things worse. So my girlfriend is very close to her uncle, she gets all huggy over him whenever they meet. Recently, she called me over for a night out at her uncles, after Christmas 2015. We went out, had dinner, yes her uncle is a really nice person, having given up marriage and having his own children, to help raise a wonderful neice. later, by bed time she decided we all sit together, chat and sleep in his room. I slept on the long couch while she slept in bed with him. I felt strange, I mean, there was nothing 'inappropriate' between the two (both were in 'appropriate night clothing' she wore a modest tank top and full pants, while uncle wore a t shirt and short pants) he kissed her on the forehead and she hugged him and had her head on his chest and they slept, its more of those modeling photos of 'father cuddling daughter in bed' scenario. I asked her how often does she sleep with him (in a casual way) she tells me its occasionally, since few years ago. But is it actually appropriate for a 21 year old to sleep with her uncle who is in his early 40s ???

its been like 5 days and this person is still ignoring me. should i keep telling this person im sorry every once in a while? u think this person will ever forgive me? :(

So I'm 16 right now and I don't know how, but I ended up having sex with her. What shouldI do. She's pretty hot. Should I tell my dad about this? lol

I'm a non smoker and have been my entire life. My brothers, my dad and mom all smoke, which makes me the outcast. I have two children, one 3 and one 11 months old. My two children have a great relationship with my inlaws and not so much with my parents, especially my mom. My mom seems to think it's because they are closer to us that they see them more often. She doesn't understand why I ask my spouses parents over her to watch my children, which comes done to the one of the many issues I deal with my mom. My mom is very closed minded, and passive aggressive and it aggravating. I had a decent childhood, and she wasn't a terrible mother. But she seems to not see that she is underminding me and my feelings and wonders why I don't want to be around her. Last week, she wanted me to go with her to see my brother's new house. So I took my youngest while my oldest stayed home with dad. Half way their she lit up a cigarette. I told her I didn't like her smoking around my children, that second hand smoke was harmful to them. SHe said she had the window rolled down and that I was over reacting. Again when we got to my brother's hosue. He and her both lit up. I took my daughter outside because the smell was bothering me and was harmful to her. They told me I was the only one endargering her because I was taking her outside int he cold and that I was overreacting. She said I'm worrying about a little smoke, when I have cats who use the litter box (I change the litterbox daily)

I have a family member who has created such a tale that the family has split for 5 years. This member describes themselves as royalty, gods, and king who never does wrong but is a peacemaker. I personally would avoid them forever, but others are missing family events. How do you deal with it?

Please read. I live in a house with easily a dozen cats inside, and over 20 altogether. I have an autistic little brother and an older sister with problems as well. Myself I have diabetes but am going to move out asap. But my mother has no control over the house. My sister wont use the restroom she has a travel container in her room. My brother hurts himself and she can't stop it. And all of her cats pee everywhere; on food, clothes, towels, counter tops, the stove, carpet, even on people. And shes more concerned with feeding her cats than her kids. Shes aloud the house to be barely livable and when I try to talk to her about it she yells and refuses to listen, and will also threaten me with kicking me out. It's too much now that I think I need to call someone. Animal control or other authorities at the least. I tried to help, but she wants help her way. Not in any other form and wont listen to reason when it comes to her cats. Where do I go? Who do I call? Whats a good website? She can't be left in control. Today alone her cats peed on bananas and when I told her that they need to go she called me a enemy and threatened me with kicking me out. PLEASE RESPOND!!!

I mean I'm barely getting by and my family us always calling asking to borrow money and get angry when I say no. Its extremely stressful.

I don't want to be buried or cremated. I want my family to consume my body so I can continue living through them. However, they think the idea is repulsive and do not want to do it. If it is my last request, they pretty much have to don't they?

I m a 22 year old female. I work 2 jobs, I have my own car registered in my name, my own car insurance, and my own phone, meaning I m on my own plan that I pay for. I also pay rent to live at home and have been since I was 18 (about $240 a month) Anyway, I have a boyfriend, we ve been together for about a year now. And I m absolutely not allowed to sleep at his house. I don t have a "curfew" exactly, I generally come home around midnight, but if I come home later than that I get yelled at for being inconsiderate to everyone else who has to get up the next morning, or questioned about why I was home so late yada yada yada. I get up at 7 during the week to take my brothers to school (one is a junior in high school and the other is in 8th grade), even though we live right up the street from the high school and the bus for the middle school stops right near our house, they "don t like to walk or wait for the bus" so I have to drive them. I m really curious if I m being completely unreasonable for wanting to spend a Saturday night at my boyfriends house.

