My mom and dad does want me to get married . I want to have a family  what should I do ?

I'm gonna sound so silly. Today, I shared a memory of my husband and I from 2 years ago on Facebook and tagged him in it. He didn't like it or anything, but his ex wife posted a memory of their child and he liked it. I know, it's their child, of course he is going to like it, but it kinda hurts me that he didn't like mine. Am I wrong for this? Or childish? He scrolled right past it, I saw him.

I'm wanting a divorce been married for 2 years...mind you I'm not a saint but I've done my best to be the sweet caring house marker to him...when he gets mad agitated frustrated or whatever it is he tells at me he has thrown his phone not at me and I've been called stupid and a dumbass among other things and he cheated on me for over a year when we first got married and I forgave him...I'm tried of being treated like this I know there are men out there that will treat me right and not like a door mat for their dirty feet...

I'm gonna sound so silly. Today, I shared a memory of my husband from 2 years ago on Facebook and tagged him in it. He didn't like it or anything, but his ex wife posted a memory of their child and he liked it. I know, it's their child, of course he is going to like it, but it kinda hurts me that he didn't like mine. Am I wrong for this? Or childish? He scrolled right past it, I saw him.  It was a memory of my husband and I*

Every time my husband and I dress up and go out, I feel like I have to take a picture with him. How can I not be like this? I don't want to be that couple who always takes and posts pics. 

My Fiance and I moved from ohio to alabama about 3 months ago. Shes planning a trip where I have to take her to and pick her up in ohio. She is wants to be gone over 2 weeks to visit her parents.. which is fine with me when it comes to her seeing her parents but it turns out she is making plans to party with her friends and go to parties while she is there, I trust her but I would be stuck in alabama for nearly 3 weeks working 12 hour days taking care of rabbits, dogs, cats, reptiles, and the house itself while shes getting drunk and having fun. She refuses to get a job down here and she refuses to hear my thoughts and feelings on her being gone that long. I told her a week would be perfect because I have 2 weekends in a row off. But since shes staying that long I would have to take time off to pick her up... she refuses to drive that far and refuses to fly... what can I do... what are some thoughts? Ideas? 

We were having a nice evening, and my dog opened the door to her room and jumped on her bed. She freaks out, and I said calm down. So I got my dog out and said to my dog daddy was cheating on you with a different bed jokingly because my dogs sleep with me on my bed. So my girlfriend says "your days are numbered". I told her why must you be so negative all the time and talk like that? That's another thing, I never had anyone be jealous over my dogs attention from me before. I give my fiance plenty of love and attention. So I got so pist off I left to play games. She asks omit I'm playing games and if we still are watching a movie. I said "what's it look like" angrily as I stayed playing my video game in another room. Then I told her I wish she'd watch what kind of crap comes out of her mouth. She could care less and told me to go. So our dinner and a movie night is ruined. My fiance talks trash too much and is a negative person. I'm getting so fed up with this. She just blurts out crap all the time. Even put downs at times. Shes. Getting on my nerves and I been stressed out lately. I dont feel at fault. I was going to cool dinner too.  I told my fiance that her days are numbered to, especially if she talks crap about my dog. She said I know? That's another thing, shes so insecure of cheating or I might leave that it drives me away. I end up mossingvher too much after we fight though, but man she doesnt know when to shut her mouth. Shes also negative about life in general.

So I've been with my boyfriend for 3 years now. Will be 4 in may. We have a year old  together. We feel as though this is it. That we're gonna marry each other. Not anytime soon but we have talked about our future together. And he brings up that if we want to get married we have to do a prenup. Just something he always wanted to do. Says just wants to be protected in case god forbid we do get divorced and I want all the money. Which would never happen because I'm not that type. I just felt some type of way that he said that. I understand his stand point but idk. Like if we're building something together. Putting both our efforts into this why would I do that. He says if it ever happens you know his money is his my money is mine. But I feel as though all he's thinking about is that this will eventually lead into divorce. And even if there a situation where he buys a car or the house all himself. And we do get divorced. I would want to take that. Because I'm not like that. It's wasn't mine to begin with. So idk I just wanted other perspective on prenups

