The question is basically in the answer. We are many years apart and we did grow up together. She is my only sister, but it's not like we were the closest things to ever be and could never necessarily lose. I had been with my now wife for 3 years before we officially got married and she pulled envying messages and signals to her and it did get bad, my wife had never done anything but be nice to my sister. She wants to be so close to me now ever since my wife has ever stepped into my life 3 years ago. BUT she doesn't even acknowledge my wife being in the room, say her name, involve her whatever the families doing together. My wife's obviously affected by it. My sister insists that since she'll always be family and my sister so what.. I can't change anything but it's hurting my wife and it's making her distant  and almost start to get upset with me. Which I understand. 

When I was 17 years old my mom came home and said get used to it I was cheating on your dad if you don't like it then leave. I was sexually abused as a child too! So I met the wrong guy who influenced me to do theft and prostitution. I got extensive years of therapy but I don't have those emotional issues now. I am now 51 years old.  Plus I have a fantasy about having a threesome me and my husband and a woman. Of course it is just the most submissive I can be and it is a major turn on. I'm not gay it is just a woman is just a great appetiser and I can't live on appetisers alone. Also I'm friendly I like being social and always make new friends. Would these things be a problem for any guy? I want to know if getting a husband will be hard?

Thank you in advance for reading and possibly responding... When I was dating my husband, he was a charming gentleman. He was also very sick with kidney failure and struggling financially and I came from a rich family. When we married, I was able to help him get good health insurance and afford food and medicines. However, he began to be  jealous and suspecting me of cheating. He said every woman he was with had cheated eventually and I was no different. He started accusing me of cheating every time I was not with him. Going to work or grocery shopping made him mad. He started calling me a prostitute and other words to shame me. This became a daily behavior. Then when we argued he sometimes slapped or pushed me. On rare occasions I got bruises. Yet he would always apologize afterwards and beg me not to leave. His mother who lives with us also would beg me to stay. So I would stay.  Well, we had a fight today where this time I got so mad while arguing that I hit him really hard on his arm twice. He didn't hit me. However, I didn't realize this was his bad arm with a fistula in it and now I injured him and he needs to see a doctor tomorrow or go to the hospital if the pain gets worse. I feel terrible that I have become an abuser. Yet I feel like I can't leave because he needs me to help feed him and help with daily activities and support him financially. So what would you do or advise? I want to be a better person than this.

I am still very young and am soon to graduate in a few months. 2018 was a very rough year and the hardest thing, emotionally, I have ever faced is when the guy I dated left me. I begged and pleaded, because he was so patient and well in tune with me that I felt like I was starting to open the door to him. When he left, it was the last straw and I have completely shut down romantically since then. I saw this video that said True Love is giving and not what you can seek from another person - just complete vulnerability and acceptance. I am starting to believe that True Love is maybe something that's so rare, because all of the people I know who are married or together are toxic or meaningless but don't want to leave the complacency. Would you say it's common and I am just ignorant to it?

I'm 31 and I've had a healthy sex life just like anyone else, but its time to settle down and have a family. I found the PERFECT man. He's got a good job, and he even has his own house. But he asked me about if I had sex before. I said thats none of your business. He didn't argue or act mad, he just LEFT without saying a word! He won't return my calls either! After I went on a date with him, and I told him I'm ready to get married and have kids. He said he wants kids too, but wants marry a woman whose never had sex with anyone before. I have to get him to come back because he is the perfect husband.

My husband is divorced because his ex wife had an affair. He no longer has any contact with her...although he did when we were dating and engaged. He reluctantly ended their communication after we got married but only because I asked him to. They did not have any children together. 10 years later his mother and sister still continue to contact her via social media. Is this strange that they would still have a relationship with his ex even though she cheated on him?

I love the months of April, October, and November. 

I've came to the realization that I don't love my fiance. I'm actually in love with the mother of my child who impregnated while she was 16 and I was 20. She re-entered my life, and she is the one I want to marry.

How does the money work in your relationship? Do hubby and wife get the same budget for spending wise? Or do y'all split a budget? Or is there even a budget? Does SAHP have to ask working partner for money when he/she needs/wants something? Just wanting to know how everyone does it the money budget in their marriage/relationship. Do you consider a stay at home parent a job? If no, why not? Thank you!