I have a friend that is 14 and lives in Arizona. She suffers sexual abuse (being touched by her dad almost daily and he even spies in her, doesnt let her outside, kisses her, etc) and uses a belt to beat her and she has visible marks. Now, she's very reluctant in telling me her personal info, saying that her dad will kill her if she does. I only have her full name (she told me through text) , zip code, city and state (these I found through typing in her phone number on white pages). However, her number is labeled private, and so I can't find any more info. I'm assuming her dad did this so no one can help. She's been abused like this for years and I want to help her. What more can I do. I live in NY.

I'm twenty two and they still treat me like a child. I've always been obedient, and I've never not done anything they've asked of me. I excelled at everything they wanted me to do, and I recently have been accepted to medical school, like they wanted, after staying at home for undergrad. They didn't think I was ready to get my license until a few months ago, and now that I have that, something that could give me more freedom, I've never felt more confined in my life. I'm constantly called and interrogated about where I am, why I'm not home, why didn't I answer tthe first time they called, etc. They pay for everything and I work at a business run by my father, so they constantly act like I owe them everything, that I'm ungrateful, lazy, strange. I feel like they They are passive aggressive and don't want me to be with my boyfriend because he hasn't gone to university yet. I never had a rebellious stage, I was always their pride and joy. Now they give me things so that I'll owe them something, it's like they don't want me to have my own autonomy. I want to move out but am not paid enough by my father and his business to have money for rent, and I always will not be able to work in medical school. I don't know what to do. I have a younger sister who is allowed to travel with boys, go away to college and seems to have more freedom than I do. I'm not allowed to travel or spend the night at my boyfriends house ever. I would be a disgrace if I did that or moved in with him, I think I would be disowned. I won't be able to work in medical school so I will have no way of making money to move out.

So here is the problem. I am in the National Western Stock Show. My mom and I share the family car since I cannot afford my own car. I have 4 brothers that have activities during the week. It just so happens that the most important day I have to be at Stock Show is the same day my mom teaches a school class. I have to be at a barn to get my horse at 8am. My mom has to be at school at 7:15. I can't go early to the barn because it is locked up until 8am. Any suggestions on how we can figure out this driving situation? The school is 5 minutes away from our house, while the barn is 20 minutes away. Thank you.

Every time I talk to my Dad, he ends up screaming at me. I mess up sometimes but everyone does. I am in my freshman year of high school and I fell behind a week or two when my sister was born. Now every time I bring up school, he tells me my life is over, I am not going to enlist in the military, I won't be smart, I will live on the side of the street. I have had to deactivate a facebook account, cancel my youtube, give up my phone, and give my things to my siblings. I haven't taken a shower in a week because every time I leave my room he tells me to get back in there and do my work. Me typing is my break right now. I have had to take showers at 1:00 on the morning just to get one in. I work all day, make his lunch and dinner, sometimes breakfast, do his dishes, clean his house, and do my work all day. I am up till 200 every night and waking up at 8 in the morning again. Am I not doing enough for him or am I fine and does he regret having me at all?

By kidnap I mean they are getting two transport people to come and get him early in the morning and take him to this holding place they call a school and wilderness program for teens who have been bad. It is in Texas and we are in Minnesota. My brother makes mistakes and breaks my parents stuff when mad so they are saying he needs this but he means everything to me and I don't want to lose him. I have two younger siblings but he is the older one I look up to. How do I stop them from having these people take him? He doesn't know so I was told things will be worse if I tell him so I agreed not to. We may not see him again until next Christmas and I can't live like that.

I'm almost 20 years old and I live with my parents because I'm forced to. My mom yells at me because of how I look and she calls me ten times when I go out (which I barely do). She thinks she's supposed to control my life, she even says that she owns me because I'm her kid. I can't even drive around here. We got into a fight recently and she hit me and took my room key. I'm tired of all this. I sleep with a knife in my hand because I feel threatened. What's there to do?

I told my mom that she just makes me so mad sometimes that I just think about leaving and never coming back. So then she said that its her job, as my parent, to make me mad, as her child. I m really not lying, she said that and all I want to know is if I m not the only one who thinks she s not a good a parent...

