She's had a colorful past and I never feel equal.  How should I proceed to even the playing field so I can also have a life experience like her?

Me and this woman were talking and I gave her a ton of advice on her relationship problems. She said her husband was very controlling towards her and he was distant a lot. We talked for months on end developed a crazy intense bond and we even had sex twice. She told me she was making plans to break up with him and bed with me and that she wanted us to start a new life together. She said she was in love with me. I told her I was starting to fall In love with her too but I told her don't you think it's weird to say you love somebody while still married. She said to wait until she could afford to leave the marriage she said 6 months she would have a better job and could afford to leave. Now I'm looking stupid because she said her and husband went to counseling and fixed their relationship. I'm so angry because I felt led on. She told me she was divorcing him and I was actually falling for her... one never met anyone I connect with so deeply. Or is she bipolar? Someone help me understand

I just started dating this guy a couple of months ago and we have tons of chemistry a major connection to the point where we finish each other's sentences. There's never a dull moment we have so much fun together we make each other laugh until we can't breathe, we talk on the phone constantly he's smart ambition and full of life but I was pretty disappointed when it came to sex. Every time he would kiss me he would take his Dik out of me and I was asking why he did that and he said " just trying to enjoy the kiss."" Every partner I've been with always kisses me during sex. He was like " kissing interrupts sex". I had to keep pushing his face into mines to kiss me since he was acting like he was scared to kiss me 

I'm just falling apart. My wife isn't affectionate towards me nor interested in intimacy. I work 12 hrs daily (6-7 days a week) and only see her late at night when I come home. She used to get upset but now she doesn't even say anything anymore. She invites me to do things with her but I tell her I have to work. She pays her portion of bills and I see that she has extra money for other things. She keeps herself up, but I'm working for rent, my school tuition, car insurance, cable, and to send money back home. I agreed to this, but sometimes I come up short and ask her for money. She's a very educated woman and has her life together. What should I do? I know my wife is annoyed. She's 27 and I'm 26. 

Idiots- a gay dance means a lively/carefree/happy dance. The political correct term for same-sex deviants is homosexuals, *******, dykes, or perverts.

This lady left her husband who was a wonderful man for a scum she met who preyed on a married woman having a hard time. The husband may have not been perfect but she made a vow to him and had a family with him. The man she left him for is moody and not patient with her three kids though at times he us supportive (he is wealthy). Her ex she cheated on has been destroyed bu it 8 years later. So when people ask me about this am I best to deny it instead of sharing the terrible story I did above since it is no one's business.

My wife is 6 months pregnant she's afraid of loosing me. One of her friends just lost her husband to a drive by shooting they have a 10-11 year old son and an 18 year old daughter who just graduated. I can't tell her not to worry because you never know what might happen also with mean people out there. She's worried something will happen to me I don't know what to tell her. How can I make her feel better ? What should I tell her ? 

Me and my wife were watching Titanic it's one of her favorite movies she's never seen the ending until 2 years ago on the 20th anniversary of it. She cried the first time she watched the whole thing the ending makes her sad to this day. She cried in my arms after watching it. How can I comfort her ?

I have Duchenne muscular dystrophy and need help being put on the toilet, taken off, and taken out of the shower, with my clothes covering my private areas. My mom is married to someone who I do not like. He is a very self-centered and narcissistic person who thinks he knows everything. He grounds his kids for no reason sometimes for things that are just about his ego mostly. He cheated on his wife, which is why they are divorced and even his kids find him a douche. He helps put me off and on the toilet and in the shower. Is it bad that I don't like him even though he helps me. Does him helping me mean he is a good person? Am I allowed to judge him on that?

