Sounds crazy but yes. She's 17, I'm 23.  To begin with, my fiancé says not only because of their age difference but in general they've never been "tight" or even that close.  Whenever I'm around or come over to his families house she will ask only my fiancé if he needs anything or say hi to him, or try to start conversation with him. (I'm right by his side) I've seen her ask to serve his plate for him at dinner when she has her own boyfriend! She'll wear booty shorts around us, gets super comfortable almost like she's competing her brother attention. Sounds ridiculous but a woman knows! She'll constantly ask if he'll take her to get her nails done, or out.. it's just weird. My fiancé says it wasn't like this before. Really annoying and confusing. 

Me and my ex gf broke up a little while back but still friends. When we broke up she asked me not to "give up on her" today I asked her what she meant by that she said "exactly what it says"  but that could mean multiple things but never actually gave me an answer.

I met this guy in high school, he was my friend's little brother. She and I lost touch over the years but I started talking to her brother on a dating site. He was always really shy growing up and is kind of quiet and awkward even now. We met up a couple times for a drink and then had sex. He seemed interested in getting to know me but then became distant and aloof. I ended up ghosting him because of this and then two years later he shows up and wants to hang out again. So we've been texting and hanging but just as friends. He will always text me first asking about work and my day but then will take hours/days to get back to me. Like for new years, he asked if I was going downtown to watch the ball drop and I told him yes but he didn't make an effort to see me and today he asked what I was doing tonight like he wanted to meet up but then didn't ask me out so is he just being shy or not interested?

I just find them so pretty and BLESSED with the best genes from both races!! Im sadly full Asian and I always had wished that I was born Wasian. I know its impossible, so how do I get over this?

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I know they're not. But I cant help but feel nervous whenever im around other people. Im a shy girl and barely have any friends and so when a pair or group of people start talking to each other near me or in the same room, I get so insecure and embarrassed, even though im pretty sure they don't even know I exist. Its pretty sad.

I saw this guy in all black with a backpack and a ski mask is in front of my apartment building up the stairs. He stands still once he saw me acting very weird. Just standing there and picking up a newspaper acting all casual He walks to the back and I called 911 but from there he has many directions to flee and I chose not to follow. He was gone and they didn't find anything . Should I have confronted him from a distance? I didn't want the risk of anything. What if he had a weapon or something? 

This guy asked me who i went with as his first question. Am I not allowed to go alone? Is he jealous that I went to this party?

So I have this guy friend and we hang out sometimes. Yesterday he asked me if I had ever taken an iq test, because it is said that 'people who can't express themselves properly, and can't explain things well may be of below average intelligence'. I felt really hurt because I know I am not very eloquent and can't find the right words to explain and describe things. I feel like that may be the reason I don't talk much. I'm bilingual but seem to struggle in either language. What do you guys think? Was that mean? Btw I'm a 20 year old girl.

most of the mean girls ive met have had a bad life or still had one when I knew them. and they would usually take out their anger on me. did their terrible lives give them the right to act the way they did. and when I say bad things wud happen to them I mean like basically all the bad things that can happen to a girl did happen to them.

Do doubt we have an amazing bond.. were moving in together soon and we have amazing communication.. but I feel like we've just gotten SO comfortable  We'll be about to have sex and it's just sooo not sensual and more out of "hey babe wanna have sex?" And we undress ourselves and just get to it.. NO GOOSEBUMP ENERGY OR CRAVING  I love how comfortable we are with eachother and it makes me so happy to know that we can truly be ourselves with eachother but god.. WHERE IS THAT SPARK I USED TO FEEL? Once I got all dressed up and told him "let's go on a date tonight!" And he straight up said "everytime I take u out, it's a date!" Even if its a drive over to McDonald's or something.  idk.. it makes me sad remembering how spontaneous we'd be and how we'd wake up and do these random adventures to the beach or go out hiking to these beautiful waterfalls.  Now he's just so tired and wants to stay in and .. ugh HOW CAN THIS BE FIXED?

My boyfriend does this now and again and tells me how my heart sounds like when it's fast or slow. Why do guys like this? 

I wasn't looking for it. I was just minding my own business at the airport when I saw HIM-that single ray of sunshine in my bleak and pathetic life. I knew the moment I saw him that he was the one for me. It just felt so right. I swear he sparkled all over like a diamond because there's not a part of him I don't like. This feeling, it felt too good to be true but it felt like love. A feeling of such intimacy. I wanted to sneak in his room and touch every inch of him as he's sleeping. I bet his chest would feel so firm as I lay on it.