We had a short fling for 7-8 months. I'm married that's why it was a secret relationship/fling. He would always say we gotta stop because he felt bad for my husband but he was so in love with me and the sex. He couldn't ever do it. I was also addicted to him and couldn't let go either. If he wasn't so handsome.. it would of been easier to let go. It was a deep under your skin type of attraction bubbling from the inside. Wrecks the heart a bit. It was the most intimate and romantic relationship I ever had in my life..even when we part ways, we still keep a tab on each other for months until I got pregnant with my first son, turned myself around and stay loyal to my innocent hardworking clueless husband now. He also got married so I think he moved on as well.  Well that was 4 years ago... why am I thinking of him again? and the obsession with him.  I'm crying for no reason. I would wake up in the middle of the night around 1:30-2am and cry. My husband have no idea what's wrong with me and I don't want to tell him. He'll be mad and divorce me. It hurts and I don't know why. That's years ago,why is it coming back to me? How do I stop feeling sad. I'm afraid I'll be so sad/guilty and have to tell my husband so I can let go of it and put it at peace and then by me telling him this will cause drama. This secret seem like it's not going away. What should I do so I'll stop obsessing and thinking about that other guy?

Here's my situation. I'm in my early thirties, I've been married for over 10 years, I have three kids ranging from 1 to 13 years old and stuck in a dead end retail job. I feel crushed under it all and unhappy with my life. I know I should be thankful for everything I have but I feel as though I've missed out on living my life. What do I do to escape this feeling? How do I feel happy and at peace with everything?

Normal selfies, not nudes.  What would you think if your spouse start to send/receive those pictures?

Married with 2 adult kids who no longer live at home. Several years ago my wife committed to getting a job to help with some of the financial obligations but never followed through. Her days are filled with haircuts, manicures, book club, shopping, lunch with friends etc. She also grocery shops and cleans the house while I work 60 hours a week + commuting. She's content to leave financial obligations to me while she enjoys a life free from any financial accountability? Is she selfish or is her behavior okay? I'd be happy to do more around the house if she would help out financially.

I'm 30 and I've been with my man for 7 years. He has 3 kids with two other men that he was with me before me. I feel Like if I learn how to drive I can drive them around and help them with what they need help with.  My boyfriend..He had tried to teach me how to drive at first but then he stopped because he said I wasn't getting any better. He seems to go back and forth on whether he wants me to drive or not. The reason I haven't ever learned how to drive is because I've been scared all my life. I recently have been seeing a therapist because I want to get my life on track. I want to be independent. MY mom always told me never to depend on a man because he could up and leave at any given time or day. I hate depending on him to drive me everywhere even though he hardly complains about it I know it's straining on him. I want to be able to help him if he's in a bind too. My boyfriend was like " Some people aren't mean to drive just accept it. Your anxiety is too bad and you're bad with remembering directions.If you had the mental state to drive I wouldn't mind but I don't want you killing yourself or someone else. It only takes one accident to end your life." I told a friend about my situation and she was like "My boyfriend would never tell me some people aren't meant to drive. what kind of crap is that. He should be encouraging you to be independent. Because if something happens to him he might need ME to drive him around for a couple of week or months.  My friend was like " He doesn't want you to drive because he doesn't want you to branch out and see what's better in life. He doesn't want you to go anywhere he wants you to be in the same posistion forever." what do you all think about this situation? any advice? my friend said he is controlling the hell out of me..

If thats done, then will the husband be inferior and loser forever compared to the exes in sex department compared to the exes who got the best out of her before she got bored of sex?

My husband I sent his 3 daughters gift cards and two thanked us. One never did. I text her asking us if she got it and she never responded. My husband text her happy new years yesterday and she was the only one who didn't get back with us? She moved to Colorado recently and she has been acting more distant since she moved or so it seems. Maybe she hasn't received it yet?  My husband was there for her but she got back with us just now. So disregard. Never assume more than the questioner asks when you are giving advice and answer it the way you'd feel if it was you, Helen 

I have been happier as a single mom and it has been great. But my ex-hubby isn't happy with his second wife. I learn that they both have a drinking issue. But that isn't my problem. My ex-hubby is happy being around me but I found it odd. It should be the other way around. I changed my way from 2012 until now.  I already know that if I do take him back; he will cheat on me again. And I do not want that. Nor my kids should see him drunk here. So, what can I do?