We live in TN, stepson stationed in NC. Bridal seems kinda tacky since they have been married since 2014. But apt warming would not be at apartment.

my gf came over last week and I was suppose to send her a thank you text thanking her for letting ber beautiful daughter spend the day with me but I forgot. things have been kinda rough this past week and I really want to see her before my birthday. my gf has been bringing up the idea of seeing me tmmrow and at first, ma dukes was all with it and happy. this morning she came in shouting and salty about something and mentioned that she probably shouldn t see me this weekend. (bad morning? idk?..) they re both leo s if that helps.. i m bad at convincing. can one of you generous people of the yahoo answers community take the tome to write a super persuading paragraph I can text her convincing her to let me see her tmmrow, and also thanking her for letting me see my gf the week before ?.. try to use big intelligent words id you can.. please !!

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I don't know what to do. I am at school right now. Throughout my entire life my alcoholic mother has been bullying me and belittling me. She calls me very extremely derogatory things that YA! wouldn't even let me type. She speaks of how much she hates being a mother often, she complains of me to her friends, says how much of a burden I am to her, and says she wishes I wouldn't speak to her and would go off and spend all day everyday in my room. Last night she told me that she's through with me and that today I would have to get out. When I'm home I spend most of my time in my room, I seldom speak to her anymore. Every time I try to do her a favor, she just yells at me of how I did it wrong. I don't know what I am to do. I have no school counselor currently because she is on medical leave. I've been an Honors student for 3 years, I have a 3.8 GPA, I've never touched any drug. I'd go to a friend's house, but none of my friend's live near me nor does any of my family. I told my assistant principal. He just told me they'd find me a counselor to talk to. To be honest I don't want to find someone to talk to, I want to start making arrangements to move out, but she didn't even give me 24 hours. I don't even know what I am supposed to do. Where do I go after school? Plus the counselors at this school are absolutely horrid for non academic issues. I'm not aware of any youth services at my school. To kick someone out in MI they have to be 17.

I'm 20, and my parents still treat me like $h!t. I've been in therapy for about 4 months for issues they've caused as I've grown up. I don't live with them anymore, but they like to guilt trip me into visiting (and we just fight when I do) because they're paying for my college, since they have a college fund account for me. Otherwise I support myself, have a job and a small business, and pay for my truck, etc. So, it's difficult to cut them out. But we just had an altercation last night and I don't think I can handle this anymore. Do you have any suggestions? Thanks. Daniel, you don't know the half of it. My entire life I was brought up being told how stupid I am, how much of a ***** I am, how much of a slut I am. I've been thrown into walls and grabbed by the head and slapped in the face. Yeah, I'm lucky that they have an account for my college, but don't sit there and say I'm bitching and that I need to respect my parents when they haven't earned that. It's not always MY fault that we fight; my parents need mental help, which they refuse to get.

I'm 16 years old and my grandma just passed away today. She basically raised me 7 to 15 years old. I appreciate her and I'm graceful. When I found out I did cry but I felt peace. She not suffering and she is in a better place now. I lost my other grandma two years ago. My grandma had custody of me but now I know that my mother need to step up and take care of me. Right now I'm staying with my dad until my mom gets herself together. I feel like I might become depressed again. I hope I don't distant myself. What can I do to stay strong?

My little brother, 7, comes to me so often at night, and asks me to massage his arms ,neck and chest, so I massage him till he falls asleep, when I refuse to massage him, he starts crying like a b¡tch.

My mother and sister don't get along with my husband. It's gotten to the point where they think they run my home and think they can push my husband and I around like we are nothing. We push back and it starts a huge argument. Then we get dirty looks, but my husband much more than I do, and then we feel uncomfortable. But it's more so my mom. And now it's gotten so bad that my husband is leaving for a few days to get away because it's too stressful here and it's literally causing physical pain. And I side with my husband with everything. I just feel bad because my father left and my mom isn't in a good place and idk where she would go. There's the option of one of my uncles but if I talk to them about seeing if she can live with them they'll go off on me and start a whole new argument. And my mom has burned her bridges with any other family member because of a bunch of other stupid ****. But what do I do?? How do I tell her?? How do I approach this?? It's so hard and I don't want my marriage to end. My husband is everything to me, but how do I get her and my sister to see that?? How do I get them to see that if they don't treat him with respect that we won't have a place to live?