I started talking to this guy I haven't talked to in a while. We were having a nice conversation and out of nowhere he asks "are you trying to f*ck?" Is he asking me if I want to have sex with him or does he think I'm trying to have sex with him?

My date said if I ever make her cranky, she would twist my head off. I like my head where it is, so I jumped out the bathroom window and never came back. You?=

My boyfriend wants to use a stethoscope on me as he thought it might be fun to use. He said he might be able to stimulate my body and then see how much my heart rate increases. What's your thoughts on this? I've never done anything like this before! Do guys/girls like this sort of thing? He has listened to my heart before with a stethoscope. Maybe he likes it? Maybe a fetish? 

So me and my boyfriend of 5 years are kind of getting out of our long distance relationship. The first two years, we were literally 5 minutes away from eachother and always together. The past 2 1/2 years, we've been long distance. I'm in SoCal and He was in florida for a while, then deployed across the world.  This past year, he officially got stationed here in California. Only 2 hours away from eachother so we make sure to see eachother almost every weekend!  I like to say we have a pretty healthy relationship!  For New Years, we both got vacation days and went on a trip for 8 days.  Overall by the end of it, we both really enjoyed ourselves. On the way back home, he immediately dropped me off and we had agreed to see eachother tomorrow to reorganize our laundry because we definitely mixed ours up a little. usually were always talking.. even after hanging out and today .. he hasn't tried reaching out to me once. I asked him how he was and he switched the conversation to "can we actually just see eachother next week?" And his reason for it was because he feels "overdosed" like he's had too much time with me and needs space. And now won't even respond back to me I completely understand that he needs some space.. And I feel SO clingy Rn even feeling hurt by that comment. We have plans to move in together in March.. what if 8 days was just too much for him..how will we live together?  I don't know why I feel so insecure right now?

So long story short , about 2 months ago I got into a little dispute with my boyfriends parents. His dad is pretty relaxed, but I haven't reconciled with his mom yet. She want as far as deleting me off Facebook, but my boyfriend assured me if I reach out to her, everything will be fine. His parents and I really loved each other before this happened so I'm confident too. I want to send her a text message, but I'm not sure what to say. I don't want to write an apology (because I still don't think I was wrong) but I just want to say something that says I want to move on from this and Agree to disagree. I just don't know how to word it . 

So i confronted my bf of 5 months, and I said, "look, if you don't like me or want me around anymore, then say so, but I don't like being played or ghosted. That's really rude." Was I too harsh? He replied back and he had a gentle tone, so I know he wasn't mad. He replied, "hey! sorry i've been busy all day today.. I didn't mean to seem like I didn't like you or "ghosted" you haha. I just don't respond to texts very fast when i'm doing stuff." He's not a texting person, and I already knew that. I dont text that much either unless we're really close or I'm into you, but even then i prefer facetiming someone. However, I felt like he was drifting away and that he went ghost, and I really didn't want to be played. I rarely text him, but I texted him because I wanted to confront him. If he's busy then I will understand that but communication is important to me in both platonic and romantic relationships. I replied and told him that i was feeling he was ignoring and ghosting or that he didnt want me around anymore, and that I just wanted to be honest about how I feel.He replied, "that's cool. also it's not I don't want to talk or seem mean. I just am very focused on my classes and being above average. feelings are cool but they won't get you a job or into a UC.. you should put all of your attention and focus on getting grades that are better than C's and B's especially on easy courses." There is an age gap. We are at different stages at life, but we're both in school. To be clear, my grades dropped because I was depressed and had a lot going on in my life. I'm not a lazy person, and I let him know that. He responded by saying he'll be very busy in the next few months, which i understand. I'm glad he told me, which is all i wanted. This isn't just about texting either. He seemed distant even in person, and he ignored me for 3 weeks without telling me anything. I just wanted communication.  Also, the reason I reacted the way I did was because he unfollowed me on instagram and would ignore me so what should I have assumed? Sometimes when we're in person he takes his frustrations out on me, and I am always patient with him. This is the first time I ever really stood up for myself. He'd make harsh and uncalled for comments when I'm with you. It has made me feel like he lost interest in me or doesn't want me around I realized I probably didn't tell him that was also the reason. I will have to tell him in person, but I'm afraid to face him. I havent seen him in a month since I've been out of town. I haven't seen him in a month because I was out of town. 

I'm asking because I'm curious. When I am attracted to a guy, my voice rises and I smile more.