If you liked a woman or a man ,and if feeding involved might jeopardize your job would you still get involved with that person or no ? And the job salary   late 45-50,000 a year  What's your opinion 

I need to know if he actually likes me before I leave my toxic relationship. My husband is very controlling and emotionally manipulative and for years I struggled with trying to communicate with him because He doesn't see anything wrong with his actions. Recently I befriended my ex-boyfriend's friend. I've known my ex's friend for like 10 years( me and my ex broke up 10 years ago). And me and him would also be cordial with each other but recently we've been talking 24/7 and our bond has been crazy. I didn't even know I would connect with him in this way. He makes me laugh, I make him laugh. We talk until 3 am. He goes in depth with giving me advice about my marriage and told me my husband was cheating. I wonder if someone who goes into detail and spends a lot of time giving you advice is really just wanting sex? He said he had a dream that we went out on a got a bunch of food and then had sex. Then he asked me for some naked pictures. I'm in a weird place right now and I really hope he's not playing with my feelings. I'm depressed all the time but my new male friend somehow manages to uplift my mood.. I haven't smiled or laughed my entire marriage my husband doesn't have a sense of humor. I couldn't stop laughing while on the phone with my friend. I really hope it's not just a sex thing because I feel like he could be the one when I leave my marriage. Thoughts??

there is a case going on about someone i know in my hometown. this man got divorced 3 years ago and his ex wife started dating another man. the ex wife got full custody of the child. the new boyfriend he raped her 5 year old daughter. he is already taken to jail for what he did. but my question is, can the legal father take away the custody from his ex wife for putting his daughter in danger with another man? is the mother not a fit parent for allowing a man in her house and taking advantage of her daughter?

Guys help, I got mad and threw a can of Campbell's tomato soup and now its stuck in my drywall, the whole can and all, how do I get it out, please my wife is coming home soon, and its starting to smell, any solution will be noted dearly thank you! Q_Q

 If any partner lies about his job, education or financial status to his wife then is it a big thing? In that situation can the man say that he lied about it because its not a big thing in marriage and only love matters?  Similarly does a husband who is a virgin has any right to choose a virgin or non virgin wife? If any wife lied about her sexual past and the husband finds out, then can she give the excuse that having sex with many partners before marriage and lieing about past is not a big thing?  Why? Because if the wife is allowed to lie about her past and something that is  important for his husband saying its not a big thing and only love matters, then why are  the husband not allowed to lie about their job, financial status, education,etc even though he migh be a slum the financially poorest person and give the same excuse that these things are not important and only love matters? And these have no effects on present?

I am a devout Christian, and because of this, I abstained from any sexual activity until my wedding night. I met my wife at college and we dated after being friends for awhile. Like I said, the most we ever did was hold hands and have brief hugs. We didn't even go swimming together in order to temptation. We got married this past weekend, and the ceremony was beautiful. The reception ended late, and my wife and I passed out the second we got to the hotel. This morning, I was incredibly excited to lose my virginity to the most beautiful bride in the world. We were still in our wedding attire. As my wife took off her dress, I was excited. But then, to my horror, I saw she had a penis and testicles. The biggest and hairiest ones I've ever seen. I locked myself in the bathroom, and I'm scared. What should I do? 

Did you find it easy to develop a fatherly affection of sorts with the kids, or were you passive and kind of put off by them all the time? How did it go? Wondering if what I'm seeing in my relationship is typical. Don't confuse that with normal, I don't want to expect too much. My current BF is child free. I have a 16 and 3 year old. We're more concerned about the 3 year old here, he says he wants kids with me but I have this deep fear he's going to ignore my 3 year old and show more to his own kids. He keeps telling me that's what his dad is there for. At one point we said if his real dad disappeared that he'd be willing to step in. I think if he's knowingly coming in with the facts stated that he should know he has to be patient with my kid all the time. I'm not saying love him, just patience. Am I asking too much?

Quick rundown. My wife of 16 years w/kids swears that the messages open on her instagram direct regarding meeting up with a personal trainer, giving oral to, talking about a possible future together etc etc wasn t her at all. Claimed she left her friends ipod logged on and when they had a falling out of sorts her friend rewrote her messages (but my wife claimed the good ones) and timestamps and resaved them to make her look like a cheater. What my wife doesnt realize is that the replies from the guy would have to be altered too just to match the flow of conversation. She says I have no proof and I m taking their side and ruining our marriage because i call bs. That i dont trust her. Keep in mind there are many more signs of foul play but cant truly prove a thing on those. I would just like to know, for my sanity, if it is in fact possible to do that....or is she caught finally because its impossible to do what she said her friend pulled off? It would be proof enough and if the proof/answer was backed up with a link or something showing that you or who provided the answer was qualified to do such on the subject, it would be golden! She said I have no proof unless somebody saw them or there is a video. Please help me. My attitude towards her has changed and its not fair to her if I m wrong. In trying my best to keep it civil..mostly for the kids

