okay so this is kinda a long question. i've never really been out of the state and i graduate highschool in june (i'm 17 turning 18 in may). i really want to go to illinois in july to watch a musical with a friend of mine and overall just explore somewhere that isn't the state i've lived in my whole life. my mom's parenting style is generally pretty normal, she's not too strict and not too lenient either. i start college in august and i want to at least feel like an adult and travel somewhere before then. i'd be paying for everything out of my own pocket, i wouldn't ask my mom for money for this trip. i know there's a lot of time until july but i've never asked to do something so big in my life. that and my friends a guy and i'm a girl so i'm afraid she might say no because of it. my friends the "adventurous" one and he's the one that suggested the idea in the first place. i'm not too sure how to approach it, i feel as though because my birthday, my graduation, and my last summer break are so close together i might earn "brownie points" but i could really use some advice about this?

There's a guy at work that keeps hitting my butt with his hand when I'm turned around. He always says sorry each time but this has happened 5x already and that's a lot of times to be a coincidence, right? 2 out of the 5 times he has had plenty of room to go past me without hitting me. I can't outright accuse him of doing it on purpose because he has plausible deniability. Guys, is he doing this on purpose? I'll take care of it if he is 

In 2015, we were being robbed and I literally got scared. I ran away and upon realizing the seriousness of what I did, returned to the same location 20 minutes or so later. She wasn't there anymore. Some time later, I found out an older couple in a van drove her home. Our relationship was terminated the following day. I was dead in both her eyes and her family's. It didn't stop there. Somehow the news got rapidly spreaded. I lost a couple good friends and mutual friends too. I had to canceled my fb account for some time because of the nonstopping negative messages. I've been called every single bad word in the book. I've tried winning her back but been unsuccessful. Fast-fowards to 2 months ago: We bumped into each other and she didn't even acknowledge my existence. She pretended not to know me and walked past me, leaving me with an unfinished apologetic sentence. I know I've killed the relationship but I was thinking after all this time, we could have at least remain just as friends; that I would be forgiven eventually. So she hates me forever?

I mean in relation to girls. When you don't fear rejection, when you're not bound to positive results, when you don't give a damn about what will happen the future ( in relation to the girl you are interested in ) even in the case she gets to ignores/rejects you. Please read well what I said in order to avoid misunderstandings: I did not say "not caring about the girl you like at all". I meant not caring about what can happen in the future in relation to that girl By "when you stop caring" I also mean for example: - Not pursuing the girl too much - Not creating drama about the issue ( specially when she seems to pull back or ignore you a little or not answering to your texts ) - Having a life

My husband and I have been married for 20 years and we have a 13 year old son. His 40 year old son has moved into our home which has become a burden on our family.   First of all we are on a special government housing program (section 8 housing), that has rules that we are not aloud to have anyone live with us.  We could get kicked off the program and / or serve jail time. Our land lord is also unaware of another adult person living with us, which is not on our rentals agreement.   Secondly our house is very small.  We have only  2 bedrooms and very limited storage.  He does have a job.  When he does come into money; which seems to be acquired through steeling or selling drugs, it is spent .  He does not save or help out our household what so ever.      Other issues that I can not live with are the fact that he smokes, I am constantly having to ask my husband to tell him to pick up after his self, wash his own dish, pick up his own cigarette buds, the list can go on.  He is one of those people if you give them an inch they take a mile!     He clearly does not have a plan to move out.  How do I talk to my husband  About getting him at least have a plan as to him moving out I. The near future?  The nearer the better!

So, i have a friend who had her older sister that recently passed away. I was thinking about giving her a similr trademark accessory that her sister wears all the time(her older sister lost it when she passed away). Is it okay to give it? Or not.

When ever my mother's boyfriend is around, I wake up with my blouse and bra lifted up, and when they are not around, it never happens. I told my mother about it and she said that I was lying about it, and she blamed it on me.