I hit it off with a guy on Hinge about a year ago. We sexted a little, met up, made out and things fizzled out. A few weeks ago, he reached out texting and saying he wished he would have pursued me more even if it was FWB. I told him I wasn't really looking for anything (because I'm not, really). I just started a new job at a local hospital, and started seeing him in the hall!! (Turn out he works at the hosptial) With seeing him again, I found out I'm still REALLY attracted to him. He texted me on New Year's Eve, and the next day he asked me out to breakfast. I really don't want to mess things up at work, so I told him I didn't know if it was the best idea for us to go out. He replied that there was nothing wrong with a friendship. Meanwhile, we've sent somewhat naked pictures to each other last year and now I'm finding I can't stop thinking about him. Should I just go for it and see what happens? I know he's most likely looking for something casual and I'm okay with that- just don't know what I should do!

Fellas what would you say?? Your girlfriend wants you and another woman but peep this the other woman wants your girlfriend and also the other woman used to have a crush on you lol

Please help me I need an answer before he comes to visit me some time this month 

Sometimes I feel like my boyfriend isn't always fair with me. For example, if there's an event concerning an interest of mine, he'll basically say that he doesn't care to go and I end up having to miss out, which honestly does hurt me, but I tell myself to let it go. But if it's something he likes, I go along to support him. Why can't he do the same for me? I feel like I'm being emotionally abused. 

Today I cut off my "friend with benefits" from sex after two years of it. :( I always had feelings for him and cared strongly about him and he mainly only had a physical attraction to me. Recently he asked me out to dinner and it resurfaced my old emotions for him then he stuck me right back in the FWB zone. I found out today he did ask me out to dinner because he wanted to give me a chance but just doesn't feel chemistry between us. He went on about how I'm such a phenomenal women and everything he just doesn't feel a spark with me. I was completely honest with him about how I felt and said I can no longer have sex with him because it's just too hard with these emotions. He talks to a lot of other girls I'm pretty sure, and I was silently hurting about it. Well we had a nice little talk, agreed to stay friends and wished each other the best. It was all on good terms. I know I did the right thing because the whole situation messed with my self esteem, so why do I feel SO SAD. Like I feel like I just got broken up with lol. I just feel I have so much to offer and I wonder what's missing for him? Not only that but I've been there for him through and through when he needed me. I "muted" him on my social accounts for now so I just don't see what he's up to, what else can I do to move on from this? Guess I probably should have done this like a year ago.... 

Of all races, white men and women have the most dating options to choose from. What is your opinion as to why the is? Are they more attractive than people of other races?

Ex girlfriend and I dated for two years. We broke up twice both times she left me for someone else. We both worked together. First time it was for a ex she came back a week later I took her back. Second time it was for a co worker. She wanted to be friends I said no I don't want a friendship. The girl now that I can see clearly never appreciated me. I did everything for her. Helped her through therapy, start school, buy a house. I stayed with her after I caught her texting ex boyfriends. After she even said she was trying to sabotage the relationship (she blamed on her upbringing, not having her dad around) anyway I would bring her breakfast at work take her to lunch once or twice a week. Listened to her rant and vent all day. Took her out every weekend. She had no good influences in her life. Her family did drugs and she had problems over coming alcohol addiction and addiction to marijuana. When I first met her she's 21 I'm 25 she had sex with 4-5 people in office alone . After break up she started posting things about my dog that she has, her wearing my shirt, she even reached out to me on social media a few times. I ignored because I felt like she was just seeing if I was still around. Her grandpa pasted one day ago I texted her my condolences and she didn't respond. Then she posted a picture dancing with guys and making out with them. Only right after to say she "misses me" I blocked her on everything should I feel guilty about that? I just couldn't take it anymore 

my boyfriend and i are the same height... we recently started dating and sex isn't very good because we're both not really sure what we're doing and some positions don't work well because we're the same height. anyone have any position ideas or just any ways in general like advice on having better sex? what to do? please help lol 

Me & sisters have talked about this & we don't know what to do. What should we do?

Every time my boyfriend and I have a disagreement about something he tells me to "shut the "f" up. It could be a minor disagreement or a big disagreement but if I say something that annoys him or that he doesn't agree with that's the response I get. I've got to where I just leave the room in these situations because I don't want it to escalate. Would this be deemed verbal abuse and I should I break up with him? I just feel like it's very disrespectful and I wasn't raised that way. My parents growing up never cursed so it's not something I'm used to. 

I'm 17 and I've never seen a naked guy before whether in real life or online, I'm just scared to sesrch it up and i don't have the urge to do that. I fantasize about it but i don't know how it looks like or what does it feel like when touching it. So, can anyone around my age who understand these things to help me with it ? I'm curious about a lot of things and honestly it would be nice if someone is willing to help me privately about my other questions without making fun of me or exposing who I'm. If anyone wanna help me, please put your discord name and the tag so i can add you. ( around my age please ) I didn't say i want to touch one, i asked how does it feel like to touch one ... Also i want to know specific details but in private and not with someone who is aiming of pervy thigns. I don't wanna search for such pics in google. Thanks for your short explanitin lambi.