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My husband and I hardly take any pictures together. Is that bad? Our marriage is great, I guess we don't really see the need to take any of us. We do of the kids though. 

My husband has 3 children from 3 different women. He has been paying for them over the years as he could because he wasn't working at the time. It is only now for the past year or 2 that he has been paying consistently. Now the 1 mother has already filed for more support. And the second mother is threatening to go to court for all of the years he couldn't pay. What happens if that happens? What can he do to prevent this? Mind you, we have been married for 7 years with our first child on the way. Could he go to the court and ask for all 3 of them to come together and settle this 

Every time my husband, kids and I go to an event and dress up, I feel like I have to take a picture of all of us or just me and my husband. I get anxious at the thought of getting a picture. It's like I want to because that's what social media "wants" you to do, but then I don't want to because I don't want people knowing our business. I'm also thinking about taking a break from social media as well, so there's no point in taking pictures. Since I am taking a break, should I keep taking pictures or slow down and stop worrying about having to take a picture or selfie every time?

My current bf/ father to my first child due to in April has had the worlds messiest divorce. She has tried to take away his kids. She's got him arrested twice for him dropping off gifts and Christmas when he didn't have custody. When we first met I was in and out of court with him. He lost his really good well paid job because of going to court for harassment and also a custody battle. He had to exchange his children at a police station all summer because of his ex wife. She has contacted my family members and tried to scare them and ruin our relationship.  Now his restraining is up and he can now talk to her. Before the restraining order was up  she messaged me claiming that her ex husband will constantly be contacting her because he's "obsessed" with her but she's the one always emailing him. I flipped out at him because he responded to an email she insulted him in because he didn't pack a sweater for their daughter and he apologized in response. I thought he would know better to not have any communication with her after everything. And why even apologize to her. Why not just not respond   That fact that he responded to her and didn't tell me about it makes me not trust him.. am I overreacting?  I just think after EVERYTHING you'd know he'd be smarter to not communicate with her at all or at least if he has to for his kids he'd have a third party involved.  Since then he use to tell me everything about his ex wife but noting since then 

Why did he lie it's werid?

What would you do, if you are married and you husband tells you, he is only attracted to your mind. He constantly looks for other women, and he makes me feel like the most ugliest woman alive? 

Thank you in advance for taking the time to read this. My parents have been going thru a rough patch for about 2 years now. They lost everything due to bad desitions my dad made. At the time, I didn't live with them as my wife and I were living with my in laws for the time being. I got them a place which they would pay. They were falling behind on rent towards the end of the rent contract so before they would ruin my credit with eviction, my wife and I got 2 jobs and managed to get a house, and we told my parents they could live here, but I would need $400 each month so they could have the 2 spare rooms and help us out since we just made enough to cover all bills plus the house. I was paying their car insurance, their taxes that they were behind of, car inspections, etcetera, and they would just pay their food. They've never been on time with their $400 to the point that I've had to pay for emergencies and bills with my credit cards almost getting to my credit limit now. I don't mind, but what gets me is that they are always helping others, and they do not have the courtesy of telling me that they're going to pay me late. Almost like if they think I got spare money. I have dropped all the things I would pay for them except taxes, but we have 2 kids too, and my wife is no wconstantly arguing with me about the money. Every time I bring it up, they get defensive, and I end up like if I'm a bad person for doing so, and my wife doesn't stand my condescending attitude towards them 

She wants to doll me up then have sex with me where she bends me over. I'm thinking it might be fun. Any of you tried this

 Does she thinks about how from now onwards she wont be able to sleep with her exes or multiple men anymore and has to settle with her virgin husband forever? Similarly, does the virgin husband feels excited that now he would be able to get together with a women so closely for the first time and thus his full attention and concentration would be on his wife as its his first time? Conpared to the wife who might think the wedding night as her restriction to sleep around like before which she is used to it? So, will in such situation the couple would be able to make the night special where both are on different level in relationship experience and also in different minds and thoughts?