So i dont feel good and now I dont have a way to get to work. He went to the supermarket last night and i let him use my debit card but he never gave it back to me. Now he is at work and I do not have a metrocard to get on the bus.  I wasnt planning on calling out but he keeps telling me he would use 5 of his unpaid hours just to give me my debit card. It kind of defits the purpose of accepting extra hours on a day he had off if he leaves 5 hours early today. Should I call out like he keeps telling me too? (I have 25 sick hours) or go in to work like i was planning and try to find a way to go now? I really didnt want to call out. Another coworker whos on the schedule in my department always calls out herself, never shows up, or just comes late. We dont know how she still has the job.

My parents bought a retirement home. They agreed to let me stay here rent free until 2022 when they retire as long as i agree to pay their mortgage. The mortgage payment is only 300 per month.  The neighborhood is NUTS. Everyone is retired. I've been harassed so much since we moved in.  -someone complained to the HOA my car was "too red" -they timed how long my dog was barking outside (2min 20 sec) and complained we were fined  -i've gotten 3 fines for dog poop! They are NOT my dogs. Ive caught the individual who's dog it is and even approached them about it. HOA says the poop is still in my yard so i am responsible.  -I almost got into a physical altercation with one individual after i was gone for vacation my neighbor forgot to take the trash can in for us. This old bag threatened to kick my a*s over it. My mother is visiting for a month and is FINALLY seeing what ive been telling her is going on for 2 years now. She's absolutely PARANOID about this place and being fined. Every little thing is an issue. All we hear "did you pick up the sh*t" "hurry hurry the dog barked hurry we don't want another fine." "Did you move the flowers" "you left a Christmas mat on the front door hurry and remove it now so they don't fine ya." It's like walking on egg shells especially since she's been here!!!  I go to work feeling physically SICK. My boss has even made a comment about my performance lately and that I seem extremely anxious. I don't know what to do! HELP!!! Any advice? 

Last night my husband went over to his parent's house for a little while. When he came home he walked in with a bottle of OJ. I asked him where he got it from and he said, "down the street at the QT." When I asked why he didn't bring me one his answer was basically he wasn't thinking about me at the time and didn't realize I may have wanted one. Would it not be the smart thing to think if you're going to stop by the store to get yourself something why not just go ahead and buy your mate/spouse something too? Am I wrong to think that way? His argument back to me was, "well, when you went to the store the other day you walked in with a package of cookies for yourself. Did you not think about me when you bought them only for you?"

Like everyone assumes it and it's damn annoying

Why did my son have to get married? It's not that I wanted him to? I never wanted my son to get married. Why did he have to marry this women? I just want my son all to myself :( and I hate seeing her face her voice is soft and mousy like her families I tell my son to leave her just so I can have him all to myself but he won't and he cut of all contact and moved across the country with his new wife. What do I do? Oh and this is not a troll and no rude comments please

Dear all, I get along well with my husband's daughters from his first marriage, but not with the son (31). We are totally different and I've never liked him. Luckily, we don't see him often. Unfortunately, my husband insisted on inviting him for Christmas together with the girls. We managed to ignore each other most of the time. However, the son made a remark that hurt my feelings very much (about not liking the city which is my favourite city). I was so angry that as revenge, I destroyed the painting the son had painted for his father as a christmas present with a pair of scissors. They are both talented painters.The son had painted a portrait of my husband's late parents. I know I might have overeacted and I did apologize the next day, but things haven't gone back to normal. My husbands still hasn't forgiven me and he even mentioned separating because he cannot bear it that I dislike one of his children so much.  I know it is not nice what I did, but I said I was sorry. Is it really so unforgivable or do you think my husband is overreacting? I mean his "children" are grown up so I dont have to be best friends with the son