I'm 17 years old and my mother is now 38 39 years old. She has been smoking since when she was 21 years old. But not only she smokes almost a pack of cigarettes every day but she also drinks 2-3 cans of beers every day too. She has been having problems with my father, she has explained me that she doesn't love him anymore, and I can see why, but she doesn't want to let him alone, because he will have more problems. Anyway, that's not what I want to discuss. I want to know if is it so bad to drink 2-3 beers everyday. I'm afraid of her having problems with her health in the future. She also doesn't want to give up smoking.. She always tells me that can't do and she won't do that. Please help me. How will she be in 10-20 years and what should I do to stop here from drinking and smoking? She doesn't hear me :(

My sibling is my brother and I'm the oldest. He's seem to be fake because he always get mad at me for little stupid **** and don't even talk to me for weeks or years like no eye contact. .. ect . I try to talk to him and apologize to him but he's so damn ignorant! I told my parents about it and they advice didn't really work.

I am living with my brother.He is very handsome guy and has a great physique.Yesterday when I wake and came to living room.He knows that I am getting late in morning so may be he was not wearing anything.I came in front of him but he doesn't feel shy and not hide his penis.He said ohh I am sorry.I said its ok.I don't mind it at all.But I want to look him once again.

I'm 26. My mom died when I was a baby. My dad has never dated or shown an interest in being with someone else. I used to hear him tell his family, who are my family, too, that he didn't want to find someone else and he was content without another partner. It's something he had to do most of my life. And it took a bit of a nasty turn over Christmas when we all went to his house for Christmas. My oldest aunt, who lost her first husband ten years ago, told me it was my fault he never dated or remarried since my mom. She told me I should have been encouraging it over the years, like two of her kids did (the other two aren't happy about her remarrying). I haven't told my dad and I won't either. I know it would hurt him more than it already does that they try to push women on him. One of my cousins overheard and said she would feel "so guilty" if she were me because everyone deserves to have a partner in life and not die a widow/widower. I don't feel guilty. I never have. To me, it's always been a bit of a relief but also, totally my dads decision and nothing to do with me really. Should I feel differently or am I just being cold by not feeling guilty?

She is always complaining that i don't call her. But when i do she is cold and act like i owe her something and she tells her son i called her because she complained about it. So i stopped calling her Which made her more mad. She is been saying some nasty things about me and also that my mom did not raise me right. That made me angry and now i cant stand her!! We decided to get married at the courthouse because I'm pregnant and i don't want a big ceremony. She got upset because her son did not tell her first and then she pulled the "i'm your mother and i should know everything " card. I let him handle it because if i get involved i will make matters worst since i have so much in my heart. Now that she found out I'm pregnant she flipped the script and is acting like she likes me and we should get married. I'm acting cool right now but i know she will try some sh*t later on. I like that my man is handling this right but i dunno how long i will keep quiet if she disrespects me and my mom again. Should i keep ignoring her bs or tell her what i think about her bad mouthing me? Since I'm pregnant i get irritated easily so i keep my distance because i dont wanna disrespect her unlike she did/does me.

I'm 30 weeks pregnant and I stay with my BF and his parents and siblings. I work full time at a auto manufacturing plant and I make pretty good money. I'm in chapter 13 bankruptcy until March so my checks aren't as big as they normally are. In other words I'm struggling. To make matters worse my BF works a dead end job as a waiter at this fancy private club downtown. He has to pay child support to his ex so his checks are like $120-$180 when he comes home. His parents charge us $105 in rent and he can never pay his rent because it basically would be all of his money so normally I wind up paying $210 outta each check to his parents every week, not to mention I basically pay for gas, food, cell phone, and after a stint of bad luck I lapsed on my insurance on my car, but luckily I gotta good offer to get some more. I will be practically laid off of my job for the remainder of my pregnancy. My BF has only gone for one job interview so far and I have barely anything prepared for this baby and he just wants me to keep covering everything else and stand by him. My dad offered me to come back and live with him, rent free and that would help with me saving money and getting outta the financial rut I'm in. My BF flips out at the idea of me leaving, he said I should stick by his side no matter what but to be honest I can't take care of me, him, and this baby on my unemployment! .....should I leave? I love him but it's like he's a dead weight on my life