You meet in the parking lot and walk together to a restaurant..

Do guys still only have sex with girls they trust/ like? If you do, explain, if you don't, explain. Just curious thanks!

I was dancing with two girls at the club. One was hot and the other was a nerd with glasses. They were friends. They were each holding my hands. The hot girl was moving my hand back and forth to the music and she bumped it against her boob like 5 times in a short period of time. Her boobs weren't enormous so I think she could have avoided doing that especially after the first time. After a while the nerd gave my hand to the hot girl and walked away. We danced for a while and I had one hand on her waist. Someone bumped into her and I accidentally grabbed her boobs to break her fall. She said sorry to me and didn't even get mad. After that she went to the bathroom but came back and danced with me some more. As while later the nerd came back and said they had to go. She was crying. The hot girl gave me a hug and put her nose against my cheek. No clue what that means. Plus the hot girl wasn't even drunk. She was the designated driver or something. I danced with her for approximately 45 minutes. I'm freaking out. HELP!

i dont want children

So basically my ex-girlfriend from 2 years ago messaged me (I broke up with her.) 1 month ago before the official 2 years since the breakup she started friend requesting my friends and I. My friends knew she wasn't the nicest to me so they didn't accept it. So I messaged her, we said our hellos then I said: "if there's anything important we can talk about it now but this is the only convo I would like to have because I don't like talking to an ex." She kept her exes around while I was with her so the topic of exes is important to me. She never answered.  1-month passes and her current boyfriend friend request me on Facebook, I just ignored it. On Christmas morning a few days after the ignored request he messages "Merry Christmas" I didn't answer. I'm really confused on what is happening and none of my friends get it either. Does anyone have any ideas?  Notes: She said I was her first real love (we were 22), we traveled together, did a lot of significant things. Her issue was she was super immature and I wanted something serious. I didn't have enough experience to really see the issue that would arise. Even though we had problems I was super happy in the relationship and so was she. I eventually ended it because I couldn't let go of past issues she caused. I picked the healthier option for my self-development.

I dont know how to talk to girls where i know nothing about. Even with people i do know is sometimes hard. But i dont want to text her like i friend of course. Can someone please help me out?

My ex broke up with me 3 months ago and Ik that's a long time not ever since then we've been in on and off contact. I know people say that if someone is your soulmate then you always stay together but people break up and get back all the time. He is my first bf but I'm so connected to him and I literally still feel sick that I know I can't talk to him or have him anymore After we broke up I told him I missed him and he told me too and after thanksgiving we were talking and he found out I got a car and asked to hangout but then a week later told me he didn't really wanna go back to the relationship but wanted to have sex. Which he brought up a lot. Sometimes we'll still have deep conversations and talk like we never broke up and I feel so happy when we talk. We're not talking rn but mainly because I'm trying to get over him but it's SO hard. I want to be single for a while but I constantly feel lonely and m wondering what would've happen if we never broke up. I try not to think abt it but sometimes I'll be somewhere and it just hits me and I get sad what should I do , i wanna text him but Ik it's not a good idea because I already texted him a lot after we broke up 

P.S. - how I do give head correctly?

Me and this guy love each other very much.. but he did do something wrong and as he works in mental health services I believed I couldn't take the risk and I was afraid that a patient of his would be exploited...  Chances are he will get fired for this and have his license revoked.  It's not like I'm making false accusations and my intentions aren't bad. I just want to protect people and himself to be honest  I understand if he was hurt or upset and he'd understand why I reported him... but if you were in his position would you refuse to ever speak to me again despite having genuine feelings for each other? PS. I regret reporting him. I'm scared that he'll lose his license to work 

My ex and I dated for about 6 months. She was my first girlfriend. She eventually broke up with me 5 months ago. I was so heartbroken because I did nothing wrong for her to break up with me. I was so heartbroken because I loved her so much and I wanted to be with her forever. I would do so much for her. After leaving me she would call me and be like "I'm talking to this new guy" and just mess with my emotions while I just listened. That would make me so sad. After a while she finally started calling me and saying "I actually love you now" and now wants me back. I don't want her back and I don't even want to date her anymore. When she realizes that she brings things like "I don't wanna be here anymore." She says she wants to kill herself and etc. She makes me feel guilt for no reason. She's also the one that left me. Why is she doing this? What should I do?