So this guy started speaking to me, I didn't know that he was married. His wife finds out, calls me having a go at me and to tell her what has been going on for the sake of her child. He tries to blame it all on me, I initially support him out of shock and say he is a good person. Then when I come to my senses I tell her the truth providing screen shots of him contacting me all the time but encourage her to forgive him for the sake of their marriage. She messaged me having a go at me so I have a go at her back. She eventually stays with him and now they both hate me and have dragged my name through the mud. 

For my 30th birthday, we went on a trip. I missed my birth control for 2 days and told him we should use condoms. He said, "No, it's probably fine." I agreed to skip it. Obviously bad idea. I don't think the timing is perfect. I was really stressed too. He's finishing graduate school and we wanted to wait until he was finished this year before we started trying.I didn't expect him to be excited but I expected him to be supportive. His first reaction was saying, "Are you f***ing kidding me? F****." Then he started lecturing me about how bad of timing it is for me to get pregnant. Then, I got mad at him. It's not like I got pregnant by myself. I asked him if he's so upset, would he want to have an abortion and we could try next year? He said, "No, of course not. I'm not going to ask my wife to have an abortion." I don't want that either but I said you don't want your wife to have an abortion but you're okay with making her feel bad about being pregnant. Then he said, 'this is just a lot for me right now.' I got mad again because obviously it's a lot for me, I'm the one pregnant. He went a whole day without speaking to me after. In the years we've been a couple, we've never ignored each other like that. Afterwards, he said he was sorry. He hasn't said anything negative since. But sometimes I get really anxious that maybe he's just acting supportive because he has to. But he doesn't actually want to have this baby. But I don't know. Maybe I'm just being hormonal. 

I thought he loved me. We were supposed to have gotten married in October. He called our wedding off after letting this woman move in with him in June. He and I have been seeing each other for two solid years. I hear some say I'm better off because a man that don't want to be taken unless he wants it to happen. Maybe I would've been caught up in a loveless marriage. I look at the pictures of him and this woman on social media and they look so happy. Tears. Oh my God. Suggestions somebody????

II haven't spoken to my mom for two years due to her not caring about stuff that's happened to me in the past. My husband doesn't like her at all as she's always tried to argue with him about parenting, call him names and be disrespectful. I made the mistake of not telling her anything it standing up for him, so he always got aggressive with her and she'd get scared. But ever since I was a kid they always pushed me to the side and treated me like I was nothing. I jeopardized my marriage trying to make them happy and they didn't care. I would argue with my husband about how my family doesn't get to see them but his does. He got sick of my comments and called my mom and tried to fix things and told her if she does any nonsense he wasn't going to allow her to come by again. As he doesn't want drama around our other kids like with our oldest. I talked to my dad wanting to discuss the past same with my mom and they just blow it off not wanting to hear about their past mistakes just wanting t see our kids . I don't like it because it shows they haven't changed or respect me. And I don't want my husband to get mad at them and his PTSD get triggered and our kids see that. How do I get them to respect me? All my accomplishments they don't care about and just want me to get over the sex abuse I dealt with DV witnessed and how I used to produce drugs with my dad sweeping it under the rug to please them. I'm done with that 

Why did she have to exist? Why did my son have to get married? They have 3 kids together. Why did my son have to have a wife and kids. I just want my son for my self and I hate seeing my daughter in law's face her voice is soft and mousy like her families what do I do ? I am a mother not a father  Continued: I hate my grandchildren and daughter in law they took my son from me I just want my son all to my self 

Should I forgive my dad? Long story short. My dad has never helped or been there for me and my brother as kids. Recently he got remarried and didn't invite me and my brother ( he even invited the whole street of people he barely knows but not his own children). Before he got married he told me that we were too much of the past and he needs to move on. It's been 6months after the wedding and I used to get calls daily where he is crying saying he bad a big mistake and if I can please forgive him . I feel like it's so hard to forgive him after all the hurt he has caused me and my brother . His new wife says he is was up all night crying but I feel the only reason he feels guilty is because his new wife and family have told him to make an effort with his children. He recently texted me a very long messages basically repeating how sorry he is that this is all his fault.... After that message I went to call him a week after stupidly to hear him out and I was blocked... I don't understand how he can stitch like that in a matter of a week. I feel like I'm just disposable and he only wants to talk to me when it's convenient to him ! :( I feel vulnerable and like I want to see why he keeps doing this but I don't know if it's best to let go and cut him off! Advice would be helpful!  Also was my birthday today and he didn't call to wish me a happy birthday either so I believe he truely doesn't really care about us having a relationship 