Parents took my siblings and themselves to a program that aims to make its participants metrosexual (I actually preferred this well before they went and got it), and now my parents and siblings are all looking down on me where they had caused me mental anguish. Here's what's been happening for the last 2 years: 1- Parents had permanently blacklisted me from ever attending and becoming a metrosexual (I'm 23) where my dad has or is aggressively forcing hyper-masculinity in me by blaming, bossing, scolding, feeding me foods high in protein. I also complained to my mum why I had to be blacklisted where she just had a very stupid facial expression and replied with things like "you don't need to attend" and "once you get that idea of a hairstyle, it can never be forgotten." 2 - My 27-year-old brother wants to blacklist me from ever attending such program by posting pictures of me and lies about me that are consistent with what he did or does, just to blacklist me. He's one of the children who attended with parents when he is the violent, condescending, rebellious person. He has also assaulted both parents and siblings in the past and caused anguish for everyone by acting immature while also being unemployed. I'm a non-rebellious, non-condescending, non-violent person. I only missed out from attending where my parents and siblings now want to permanently blacklist me while parents are forcing me to be the exact opposite of metrosexuality.

My friends father sexually abused\raped her with date rape drugs in the 8th grade. Her older sister is a drug addict that the father gave up on and most likely abused as well. He has one more daughter and I fear she ll go through the same. My friend wants nothing to do with me after I confronted her about it. Is there anything I can do? If I do something she ll know it was me and I ll lose her forever, but I can t stand by knowing what the father might do. Her mother even defended the father and offered to send the daughter away instead of have the basterd arrested. The family including my friend will straight up deny it. I don t know what to do.

I do thinks right but my own mom just hates me. Even if I do something right or prove her wrong she gets mad at me for no reason. I want to leave my house but I have no where to live my own siblings won't even let me live with them plus I can't afford my own house because my mom won't let me get a job.

How do I know they still want me around and care for me? I miss them and I need them How do I work things out? How do I know I'm ready Do I have to confront them.. I don't know what will happen if I do.. In the same time it's their fault they should make a move, I should just make apparent signs for them. Pls known of that "if u really want it, u make the first move" comments ☆ Sent from iOS Dr. Know! 1.0

I need to ask some questions regarding the current circumstances my close friend is dealing with. Her mom is ridiculing and callous and she always points out flaw in her everything. She works her for 6 hours a day on chores and she doesn't allow her to hang out with her peers. She got taken out of Public school and she was forced into an online school, one in which she is failing miserably because she isn't given enough time to finish her work because she's always doing chores. She is an honors student. I'm her best friend and I'm pretty much the only person that she can associate with and her mom is always threatening to take me away and to permanently force her to not see me anymore, even though I'm her shelter and the only person that makes her happy or safe. We're getting dangerously close to separation and she is contemplating calling child protective services for child abuse. Several months ago, when I first started hanging out with her and her mom,she was caught texting on her brother's Ipad, (Which, I know she probably shouldn't have) but in response to this her mother slapped her and hit her and forced her to call herself a selfish pig. She then emailed me saying that I couldn't see her anymore and that she was sorry that her daughter was so selfish. I pleaded with her through email to not severe ties with me and she let me see her on one condition. Me choosing her punishment. She and I had a meeting and we settled on burning all of her daughter's books. Her daughter is an avid book reader and it's all that she has that keeps her happy. All though, she didn't burn them, she came very close to it. I want to know if she can call protective services and if it will get her anywhere on escaping and living with someone who isn't emotionally abusive like her. And if she calls, she will be in danger and I want to know if they'll take her away, even if just for a little bit to do the investigating because she'll be in danger. Her mom gives her dozens of meticulous tasks to complete and we'll sit in the car and she'll be like, "where's my coffee?" and then she'll go on an hour rant and completely leave her daughter silent and on the verge of tears. I am 16 and she is 15 and a half. Her mom threatens to put a restraining order on me. Is this possible? I'm what keeps her from hurting herself and I can't think of her losing me and being kept isolated. I care for her, a lot. And It's very stressful. Please be kind and nice. This is horribly stressful and painful for the both of us. This isn't some sort of teenage angst or rebellion either, we know. We're both fairly intelligent and we know what this is. I can't even touch her either. She was sobbing and her mom was threatening to take me away because she was crying. I couldn't even hug her or pat her shoulder or give any physical comfort.