We divorced in 2015, we agreed to work on our relationship. Well she moved our kids to Maryland, and I am in Florida. And she has a new boyfriend. Whenever I call to FaceTime our kids, he is there. She is intentionally having him be there to put in my face. I'm just now learning about the guy because she has a false protective order against me for a year in Maryland that our Florida judge threw out. Because it had no basis. Now I'm having to deal with this woman putting her new bf in my face whenever I get to talk to my kids.

Every time my husband and I dress up and go out, I feel like I have to take a picture with him and post it to social media. How can I not be like this? I don't want to be that couple who always takes and posts pics. 

I'm gonna sound so silly. Today, I shared a memory of my husband and I from 2 years ago on Facebook and tagged him in it. He didn't like it or anything, but his ex wife posted a memory of their child and he liked it. I know, it's their child, of course he is going to like it, but it kinda hurts me that he didn't like mine. Am I wrong for this? Or childish? He scrolled right past it, I saw him.

He family is extremely religious and gets her to be very negative. She cannot afford the 500 dollars to get a divorce and thinks shes a bad person. She split with her ex 15 years ago because he kept cheating on her and treated her like crap. I have to deal with her issues because of it, but her family keeps saying she is a sinner. We have been living together for several years. I am trying to get her to love herself and forget her failed marriage. She tells me shes Christian, but we dont go to church. We pray, but I told her not to let people judge. Her family says she is "shacking up" with some man. That is rediculous. Her ex is not allowed here and her kids dont even talk to her. It's frustrating me because of her being sorry for herself. I said someday we will pay for the divorce. Tell these nosy small town people to mind their own business. We live in a backwoods timy town and I wish we could both leave. We want to. She doesnt have a job and I told her to find a job.

The bond that we have developed is crazy. It's not even just about the physical. I've never bonded with any woman in my life like I've bonded with her. We laugh together, we crack jokes together, we talk until the sun comes up. Yes she's married but she talks about her husband being toxic all the time. She said she's unhappy but she can't file for divorce yet because she doesn't have a job or money of her own.  Im telling you she seems a lot happier when she's talking with me. I called her a couple times and it sounded like she had been crying ( probably from her husband) and by the end of our conversation she dried her tears and was laughing nonstop. I hate to see her being treated this way and I try to look out for her. I feel like since we have connected on every level we can get some frisky pictures of each other also. At first she said no then I told her how her husband has been having an affair who she shouldn't feel guilty wither.. then she said Mabye then she went back to saying no. She said " I'm sorry I just can't do him like that no matter how bad he treats me. I don't have the heart to him the way he hurt me" .. ???? I understand trying to be nice but to someone like him?? Why?? She deserves so much better  I told her that she could delete the picture right after and she was like " my conscious won't let me. I couldn't live with myself if I sent those sort of pictures to someone else" 

I'm going through a divorce and I'm in a pain. I mean I'm crying every night and everyday. My face is bloodshot. I don't wanna get out the bed or open my blinds.. I'm barely eating. I don't wanna be around anyone. I don't wanna get dressed. I don't wanna bathe. I don't wanna do anything. My male friend actually helped me see the light and he helped me find out how much my husband has actually been cheating on me for NINE years. He was the reason that I found the strength to leave my husband because he was there for me every step of the way. My husband was always mentally and verbally abusive, controlling, and quick tempered. I recently connected with my male friend and since the divorce I've been texting him all day and night. I mean we text literally alllllll day. And he came to visit me on New Year's Eve because I refused to get out of bread and he brought flowers by my bedside. We have developed a friendship stronger than ever and now I actually find myself becoming attracted to him physically and almost feel like I'm falling for him. He gave me a ton of good advice that helped me to get the strength to divorce my husband. He was a shoulder to cry on. Now that our bond has been growing a lot he's starting to ask for risqué pictures. I don't understand... 

When me and my wife are bored we will divorce then get back together. Sometimes we don't even fight but one of us will just bring papers home, we will divorce, then 2 weeks later we get remarried. In the past 3 years we have divorce and remarried 21 times. Are their any repercussions to getting divorced and married over and over? Me and her are just good friends who see no reason not to and get back together