Me and my partner been together 3 years, he's 11 years older than me. I was his wife's friend who he had been married to 13 years. We had an affair and moved away. In the beginning I was still with my boyfriend. I found out I was pregnant and aborted my baby before we moved away. He knew about this all. We now have a child who is 18 months and we are engaged. But quite often when we have had a drink of alcohol my partner starts arguing with me over the abortion. Saying he loves me less and it's all my fault. Iv told him he was fine with it and moved away with me and now he's not so that doesn't make sense. Iv told him if he doesn't want to be with me then leave! However the next day he always says sorry he was drunk. I'm always left very upset and feeling not good enough. I feel very down and depressed and this always makes me worse. We have had a good 3 years of Expensive holidays around the world and our child is beautiful and thriving. We should be happy but I feel sometimes he's not happy with just this and needs more. He won't admit it. He's now decided to stop drinking altogether. But I still feel something is lingering in the back ground. 

Talking to my son today I realized that my mother in law has been using him to get information about us. Not only that she puts him in positions that make him feel like he is responsible for us not getting along with each other. She is very controlling, and at this point it is no longer a hidden fact that she doesn't want me to be married to her son. She did everything she could to destroy our relationship and she finally pushed me to my limits. I'm pregnant and will divorce as soon as I deliver. I tried being cordial as much as I can. I'm never disrespectful to her either. But today my 7 year old son told me what they talked about was a secret and I would get mad at him if he told me what she said. Later when he opened up more he said she asked if we were always fighting, and she said some other things about us that he could not bring himself to say because it made him sad. He cried and told me that he feels he is the reason why we don't like each other or we are mad at each other. I never let it be known that I have a problem with her. But she goes out of her way to tell things to my son. At this point I don't want to bring it up to my husband because that is what she wants. If I do then we will argue even more and I'm not trying to get to this point. It's like she just wants us to not get along at all. So even if she is not always here she is sure that she is driving us apart. What should I do? I'm already planning on taking him to counseling. 

I was studying dentistry with my brother and we both had a dream we'd open a clinic but then I met my husband who's also studying dentistry and wants to open a clinic with me. So now I don't know what to do 

A close relative of mine is soon to give birth. She has spent most of her adult life abusing multiple children in the family, include immediate and more extended family. The abuse was both very violent physical and verbal. This person has also cheated on every serious partner she's had, including her husband who is aware of her doings and continued to both marry and impregnate her given that knowledge. He is also aware of her abusive past and enables her by doing against the victims (there have been arguments in which he defended his wife). I guess I am a little curious on whether the child is really his. I'm not sure what to think about the future life of the baby. Does anyone have experience with people like this? How did it turn out? Note: In case you're wondering, this woman has never come to terms with her behavior nor apologized to her victims. She continues to mentally abuse others and disrespect them, even though she is approaching her mid-years. She is remorseless and I suspect she is a psychopath. Just my opinion. Any experiences?

I'm Arab myself and I married an Arab guy because that's what my parents wanted. I had a white boyfriend but my parents didn't like him. My family aren't very religious and I met a religious Arab guy and he seemed very sweet in the beginning. Right after marriage, he started showing controlling behaviour. He didn't want me wearing certain clothing, he didn't want me hanging out with anyone but him. He also treats me like his personal slave. I don't mind washing dishes and doing house work but he makes me do a lot of work and on top of all that, he doesn't have a job. If he worked, I wouldn't mind working on my own in the house but he has no job at all. All he does is sit around, sleep and play pubg while telling me what to do. He orders for me to cook for him, make breakfast and do everything on my own. He's entirely dependent on me to do all of his things for him. He even wants me to pick out outfits for him when he goes out with friends because he's too lazy for that. He never ever takes me out and when I go out on my own, he freaks out and tells me to never do it again. I wake up at times and he disappears for hours without telling me or getting my permission. He orders me around and tells me what to do and what not to do. I feel like I'm taking care of a grown baby. He depends on government money and doesn't want to work at all. Weve only been married for 6 months and I do not want to have his children. Should I break up with him or am I making a big deal?