I was diagnosed with anorexia 3 years ago. After going to counseling for a year I improved and stopped seeing the counselor regularly. Then, eventually, I stopped seeing the counselor. I started having problems again because changes happened in my life that have been taking me back to the same place I was in before. I started losing weight and then my parents started monitoring my eating and then they realized I wasn't eating. Now they are looking into treatment favilities...like places I go to live 24/7 until I'm better. i want to try counseling first because it helped last time. I mentioned it to my parents and it sounds like they just want to send me to a treatment facility as soon as they find one. How can I convince them to let me try a counselor? I don't feel comfortable living away from home. My parents are the only thing in my life that are consistent and I think having to go to a facility will just cause me more problems. I want to try counseling first. Last time I went through this counseling it helped. The reason I stopped going to counseling before is because I was eating and gaining weight. Things happened in my life and I started having problems again. I want to get better though.

My cousin is on drugs, the judge gave her until she went into labor to get herself together, and of course she didn t. So on Monday she gave birth, and they took the baby from her. My auntie has her other two kids and now also the newborn. My auntie doesn t want to keep the baby, due to her being older. And it is just to much for her. I told her that I would keep the baby a while back, when the possibility of them taking the baby first got brought up. But now there is a man that is a foster dad that wants to keep the baby girl. My aunty wants me to keep her because the baby would stay in the family, but the courts say that they have to look at the foster dad first, then me. They said that we would hear from them today, but we haven t heard from them, except for one call when they called and asked for more information about me, does this mean that they are looking to give the baby to me? I really hope so. The social worker thought it was something fishy about the foster dad, and so does my auntie, does this mean that the baby will most likely be given to me for the mean time ? What is the process of this ?

I was at my boyfriend's house and i bent down to pet his dog but my buttcrack was showing. I heard his parents giggling but i didn't know why. My boyfriend came up to me and told me my crack was showing and covered it up for me. I felt so embarrassed and it was the first time i'd ever met them as well. How do I get over it?

I found this in a room where my family and I keep mostly junk, we haven't cleaned it in about 15 years until today . I'm afraid it's something bad and I have no clue where it could've came from or if anyone bought it. My family is really religious and I'm afraid this thing is an evil of some sort. Please help me ! Thank you

Since I was 11, my mom has been criticizing a bunch of things about me. I gained a bunch of weight when I was about 12 (Im 5'4 and 130 lbs so not exactly skinny)Things she says are "Look at how fat you are!" and when I was 8 she said "you really need to start working out more. Or just stop EATING so much. None of your clothes are fitting right". I wasnt fat then i was just growing. Recently I screwed my hair up and did it too short and when I showed her she said oh boy! and when i was explaining how i screwed it up she was cringing the entire time. I knew it didn't look good but I didn't know it looked that bad. I'm having trouble concentrating in school, I'm trying really hard and I'm a freshman now so I'm going to graduate soon and I'm worried I won't be smart enough to graduate/get into a good college and I'll have to live in the streets and I'm really scared and she's always saying Im going to turn out to be a piece of sh*t.Sometimes I'll start crying and I'll walk away and she'll say "Oh yeah walk away and cry that will fix everything. You can come back when you're done pouting' But, she confuses me because five minutes after saying all of that she'll come talk to me like nothing happened,. I feel bad for her because she never did anything with her life she just had me. she used to get bullied becuase she was fat and looked like a boy and her mom was mean to her. She says maybe I'll appreciate her one day for being the only one to try and make me live a good life.

Well on my birthday I was supposed to go to America and pursue my acting career, but nooooo, like always my ******* mother breaks her promises. My stupid sister keeps saying I m envious of her she puts me down because she doesn t want me to be a musician. When we were children she always said I was envious of her because my stupid family that doesn t know **** of what talent is kept telling her she would be a dancer a singer when she dances like a fish out of water she just moves around, i bet she doesn t even know what a dougie is-which she doesn t. People keep saying she has a beautiful voice when I don t give a ****! She does t even know anything about being a musician! If she is ever going to be one she s doing it for the fame and money. I m the one that actually puts my life together. She likes to make it seem like she has it hard when she doesn t even try!

im 20 and I see no point in living. Everyone hates me and now I'm starting to hate myself. I was sexually assaulted when I was 18. My mother blamed me for it. Growing up my mother told me to kill myself. My dad said I am an embarrassment. He wouldn't be seen in public with me. He told me my face was disgusting. I'm kind of bullied at my job. They tell me how I look like a dog. And that no one wants me. And my older brother threatened to rape me when I was 19. I was living alone but I came across health issues that has forced me to live with my brother. And that's another can of worms. I was in school but I had to drop out because of my health issues. I can go back this month but I would graduate college at 23 or 24. I just see no point in living. My life is pointless and worthless.

I'm a boy in high school, and today my dad asked me to unlock my phone to show him something. I forgot to close a browser window that had nude images on it, so he saw the images and confiscated the phone. I talked to him later and apologized, but he seemed mad/disappointed. Will my dad tell my mom that he caught me looking at nudes? What should I do to regain my parents' trust? I hate to make my parents disappointed. My mom caught me once before, and told my dad about it. That time, there was no reaction, except for me not being allowed to use the phone for a month. I didn't get a talk from my parents about it, and they didn't show any anger either. But this time my dad seemed really mad.

I don't want to go out with my dad anymore cause I don't feel safe. He texts and looks things up on his phone while he's driving, even on the freeway. He gets really mad when I tell him to stop so I just gave up and let him do it. We both have passes to the same theme park so I'd like to be able to hangout with him without feeling in danger but I can't. Idk what to do. He gets mad very easily so I hate telling him to sop. He's already gotten one ticket as well.

My brother and his gf have a 7 month old baby. They live with us. The baby always cries when he s with my brother which I find strange since my brother has always been with him. When my brother is in the room with him the baby cries out of nowhere and wakes up crying. His cries are not fuzzy cries but cries of desperation. He doesn t stop crying right away. He actually cries for half an hour. When we try to help my brother my brother tells us to leave him alone and tells us to get out of his room. Hes even told my mom, dad and grandma to leave and once chased me out of his room. What shoulf i do?

Hello, Currently, im in a relationship with this fantastic woman. She is at this time, 7 months pregnant. We are absolutely in love, and happy. The only problem, is the thought of the baby's daddy ruining things for us. Currently, we are engaged and she would like me to be the father to her child, which i am all for. We have not heard from the baby's daddy in well over 2-3 months, not even a check up call. since conception hes been to a total of 2- TWO doctors appointments, both of which he never even stayed in the room for (out of his OWN free will, he left the room). The baby's daddy, has not showed any incentive to see how the baby is doing in any way, shape, or form. When confronted about medical bills, since she was forced to take a leave of absence from work, he simply attempted to weasel his way out of it, giving various excuses, trying to fix his car or something else along those lines. He has not made much effort in getting any materials for the baby, has purchased a total of N O T H I N G. Instead chose to Drink (more heavily than prior to the baby) and party with friends until the sun comes up. During their relationship they had nothing but arguments and he wanted nothing but intercourse. (if that helps any) What is the best way to go about getting parental rights instead of him, and or adopting the child without him attempting to take her to court . Thank you in advance. Just to clarify, He WILL NOT be on the birth certificate

So my Dad accidentally got a lady friend pregnant and my parents have been fighting alot since. The baby has been born already. Every time my dad makes a mistake (like dropping me off somewhere) my mother freaks out and over reacts. A fight recently happened and my mom smashed another of his truck s windows. I live with my mother right now and my dad lives with the lady. Im considering calling 911 for property damage but my mother said she owns the truck.

i usually give a share of my income to my mother every payday. but when the day after that, she would ask again for money. and when i come to visit our house, family members come to me to ask for money! they have a job. and when they run out of money, they "borrow" to me, and wont give it back. my bf always gets mad at me because i give them money. its just that i get to be guilty if i dont give them and help them. they are my family.

So I'm graduating college soon, (4 months) The thought of being done with school is terrifying, not to mention having to find a job which is already proving to be difficult as there is not much in my field around here and I have no money to move. Pretty much all of my high school friends are either getting married and or moving far away, even my sister's going to be moving a few states away. Then I'm here single, trying to figure my life out while everything around me is changing drastically so fast and I'm starting to freak out. no name you are missing the entire point. i'm not like "omg i can't find a job" it's about losing my friends an entering a scary point in life. I don't need advice on how to find a job. And fyi I have been taking plenty of action in building my future.